toujurs:
A female friend of mine, just called me and was crying bitterly, Screaming "all men are scum" into my ears like siren.

I had to caution her, if she was okay , if she wasn't aware am a man as well.

She said her lover of over 4 years, dumped her for a 23 years old, and this my female friend is about clocking 30 this September.

She has been expecting a ring, but what she got was a hot breakfast, she never expected. She is heart broken and depressed.

I don't understand why the guy couldn't just tell her he wasn't interested anymore earlier, than leading her this long till 30.

She has been behaving weird since morning, like someone possessed.

Please what can I do, or where can I take her to. So she can forget this emotional and mental depression?

And for the guys, why do you do this to good women, if she was a dumb lazy gold digger, I won't have even been bothered, but this lady has been kind, has a good career and she is calm.

toujurs:

I don't understand why the guy couldn't just tell her he wasn't interested anymore earlier, than leading her this long till 30.

layzie:


Just date her, u re a man. Y asking people dat don't know her, u do. Date her.

Jennyclay:
I don’t know why you men are so heartless and wicked . You men already know you won’t marry her yet you kept on wasting her time. And if she was seeing someone else, the guy would have called her all such of derogatory names.

Well, reason I don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I’m wiser now!!

Creamypie:
no mind the complete simp

toujurs:

I don't understand why the guy couldn't just tell her he wasn't interested anymore earlier, than leading her this long till 30.

Jennyclay:
I don’t know why you men are so heartless and wicked . You men already know you won’t marry her yet you kept on wasting her time. And if she was seeing someone else, the guy would have called her all such of derogatory names.

Well, reason I don’t put all my eggs in one basket. I’m wiser now!!

Fahvvy:
I see someone up there asking why the guy couldn't tell her he wasn't interested rather than lead her on ...

Well...
First of...
It is not certain who was leading who on ...

How are we sure that the girl wasn't the one leading him on until it was too late for her? ...

Who knows, the guy may have been her plan B & unfortunately for her, both plan A and B failed ..

Secondly...
We all have got to come to the acceptance that not all relationships will end in marriage ...

So whether or not marriage was promised or you've dated for years, it's no guarantee that, that relationship will end in marriage ...

Accept this reality and move on!

Thirdly...
How are we sure that it wasn't something that the girl that made the guy back off? ...

I mean, do you expect a guy to see a glaring red flag and still jump inside? ...

So before we crucify the guy, let's think first

.

And lemme address the ladies...
Understand that, All girls are date-able, but not all girls are marriageable ...

This is a reality you have to come to terms with ...

Men know EXACTLY what they want in a WIFE and if you're not it, THEY WILL DUMP YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE ...

So just because your boyfriend is putting up with your excesses and not complaining doesn't mean he is okay with it ...

He will most likely be silent, but he has already taken a decision that he'll never wife you up ...

So before you "give him small drama", understand that, that "small drama" could be the very reason why he'll dump you for someone else ..

Nyascobar1414:
If you understand the nature of women, you will never love a woman!

folake4u:

Then love your fellow man!

Persephone1:
I need to investigate if there is a secret reward for the best fiction writer from Seun...
The tales I read on Nl these days ehn. All that creativity can not be for NOTHING

SyrusdeHansome:
Many times when we lose something we value i bliv God is simply trying to seperate us frm it because he wants our attention. He wants to give us what he knws will be good 4 us. Tell that ur frnd that she's abt to meet the right guy 4 her. She may not even appreciate him at first but if she can look beyond the outward appearance of the guy she will smile in the end. I'm not a religious person. Everything i wrote is frm observation.

toujurs:
Thank you for your opinion.

toujurs:
what's your point, that am lying? Kindly walk out of this thread.

Your bitterness. Is the reason, you have nothing, working in your life, No relationship. not even a career

Why are you hyperventilating? Does the shoe fit?


Lol, again you mistake me for your sisters