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Afromentalist:
Loving a woman is a very dangerous thing to do.

They won't learn...

can someone help with the summary pls?

seanwilliam:
The bitter truth is, anyone that refuses follow ubunja miseducation, would regret it sooner or later, rich or poor.. when it comes to women, deal with them not with emotions but logic..
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This thing is very practical nah,
Play alpha for a month and simping for a month then watch the different.. e no hard atall.. body go tell u nah
Sweetest part is, being an alpha male is needed in every part of our life not necessarily on women alone..

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We are so lucky sef to be exposed to this before getting hooked like some people whose simping is irredeemable and would resort to bashing and hating ...

The bolded is the real deal

Rodeoz:
Absolute truth Bro. I was dating this girl for over a year and I met her a V. I respected that a lot and still does everything a man does for his woman regardless of the sex deficiency.
It never mattered to me and I trusted her so much cause relationship ain’t about sex.

Fast forward to this year. She was getting distracted and I told her. We dragged the issue for a while and it led to us breaking up. Barely 2 weeks after the break up which I knew quite alright she was going to come back to her senses and come back and apologize. She told me she already had a romance with a guy. I mean a guy she barely knows.

I was mad when she told me. She wanted us back so badly but can I ever trust her like I did before.

She’s still there thou, hoping for us to get back. But I don’t believe a woman can be that cheap. Like really?

Barely 2weeks.

I understand you. My brother no women is worth your trust. No matter what you provide or give, they can never be satisfied. Everyman must learn this the hardway.

The reason why most men still believe a unicorn exist is because they have never really experience female nature at it peak. But time will always tell. Experience is the best teacher.

No matter how you try to enlighten some men, they will tell you that you are bitter. And most women will never want men to understand it. Even your female siblings will hide these truth from you.

Just focus on yourself . If any ladies bring the only thing she has to offer. Chop and clean mouth. Don't commit or don't invest in any lady cause they will never do the same for you when you are in their shoes.

Most of our fathers never understood this . So they can never teach you. They lived all their lives as a slave to women. The amount of paternity fraud back then and now is a living evidence that even in marriage, women are never faithful or loyal. It is just your turn.

The lady you are with, continue chopping her until you are tired. Then push her back to the street . Let her learn, she will eventually become a public toilet at the end of the day for men. If you decide to marry her, it will be your detriment.

Safe bro.

drnoel:
Another child bites the dust

drnoel rather, you should type

Another pûssy slave escapes the plantation of beta slavery

Omar09:
Loneliness is a weapon. And if you don't know how to utilize it, you will blow yourself to ruin by running into depression. You should advise Kollingzgee to also cherish his lonely days by using it to also develop himself and or learn a skill like a sport or some sort... I'm writing a book on that loneliness thing and how much of a weapon it is.

Please don't mix Loneliness and Aloneness/ Solitude up.

You could be a social butterfly and still be lonely or be solitary and still feel much fulfilled. Loneliness (as I believe) seem to be a negative emotion.

I think you meant "aloneness" which means that you could be solitary or have few circle of friends but still have your mental game and sexual frame together.

Skepticus:
Please don't mix Loneliness and Aloneness/ Solitude up.

You could be a social butterfly and still be lonely or be solitary and still feel much fulfilled. Loneliness (as I believe) seem to be a negative emotion.

I think you meant "aloneness" which means that you could be solitary or have few circle of friends but still have your mental game and sexual frame together.

Thanks for the clarification. I used aloneness instead of loneliness. But maybe she made a mistake. But your explanation shows me you understand the difference between the two words.

Safe.

seanwilliam:
The bitter truth is, anyone that refuses follow ubunja miseducation, would regret it sooner or later, rich or poor.. when it comes to women, deal with them not with emotions but logic..
.
.
.
This thing is very practical nah,
Play alpha for a month and simping for a month then watch the different.. e no hard atall.. body go tell u nah
Sweetest part is, being an alpha male is needed in every part of our life not necessarily on women alone..

.
.
We are so lucky sef to be exposed to this before getting hooked like some people whose simping is irredeemable and would resort to bashing and hating ...

You know if I had been more open minded since 2013, I would have master the game but I thank God for second chance, it's never too late to try out new things.

Kudos to Ubunja.

Skepticus:
Please don't mix Loneliness and Aloneness/ Solitude up.

You could be a social butterfly and still be lonely or be solitary and still feel much fulfilled. Loneliness (as I believe) seem to be a negative emotion.

I think you meant "aloneness" which means that you could be solitary or have few circle of friends but still have your mental game and sexual frame together.

Bro I know what I'm saying when I said loneliness is a weapon. One can have all the friends in the world and still be lonely. You can visit a supermarket filled with people and still be lonely. A person who is alone may not necessarily be lonely.

Omar09:
Bro I know what I'm saying when I said loneliness is a weapon. One can have all the friends in the world and still be lonely. You can visit a supermarket filled with people and still be lonely. A person who is alone may not necessarily be lonely.

Okay, Chief!

rex444:
my dear, alpha male and redpill is good for kids who still have time to play around and toy with girls ....there comes a certain stage in your life where you begin to take certain things more seriously......love is not a perfect thing, sometimes U find who loves you more sometimes it's the opposite also sometimes it's balanced ...keep finding

Everybody with em own sha... Going through hell and taking all sorts of bullshiit, with the excuse of finding love isn't worth the stress at all... Especially as I no even get plans to marry in this lifetime

Go read "the rational male" authored by Rollo Tomassi. You clearly do not understand female psychology. It will help you understand it.

Rodeoz:
Absolute truth Bro. I was dating this girl for over a year and I met her a V. I respected that a lot and still does everything a man does for his woman regardless of the sex deficiency.
It never mattered to me and I trusted her so much cause relationship ain’t about sex.

Fast forward to this year. She was getting distracted and I told her. We dragged the issue for a while and it led to us breaking up. Barely 2 weeks after the break up which I knew quite alright she was going to come back to her senses and come back and apologize. She told me she already had a romance with a guy. I mean a guy she barely knows.

I was mad when she told me. She wanted us back so badly but can I ever trust her like I did before.

She’s still there thou, hoping for us to get back. But I don’t believe a woman can be that cheap. Like really?

Barely 2weeks.

kollinzgee:
I joined Nl last year because Harddons of dating drills I was very weak in mind and couldn't approach women and always get rejected many times but after absorbing the dating drills plus some tips here I overcame my fears with women and with life in general it was a blissful era for me I was respected by both male and females the my ego was bloated and I had my women in my finger tips I was never committed to any during this period I lost my virginity but I was getting so much love .I didn't take shit from women and people in general .I was selective of my friends and all.

just like all other things in life I suffered the disadvantages of the drills I was seeing as a fuckboy who doesn't have feelings, doesnt fall in love and doesn't respect women because I was cocky I thought maybe I should loosen up a little . on the other hand I was literally alone in my own world because I was totally surrounded by simps and betamales who saw worshiping women as a normal so whenever I educate them on things I have learnt here they just laugh it off I wish I had an alphamale friend but I didn't.

October last year i clock 27 within this period I had this sudden change in my personality the game gradually left me and I was gradually becoming weak and called it maturity I wanted to be real as possible with women because I saw the drills as childs play.i had so much pressure from home to start a serious relationship because i wasnt getting younger so early this year I met this very beautiful lady and some few dates we started dating she was a 9/10 I respected her as a lady , I spent on her and ensured she was happy because I wanted something serious with her that will lead to the future i forgot my about my other girlfriends and focused on her alone .

after 2 months in the relationship her attitude suddenly changed she was no longer friendly and homely as she was before , she no longer let me touch her she now being up excuses that she has personal problems she is dealing with and needed space but with the look of things Maybe another guy out there has caught her fancy though we have not broken up officially but she has totally changed and I might end the relationship.
my greatest regret is not that she changed but my greatest regret is that I dropped my whole dating game because I wanted to act matured and real but the exact opposite was what I saw
so this very moment I want to retake my redpills and never go back again there is no such thing as love women want a caring and matured guy but will later loose interest in him I regret I repeat I regret

we could be friend,i think we hav some things in common

BlueDomera:
Sigh!!!!

Epistle of a kid that refuses to grow according to age.

So disrespecting women makes you strong and giving women respect makes you weak. SMH.

There is no need to waste my time advising you on relationship since you have decided to follow your so called redpill rubbish.

Funny thing is that all this nairaland guys forming and shouting redpill this, alpha male that, can only form redpill for small local girls.

When you meet real classy ladies, you turn boy boy.

Blue Fooool, Woman Rapper Oloshi. We know your types Gigolooo..

I can understand all Ur pain. It happens only when u associate with the wrong group of people like runz girls and low-lives.
As regards to the lady in question u mentioned, u forget there is something they call rebound love. Women are many more time prone to fall for it than guys are. My eyes has seen what my mouth can't talk about. Anyways, it happens but that shouldn't make u feel like it's Ur fault or that she is bad. Yes, it shakes Ur trust in her but trust can be rebuilt if and if both parties work towards it.
Know Ur priorities and the rest will come.
Women love success stories.

God bless you.

Omar09:
Loneliness is a weapon. And if you don't know how to utilize it, you will blow yourself to ruin by running into depression. You should advise Kollingzgee to also cherish his lonely days by using it to also develop himself and or learn a skill like a sport or some sort... I'm writing a book on that loneliness thing and how much of a weapon it is.

Illuminated993:
God bless you plenty plenty for the good work you do to help men regain their lost respect. Redpill demands that as a man, you must be respected. If you aren't being respected, then you should do yourself the honor of walking away. And we all know that in this part of the world, the women have this false sense of self importance to such an extent that they think you're being a done a favor by them being with you. So being redpilled could mean you have to learn how to live by yourself for as long as possible; for a redpilled man prefers the option of being single but respected, to the option of being fuccked but disrespected. Singleness in itself should bring one no negative emotions, but it does bring negative emotions. And this is so because of social pressure; you see other guys walking with their women and you just think you lack something that they have, and this sense of lack brings about negative feelings. In some cases it leaves the man depressed to the point of suicide. It is very important that the redpilled man understands that it is okay not having what other men have. If you have friends who have Mercedes cars, it's very stupid feeling sad just because you can't afford to buy the sort of car they all have.

Redpill ideology isn't against being with a woman, it only espouses that, if you must be with a woman, make sure she:

respects you
improves your life in some way
makes you better emotionally.

If you can't find such a woman, you are better off being alone, than being with a woman who causes you mental breakdowns.

And these conditions aren't bad, they are good for you. Redpill wants the best deal for you .

God bless you too sire! It is better to be lonely and have your respect intact than being with a girl who disrespects you and puts you in emotional jeopardy.

cezarman:
Everybody with em own sha... Going through hell and taking all sorts of bullshiit, with the excuse of finding love isn't worth the stress at all... Especially as I no even get plans to marry in this lifetime

my one cent tho

kollinzgee:
I joined Nl last year because Harddons of dating drills I was very weak in mind and couldn't approach women and always get rejected many times but after absorbing the dating drills plus some tips here I overcame my fears with women and with life in general it was a blissful era for me I was respected by both male and females the my ego was bloated and I had my women in my finger tips I was never committed to any during this period I lost my virginity but I was getting so much love .I didn't take shit from women and people in general .I was selective of my friends and all.

just like all other things in life I suffered the disadvantages of the drills I was seeing as a fuckboy who doesn't have feelings, doesnt fall in love and doesn't respect women because I was cocky I thought maybe I should loosen up a little . on the other hand I was literally alone in my own world because I was totally surrounded by simps and betamales who saw worshiping women as a normal so whenever I educate them on things I have learnt here they just laugh it off I wish I had an alphamale friend but I didn't.

October last year i clock 27 within this period I had this sudden change in my personality the game gradually left me and I was gradually becoming weak and called it maturity I wanted to be real as possible with women because I saw the drills as childs play.i had so much pressure from home to start a serious relationship because i wasnt getting younger so early this year I met this very beautiful lady and some few dates we started dating she was a 9/10 I respected her as a lady , I spent on her and ensured she was happy because I wanted something serious with her that will lead to the future i forgot my about my other girlfriends and focused on her alone .

after 2 months in the relationship her attitude suddenly changed she was no longer friendly and homely as she was before , she no longer let me touch her she now being up excuses that she has personal problems she is dealing with and needed space but with the look of things Maybe another guy out there has caught her fancy though we have not broken up officially but she has totally changed and I might end the relationship.
my greatest regret is not that she changed but my greatest regret is that I dropped my whole dating game because I wanted to act matured and real but the exact opposite was what I saw
so this very moment I want to retake my redpills and never go back again there is no such thing as love women want a caring and matured guy but will later loose interest in him I regret I repeat I regret

Exactly, no such thing as love nor make anybody decieve you

Wow.
Thanks so much. That’s very insightful. God help us.

Fisher007:
I understand you. My brother no women is worth your trust. No matter what you provide or give, they can never be satisfied. Everyman must learn this the hardway.

The reason why most men still believe a unicorn exist is because they have never really experience female nature at it peak. But time will always tell. Experience is the best teacher.

No matter how you try to enlighten some men, they will tell you that you are bitter. And most women will never want men to understand it. Even your female siblings will hide these truth from you.

Just focus on yourself . If any ladies bring the only thing she has to offer. Chop and clean mouth. Don't commit or don't invest in any lady cause they will never do the same for you when you are in their shoes.

Most of our fathers never understood this . So they can never teach you. They lived all their lives as a slave to women. The amount of paternity fraud back then and now is a living evidence that even in marriage, women are never faithful or loyal. It is just your turn.

The lady you are with, continue chopping her until you are tired. Then push her back to the street . Let her learn, she will eventually become a public toilet at the end of the day for men. If you decide to marry her, it will be your detriment.

Safe bro.