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There is this very good friend of mine who is very good to me, he calls me often, gifts me and does virtually everything for me but has never asked me out or even take me out, I don't know his house he doesn't know mine. Now suitors are coming, I like him but he is not saying anything, just being excessively nice to me. Pleeaase I need advice on what to do about this.

hmmm.

if he asks you out will you give him a definite answer or you will play hard to get?
if you will give him a definite answer, tell him about how you feel about him and hear him out and if you know you will play hard to get, just agree to any suitor of your choice.



maybe he is the type that can't or shy to Express their feelings in words.

shoot ur shot ,dnt be scared wetin go be go be.

[color=royalblue]I don't have much strength to type tonight

You actually don't know what you want. So, nobody can actually help you

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All this kind yanmayanma story don tire me ship..
use your head for once
One love tho❣️♥️

see ghost love o!
plz try to know him more 1st

This is the reason why u girls are ur own problem... Imagine, he does all these things n you're still waiting for him to ask you out??
Why can't you ask him out??
Ask him out, pay for the bill oo n watch what happens next

prepresh:
There is this very good friend of mine who is very good to me, he calls me often, gifts me and does virtually everything for me but has never asked me out or even take me out, I don't know his house he doesn't know mine. Now suitors are coming, I like him but he is not saying anything, just being excessively nice to me. Pleeaase I need advice on what to do about this.

tell him that you are going on a date with someone and see his reaction!

Ask him what is his plan for the 2 of you.

I was in a similar shoe with a babe . She was the one who sat me down and ask if I was into her I said yes and she now spoke her mind. We went our separate ways but are friends

he doesn't have d balls to say he loves u.so u shoot ur shot.a girl once ask me out i swear it was love galore we separated bcus i relocated n lost my contact

Why not use style to ask him about his love life. He might tell you his ambition.

Nephilim:
tell him that you are going on a date with someone and see his reaction!

That doesn't work with some peeps... Had someone like this back then, when I did what you said, instead of seeing the need to ask, he supported me by giving advice on how to deal with guys and relegated himself to friend zone.. this was someone we used to chat naughty..

I think OP should talk to the guy, know what he wants first, not everything works by manipulation..

Modified:
How hurtful when he later told me he still had feelings. By then it was too late

Jinja007:
This is the reason why u girls are ur own problem... Imagine, he does all these things n you're still waiting for him to ask you out??
Why can't you ask him out??
Ask him out, pay for the bill oo n watch what happens next

Bros calm down nor b by all this tin mean sey person like u to point of dating. It could jst b natural for the guy to help her without anything in mind. Or, are you trying to tell me that u can't do all this tins for a female without dating? Bros if the guy like the girl e go talk wit im mouth.