MadeINchenzen2:
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smh....i should have known that you had other nl monikers that you use in liking your comments

Seriously, this post doesn't deserve a spot in Front page. It's too useless to be there. The banter replies makes absolutely no sense. @seun

openmine:

So all the ladies living alone even at infant stage had their parents killed?
Are you sure you know what you are saying?
Please have you taken your evening tablet?

lol

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Whatsapp9:
Haba!!!

All these unrepentant Lagos Oloshos (Prostitutes) that have vowed never to repent in this life, judgement day is coming for you.

You pretend as if you are doing business in Lagos, but what you do is Olosho work, we know all of you, it will get to a time we will mention your names, since you have decided to be spreading DISEASES in Lagos in Disguise, we are watching you.

But, does it mean that Olosho work is a quick money business, why do men even patronize Ashawos(Nairaland Ashawos) precisely,
Less I forget, Prostitutes full this nairaland well well, I don't know why Nairaland could boast of all these Prostitutes in Disguise.

In fact, they will not see us talkless of infecting us with their deadly STDs, we are bigger than them,

What about all these useless sugar mummies that have refused to stay with their Husbands, going around killing young Men destiny, devil incarnate in Disguise

You will see a beautiful lady carrying up to five(5)deadly diseases in her VAGINA, this Vagina Don see something, but why diseases prefer hiding in vagina for years with or without cure, things are getting out of hand

OLOSHOS OF NOWADAYS!!![/s]

Mind your business

openmine:

smh....i should have known that you had other nl monikers that you use in liking your comments

next... this one is a baby nairalander

MrBrownJay1:


you know nothing about the realities of life, if you believe that a woman living on her own is wrong... i guess in your mind Linda Ikeji or Genevieve should be living with their parents, abi?!

No o, when a lady gets a job outside her state, she should refuse the job or carry her parents on her head

MadeINchenzen2:
next... this one is a baby nairalander

And you are what....A teenage nairalander?
Guy go take your encephalon tablet!
You are making zero sense!

LordShiva97:
Wait, let me get this; So a fully grown human being thinks it's wrong for an independent lady to be single and live alone in her own apartment?

There are three things here:

1. either this op is joking and is trying to rile us all up

2. or this dude just time-travelled from the middle ages to 2020 and haven't yet realize that adults have the damn right to do whatever the Bleep they want to do with their lives

3. or he's suffering from a rare never-seen-before kind of mental retardation unknown to psychiatry.

The 3 joined together

So it's okay for a single guy to live alone before marriage?

MadeINchenzen2:
lol

To be frank, most girls staying alone are mostly opportunist, come to gwarimpa where I stay or wuse2 you will see very pretty ladies destroying their lifes because of the decisions they made to stay alone, they are mostly side chicks for men here. They are always bitter, always wishing to be married. But no serious guy around. Men toss them around and share their numbers to other guys for kpekus. We enjoy puss y that’s not always available for devouring. I counsel one recently because she was complaining of not being married, served in Abuja over ten yrs ego and continuously being fuccked by men of no conscience. I told her to go back to her parents in Enugu last yr and she did, she got married this January.

Kalapizim:
You are narrow minded to even bring this topic up.

in their community only men rent and build apartment for themselves. The single ladies, women are to fold their hands as supervisors.

In my own perspective it all boils down to proper upbringing. Before a lady ever thinks of being independent, she must have being raised by parents , guardian or something. At that point when adulthood sets in, she must have been well acquainted with the good, bad and ugly of the society as well as whom to walk with and who not to. So if due to job, travel e.t.c they need to move then so be it. But in case the lady is the type that displays unruly behaviors, she should merely be checked upon from time to time.
But as time goes on the parents sef go tire to dey monitor
A friend once told me, no matter how rich or poor someone is, the one that has refused to imbibe moral instructions does it willingly. Aren't there girls that still commit fornication even while under the same roof with their parents? My suggestion is to invest in proper upbringing of the child when they grow up, either they are with the parents or na the fruits of good upbringing will show.
Shalom

MrBrownJay1:


if you werent some immature childish person, then you would see my post as MY OPINION, and would bring further point to disagree/dismiss my point (just as i did with yours). i guess you expect everyone on NL to agree with what you wrote, lol! grow up child!!!!

Ignore that boy, maturity is far from him.
Too narrow minded to have an opinion!

When I read stuffs nairlander guys write about women and what they expect of them most time, I cringe!
It’s just a pity but I take consolation with the fact the we have good men out there.
Nairaland has truly gone to the dogs, see the kind of post that grace the front page.
The mod that even push this to FP, what’s your gain?

Honestly, the fact that you had to think this
is a problem for me, what's wrong with a woman deciding to stay away from her family.

MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

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MadeINchenzen2:
when I say shut up, I mean it !

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Trash!

Mean it in your miserable room, not in a public forum.

Ekpa!!

No single grain of sense!

MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

There are lot of reasons why a lady can lives alone,
Job opportunities in another state.
Proximity to work.
Bad family, you fit disown some families.
Freedom.

This is a good sign for patronizers of 'afia ntu', no distractions if you have a date. Especially, cool for sugar dadies who can fund tight holed baby side chicks. Full stop.

MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

A sane society will look at your comments like something coming out of medieval times... Women are human beings and should equally be independent. She is no one's property and this is the 21st century for crying out loud.

NWABUKA007:
In my own perspective it all boils down to proper upbringing. Before a lady ever thinks of being independent, she must have being raised by parents , guardian or something. At that point when adulthood sets in, she must have been well acquainted with the good, bad and ugly of the society as well as whom to walk with and who not to. So if due to job, travel e.t.c they need to move then so be it. But in case the lady is the type that displays unruly behaviors, she should merely be checked upon from time to time.
But as time goes on the parents sef go tire to dey monitor
A friend once told me, no matter how rich or poor someone is, the one that has refused to imbibe moral instructions does it willingly. Aren't there girls that still commit fornication even while under the same roof with their parents? My suggestion is to invest in proper upbringing of the child when they grow up, either they are with the parents or na the fruits of good upbringing will show.
Shalom

Very well written. You are one of the wisest people I have come across on Nairaland. Thank you so much.

MadeINchenzen2:
foolish girl ! go back home. stop whoring around. No guy will marry u that way. u re not a wife material. u need ur mothers watchful eyes if u have one.

i tot u were smart until i saw diz, guy jus pick ur sense itz behind that bush.....

MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

Sauce for the gander is sauce for the goose. She likes her privacy and responsibility too.

MrBrownJay1:


what you wrote above is not only very narrow minded, it is also very foolish... so because some wh0res live on their own, we should now stop women from living on their own?! what other insecurities do you live by? why would you even take what these women do as a benchmark to what other women must do (or not) in their lives?!??! makes no damn sense!

nobody should live their lives because of the negative actions of others. if you want to move out of your parents house because you wanna be independent and live your life, then DO IT.... simply because thats what you have decided to do, and basta... if insecure/low self esteem ignorant people will compare you to prostitutes then let "them" deal with their deluded mindset.

On point!

MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

You my good sir, are a caveman and with this type of retrogressive mentality? your place is secured in the dustbin of history

My thought exactly, haba

Kalapizim:
You are narrow minded to even bring this topic up.

MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

Wow. You are very myopic.

And it beats me that you keep repeating these lines. Which village are you from?

MadeINchenzen2:
if you dont know, there s a general impression about girls who lives alone and pay rent. These impressions are not good !

Only from a cave man like you.

Thank you for speaking my mind

Ariza:
If a teenager can leave her parents house to school in another city or state for years I wonder why a Lady shouldn't leave her parents house to live alone for some years before she's hooked again.


Sometimes I wonder why the Woman is believed not to have/ live a Life of her own in this part of the world, while the one who should be tamed (The Man) is let loose. That's how backward our society is! Very backward!

MadeINchenzen2:
I dont know where u import such shameful reasoning from. A basic 2 pupil can do better.

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parent in Osun. served in Abuja...got a job there.
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are u of the opinion dat she must go to Osun to stay with her parents nd look for Job there??

one thing must KEE a lady