silibaba:


crying more than the bereaved.

divorce and then go through the back door and marry him.

I no trust women these days again

I am not gay

Amberon11:
What kind of apartment is 80k is it a self contained apartment?

Yes. Why do you ask?

Kaykay41:
hope your sister is not the one pushing the perceived beast to the wall.

I thought so until i witnessed it

josite:





if u want it fastest,file for divorce is sagamu high court.lagos courts are congested.but it is not cheap.

Thanks boss

you wont find out what the problem is you are already calling him a beast and talking about divorce.

pls dont try to spoil her marriage, the only way you can help her is by praying that God should change the husband. mbok.

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

every damn thing you guys rush to Nairaland to post. look at this over grown adult too. because you witnessed something once you want to display your stupidity online. are you the one to get a divorce for your sister? every relationship has its problems, the fact that you witnessed one doesn't mean you should start typing rubbish online who knows what your sister might have done too? all these one sided stories.

RisenPhoenix:


Who told you there was battery? Don't make hasty assumptions.

@op. There's no way to divorce in one morning. And stop overhyping their differences. Just advice her to involve some cooler headed party from the elders in the family to mediate. If there is any form of assault, tell your parents to get her to come and stay with them for a while. If she's taking that option, she should be cautious where she stays during this period; otherwise the husband can claim in court that she abandoned him to live with another man.

even if the husband claim she is cohabiting with another man, the woman wil still get her request to divorce, is easier for a woman to divorce a man in Nigeria than man divorcing his wife, once the woman is no more interested the marriage is over, expecially if the relationship is about threats to life

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

I know a couple like that, it might even be your sister and her husband.
The marriage is an arranged one and the lady married the guy because of his father's wealth because she is aware of the guy's behaviour before they got married, and the lady also has her own fault/shortcomings...

My intuition is telling me, they are the one.

walex2:
even if the husband claim she is cohabiting with another man, the woman wil still get her request to divorce, is easier for a woman to divorce a man in Nigeria than man divorcing his wife, once the woman is no more interested the marriage is over, expecially if the relationship is about threats to life

Yes she will still get the divorce, but the child custody issues become unclear in that case.

Address the specific issues of violence by calling the police on her behalf and informing other authorities that deal with gender based violence.

As for the marraige it is highly unwise to get involved in its termination since in all probability you were not instrumental in its formation. Third party involvement in marraiges never, ever ends well.

Leave it at the specifics of the violence you witness. Donot take life decisions for adults.

Issorite

-You are not in the best position to act now as claimed.
-Was the so called 'beast' been acting that way abnitio?
-Inform his parents/elders and your parents/elders fast.
-Don't be the third party. You might regret it later when your sister settles with him or got divorced as you advised her.
- finally pray for Almighty God direction

healthserve:


The best treatment and prevention for coronavorus is ethanol Fashola was right
Either by using strong alcohol to wash the hands, or the guy tract by ingesting and hanging it before swallowing or spilling, or by outright consumption, Ethanol is the best treatment for Coronavirus.
I don't have time to make careful and prudent explanation, but if are around anyone with it or that wants to prevent it, let them get alcohol, please not above 35% alcohol base.
As long as it is Unflavored alcohol. It can work effectively for prevention and treatment. The virus can't withstand the chemical strength of ethanol, hence alcohol is it's most potent enemy
Please share this information

This is not true! Totally FALSE. It will kill you faster than the virus will. Do not swallow Ethanol as a protective or curative method.

People have DIED from this.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2020/03/10/44-dead-iran-drinking-toxic-alcohol-fake-coronavirus-cure/5009761002/

XX01:


This is not true! Totally FALSE. It will kill you faster than the virus will. Do not swallow Ethanol as a protective or curative method.

People have DIED from this.
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2020/03/10/44-dead-iran-drinking-toxic-alcohol-fake-coronavirus-cure/5009761002/

Trust me. I'm not ring on this. Perhaps you don't know ethanol is antiseptic. And antiseptic is ethanol

Born2conquer:

Ladies should avoid guys like this.

Na them

not a nice thing when someone calls you out on your attention-craving scheme.

You turned into a low, shifty blackmailer thereafter.

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

j

Get a lawyer
If you are in Lagos contact me via dm

Tell ur sister to just pack and go to prevent death by assault.

Born2conquer:

She wants to

You think she wants to now, but trust me, that is subject to change. Rather than rush to divorce, remove her from that toxic environment, support her and try to work this out with therapy and patience.

Is 5.5%alcohol ok? Can i drink Smirn off ice?

healthserve:




You don't need her to file for divorce before you save her life. Find a cheap mini flat far from him and when he's away, move her things. Divorce can come in later but first secure her safety



The best treatment and prevention for coronavorus is ethanol Fashola was right


Either by using strong alcohol to wash the hands, or the guy tract by ingesting and hanging it before swallowing or spilling, or by outright consumption, Ethanol is the best treatment for Coronavirus.


I don't have time to make careful and prudent explanation, but if are around anyone with it or that wants to prevent it, let them get alcohol, please not above 35% alcohol base.


As long as it is Unflavored alcohol. It can work effectively for prevention and treatment. The virus can't withstand the chemical strength of ethanol, hence alcohol is it's most potent enemy




Please share this information

Please report him to the nearest human right office in your area

To avoid him killing your sister, I think the first step is for your sister to move out of the house then she can start the process of legal action as advised above

spongeisback:
Ok let's all agree he has money, does that give him the right to beat her?

So because OP has eaten his money that means he should stand by and do nothing will his sister is being brutalized?

I don't know how most of you think no wonder you money worshipping grubbers see nothing wrong with this

The point the dude is trying to raise is, if the sister has not been too money cautious, he would have seen the kind of man she is marrying to and abort.

But maybe she was too blind from the goody goody, and fail to see the signs.

Am just explaining what the guy said buy money man

DenreleDave:


Exactly, the sister follow money marry man and now she I suffering... The useless brother that has eaten from the money too now Wana run away... Op, u can't eat ur cake and have it...

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Is not her fault. I'm Nigeria 90% follow money especially de Igbo gals. Family pressure

jojogirlx:
Is 5.5%alcohol ok? Can i drink Smirn off ice?

too low. consistent consumption I.e very to days as preventive mesure

Na wetin cos quarrel and abuse....... Something's wrong....tell her to seek GOD'S face then before family

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

Is she a minor? If not approach the matter as a concern neighbour.

pack ur load and go! later u institute whatever u wanna institute

Hhansome:
Your phone can type this here but cannot type it on Google I guess?

If her sister can marry but don’t know the processes of getting a divorce then she wasn’t matured enough to settle down.

Born2conquer:
If I don’t act FAST, I might lose my sister

She made a mistake marrying this beast and I can’t keep on looking.

Please, what’s the fastest way to institute a divorce in lagos?

I won't be surprised if YOU are the cause of their misunderstanding.

Buh Bros are u married.
I have 3 married sisters n wen ever de have problem with there husband I hardly jump into conclusions.
Women wahala will make a man to start misbehaving. It's better u ask for the Genesis of the fued. Dat will help u tackle the problem.
Don't forget if ur sister leaves her husband's house without legal authorization or verdict pass on u will have de bill on your head . Bros might even end up quarreling with bcus of constant damand for money especially if u are not financially stable