Sotland:


I quite disagree to an extend Sir/Ma.. In my opinio, women ain't suppose to love let alone loving more than the man should and there isn't a law that states that woman should love more. The fact remains that women are naturally lovers, they are love by nature.

Women are like a raw material or a clay. Whatever you use them to mold is what they will become. They are like an incubator, whatever you build in them, that's what you get as a product..

There is just a law for the women to men.. " submissive" which majority of them hard to keep, especially those who thinks they are equal to men and crave for gender equality..lol "crap from daughters of Jezebel"..

Men naturally have a harden heart and rarely can love without duplicate; in fact, they love themselves more.. And this is why the law stipulated that " Men love your Women as thyselves "


Yes, Most men are emotional loose, hence they have lost their prestige.. However for those who truly understand the above principle, they know they should love women more but take charge/control of the relationship..Let the emotionally loose men MAN UP!!

it's only the woman who loves you who will submit and allow herself to be molded into what you like. She has to love you first or else she won't ever allow you to have any power over her. And key to her love is that she must love you more. It's then that she'll submit.

ichidodo:
[b] When you become red pill the last thing you do is dump your girl and find "a" girl...Hell, when I got saved thanks to you the first thing I did was I added an harem of ladies to my retinue( A Six Women rotating schedule)..I called them my "angels" and they had to fit into a certain demographic...I.Q...E.Q , age, skin color (not too light or dark) height (I'm 5'7,so..) livelihood..She had to have insecurities or vulnerabilities to qualify and I treat all my angels nice and gamely that they just can't get enough.. Sometimes when I'm out with an angel, I flirt with other ladies just to play on their psyche including that of my date. Once I flirted or "spun attraction" with this girl and in two hours we was fvcking behind some uncompleted building while my date was waiting thinking I went to have piss...Less than a year ago that would have been impossible..that is going out with a drop dead gorgeous girl like that not to mention having a quickie while she was waiting for me...If it was in my simp days...I would have been overwhelmed and my head would have exploded..[/b]

that's why I never voiced my belief because I knew even hardcore RedPillers would have a problem with it.

But how you start with a woman is how you end with her. That advice was given to the p1mp Iceberg Slim by a master p1mp. It's time-tested. When you get a woman by being a blue pill simp she'll never see you as an alpha down the line.

Lmao don't admit this in public

I will say though, as much of a nutcase extremist ubunja portrays himself to be, every now and then I've found myself agreeing with some of his points

ichidodo:
The irony is that men are thought to be "chop and clean mouth" kind of lovers meanwhile women are the originators.. Women are opportunitistic lovers...their love is conditional..even your mother's (after you come of age)There is nothing like honor,ethics, loyalty in their dictionary..Once you stop providing them that euphoria via gaming and such they drop you like a rock..

In regards to women not having honor and/or ethics, it is because historically, femininity used to be enough and the only thing that makes a woman valuable. She does not have to cultivate honor in relation to the outside world since she is the benefactor of men and societal good, and those traits are not needed to enjoy the tickling down benefits that are conferred to her by men. She just has to respect her man.

Back then, the only thing she has to do it to look beautiful, and she will have her pick from quality men ranging from mighty hunters, the royal household, bounty farmers, etc. Men were basically rewarded for doing (of which cultivating honor is a subset of it), they have to be something valuable to access young and beautiful women. That could explain the origin of chivalry, and how women tap into men's socio-economical status just by associating with him. The same thing still plays on now, women look beautiful as much as they can, they can be a spoilt brat and men will still show up. There is no incentive or reason to cultivate any sense of honor and ethic.

Presently, even though society preaches a different thing and giving women the same chances to hustle and compete, they still want to operate on the old model. They still want rich men, still enjoy status by association (e.g automatically being a queen when married to a king), and want their femininity to be enough and the only thing they need to have to be rewarded by society, but men are beginning to expect more, which is often interpreted as an attack. Seeing it from this lens makes it not surprising why they act like that.

pansophist:


If not because I know you personally, I will think this is written by a man. Thank you.

All the time I have been on this forum, I have never for once seen any of this so-called woke women here ask themselves this simple question, which is, ''why does the red pill ideology, especially the version spearheaded by ubunja resonating with so many men?''It is a simple question, but attempting to solve it will open a reality most women never knew existed. Perhaps, they know it is true, but confronting their own privilege is hard. When one has been privileged all their life, equality surely does feel like oppression.

Go to youtube, Reddit, Quora, just any platform with a diverse global congregation, and you see that men generally agree on the same thing, that they are actually suffering but no one care to listen to them. The irony of all these is that the women still see themselves as a victim of men, same men that their suffering is normalized and seen everywhere. Women cried to men and men listened and reacted, now men are seeking help, and they are silenced with ''man up'', wailers, and all kinds of fancy names.

Sadly, and quite fortunately, men won't tolerate this anymore, they are waking up. It will take time, but it will happen. The present state of things makes me wonder if past generations knew what we didn't know, for actually suppressing women in many ways, because when it comes to women to treat men just as men treat them, their actions are dehumanizing, to put it mildly. Once again, thank you.

She is a lady. We had just two objective ladies on this forum,michellekabod and herself,sadly funmistic.queen bullied michelle into being strictly pro-woman before michelle deactivated. She is the only one left.

Arthur21s:

She is a lady. We had just two objective ladies on this forum,michellekabod and herself,sadly funmistic.queen bullied michelle into being strictly pro-woman before michelle deactivated. She is the only one left.

what?? Michellekabod2 deactivated?

Well Ariza also has a long history of deactivating and coming back. Here is her list of monikers which I'm personally aware of, because we used to clash with all of them:
RuthDainels, MariaLavina , Ariza.

MariaLavina moniker was annihilated as a direct result of her fighting the Miseducation threads and trying to get them banned on NL. Instead SHE was banned and she deactivated. Copy paste this phrase [ marialavina dear Seun ] on the search bar on top to see the deleted threads she created against the Miseducations

Ariza:
You are making my heart melt and having my cheeks blush.

That's so wonderful to read. Yesterday I decided to do some random search on my previous monickers( ruthdaniels and Maria) lol. Then I saw many posts of people relating some monickers to mine. I couldn't stand it when I saw your post so I decided to say hello and reveal my new identity. You are special, believe me you are.

RuthDaniels:
Dude is nothing but a motherfucking hypocrite! A fvcked up fella at that. Every genders hurt each other but you wouldnt see the female gender create crazy classes miseducating! Such manner of fvckery from a grown ass man!

When you allow circumstance make you a bitter fellow,then you are nothing but a weakling! Ubunja is a weak ass dude!

Come to think of it

How will many of you broke SIMPs can protect yourself from coronavirus?

You don't have money for respirators
You dont have money to stockpile.
You don't have money to buy medicine.

The only thing you have is a thread of "redpill" on nairaland.

Redpill can't save you. Do you think you are in a better place to save your mother or sisters

It seems it is really the survival of the fittest.

So you Will be wiped out from the earth, your seed will be destroyed.

Damn what a shame, it is bad to be broke when coronavirus is already here.

It is really the survival of the fittest.

#redpill
#saynotobrokeboys

sexylassie2:
Come to think of it

How will many if you broke SIMPs can protect yourself from coronavirus?

You don't have money for respirators
You dont have money to stockpile.
You don't have money to buy medicine.

The only thing you have is a thread of "redpill" on nairaland.

Redpill can't save you.

It seems it is really the survival of the fittest.

So you Will be wiped out from the earth, your seed will be destroyed.

Damn what a shame, it is bad to be broke when coronavirus is already here.

It is really the survival of the fittest.

#redpill
#saynotobrokeboys

damn,lady please get some sleep you have been here for hours,redpill will never end because of you. Can you see how you are ignored like a passing gas...you need to move on.

If you want redpill to end talk to feminists,talk to the society that is turning gynocentric,they brought out the beast in men.

Arthur21s:
damn,lady please get some sleep you have been here for hours,redpill will never end because of you. Can you see how you are ignored like a passing gas...you need to move on.

If you want redpill to end talk to feminists,talk to the society that is turning gynocentric,they brought out the beast in men.

Weak men do not know how to coordinate themselves in times like this, they complain and nag.

sexylassie2:


Weak men do not know how to coordinate themselves in times like this, they complain and nag.

lol ,here am i giving you advice and you call me weak? I have it all,the money,the love,a great career,infact everything you can dream of having in a man. You are the one getting pained and bitter that you have slept here for hours and all your efforts to bring down a man that has not wronged you failed woefully.before your very eyes you will witness a dozen more miseducations,buy some handkerchief to wipe your tears in advance.

ubunja:
what?? Michellekabod2 deactivated?

Well Ariza also has a long history of deactivating and coming back. Here is her list of monikers which I'm personally aware of, because we used to clash with all of them:
RuthDainels, MariaLavina , Ariza.

MariaLavina moniker was annihilated as a direct result of her fighting the Miseducation threads and trying to get them banned on NL. Instead SHE was banned and she deactivated. Copy paste this phrase [ marialavina dear Seun ] on the search bar on top to see the deleted threads she created against the Miseducations

everyone has a past. At least she isnt so vulgar,what will you say of funmi who can never change? You think in a decade from now when her NL beau has dumped her she will not pour the frustration on you by trolling you?
At least the a.riza girl has changed for good,her change is permanent.

Arthur21s:
everyone has a past. At least she isnt so vulgar,what will you say of funmi who can never change? You think in a decade from now when her NL beau has dumped her she will not pour the frustration on you by trolling you?
At least the a.riza girl has changed for good,her change is permanent.

stop making excuses for women.

Romantic stories may emotionally hit your brain and harm your sleep. Sometimes, love stories help us to get a good sleep. There are some common helpful sleeping tips such as Maintain a daily bedtime routine, go to bed early, take light dinner, do some exercise before bed, take a bath if possible, comfortable bedroom environment, turn off lights, television, & wifi devices, use a comfortable mattress like Mattress Insight, etc.

ma247:
Romantic stories may emotionally hit your brain and harm your sleep. Sometimes, love stories help us to get a good sleep. There are some common helpful sleeping tips such as Maintain a daily bedtime routine, go to bed early, take light dinner, do some exercise before bed, take a bath if possible, comfortable bedroom environment, turn off lights, television, & wifi devices, use a comfortable mattress, etc.

you think Ubunja's Miseducations are romantic stories? Smh.

ichidodo:
[b] But still in retrospect...I believe the red pill can still be useful while in marriage..These days marriage has become something of a joke because of the hypergamistic and narcissistic nature of today's woman. Most men have lost it and thus are losing their selves to something or someone this isn't if their own making... So because I got my sh**t together society expects me to rescue some female who has come close to the wall or gone past her prime...somebody that wouldn't even give you the time of the day in her prime?? What the fvck?! If married before the red pill truth...Then me and the missus will have tell ourselves the truth and re negotiate the power Dynamics in the relationship.... Whether she earns more than or at par or less than me....I don't give a fvck??.. Whenever she acts up and becomes all clingy or bitchy to me or mine...I don't give a fvck...Why?? Because as a red pilled, my masculine polarity is everything to me and nobody can take that away from...Not even my mother..[/b]

Been reading your comments on the wall, women's sexual market value, women on rotation, the peak years of men and women . I can see you have an in-depth knowledge and am feeling the vibes until this one.

It is always just your turn even in marriage. No amount of frame, alpha traits, redpill you keep. She will still bring out that female nature (hypergamous nature which will eventually leads to cheating, shit testing, manipulation, play the weaker gender move, slave you into plantation with or without your knowledge - subconsciously).

You will need to be passing shit test on a daily basis, if not you will become a statistic ( i.e get fed up and divorce).

Ubunja is great and still sane, at least he still believe in a relationship. My brother when you take the redpill (full extreme like me) you won't even want a relationship with women. You will enter level 1-2 of MGTOW. You will just pump and dump.

You will realize the following about female/women and work on yourself:

Women are incapable of love ( it is always provisional, conditional or transactional).

You can never make a woman happy.

Women are emotional being. They can never be rational or logical.

Women are full of false pride. They will never accept they are wrong.

You can never trust a woman ( even our mothers ) you need to remove that smokescreen that my mother, sister, cousin, fiancee are trustworthy.

She is never truly yours even after marriage, it is just your turn.

Once you hear I will never do that to you or not all women are like that. My brother just pull back or else it is coming for you.

My brother, hypergamy is real. It is in their nature. Women hypergamous nature is inscribed and embedded in their DNA.They act it unconsciously without even knowing.

Focus on your money, looks and status. Learn to embrace aloneness not loneliness.

Always stand your point and views with women, they always end up respecting you over time.

No cohabitation or living with a woman. You will end up regretting it.

Never validate or give women your attention. You will regret it because it brings nothing in return.

Control, manage and use your spare time for your self development. Cause giving your time to women will yield no interest or gain ( even if it is cuddle and vagina you get). It will only bring more liabilities ( infections, pregnancy, financial request, waste of time, emotional tappon and trauma).

The wall is surely real and it is coming for all women. It is undefeated.

In summary it is only a legacy that matter that is if you eventually want one. But thinking you can be redpill/ Alpha be married and maintain frame is purely delusional. She will simp you over the years. Your freedom with peace , quite and tranquility will be lost at a particular time.

You might never enjoy a free agent lifestyle. You will be caged in a shining prison once you decide to settle with a woman. Safe my brother.

Ariza:
Buda to be honest Red pill ideology isn't that bad. It is to liberate men from the claws of society, Women and Men themselves (Most times a Man's ego is his downfall) . I have come to realize after thorough research and Mental evaluation that Man is decietfully made a Slave for whom he thinks he Lords.In Men's societal duties and roles, they sacrifice more only to get little. Sometimes I wonder what Men get in return for all their efforts.. Sex? Well I may never be able to answer that because I am not a male.

Just last week, I had to help two male friends out of their emotional captivity they call relationships and believe me if their problems persist, I will introduce them to Ubun.ja' Redpills. They really need it ! One of them, I met through a cousin last year at my sister's wedding. This guy has been in a relationship with a lady for 9 years but lady changed after getting admission into Uni. She didn't break up with him but threated him badly and made lots of demands.Even after he was advised to back out, dude continued secretly until few days ago when he decided to let go.Lol after being cheated on severally.When I asked why he didn't heed to our advise then, he said it wasn't easy, that he had sacrificed so much in the relationship. This is a Guy struggling for himself with no parental support right from a very tender age.

The second is a guy I've known here for over 3 years now, from our conversations, I realized the babe started showing her real self when she got a job in another town. She acts indifferent, boss him around and complains a lot. I had to start lecturing the guy on how to be in control of his relationship and so on. Lol So tasking!
And I remember, early last year a friend of mine almost commited suicide because his girlfriend left him for another guy. Ladies aren't really nice to guys out there! They take advantage of the love Men offer. If Men decide to liberate themselves, I see no issue in that.


Like you typed earlier, things have changed. No more farms and wars.... Yes ! Things have changed! Men no longer have the submission, respect, care, support, freedom,sex, one sided love and dependency they enjoyed back then. Butdo you expect them to still give their all like they did back then? In all fairness, I believe Men are very much entitled to whatever ideologies they develop to balance up with the evolution as long as it isn't a threat to Humanity.

To be honest I don't think I read this right. But in all cases, thanks for understanding us.

ubunja:
what?? Michellekabod2 deactivated?

Well Ariza also has a long history of deactivating and coming back. Here is her list of monikers which I'm personally aware of, because we used to clash with all of them:
RuthDainels, MariaLavina , Ariza.

MariaLavina moniker was annihilated as a direct result of her fighting the Miseducation threads and trying to get them banned on NL. Instead SHE was banned and she deactivated. Copy paste this phrase [ marialavina dear Seun ] on the search bar on top to see the deleted threads she created against the Miseducations

Michellekabod2 said she was tired of NL shit n all and I came out and called her out on her bull.shit and asked her to deactivate already. I hate people feeling funky when they've got no effect whatsoever to a big platform like this. I knew my words hit her hard as much as she will be in denial. Silly girl she is.

Arthur21s:
everyone has a past. At least she isnt so vulgar,what will you say of funmi who can never change? You think in a decade from now when her NL beau has dumped her she will not pour the frustration on you by trolling you?
At least the a.riza girl has changed for good,her change is permanent.

I really did like that Michellekabod2 girl. Till she started joining the herd. Tho I was ready to look past that as a woman she is.... I was really liking her despite our little feud.

Damn!i said no one will miss her or even notice... And look at me reminiscing... Lol

Omar09:

Michellekabod2 said she was tired of NL shit n all and I came out and called her out on her bull.shit and asked her to deactivate already. I hate people feeling funky when they've got no effect whatsoever to a big platform like this. I knew my words hit her hard as much as she will be in denial. Silly girl she is.

damn.
It is what it is.

I'll talk to her on WhatsApp.

sexylassie2:


like leader like followers

these set of boys cant put food on the table for their family, they cant be reckon with

many of them are immature, they dont have mind of their own, even if a woman pity them and befriend them, they wont add any value to the relationship, look at most of them and how they reason, can they even add value to society. after, they call them men because they have a penis.

You can't even see any reasonable and responsible man wastes his time over something as useless and unproductive as these.
Only futureless and lazy toddlers have time for this, where then would they see the value to their relationship or money to put food on a table? That's very impossible.

Another bitter truth is, even the penis they boast of can't even go 30 straight seconds.
Broke weaklings everywhere.

I wonder why females on this thread are bitter.

ubunja:
I wonder why females on this thread are bitter.

Boss you shouldn't be surprised na, they are jittery cos men are waking up.

sexylassie2:


i am trying to save you and him from future disgrace and embarrassment. Apply for jobs now before it is too late.

at the end of the day, nobody cares if you read thousands of books on women, what matters is can you provide.

stop disgracing yourself m o r o n

Akinbahm:


Upon the ranting towards the red pills we still av guys out there still falling for the same tricks exploited by girls...

The annoying part is when u r trying to call these guys in order towards relationship their countenance nd response made me loose hope for upcoming generation males...

Like a friend kept complaining to me how his girl rarely calls him, says very little when they chat and all that. So I told him straight "forget her, delete her number if possible. Because the party with less love holds the keys and controls unfortunately you're at the receiving end."

You need to see how sad this guy looked.
Kind of knew i was wasting my time.

Skepticus:


You won't get anywhere trying to make that chameleonic member of the pussy cartel agree with your position.

She's displaying a prominent feature of those with deep understanding of the cartel.

Follow this thread from the beginning and notice how she joined the other trolls in mocking men at the beginning, goes on to acknowledge the reasons for red-pill philosophy in the middle of the thread, citing examples of her male friends being burned by manipulative women, then goes back to the pussy cartel mode of shaming men claiming "that they wail and regurgitate the same thing over and over again" at the end.

Classic manipulative nature of women at its best. I hope to be proven wrong.

You have sense. She started by trolling and throwing subtle jabs, then she momentarily supported the redpill only for her to make a subtle U-turn. Chameleons everywhere.

budaatum:

You'd please forgive me, allandutch. My contribution in this thread is specifically directed towards the individual who mentioned me and specifically addressed his lies.

I have however gone on to investigate redpill and found the following.

Do you realize you're derailing this thread?

ubunja:
what?? Michellekabod2 deactivated?

Well Ariza also has a long history of deactivating and coming back. Here is her list of monikers which I'm personally aware of, because we used to clash with all of them:
RuthDainels, MariaLavina , Ariza.

MariaLavina moniker was annihilated as a direct result of her fighting the Miseducation threads and trying to get them banned on NL. Instead SHE was banned and she deactivated. Copy paste this phrase [ marialavina dear Seun ] on the search bar on top to see the deleted threads she created against the Miseducations

Is Ariza truly Marialavia?
If so, i really missed her and her comments.
Nice to know she is back.
People always get addicted to Nairaland no matter what, even when they deactivate they still later come back.

emmaodet:


Is Ariza truly Marialavia?
If so, i really missed her and her comments.
Nice to know she is back.
People always get addicted to Nairaland no matter what, even when they deactivate they still later come back.

yes it's her bro

Fisher007:


Been reading your comments on the wall, women's sexual market value, women on rotation, the peak years of men and women . I can see you have an in-depth knowledge and am feeling the vibes until this one.

It is always just your turn even in marriage. No amount of frame, alpha traits, redpill you keep. She will still bring out that female nature (hypergamous nature which will eventually leads to cheating, shit testing, manipulation, play the weaker gender move, slave you into plantation with or without your knowledge - subconsciously).

You will need to be passing shit test on a daily basis, if not you will become a statistic ( i.e get fed up and divorce).

Ubunja is great and still sane, at least he still believe in a relationship. My brother when you take the redpill (full extreme like me) you won't even want a relationship with women. You will enter level 1-2 of MGTOW. You will just pump and dump.

You will realize the following about female/women and work on yourself:

Women are incapable of love ( it is always provisional, conditional or transactional).

You can never make a woman happy.

Women are emotional being. They can never be rational or logical.

Women are full of false pride. They will never accept they are wrong.

You can never trust a woman ( even our mothers ) you need to remove that smokescreen that my mother, sister, cousin, fiancee are trustworthy.

She is never truly yours even after marriage, it is just your turn.

Once you hear I will never do that to you or not all women are like that. My brother just pull back or else it is coming for you.

My brother, hypergamy is real. It is in their nature. Women hypergamous nature is inscribed and embedded in their DNA.They act it unconsciously without even knowing.

Focus on your money, looks and status. Learn to embrace aloneness not loneliness.

Always stand your point and views with women, they always end up respecting you over time.

No cohabitation or living with a woman. You will end up regretting it.

Never validate or give women your attention. You will regret it because it brings nothing in return.

Control, manage and use your spare time for your self development. Cause giving your time to women will yield no interest or gain ( even if it is cuddle and vagina you get). It will only bring more liabilities ( infections, pregnancy, financial request, waste of time, emotional tappon and trauma).

The wall is surely real and it is coming for all women. It is undefeated.

In summary it is only a legacy that matter that is if you eventually want one. But thinking you can be redpill/ Alpha be married and maintain frame is purely delusional. She will simp you over the years. Your freedom with peace , quite and tranquility will be lost at a particular time.

You might never enjoy a free agent lifestyle. You will be caged in a shining prison once you decide to settle with a woman. Safe my brother.

[color=#1980BC][b] Going "monk" mode is not a very healthy to do, you could go mental in the long run (nearly did myself)... Today's woman need an owner's manual for one to navigate the murky Waters of feminist

ubunja:
it's only the woman who loves you who will submit and allow herself to be molded into what you like. She has to love you first or else she won't ever allow you to have any power over her. And key to her love is that she must love you more. It's then that she'll submit.

I maintain my stand.. You are yet to realize that the nature of a woman is love..The determinant to stir up the natural nature of a woman is a man..

Now I am not talking about these days daughters of Jezebel or those negative energy girls that clamour or kept shouting gender equality craps. Meet the right woman, love her rightly and see if she won't reciprocate rightly.

The fact remains that many men are loose emotionally. Relationship is a moving vehicle, men are suppose to take up the wheel and control the journey.Not the other way.. Every man should Man Up..

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC][b] Going "monk" mode is not a very healthy to do, you could go mental in the long run (nearly did myself)... Today's woman need an owner's manual for one to navigate the murky Waters of feminist

I never said full MGTOW monk mode. I said Mgtow level 1-2. MGTOW have levels. You can go your way at this level but pump and dump. You don't want to be an alpha, instead you choose a sigma male characteristics. You practice the lone wolf approach to life (embrace aloneness not loniless) . You practice stoicism philosophy. You understand the truth about life and what really matters to you is your financial, emotional, logical, physical and mental well-being. Most people in the Redpill community think MGTOW is full monk mode. But they are levels to it.

Monk mode is MGTOW level 5. Which I won't suggest to any one only if you are old above 70 or have been #metoo. Lol

ubunja:
damn.
It is what it is.

I'll talk to her on WhatsApp.

OK. Tell her I said hi.