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SweetCunt97:
Depend on the support you'll be getting from ur partner and the kinda quality life u want for your kid. Unless you guys agree not to have kids yet... Unfortunately married peeps no dey get strength to withdraw or take preventive measures

Lol u self. Withdrawal is stressful.

Phenomenal16:
..so that what will happen exactly?
If I av #100,,,my husband should av #1000....though not a must... But I think Is ideal...

You might earn better than him but as the journey continues, he might earn far better than you do.

No matter who earns more if there's love and respect it wouldn't be a problem because the family's welfare is the ultimate objective, don't also forget, 2 are now 1.

Nice1 bro
You be spoken well.

CsRockefeller:
Money can really change the equation. When my sister was earning 50k she was yearning for marriage, now that she is earning ×6, marriage no too dey her mind.

If that guy that is about to get married on 40k suddenly starts earning 200k, he would likely call off the wedding.

This is what in Economics we call Giffen or Veblen effect. Higher income changes taste.

Exceptions do exist.

why would a man earning even 100k be thinking of marriage

biko double ur hustle.

Everyone should marry with whatever they are earning. Whatever they see when they enter, they will take it like that.

favoryte33:
Can a man in his early 30's raise a family with such amount as salary? If yes, please share some ideas.you might be helping a brother out.

I think the most important thing here is that there's a flow of income.
Is not going to be easy but with time you can handle it.

chinchonglee:
why would a man earning even 100k be thinking of marriage

biko double ur hustle.

lol
world economy is in d toilet, d year is being talked about in past tense, but people should put their lives on hold, abi?
d hilarity.

favoryte33:
Can a man in his early 30's raise a family with such amount as salary? If yes, please share some ideas.you might be helping a brother out.

pray.
have a plan.
discuss it with her.
get critics of d plan from both ur families.
(they'll b d ones supporting u guys anyway)
redo ur plan.
decide on a "kwashiorkor" wedding; an elaborate one can come later.
enlist both ur friends in ur plan and ur wedding.
minimalist traditional.
children will be discussed when ur more buoyant.
if ur both in agreement, pray about it.
go to church.
marry ur wife.
end of.

SweetCunt97:
Depend on the support you'll be getting from ur partner and the kinda quality life u want for your kid. Unless you guys agree not to have kids yet... Unfortunately married peeps no dey get strength to withdraw or take preventive measures

The bolded is always my concern.

hmm 40k ...and i wont be surprised u would force ur wife to be a prospective housewife
very soon u will be begging nairalanders to send u money for u to pay ur children"s school fees