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Fisher007:
Hypergamy is the order of the day.

Now let me burst your head. Firstly a woman's love is conditional, provisional and transactional. The more young guys understand this the less heart break they will get.

Now, Older experienced pretty ladies from age 25-35 upwards can never lover you. They have seen it all. They are alpha widows. They have dated guys way far above your level or paygrades. Especially the pretty ones, do you know how men flatter then with gifts , phones , money all in the hope of getting into their panties from an early age ( some as far as age 16 yrs).

For instance alpha guys that understands her love is transactional, they will pay her tickets, trips etc. To anywhere because they know it is a transaction. In her mind at that age she is catching feeling and thinking they are making her feel special. They will eventually get the only thing she can offer them ( pvssy). They will use her then stylishly push her back to the road. And this will continue for her on a long run because she will keep changing and branching from one man to another. Instead of her to work on her life and financial freedom. She will keep getting used up and down.

After all that alpha experience from age 18-25 with different men do you think a pretty lady can really love you. She will just use you as a retirement plan. You will take her at the end of her peak years with lot of emotional truama and baggages from the old relationship. You will be her Adam after several time spent with the serpent.

Wish the OP luck in finding love from an Old experienced pretty lady.

Budline1:
True tho but Good women is different from beautiful women. Most beautiful women aren't so good or nice. They capitalize on their beauties to try to get very rich men. Can't blame them tho..It's the country we live in...
If they are dating you, they are still keeping their options wide open to more well to do suitors.. Yeah, they don't really love from the heart. Their beauty is their gift and their curse.

Kingsteve:
OP, be specific and narrow it down.
Most attractive women in NIGERIA don't love anymore.

In other climes, where there's abundance of attractive women, even paupers with game stand a chance!

Nigeria is dead in everything!
Never expect anything good to come out from the zoo.

...just saying!

Budline1:
True tho but good women is different from beautiful women. Most beautiful women aren't so good or nice. They capitalize on their beauties to try to get very rich men. Can't blame them tho..It's the country we live in...
If they are dating you, they are still keeping their options wide open to more well to do suitors.. Yeah, they don't really love from the heart. Their beauty is their gift and their curse.

franchasng:
My brother its not about Nigeria, it is the same all over the world.


Beautiful white girls are the worst gold diggers!! Young, pretty Caucasian girls can only date their mate (of course from well to do family), and mostly their school mates......but once they turn 25yrs, they discover the worth of their beauty and you see them running after rich guys driving Ferrari, Bentley, and mostly sportsmen, athletes, entertainment stars, high paid medical doctors, etc.


So don't make it a Nigerian thing.....all over the world, majority of beautiful ladies use their beauty to get away and win favor from men, its how the world is wired.....if you want to stop bothering about this and start enjoying it as a guy, just work and pray to have money and you will love this cycle

Fisher007:
Hmm Alpha don't pay for sex directly, but they please women financial. Now i mean expensive date, trips and shopping. They take ladies out on treats and make them feel special to the extent the ladies become delusional. They mess with ladies emotion and play the game well. Except the alpha you are talking about his broke or a Bleep guy.

I have noticed most people confuse alpha males for fvck boys. A true Alpha is an alpha in most areas of life. Financially, mentally, business wise and successful. Spending money to make a lady few right and happy ain't a problem to him.

But if the Alpha you are talking is a broke one or stingy one. Oga he is a broke guy or fvck boy simple.

Arthur21:
I have never associated alpha to being a broke low life,I share michellekabod2 definition of alpha. When I said pay for sex,I mean go an extra mile to get kitten like buying phones,paying rents...no! Alphas have girls queueing up for them to get laid so sex is easy to get for them.

franchasng:
My brother its not about Nigeria, it is the same all over the world.


Beautiful white girls are the worst gold diggers!! Young, pretty Caucasian girls can only date their mate (of course from well to do family), and mostly their school mates......but once they turn 25yrs, they discover the worth of their beauty and you see them running after rich guys driving Ferrari, Bentley, and mostly sportsmen, athletes, entertainment stars, high paid medical doctors, etc.


So don't make it a Nigerian thing.....all over the world, majority of beautiful ladies use their beauty to get away and win favor from men, its how the world is wired.....if you want to stop bothering about this and start enjoying it as a guy, just work and pray to have money and you will love this cycle

franchasng:
hehe



Attractive ladies love but if and only if you are financially buoyant.....attractive ladies don't usually care about a man's handsome look because its useless to them....you know women love attention and hate competition, so attractive ladies love all the attention to be on them and them alone, and for this, naturally without knowing, they are naturally not attracted to handsome guys or men.......they are mostly pissed off or turned off by a handsome looking guy.....what usually turns them on in a man is his ability to provide all or most of their fantasy needs, care for them, pamper them and help them get all the attention they crave for from both male and fellow women.


So if you are struggling financially or haven't made it big enough, you will find it difficult to get a mature attractive lady to fall truly in *romantic love* for you.....the younger ones with less heartbreaks can fall deeply in love for you regardless of your financial standing, but the ones above 22yrs and mostly above 25yrs are more keen to falling in love with mature men who are financially well to do and are able to give them their fantasy life desires, if not, they will just be there for being there.

My wife is more than a beautiful woman, in fact, she be mami iwota and yet she is head over heels in love with me that I fear if I fuckup like the devil in me keep pushing me to, na suicide oh , and me no even trust myself not to fuckup, kai this life, e no easy for men walai


But generally, ladies stop loving after like 3 heartbreaks or failed relationships, which happens mostly from age 25yrs and above, and most of them now marry for marrying sake....while very few religious and good hearted ones try to love their horseband small for humanity sake.....but in general, sexually active pretty or ugly or average-looking ladies stop loving after like 3 - 5 heartbreaks and failed relationships......some keep loving, but very few of them do.


Cc: Budline1

eduman365:
WRONG! You haven't found love yet...

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.

imustsaymymindo:
Lol. Not in Northern Nigerian though. There are a handful of broke men there with more than one attractive wife.

imustsaymymindo:
Lol. Not in Northern Nigerian though. There are a handful of broke men there with more than one attractive wife.

ibkayee:
Most don’t even have an opportunity at formal education, they’re limited by their system in probably every way possible except being impregnated

Lightangel65:
Do you think those wives love their old disgusting husband's or were forced into marriage

Jim99:
Only broke or ugly women/men love unconditionally

imustsaymymindo:
Well, I don't know.

But the reality is that those disgusting husbands get more loyalty, commitment, respect, sex from their younger attractive wives with or without love than what many of the love-struck southern couple can get.

Makes me wonder what love truly is.

Budline1:
Well, I feel the reason why beautiful women don't love genuinely isn't because of heartbreak from their first love. I feel it is just PRIDE. This feeling of "I can get whoever I want", "I'm too hot for this guy", "I'm too beautiful". Common in this part of the world tho, naija.

You ever wonder why most beautiful Nollywood actresses are divorced or single?
Genevieve, Linda Esoro, Osas Ajibade and more.. Most of them basically feel that they are too beautiful for the men they married, they always want to get better. Those that married billionaire husbands don't really divorce tho...

Summary: Beautiful women want to be bought by very rich men, hence the pride.
Yeah, they don't really love from the heart. Their beauty is their gift and their curse.

Acidosis:
Not necessarily pride. There's something attention (from many guys) does to the female body. It makes you unserious. Whether as a result of beauty or something else, too much of attention can disrupt one's life.

A girl that receives, on the average, around 10 phone calls per day from different guys (not business calls) can never love genuinely. A single mistake from you, and she's off to the next guy in line. That's how it works.

Same thing applies to business. That's how the average business person behaves when buyers seem to be more than available product. Try and observe the behaviour of the average fuel attendant during a fuel crisis (scarcity).

Budline1:
Yeeah. True. You are right. What you said reminds me of what happened some few days ago while I was at a pool side. A very pretty girl walks in and everything suddenly changed, she swims and all the attention was on her, every guys in the pool were so agile to play with her while she swims.. While I watch... She was really charming and friendly with everyone tho. She got everyone's attention to the extent that guys were collecting her phone number while she's in the pool, some boys already bought drinks on her table, some walked her out after she's done swimming and ready to go home. Can you believe some other guys had to still go pick her up by the gate with their car. I actually wanted to talk to her as well but I couldn't even make a move because a lot of boys already gave her a lot of attention and I couldn't even get a chance to talk to her.

What is expected of that kind of girl? It'll be so hard for her to love anyone because she gets a lot of attention all the time. She sure can't date all the guys that come to her, she'll only choose the best for her and shun the rest, while keeping her options open again because a better guy could still come..

Lol,they bolded got me..

You never see most radical feminists looking fresh and attractive. Nkechi bianze(a blob) and Solomon buchi(a dwarf mangina who wears three t-shirts , a fedora hat and eat his parents food at 24).