NextD18:
To be bluntly honest and at the risk of being tagged a peadophile; I'll gladly date and fvck my student[Ss3] if we have feelings for each other.

Quote me and I'll authoritatively tell you that you didn't write your Waec as a virgin.

Tell me what I need to know lol

Local man did not even write Junior waec as a virgin

Sixfeetbelle:
Op, I'll give you the talk a Corp member gave us a long time ago when we were crushing on him. It doesn't mean they'll listen to you and take it to heart, but at least, your conscience will be clear.

"Love at this stage in your life is misleading. Yes, you know what you feel, and I don't doubt they are genuine. But you are too inexperienced to know exactly how to handle or channel that love. You think I'm the most handsome guy you've ever met, but I kid you not, that's because you haven't met a lot of guys. When you do, I won't even surface in your mind again. Life has more to offer you if you'd dream of being a woman of substance like Chiamanda or Okonjo-Iweala who knew right from time to set aside their feelings when they were like you. Be patient. Don't rush into it. Love will find you when you're ready."



In my defence, it was a long time ago and these were not his exact words, but I hope you get the drift.

Lower your quality in their eyes. Make them feel they can do better for themselves than being with someone like you. It might not work, but should put a doubt in their mind.

Good luck.

These words would have little effect on todays teenage girls. They are wild and ready, already fvcking men twice their age, getting high on all sorts of ill shiit, and partying harder than sould train... The op doesn't sound like a guy with a strong enough mind to resist.. I give him a couple of months and he will be dipping in these little, lose, Hot girls

Kiddllc:

These words would have little effect on todays teenage girls. They are wild and ready, already fvcking men twice their age, getting high on all sorts of ill shiit, and partying harder than sould train... The op doesn't sound like a guy with a strong enough mind to resist.. I give him a couple of months and he will be dipping in these little, lose, Hot girls

That's what someone else said. He doesn't look like he has the mindset to resist them otherwise he wouldn't have brought the matter here.

But to everyone his own

Sixfeetbelle:


That's what someone else said. He doesn't look like he has the mindset to resist them otherwise he wouldn't have brought the matter here.

But to everyone his own

Truth of the matter

modsareuseless:
the type of comments i see here, indeed many people in this forum are sick

And very stupid.

What we have here is a VULNERABLE young girl, emotionally immature with a crush on her teacher. Here, we have a teacher, who is in a position of trust, and is contemplating abusing that trust. You may not see it now or understand now, but wait till you become a parent with a teenage daughter, and when a lust crazed teacher or young man takes advantage of your teen daughter and violates your teen daughter, you will then experience the greatest moment of clarity in your life.

lefulefu:
u both dating?

No ooo. Just saying there are underage even in Senior classes

topmost1102:
No ooo. Just saying there are underage even in Senior classes

very true

I had this same experience while I was teaching in a private school.
On my first day of reporting for duty (though I really didn't teach that day), I met one beautiful SS2 student at the school gate just coming to school. So I playfully asked her why she's just coming and how I'll flog her if she comes late again.
This girl just laughed at waved my threat away thinking I was flirting with her (very beautiful girl if you ask me).
That was how the attraction started.. buying me stuff, carrying my books for me, pressing my phone (I don't know how she knew my password), constant calls and text messages, love letters, everything a lady in love would do.
I couldn't scold her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings and I sure as hell didn't want her to hate me.
I just kept quiet and let it continue thinking she'll get tired if I don't reciprocate the love.
The stubborn girl didn't give up, until she found out some of her close friends in school were starting to fall in love as well. She got jealous and things almost got out of hand until I had to call her to order in the presence of another female teacher.

OP, just ignore her. She'll get tired, unless you're also giving her 'green light' that you're available and interested in her.

GuestLog:
It's a shame that no one is talking about professionalism.

Why would you want to date your student in the first place, let alone a secondary school girl?

Have you no shame to even bring this topic to public forum?

I pray her father gets a hold of you! Pervert!!

You are very unprofessional read the post.
I should explained it, but your irritating judgmental attitude is sickening.

That guy is definitely a professional and deserves commendation.

GuestLog:
It's a shame that no one is talking about professionalism.

Why would you want to date your student in the first place, let alone a secondary school girl?

Have you no shame to even bring this topic to public forum?

I pray her father gets a hold of you! Pervert!!

You are very unprofessional read the post.
I should explained it, but your irritating judgmental attitude is sickening.

That guy is definitely a professional and deserves commendation.

Sixfeetbelle:
Op, I'll give you the talk a Corp member gave us a long time ago when we were crushing on him. It doesn't mean they'll listen to you and take it to heart, but at least, your conscience will be clear.

"Love at this stage in your life is misleading. Yes, you know what you feel, and I don't doubt they are genuine. But you are too inexperienced to know exactly how to handle or channel that love. You think I'm the most handsome guy you've ever met, but I kid you not, that's because you haven't met a lot of guys. When you do, I won't even surface in your mind again. Life has more to offer you if you'd dream of being a woman of substance like Chiamanda or Okonjo-Iweala who knew right from time to set aside their feelings when they were like you. Be patient. Don't rush into it. Love will find you when you're ready."



In my defence, it was a long time ago and these were not his exact words, but I hope you get the drift.

Lower your quality in their eyes. Make them feel they can do better for themselves than being with someone like you. It might not work, but should put a doubt in their mind.

Good luck.

God bless you

Why increasing their age to have your way if you’re not a pedophile? You already know it’s wrong, please stop

Sunshyne200:



You are very unprofessional read the post.
I should explained it, but your irritating judgmental attitude is sickening.

That guy is definitely a professional and deserves commendation.

Keep quiet there and receive sense!

I know what I read and what I wrote in response!

Note that he has modified the post and now it seem I'm just talking off point.

Earlier, he was contemplating having carnal knowledge of her or not.

Please don't quote me again. I'm not in the mood for arguments.

Sunshyne200:



You are very unprofessional read the post.
I should explained it, but your irritating judgmental attitude is sickening.

That guy is definitely a professional and deserves commendation.

Since you decided to quote me twice I'll return the favor and make you look foolish too by editing my post too.

Mumu!

d truth is dt u will losse ur respect once u start sleeping around with ur students,u knw hw ds gals behave