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D question should be......"Who disvirgined them
No b same guys?? ..walia this guy na quack,
Ladies ooo,should it be just ladies this question goes to or to the guys also?

So do guys deserve marriage since they aren't virgins and cheat

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Op na only God fit help we men jare

RighteousI:
I'm being totally honest. Yes I have a sister and I am not lying when I tell you that she is highly immature, ungrateful and mannerless and that's why she is still single at 37. Why not let me give you my sister's phone number so that you can both date and you will find out that I am telling you the truth.

It's not about my sister or your sister, it's about the current culture in Africa and the world that has turned the head of the family into the one that begs for a woman.

The women in general, irrespective of whether or not they are my sister or your sister are copying and practising that feminist culture.

Are you normal at all? You need a psychologist. A Psychotherapist will be better for you. O boy, I'm serious o

How can you call out your sister like that on a forum as this? Gosh! This is terrible. Do you know your exact description of your sister reflects on you?

The best for you now is to forget about women and focus solely on your life. That will make transition into manhood easy for you.

bennyann:
Are you normal at all? You need a psychologist. A Psychotherapist will be better for you. O boy, I'm serious o

How can you call out your sister like that on a forum as this? Gosh! This is terrible. Do you know your exact description of your sister reflects on you?

The best for you now is to forget about women and focus solely on your life. That will make transition into manhood easy for you.

@bolded, he has already done that and now focused on men only and he wants others to be like him, gaybriel, thereby trying to discourage others instead of working on himself. How do you expect someone who hops from church to church looking for girls even in deeper life church, no luck, now switched to daggering only olosho to find a good woman? Don't you know the company you keep attracts the kind of people you're with? Leave that guy alone. Go look at his threads and you will understand the kind of person he is. Always abusive. An attitude of a bored keyboard warrior. Meet him in person and you won't be surprised why he is not getting any good pwassy. He will always get the crumbs. If his game is as good as he claims, why is he not getting any good girls? He's got no game, no life and he's a bum. Word. If he knows his game, he wouldn't be complaining about females in all his threads since 2016. Good females that are easy to get once you are in the right cycle and you've got game. Dude is just getting remnants and that's going to be his only reward.

RighteousI:
Why do girls want a man to kneel down for her, hustle for her only for her to cheat on her husband.
It's totally about money here, who cares if she's not a virgin? its about paying the bills. Why should I work for an ungrateful adulteress?

One partner in the marriage must be humble and submit whilst the other partner goes out to hustle and work.

Women should choose which one they want, it's either they choose to submit and we the men will work for them; or they should be cheating feminist and go out to work and hustle for the family.

Its not as if they want it, the society made it so, But you are not forced into marriage or relationships. It's your choice and this is how it is, if you don't want hearthbreak dont be in a relationship at l

For me it all boils down to the kind of person (boy or girl), the few girls I know are not cheaters and yes, there are girls who cheat.
I know guys who cheats too and the ones that plans to cheat, this doesn't mean all guys cheat. I don't cheat, I'll use myself as an example; a girl that says all men are the same will still doubt me (as the case maybe, well bad experience to her)...<== *example please*.

For the ones that doesn't cheats, does it mean they don't deserve marriage because some percentage do cheat.

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Mma23:
D question should be......"Who disvirgined them
No b same guys?? ..walia this guy na quack,
Ladies ooo,should it be just ladies this question goes to or to the guys also?

Stop bothering yourself, you should know everyone are unique and different. Some guys happened to see more good and great women and might think most girls are good while some will meet more bad women and think women are bad. Place, time, location, sense of manners and culture can affect all these.

BTW guys are the ones that deflowered the girls and still complain later that he needs a virgin woman also some girls will use some guys and later say he need a rich and God fearing man....

Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free

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RighteousI:
Guy I get what you mean; of course girls have been deceived by guys that promise marriage only to use and dump them. And we guys have taken a girl who we believe is a girlfriend type to an expensive and romantic night out only for us to discover that she is a runz girl.
A husband can cheat and a wife can cheat, it's both ways like you stated but we are the ones paying the bills.

Your own suggestion is to ignore the blatant feminism that states that a man should kneel as long as we can find one good girl that is not feminist. But guess what, even if you find and marry that quiet, gentle and humble girl, it is not possible that she will not sleep with any other man throughout your decades of marriage together. Lust and good attitude is not the same thing, that is why some men cheat on their wives but yet they love and take care of their wives. Similarly your wife may be humble but that doesn't mean she will not cheat. Just like you the husband will want to sleep with another woman even though you love your wife; your wife too will want to sleep with another man even though she is humble and she loves you.

Don't you get it? Your wife cannot have sex with only you whilst married to you.

Even if you go to modesty churches to find a girl, 7 out of 10 will cheat on their husbands not to talk of all these jeans wearing babes.

No, not really... I know but, little amount of girls that buy their own thing and are financially stable, do not depend heavily on a guy's wallet; have a degree and a good job.
Also, I can't prove it to you from here until you meet the ones I've seen/know: the women I'm referring to don't cheat on their spouse (this ones are somewhat religious, maybe why)

RighteousI:
You can get young and different kponmo without marrying. Good luck to you and your wife that will only give you just one slacked kponmo in exchange for you paying the bills and her tasting the kponmo of her boss. You gullible fool, may your wife cheat on you with me, I will make sure I caress her well.

Women have wised up, it's time you man wise up as well.

nice reply! I couldn't have said it better myself!

RighteousI:
Don't you get it? Your wife cannot have sex with only you whilst married to you.

So does applies to men but, I do not intend in doing such and will never do that.
I can have all levels of intimacy only with my partner and nobody else, that's me; so do some women out there.

All this talk about virgins sef

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Stephenmoka4:
So does applies to men but, I do not intend in doing such and will never do that.
I can have all levels of intimacy only with my partner and nobody else, that's me; so do some women out there.

That's a fat lie....

RighteousI:
That's a fat lie....

But, that's me and that's it. You might doubt that and girls that says men are scum; and will also doubt my statement.
But, you have seen it. I don't do such

RighteousI:
Guy, they all cheat. Was it not last week that some deeper life married women were caught fighting over an affair with each others husband? Even women in hijab will still cheat because of lust.

Like I mentioned earlier, it's the kind of women you meet.

RighteousI:
Since you stated that few girls are graduates, have good jobs and don't depend on a guy for money then why can't they take total care of the man, the children and the bills.
I don't mean they should just chip in some cash, I mean she should totally take care of the family
For your information, there's no such thing as partial submission or partial working for your family. The woman is supposed to be not partially but totally well mannered, humble and loving. In return, the man will not partially but totally go out with the brown envelope to seek for work and hustle for his family. But these girls want a man to kneel, they are not well mannered and they cheat on their husbands so why should we work for them?

Women and men do have different roles in marriage, it is common that men provide for the family and women take care of the husband and her children (however, this is not limited to them alone. Some fathers have acted as mother, my aunt's husband is an example *I don't need to use my family as example* and my aunt as the breadwinner of the house; for a short time)
The girls/women I know is well mannered and loving and a non-cheaters, I know the ones that are having opposite characteristics too.

RighteousI:
So you are suggesting that we men should go and marry one graduate bank teller that makes 50k a month who probably had to sleep with and still sleeps with the HR manager.

Why are women the majority in customer service jobs? It's because the male bosses will rather have a sweet vagin*a working beside them than a sweaty man.

My friend is into HR and I am not lying; if female job seekers don't sleep with him he will not give them the job.

The way some girls will think that guys needs their body in return after a favour is done. I'll use myself as an example, I'm not interested in a woman's body for favour, promotions or whatsoever as a form of gratitude.

RighteousI:
Good luck marrying your 50k per month female bank teller that has been ravaged by loads male recruiters. Even though she is your wife, she has to sleep with her male boss that gave her the job otherwise she gets fired.

You know very well that sex can last for as little as 7 minutes. Your 50k per month banker wife will have sex with her male boss in his office at her work place for just 7 minutes after which she will come home to you her husband to demand money for her weave-on.

Stop defending these girls, men have been scamming them for centuries so they want to scam us back and cheat on us back.

Not every girl are working under somebody and not every man needs a woman's body as a reward for job or offer.
Many women/girls I've met are loyal, kind and loving. I have met/seen the ones with the reverse features. You mentioned men have been scamming them, I have not done such and know a lot of guys who haven't done such too. I don't intend to do that.

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RighteousI:
. Now let's settle it with one question:

ARE YOU THE ONLY MAN YOUR WIFE WILL HAVE SEX WITH THROUGHOUT THE 30, 40, 50 or 60 YEARS OF YOUR MARRIAGE?

ANSWER YES OR NO.

YES

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RighteousI:
You liar.
If men believe as you that their wives will not pull down their pants for another man, then why are men not marrying these girls like before.

This is what some women would say _ "men are cheaters, they are unfaithful and can't even settle down with one"
I am not that man or cheating type, I'll use myself as an example. If someone refer me to such woman they will say it's a lie that I'll still cheat, so it works both ways for men and women. It all depends on the kind of woman

RighteousI:
I'm being totally honest. Yes I have a sister and I am not lying when I tell you that she is highly immature, ungrateful and mannerless and that's why she is still single at 37. Why not let me give you my sister's phone number so that you can both date and you will find out that I am telling you the truth.

It's not about my sister or your sister, it's about the current culture in Africa and the world that has turned the head of the family into the one that begs for a woman.

The women in general, irrespective of whether or not they are my sister or your sister are copying and practising that feminist culture.

I totally understand you but the one thing I can still tell you is that there are still ladies out there that are totally different from your imagination but I guess the issue is that you haven't come across them yet.

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RighteousI:
You are a pervert guy. You are the type of man that will have threesomes with your wife; you are the type that will convince your wife to bring her friend along so that you can both have a threesomes. You are a pervert, thats why you speak in defence of feminism.
are highly mannerless, ungrateful and not deserving of marriage to a good guy. They deserve serial cheaters and female oppressors like you.

This is the truth and we all know it: YOUR FIANCÉE IS NOT A VIRGIN AND IT IS NOT POSSIBLE THAT YOUR WIFE WILL NOT SLEEP WITH ANYBODY ELSE DURING YOUR MARRIAGE.

Now go and marry, work for and hustle for a girl that will cheat on you; just hope the guy making love to your wife pulls out without inseminating your wife, otherwise you could be fathering and paying school fees for a bast*ard. But you can get a paternity test

lol, you will insult your fellow guy simply because he doesn't share in your foolish reasoning? this one is mad!

SirBobiGentle:
With this kind of mentality I don't think any decent lady deserves a man that thinks as low as this. Just my observation.

RighteousI:
You are ignorant about the depth of feminism, that's why you commented as such.

Unlike you, who doesn't mind to be turned into a bit*ch by the feminist as long as you can find one promiscuous girl whom you wrongly believe is a good girl, I will not marry these girls and I will advise men not to marry because in general, they are not deserving of a good husband.

You gullible man, you live in a world where the head of the family goes on one knee to propose to a girl and you feel proud about it.

I created this post not because I am that immature type that still wants a virgin to marry but because these girls are highly mannerless, ungrateful and not deserving of marriage in general.

Come on, you the man, is the one that will work for them and pay school fees, house rent and bills but they still want you the man to kneel down to propose after which they will counter cheat on you.

abeg go and sleep, life na per head. You dont want it? Fine! Leave marriage for those who do. You dont want to marry these generation girls? Fine! Leave them for those who do. Why he dey pain you? Pls marry yourself and leave others alone, no responsible girl deserve to marry someone like you, no Wonder you keep wailing up and down. Go sit your broke ass somewhere and wait for a woman with an infested mindset like yours who is interested in feeding you. Tueh....

RighteousI:
I'm being totally honest. Yes I have a sister and I am not lying when I tell you that she is highly immature, ungrateful and mannerless and that's why she is still single at 37. Why not let me give you my sister's phone number so that you can both date and you will find out that I am telling you the truth.

It's not about my sister or your sister, it's about the current culture in Africa and the world that has turned the head of the family into the one that begs for a woman.

The women in general, irrespective of whether or not they are my sister or your sister are copying and practising that feminist culture.

NO WONDER. It runs in your family. Are you sure your mother is not in the same category? For her to breed kids like yourself and your sister shows she is of same feather as you guys. Sick family

QwarkdFerengi:
So what are you saying in essence? You want to join the gaybriel crew? Is that it?
Better females are out there. Explore. Don't bring a topic discouraging dudes from kponmo.

is this a movie