machiavelli95:


You just said it all. Leave them to wallow in ignorance

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.

Merciful77:
Sir only men loves women don't, sir that's a big lie kindly make ur research well

this must be Cayman Island English

machiavelli95:


You are an embodiment of the Nigerian problem. You have no self-worth that is why you resort to using money to buy affection. You have no ambition to make an impact, your only purpose is to buy women of easy value. I just rounded up school, I come from a very comfortable family, plus I was on 2 scholarships, yet I never had that sick mentality of using money to attract women, still I had girls following me for a while (their attraction window was averaging 3 months), I kept one girlfriend (biggest mistake), at some point they would offer to finance my personal endeavors and I would turn it down, I will feign ignorance of sexual interest because I had a focus of what I wanted. I rather used my little money for self development, investing in God's work, honouring my parents (they don't need my money, but its a key principle to honour our parents) and helping my guys out in my little way.

You have no self-worth that is why you resort to using money to buy affection

You are an embodiment of the Nigerian problem. You have no self-worth

I just rounded up school, I come from a very comfortable family, plus I was on 2 scholarships

I had girls following me for a while (their attraction window was averaging 3 months), I kept one girlfriend (biggest mistake), at some point they would offer to finance my personal endeavors and I would turn it down, I will feign ignorance of sexual interest because I had a focus of what I wanted.

rather used my little money for self development, investing in God's work, honouring my parents (they don't need my money, but its a key principle to honour our parents) and helping my guys out in my little way.

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.

Budline1:
Well, I feel the reason why beautiful women don't love genuinely isn't because of heartbreak from their first love. I feel it is just PRIDE. This feeling of "I can get whoever I want", "I'm too hot for this guy", "I'm too beautiful". Common in this part of the world tho, naija.

You ever wonder why most beautiful Nollywood actresses are divorced or single?
Genevieve, Linda Esoro, Osas Ajibade and more.. Most of them basically feel that they are too beautiful for the men they married, they always want to get better. Those that married billionaire husbands don't really divorce tho...

Summary: Beautiful women want to be bought by very rich men, hence the pride.
Yeah, they don't really love from the heart. Their beauty is their gift and their curse.

sndk1:



Just shut up. I am not your mate.

Bye-Bye.

drnoel:


No vex, that has nothing to do with beauty but the lady's personality. Not every woman wants to stay under a man and society has always being cruel to single ladies.
I know many beautiful women that are married and staying with their husbands e.g Regina Askia, Stefanie Okereke, Chimamanda and my wifey to name a few.
We men should desist from stereotyping women cos we are usually wrong about them just like they are wrong about us.

Budline1:


Yeah I understand, you have a point because I didn't conclude that they are all the same. I just spoke based on what I have noticed in the present Nigeria. To even support your theory, my mother who is very beautiful married my father when he was poor, it took him some time to make it in life and she stayed with him all through thick and thin, that was then... Even my mother still used to tell us that she had rich suitors then but she chose our father, whereas beautiful ladies ppl like Bianca got married to very rich men like Ojukwu back then and more like that, which out mother often made reference to. I'm not saying all beautiful ladies are the same but I'm very sure many of them just want to be bought, many of them will use their beauties to try to get very rich men, it might not be green as they thought it would be eventually tho..
Why will a fine young girl like Regina Daniel marry Ned?.. We have heard on several occasions that Caroline Danjuma's husband has been cheating on her yet she stays, would she stay if he was an average man? Many of them(not all) prefer to be bought my brother. They might not want to admit to it tho. You're very lucky to have a wife as yours, such women are rare these days.. it is just what it is.

I met a girl recently through a friend, she feels she's beautiful, when we were talking abt marriage and all, she was like "If I don't marry into wealth, I'll make my own money and try as much as I can to be wealthy". Imagine that...

spik007:


My guy,go get money,you go know whether pretty ladies fall in love or not....not any how money but better one

drnoel:


I don't need to imagine Ur last statement. It's a popular mindset in Nigeria. I think cos the few people that have little cash rob it in the faces of the rest and we know how many of the very rich treat the others with scorn. U don't have to take my word for it.
I remember a note my madam showed me from one of her suitors years back, this was before I wedded her.
The note said something about how the author was pained to hear she was wedding and how she couldn't wait for her real love to make money and marry her
I almost died laughing, not about the author's pain but the situation playing out itself. That is how life is.

Or another issue where another guy was outside her window singing I will always love u with her name and all. Beautiful women always see shit like that. I can understand why they tend to become woody and unfeeling after a time. But that doesn't mean one can't press their mumu-button.

Budline1:


Bro, you are lucky to have your woman and I know some men will also be lucky to marry beautiful ladies not driven by wealth but true love and potentials they see in their men.
I'm not saying it happens everywhere in the world tho because we have seen situations where rich beautiful ladies like Mariah Carey married an average Nick Cannon, Jennifer Lopez never married for money, most beautiful Hollywood actresses married their peers in the industry.

Nigeria is just a different ball game and many beautiful women think differently.

spik007:


It's normal for pretty ladies to get attracted to you once you are well to do. While younger ,I don't have a good understanding of how issues like this work..Dont blame pretty women for getting attracted to rich guys only, you put your self in their shoes and you'll have a good understanding of what it feels to be pretty lady and being approached by guys who cant take care of themsleves not to talk of taking care of their girlfriends.

No woman will love you with you brokenness,don't mistake basic life needs with poverty and you expect the woman to stay when she has alot of better options.
Mr. Man,if Dangote's daughter asks you out today and another regular girl asks you out,which one will you go for?

My point is don't blame pretty ladies for being attracted to rich guys,youself go find a way and make your life better.

The way women fall in love these days is different from the previous centuries, now you need to be doing well,at least have some basic needs.

Kingsteve:
OP, be specific and narrow it down.
Most attractive women in NIGERIA don't love anymore.

In other climes, where there's abundance of attractive women, even paupers with game stand a chance!

Nigeria is dead in everything!
Never expect anything good to come out from the zoo.

...just saying!

sndk1:


I said it before that problem with low value people like you is that you have the habit of using yourselves as a standard for every other person. Well, my life does not need to pick up again because it has been up all the while.

Merciful77:
Sir only men loves women don't, sir that's a big lie kindly make ur research well

RisenPhoenix:
It is not heartbreak that makes them to dominate men. It is men's behaviour. By the time a woman; especially one seen by her peers as attractive; has graduated high school, the number of dumb untrained simps who have grovelled before her, wept for her attention and stolen money from their father's pocket to buy her flowers are so many that she gets a hugely overblown idea of her own worth. Unfortunately, she will also tend to hold the belief that the unrealistic value she places on herself lasts forever. By the time reality hits her, she will first desperately try to hold on to the beauty which she believed gave her value; having neglected to nurture more lasting and valued qualities; before running from pillar to post in the quest for just any male to 'manage'. If she fails in the last step as well, that is when she starts subscribing to feminist ideologies and starts telling herself that she is happy to be 'single and successful', and that men are slimy beasts anyway.

For clarification, step one is arrogant misuse of her body, step 2 is photoshop, heavy make up and cosmetic surgery; step 3 is paying pastor to see dreams about brother x and brother y proposing to her, step 4 is joining the feminist bandwagon to make herself feel better about not having secured a man. And the way to emancipation of women from this path of self destruction is to stop treating them like angelic queens just because you want to get into their pants.

Arthur21:

Lol,they bolded got me..

You never see most radical feminists looking fresh and attractive. Nkechi bianze(a blob) and Solomon buchi(a dwarf mangina who wears three t-shirts , a fedora hat and eat his parents food at 24).

Skepticus:


I was about to say this too.

Mannazgee, women are highly incapable of loving and expected to be loved back. Irrespective of whatever bullshît, the popular media and girls love to say, their attraction to men is conditional.

Only men are capable of showing love.

As for attractive women being cold to love, they are only keeping their options open trying to pick the best mate to fuel their vanity. It's called Hypergamy.

Fisher007

RisenPhoenix:


There are young feminists, but their own feminism is the copy-cat chinko version and they will not hesitate to dump all their ideals once they hook a productive man that will put them in a mansion with a jacuzzi.

The old cougars who have to pay someone without class to sleep with them are the real feminists.

eduman365:


WRONG! You haven't found love yet...

Fisher007:


Hypergamy is the order of the day.

Now let me burst your head. Firstly a woman's love is conditional, provisional and transactional. The more young guys understand this the less heart break they will get.

Now, Older experienced pretty ladies from age 25-35 upwards can never lover you. They have seen it all. They are alpha widows. They have dated guys way far above your level or paygrades. Especially the pretty ones, do you know how men flatter then with gifts , phones , money all in the hope of getting into their panties from an early age ( some as far as age 16 yrs).

For instance alpha guys that understands her love is transactional, they will pay her tickets, trips etc. To anywhere because they know it is a transaction. In her mind at that age she is catching feeling and thinking they are making her feel special. They will eventually get the only thing she can offer them ( pvssy). They will use her then stylishly push her back to the road. And this will continue for her on a long run because she will keep changing and branching from one man to another. Instead of her to work on her life and financial freedom. She will keep getting used up and down.

After all that alpha experience from age 18-25 with different men do you think a pretty lady can really love you. She will just use you as a retirement plan. You will take her at the end of her peak years with lot of emotional trauma and baggages from the old relationship. You will be her Adam after several time spent with the serpent.

Wish the OP luck in finding love from an Old experienced pretty lady.

RisenPhoenix:
It is not heartbreak that makes them to dominate men. It is men's behaviour. By the time a woman; especially one seen by her peers as attractive; has graduated high school, the number of dumb untrained simps who have grovelled before her, wept for her attention and stolen money from their father's pocket to buy her flowers are so many that she gets a hugely overblown idea of her own worth. Unfortunately, she will also tend to hold the belief that the unrealistic value she places on herself lasts forever. By the time reality hits her, she will first desperately try to hold on to the beauty which she believed gave her value; having neglected to nurture more lasting and valued qualities; before running from pillar to post in the quest for just any male to 'manage'. If she fails in the last step as well, that is when she starts subscribing to feminist ideologies and starts telling herself that she is happy to be 'single and successful', and that men are slimy beasts anyway.

For clarification, step one is arrogant misuse of her body, step 2 is photoshop, heavy make up and cosmetic surgery; step 3 is paying pastor to see dreams about brother x and brother y proposing to her, step 4 is joining the feminist bandwagon to make herself feel better about not having secured a man. And the way to emancipation of women from this path of self destruction is to stop treating them like angelic queens just because you want to get into their pants.

And for those men who slide into women's DM to praise them, you are part of the problem.

Arthur21:
depend on her age. Naive young girls can love(I am speaking from experience). I know young of girls in the university that overflate school fees to give their broke lovers,they live with him,cook for him with their money,give him sex,wash his dresses,clean his house ,commit several abortions for him and damage their rectum due to excessive anal sex. It is after their first heartbreak they don't love .
ladies this age range are aiming for the rich responsible guys because they gave their virginity to rogues and hoodlums. They want to make up for the days of giving free sex and cheap sex to street urchins so they aim for the best now.
Alphas don't pay for sex
I agree

Arthur21:

Lol,they bolded got me..

You never see most radical feminists looking fresh and attractive. Nkechi bianze(a blob) and Solomon buchi(a dwarf mangina who wears three t-shirts , a fedora hat and eat his parents food at 24).

RisenPhoenix:
It is not heartbreak that makes them to dominate men. It is men's behaviour. By the time a woman; especially one seen by her peers as attractive; has graduated high school, the number of dumb untrained simps who have grovelled before her, wept for her attention and stolen money from their father's pocket to buy her flowers are so many that she gets a hugely overblown idea of her own worth. Unfortunately, she will also tend to hold the belief that the unrealistic value she places on herself lasts forever. By the time reality hits her, she will first desperately try to hold on to the beauty which she believed gave her value; having neglected to nurture more lasting and valued qualities; before running from pillar to post in the quest for just any male to 'manage'. If she fails in the last step as well, that is when she starts subscribing to feminist ideologies and starts telling herself that she is happy to be 'single and successful', and that men are slimy beasts anyway.

For clarification, step one is arrogant misuse of her body, step 2 is photoshop, heavy make up and cosmetic surgery; step 3 is paying pastor to see dreams about brother x and brother y proposing to her, step 4 is joining the feminist bandwagon to make herself feel better about not having secured a man. And the way to emancipation of women from this path of self destruction is to stop treating them like angelic queens just because you want to get into their pants.

And for those men who slide into women's DM to praise them, you are part of the problem.

Fisher007:


Hypergamy is the order of the day.

Now let me burst your head. Firstly a woman's love is conditional, provisional and transactional. The more young guys understand this the less heart break they will get.

Now, Older experienced pretty ladies from age 25-35 upwards can never lover you. They have seen it all. They are alpha widows. They have dated guys way far above your level or paygrades. Especially the pretty ones, do you know how men flatter then with gifts , phones , money all in the hope of getting into their panties from an early age ( some as far as age 16 yrs).

For instance alpha guys that understands her love is transactional, they will pay her tickets, trips etc. To anywhere because they know it is a transaction. In her mind at that age she is catching feeling and thinking they are making her feel special. They will eventually get the only thing she can offer them ( pvssy). They will use her then stylishly push her back to the road. And this will continue for her on a long run because she will keep changing and branching from one man to another. Instead of her to work on her life and financial freedom. She will keep getting used up and down.

After all that alpha experience from age 18-25 with different men do you think a pretty lady can really love you. She will just use you as a retirement plan. You will take her at the end of her peak years with lot of emotional truama and baggages from the old relationship. You will be her Adam after several time spent with the serpent.

Wish the OP luck in finding love from an Old experienced pretty lady.

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.