VirginSearcher:
Hi Everyone,

Hope you doing great?

If y'all remembered I opened a thread recently asking for a virgin girl to marry... had few contacts with one seemingly serious but it seems am going ahead with the decision of marrying the 18 yrs old virgin girl. Note: There are girls/friends asking me to come and marry them but the problem is that they are not virgins as they told me. And with the level of promiscuity in Nigeria and being scared of what many girls do in their relationship life I'm not comfortable moving towards that direction as I believe I may never love a non-virgin girl. So, I have decided to marry the girl and train her character wise and also in school to study a professional course I want after paying her bride price (have a reason for this). She wrote Jamb this year but I'm not interested in her enrolling into Nig school as I have better plans for her before guys that specialize in devouring Jambites notice her.
Please guys is a marriage of 14yrs age difference bad? That's my only concern but I love her and she is so innocent, beautiful and well shaped with a matured body.. Please advice am I making the right decision?

Thanks VirginSearcher!

*Mods* Lalasticlala, seun, dominique, mynd44 This is a life decision make una help me abeg

pfadom:
[s]O boy! Are you a virgin yourself?

Please park well. Stop this strategy of reaping from where you did not sow[/s].

ikh777:


14years?
Oga ooo

anyway, we do not have a say in this matter, different cultures and religious beliefs shape nigeria, it is up to your people and her people.

JUST DONT DISVIRGIN HER O UNTIL MARRIAGE.... because if you do then you will be the biggest hypocrite ever.

Also, who told you that there are no NAIJA BOYS in the abroad that you are sending her to. Shey u know she will admire boys within her age range and by the time you are old she will still be young enough to marry someone else.

BE WISE o

shortgun:
If you are not ready yet to settle down with her don't pay d dowry yet.
Avoid this girl that is still in school...Girls change immediately they taste freedom in the school environment.....na her course mates go bust her turn her to bore hole b4 she graduate.
Until u r ready to live with her don't marry her yet.

namiji2598:
I must admit sir, I am happy for u for meeting up the requirements, but please and please don't send that girl to study abroad, you will regret it later, don't send her to any far away school, get her admitted to a university or college within your state.


It will save you the time to create another thread of how she cheated and betrayed you


Even if its a poly or FCE, or university just make sure it's in your state, if she mistakenly taste your diick while she study's far away, she will cheat, but if she taste ur seex and she study's very close, she can be staying at home and be going for lectures and can always visit for weekend
One thing with sez is that the moment you taste it,she must always thirst for it

crackkhaus:
The only issue I have here is the part about you sponsoring her education... and to make it worse, you're even considering a school in another country.

I'm sorry to say this, but she hasn't proven that she is capable of self-control and discipline yet.
Going through fire is the surest test for gold.

While getting married to a virgin is something to be proud of, it has to be with one who has been through some experiences and still kept herself.
If she has gone through a university, is at least 25, is already doing something to earn a living, but remained a virgin through all of it, then she is worthy.

For now, any investment you make on this 18year old will be like sowing in the wind - it's either you will reap whirlwinds or do your reaping under a thick cloud.
None of those are good, even though the latter seems like a win.


My advise to you is this...
As much as you think they will be hard to find, I suggest you look for women who are over a certain age but still virgins...this is what I personally rate as good character and good discipline.
And yes, there are ladies like that.

I couldn't believe my luck when I befriended a 30year old virgin a few years back - beautiful working class chic, it was unbelievable. We ended up just as friends though because I could not bring myself to ravaging her even though she had offered herself up to me on a platter.

Be wise bro.
An 18yo is too young, too unstable, and too unpredictable to be the virgin you think you need.

VirginSearcher:

What kind of scary advice is this? bros no vex wetin be your final submission pls

My advise to you is this...
As much as you think they will be hard to find, I suggest you look for women who are over a certain age but still virgins...this is what I personally rate as good character and good discipline.
And yes, there are ladies like that.

Be wise bro.
An 18yo is too young, too unstable, and too unpredictable to be the virgin you think you need.

crackkhaus:



The only alternative condition which should make you go ahead, is whether you'll be able to keep a close eye on her and monitor her effectively..

VirginSearcher:

Okay, I intend to marry her then move her to come join me months later if I cross, how's that?

crackkhaus:

Do what you want bro.

I have done well to talk about the pros and cons of your decision.
The buck stops with you at the end of the day.

VirginSearcher:

Bros, your advice is wise/true but at the same time very scary

Mstick:
It will end in tears. So after you take her virginity what next?

crackkhaus:

Nothing scary about it, unles your intention is to rush into a marriage with this girl.

pfadom:
O boy! Are you a virgin yourself?

Please park well. Stop this strategy of reaping from where you did not sow.

proclinician:
14 years is too much and a jambite has not received the dose of attention that will put her will power and resolve into a test to which the priceless will say no and stand down but the wh0re, your guess is as good as mine. There's no guarantee this jambite will not lose it after her first year in any unit. She is immature and unexposed. If you search deeper in some churches or mission owned nursings of nursing you will. As for this one i do not support.

VirginSearcher:

No, not now at least before the year runs out from ember month period

RisenPhoenix:
There's no 'bad' age difference. It is a faux construct of society based on the hollywood, nollywood and bollywood narrative that marriage should come after a whirlwind romantic love affair; which of course can only be engaged in by immature youth; hence the picture of young man and young girl in 'love' being 'compatible' for each other. But you have to be strong and responsible from the beginning.

Please don't let anyone discourage you. After 3 children, both of you will start to look like age mates. Women always age faster.

Meeyankee:

Why are you so pain? Leave the guy alone Everyman with his choice .