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Pls advice me..
There's this girl I met and we started talking and she later gave me her contact and address. .
I visited her,she served me food and we had some normal discussion .
My worry is that since I text her that I love her she stopped picking my calls or replying my message..
What should I do?
Continue calling her or free her
And what's her reaction means..

Baba, you dropped your cards too early. Now that she knows your intentions towards her, she go use you do shakara.
Give her time and space.

so because she gave u food u now in love in with her
maybe i should be falling inlove with all the girls who have given me food

There's this common statement;"look before you leap".The elders here will explain how that applies to your case.

But seriously, some guys need to be schooled on the proper way of wooing or professing love to a lady.It involves strategy and playing your cards well,I won't go into that in details now because I've come to realize that at some certain stages in one's life romantic relationship is nothing but a distraction and waste of time.

Op abeg if you never reach relationship age just go arrange your life well first,don't just worry about it at the moment. There are other more important things in life that deserves your worry abeg

This one no hard nah. If u like her u have every right to go for her all other things being equal.
Here's how to handle such girls. Assess how much she's worth to you. Then commit a certain amount of time, money, energy etc to trying to win her over. Now divide all of that into 10 and use just one to chase her. If at the end she's still not bulging then walk away.
That way you have given a tenth of your best and you have minimised your losses.
Thank me later...
Always place a value on a woman before you go for her so u don't end up spending so much for nothing, keeping in mind that sometimes others do less to get her in bed. Some are quite expensive though and you must be able to decipher when a woman is way above your league.

Give her little space and I can bet it, she will definitely come looking for you. AJE

[quote author=Gwagone post=87340094]Give her little space and I can bet it, she will definitely come looking for you. AJE
OK
Thanks

lefulefu:
so because she gave u food u now in love in with her
maybe i should be falling inlove with all the girls who have given me food

There's hunger in the land na, haba!

Rutherford2019:
Pls advice me..
There's this girl I met and we started talking and she later gave me her contact and address. .
I visited her,she served me food and we had some normal discussion .
My worry is that since I text her that I love her she stopped picking my calls or replying my message..
What should I do?
Continue calling her or free her
And what's her reaction means..

Hungry man. You go person house first time and you chop. He probably asked for extra plate. Long throat, I'm sure she prefers a guy who will take her out and the like and not the one that will b looking for house to visit to chop

Rutherford2019:
Pls advice me..
There's this girl I met and we started talking and she later gave me her contact and address. .
I visited her,she served me food and we had some normal discussion .
My worry is that since I text her that I love her she stopped picking my calls or replying my message..
What should I do?
Continue calling her or free her
And what's her reaction means..

U did d right tin..leave her alone....nd move on

SweetCunt97:
Hungry man. You go person house first time and you chop. He probably asked for extra plate. Long throat, I'm sure she prefers a guy who will take her out and the like and not the one that will b looking for house to visit to chop

pls go easy on him na his just a hungry kid in love �he chop food but he still remain more food to be eaten

SweetCunt97:
Hungry man. You go person house first time and you chop. He probably asked for extra plate. Long throat, I'm sure she prefers a guy who will take her out and the like and not the one that will b looking for house to visit to chop

pity am small nah his just an hungry kid

justnock:
Baba, you dropped your cards too early. Now that she knows your intentions towards her, she go use you do shakara.
Give her time and space.

Yea correct. Op went in too fast. Give her space. Prepare to move on.

SweetCunt97:
Hungry man. You go person house first time and you chop. He probably asked for extra plate. Long throat, I'm sure she prefers a guy who will take her out and the like and not the one that will b looking for house to visit to chop

Just imagine what you're saying.

proclinician:
Just imagine what you're saying.

Lol

DominusPrime:
This one no hard nah. If u like her u have every right to go for her all other things being equal.
Here's how to handle such girls. Assess how much she's worth to you. Then commit a certain amount of time, money, energy etc to trying to win her over. Now divide all of that into 10 and use just one to chase her. If at the end she's still not bulging then walk away.
That way you have given a tenth of your best and you have minimised your losses.
Thank me later...
Always place a value on a woman before you go for her so u don't end up spending so much for nothing, keeping in mind that sometimes others do less to get her in bed. Some are quite expensive though and you must be able to decipher when a woman is way above your league.

Wow revealing @emboldened.

SavageBoy:
There's this common statement;"look before you leap".The elders here will explain how that applies to your case.

But seriously, some guys need to be schooled on the proper way of wooing or professing love to a lady.It involves strategy and playing your cards well,I won't go into that in details now because I've come to realize that at some certain stages in one's life romantic relationship is nothing but a distraction and waste of time.

Op abeg if you never reach relationship age just go arrange your life well first,don't just worry about it at the moment. There are other more important things in life that deserves your worry abeg

Regardless of d approach, d one way go do go do and d one way no go do no go do... Upon your overkaku and at d end she already has a serious relationship, do u think your tactics can save u from I am not interested cos I got a boyfriend already....Bro shoot your shot as early as possible to know where u stand and whether u should be hopeful or not.... Op you don do well joor, d girl may only be interested in u as friend and you be like ere kini aja n bekun shey...abi ah tell u say ah no get friend bf..? Ladies knows your intention at d inception of meeting them so never crawl like snail bf table it officially

Lol..
Make una pity me na
Do you know what I spent and how I managed to locate her
Anyway I missed her call today but I don't want to call back. ..
Na big girl sha because she is gainfully employed and me and her dey the same level

I'm looking at it in the angle of make I no think say she dey cheap to get and she's in relationship because she's the one showing me green light

Some guys are too dumb .Met this mumu guy the next thing he is disturb my line like every second probably his time or what. Thought it will end there next he called that same day that I should come to his house and when I do that I won't go that day , wonder what he takes me for.