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FARA4GA:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4SQv6vIxdFg

This is the beginning part of the video, the man is still laying on the bed

E don tay wen dem don dey do am. The woman no get shame

oglalasioux:
The woman is defending the side guy knowing her marriage is finished (unless she's the one feeding her husband). What she doesn't know is that once the side guy gets out of there he's never going back into the woman's life.

You don't know Yoruba people

EVILFOREST:
THERE IS MORE TO THIS STORY.

No one catches someone in such act and you still find the defaulter waxing stronger rather than being demeaned and shameful.

Secondly, she further went ahead to bring such into her matrimonial home.
Something remains fishy here

Not to talk of being CAUGHT in the act by Family Members as well.

. I THINK I copy that. Something like the Man might be a one minute man or worse, impotent. Therefore the woman was trying to show him what should have been done on their bed instead of just laying in it every night to sleep, is that?

This is heart shattering....in d midst of all these chaos... the man go just dey wonder say, which kind woman be ds

The dude is probably her ex, seems like someone they all know and have suspected. Doesn't matter whether you're having the best se.x now, there is a part of the brain that wants to taste what was previously tasted, especially when it is available. You can't cheat nature.

[[s]quote author=NextD18 post=87274747]If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.[/quote][/s]

So says the ignorant , inexperienced boy

SMH at animals in the zoo.

The idiot was busy asking what has he done, like seriously ??

fairfora:
How many of them in the west do you know or could you point at? Mine was a mature device. Take it or you leave it. It's that simple. I'm a health professional and li doubt if you know more than I do in this field. Those who you claimed have remained single had boyfriends but declined to enter into marriage or have kids for them. It's their choice. I've lived with them cos I schooled there too. It's not easy as you may have thought. It's as good as saying you know of somebody who chose not to eat for the rest of her life...how possible is that please?

The last time I checked, even reverend sisters were reported to have got pregnant in the same western countries....how dis it happen?

Some of them were raped, and you shouldn't expect them to hold a press conference to explain that to you. You'd also not expect them to abort the pregnancies.

Over to you nairaland feminists

emkz:
Some of them were raped, and you shouldn't expect them to hold a press conference to explain that to you. You'd also not expect them to abort the pregnancies.

Raped indeed. If there was a place where rape cases were being concealed, that place is Nigeria or Africa because of fear of being stigmatised. If an oyinbo man or woman was raped, she would never hide the case. Those who got pregnant confirmed they met men wilfully. If they were raped as you claimed, they wouldn't have hesitated to say it. Na we dey hide things. My advice was for those who could heed it...and if you're also married or would like to be married in future, do everything to satisfy her. It is your duty.

Allowing work schedule to encroach on that role could be dangerous.

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

ViRgiN this okoto meow that. Where will you see the virgin to marry first of all? You sef won't wait till marriage to have sex, you're not a virgin but you want to marry a virgin. Honestly my brother if I see you in real life I may be tempted to hit your mouth with baton.

This one big pass me.. but as a street guy, I wouldnt employ violence on the guy and I would let the wife go.. but but where we can get problem Is if the lady is begging me... Haha, person daughter fit die ooo.. make she pack her loads and go.. then I will conduct DNA test for my kids... I go share her own give her and collext the one wey be my own.. and if none of them is mind, then I'll count my loss and move on..
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Also concerning marrying virginity, it doesn't 100% guarantee faithfulness, but I can confidently say marrying a virgin is the best.. if a virgin cheats, the fault would be mostly from you .. ( maybe you starve her of attention, sex, care e.tc).. it is very very rare for a virgin ladies to cheat in marriage..

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Also there is nothing like a virgin man, nothing like that .. no be all guys don fhuck before but they are still not virgin , if you know u know

JasonScoolari:
She was banging with her glasses on.


Really difficult to get a faithful Nigeria woman.... Really difficult.

and am faithful a beg,not all of us can do such. Very unfortunate

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

Where can one find a virgin please.

mrsfavour:
and am faithful a beg,not all of us can do such. Very unfortunate

Very mrsfavour!!!

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

What a myopic way of thinking about the solution to infidelity in marriage...

Bros, You haven't seen it all yet even the very virgin you think is ideal isn't the Deal.

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

That's good, but the men should also keep themselves till marriage.

God have mercy, I don't pray to be sex starved in my marriage or infidelity. But I rather masturbate than infidelity.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
What if she's the one paying the house rent?

She can’t pay my house rent i definitely have a work

RisenPhoenix:
So why are the men fighting? What are they fighting over? To be honest, if it is me I will walk out and let them finish. I'll even say 'sorry' to them for accidentally disturbing them. When they have finished, I will conduct mini marriage ceremony for them, collect dowry from him and give them my blessing. I will even help his new wife pack her things inside his car and if his car doesn't start, I will help him push it.

Sounds funny but it's truly wise to hold one's peace and move on. Fighting over a cheating spouse is a waste of energy and valuable time/resources.

KIDfurniture:
Sleeping around for yorubas is a normal thing abeg. They dont see sex as anything special. I m not condemning them but [/b]I heard [b][/b]it is the [b][/b]wife family that pays for the wedding sef.[b] Other tribes like sex oh. I just dont understsnd why niaja women come useless like this ? God have mercy on us sha.

That's why it's not good to rely on hearsay as a source of information.
I am a Yoruba man,married to a wonderful Yoruba lady and her family didn't pay shishi for the wedding,though they hosted my family during the introduction with their money but the gifts we brought were paid for by me.
So also a lot of family weddings that I have personally witnessed.
Though we have cases where the man will be financially deficient and the family of the bride rises up to the occasion, depending on the rapport btw the two families
That is not the norm in Yoruba land at all.
Pls,do your research very well yourself, stop taking every thing your people say here or in your place hook line and sinker.
As for the sleeping around thingy,let me tell you it's not a tribe thing at all.
If I tell you my experience as a corper in Enugu and my friends
with some married Igbo women, you won't believe it.
That doesn't mean I will now generalize.
Stop generalizing.
Enough said!!!

fairfora:
Raped indeed. If there was a place where rape cases were being concealed, that place is Nigeria or Africa because of fear of being stigmatised. If an oyinbo man or woman was raped, she would never hide the case. Those who got pregnant confirmed they met men wilfully. If they were raped as you claimed, they wouldn't have hesitated to say it. Na we dey hide things. My advice was for those who could heed it...and if you're also married or would like to be married in future, do everything to satisfy her. It is your duty.

Allowing work schedule to encroach on that role could be dangerous.

Bros, I said some, not all.

About satisfying women, what if she is insatiable, what if she just likes prick? Why can't she satisfy you too? My own is, you have no rights over any one, including the person you call a wife or your children. Understand that human beings are complex beings and apart from emblematic behaviours, human reaction to certain emotions are not predictable; that is why I said a chimpanzee with a penis looks attractive to a woman that is sex-starved. Don't expect that infidelity won't happen, prepare to deal with it the best way you can.

Do everything you can for some women, give some of them your life; while your body is still cold in the mortuary, she'd saying oh---ah----euh----ewooo, DEEPER, HARDER...and your spirit would weep at this sight. So instead of giving general advise, let us deal with cases on their individual basis.

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!
Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

Yes, that is when you are a Virgin also

Good one make dem beat am wella useless wife

Goold one make dem beat am wella useless wife

iLegendd:
The working class has been brainwashed by the society do only 3 things if they want to attain success

1. Read academic books only and get good grades —[/b] avoid women till you're made[b][color=#000000][/color]
2. Get a job with the good grades and get a car/house
3. Get married to a beautiful woman and start manufacturing babies

This is the stage most working class people go through, so they don't know much about sex or sexuality. All they know is either how to solve mathematics, how to blow grammar, or how to fix electronics.

For the bad boys, a lot of them still go to school, but they also mingle with the opposite sex and understand how to handle them in bed and in their dramas.

These working class are too busy starting from school days to marriage time, so they don't have time to think about their sex game. Whenever they notice they didn't last longer in bed to satisfy their women, they use money to buy sex drugs without knowing the women they married are already used to bad boys who have natural stamina in bed and can give them that squirting orgásms they crave.

It can be natural stamina or learned from a book. Sadly, MOST working class don't read such books because they think they are rich and are bigger than that.

At this point, the woman secretly goes back to that bad guy who knows his game to take one shot. If she doesn't get caught after the first shot, she'll go back for more and more until she gets caught or get gets caught.

It's as simple as that.

I'll say that in a certain time of your life when you want to get a grip of yourself you have to stay off women for the main time to focus and not get easily deterred.

[quote author=NextD18 post=87274747]If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.[/quot
Correct Man.

AlphaGreenz:
I'll say that in a certain time of your life when you want to get a grip of yourself you have to stay off women for the main time to focus and not get easily deterred.

You don't avoid women, but control how they come to you. Control is the key.

This is the reason I was strongly advised not to marry the Yoruba girl I had wanted to marry. It is not peculiar to Yoruba women though

Life drama[color=#990000][/color]

NextD18:
If as a man, in this generation, you don't know that marrying a virgin lady is the only way to avoid infidelity in your home, then be prepared to die young as a husband.

A woman who got married a VIRGIN can NEVER cheat so long as you are still sexually active as a husband, I keep saying this over and over again with authority.

She will NEVER cheat! You don't expect a non-virgin lady who has tasted all kinds and sizes of preeeq, styles of sex and other sexual related experiences to stick to your sexual prowess alone just like that. You don't!

Men should open their eyes and save themselves the stress and problems of infidelity. Go for virgins if you want a peaceful marriage.

I pity you KID!

And your fellow Nairaland kids