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Primenet:
They should stay for a period and go not staying permanently. Whether my mother or mother-in-law.

Because you can never satisfy them.

In-law wahala

Maybe she is teaching your wife how to cook better.

Maybe you should better relocate to another state cos if not handled well will cause rancour between you and your wife.

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FrLukas:
Maybe she is teaching your wife how to cook better.

Maybe you should better relocate to another state cos if not handled well will cause rancour between you and your wife.

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I am speechless

See her like ur mummy..tomorrow ur mummy might b in her shoe

Primenet:
They should stay for a period and go not staying permanently. Whether my mother or mother-in-law.

Because you can never satisfy them.

That's it you can never, I mean you can NEVER satisfy them.

She is probably scared to sleep alone in her apartment at night. If you don't like it and can't address it like an adult, start everyday vigil for the next 2 months.

nautybride:
She is probably scared to sleep alone in her apartment at night. If you don't like it and can't address it like an adult, start everyday vigil for the next 2 months.

Ahh! Everyday vigil??

Primenet:
Ahh! Everyday vigil??

Yes now, and you wake her up to join. When you do that for 1 week, she won't sleep at your house everyday again. when she joins again, start your vigil.

nautybride:
Yes now, and you wake her up to join. When you do that for 1 week, she won't sleep at your house everyday again. when she joins again, start your vigil.

You make me laugh...
It's well

She is old and lonely. Pls accommodate her it is just for some time. You will not understand the difference between when you have kids in your younger days and when everyone has vanished ( through marriage or career) and now you are older and need your childrens' support but they'll tell you they are married, they need privacy. The burden will be too much if the woman is widowed.

frozen70:
Pls don't be offended

What's wrong with your mother inlaw passing night with you guys

Is it that you hate her or you don't want to see her sleeping in your home

That woman, no matter how bad she is, is capable of saving your marriage or putting your marriage in a scale of spoiling it depends on your relationship with her

If you have children, let her watch over them while you go to work

Assuming you are at her age and your daughter inlaw is acting the same way with you, would you be happy about it

Have you ever imagined, how loneliness makes her to look for a home to be warm with and her son's home remains her home forever

Assuming she sleeps on your husband bed of which she won't do it, it's a different thing

Pls change your mind set towards her and give her a warm embrace in your home

Accommodate her and utilise her

If you claim you love your husband, love her too and you will appreciate her and be happy

lol, na the man dey complain o, the wife's mother is the one staying the night. Hope the advice will be same

Ryan03:
lol, na the man dey complain o, the wife's mother is the one staying the night. Hope the advice will be same

Honestly there was no need for his complain

The entire family should rather make use of her presence

Watching over the children is a lot of job

They should engage her

frozen70:
Honestly there was no need for his complain

The entire family should rather make use of her presence

Watching over the children is a lot of job

They should engage her

truth is, not everyone is comfortable with such, I am not comfortable with people just showing up in my place without prior info or telling me your departure date. Well, life is funny, I might find myself in this situation tomorrow and will have to compromise. I won't be happy tho

Ryan03:
truth is, not everyone is comfortable with such, I am not comfortable with people just showing up in my place without prior info or telling me your departure date. Well, life is funny, I might find myself in this situation tomorrow and will have to compromise. I won't be happy tho

Assuming the man is working and the wife ya working too

His mother in law can look after the maid and children until they are back

She can comfortably carry a new born with ease

Though if she chose to be lazy, no one will appreciate her presence

frozen70:
Assuming the man is working and the wife ya working too

His mother in law can look after the maid and children until they are back

She can comfortably carry a new born with ease

Though if she chose to be lazy, no one will appreciate her presence

It's well... thanks for your advice