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frozen70:
The guy in question is not ready for marriage in the next five years

These are my reasons

He rented am apartment that harbours every members of his family, he can't force them out and he can't afford to go get a private one for his personal accommodation

His siblings are benefiting from his charity and they are staying with him to get the balance they need to stand

You will have to live in that same house with him if he should marry you and it means you will have to be unhappy with it where as he sees nothing wrong with it

He engaged you because he knows that you guys have been dating for four years now and you are looking forward to his engagement, but bear in mind that he can't move a step beyond that because he doesn't have the ability to start a family when his siblings are yet to get there ground

He doesn't even have the money for the marriage and he wants you to keep marking time the way he is marking time and as you do that with him, you are on your own

As you keep living with them, your money, energy, sacrifice are going into the family yet no reward for it

My advice, prepare your mind to quit the relationship as that's the only way to move on with your future

Meet him, remove the ring and give it to him, tell him you have tried so far waiting for him to seal the relationship but from the look of things, he is not prepared and you have to move on

If he pleads with you to bear with him, tell him you will bear with him but the ring have to be removed from your finger so that your hand will be free

If he says he is ready, tell him to give you time, but make sure you give him the ring back to his palm and don't receive it back

Before you do this, be prepared emotionally so that you don't have a heart break

dominique:
The biggest mistake you'll make is marrying someone so attached to his family. Someone who his siblings are completely dependent on. Even if he moves to a one bedroom apartment, they will still come to him. The women that married such men are counting their regrets and wishes they never married such person. Don't add yourself to the numbers.

remele2:
Na ur type dey pursue family pple comot....

Those same pple wen u want out, na same pple
Wen go ginger dem brother to make sure say he marry you.

Do that mistake of telling him u dnt want the younger once around and see how he will collect that ring.

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

HelloHolla:
Thanks everyone
My family's not aware of the living arrangement, I never told them cause I know they wouldn't support the union if they knew
I'm a graduate, I'm working and equally run a business, to everyone saying I want him to throw his family out, I don't know but how do you want me to be comfortable living with 34-40yr Olds? And they don't seem to be bothered about having a bearing in life, sorry but that's the highest height of irresponsibility, sometimes, he doesn't have money and I have to support him financially and shouldering his family's responsibility, I find that very awkward, I can take care of someone younger but definitely not a full blown adult.

Chidonc:
No brother, let the siblings start taking care of themselves. Things are hard but we also need to give each other space to grow.

Nooil:
Hope you know the baby is likely a month old? The seed has already taken root. If you want to advice, just be plain with it.

Qadaffi2idiamin:
This man loves what's happening...

I don't think her fears Is the large presence she sees... I think its desperation he finds herself..

Ibrahiimo:
Wetin my EYES no go see

Wetin my EAR no go hear

And a HUMAN being will MARRY this one

Wonders Shall Never End!!!

HelloHolla:
Thank you for the contribution, I accepted his ring because I thought he was going to "change" and perhaps, start living on his own, obviously, he doesn't look like he's moving anywhere, he has chased off other eligible suitors off me.

HelloHolla:
Thanks everyone
My family's not aware of the living arrangement, I never told them cause I know they wouldn't support the union if they knew
I'm a graduate, I'm working and equally run a business, to everyone saying I want him to throw his family out, I don't know but how do you want me to be comfortable living with 34-40yr Olds? And they don't seem to be bothered about having a bearing in life, sorry but that's the highest height of irresponsibility, sometimes, he doesn't have money and I have to support him financially and shouldering his family's responsibility, I find that very awkward, I can take care of someone younger but definitely not a full blown adult.

NextD18:
Give him money to rent another apartment if you can't cope with him and his family in the same building.

Or better still, give him money for wedding expenses if you can't wait or exercise some patients till he's ready for wedding!

You are 24!
-Do you work?
-Are you a student?
-Are you learning any skill?
-Do you have any meaningful thing to boast of?

Who and what are you exactly to the society and what exactly are you impacting in his life to warrant such thoughts of pressurizing him into sending his families out and marrying you as soon as possible!!

Smh! Keep fvckin him with reckless abandon, until you get pregnant, then will you understand the gravity of your fvckery!!

No use your head now wey you young!
Kpata kpata you'll turn to a single mother and a feminist wannabe, nothing go still change! Men go still dey ball higher!
Ask single mothers and feminist wannabes how they ended up and if anything changed in their lives after ranting and hating on men.

PrimadonnaO:
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̷̷P̷̷e̷̷r̷̷h̷̷a̷̷p̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷k̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷n̷̷s̷̷e̷̷s̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷P̷̷e̷̷r̷̷h̷̷a̷̷p̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷t̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷a̷̷l̷̷i̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷l̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷w̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷l̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷s̷̷h̷̷i̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷S̷̷A̷̷P̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷4̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷l̷̷r̷̷e̷̷a̷̷d̷̷y̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷2̷̷4̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷e̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷n̷̷g̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷'̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷f̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷l̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷w̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷.̷̷.̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷w̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷l̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷s̷̷h̷̷i̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷e̷̷s̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷k̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷u̷̷t̷̷?̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷'̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷2̷̷6̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷O̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷o̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷o̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷o̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷e̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷y̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷l̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷2̷̷7̷̷!̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷h̷̷e̷̷e̷̷s̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷T̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷e̷̷o̷̷p̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷3̷̷0̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷m̷̷s̷̷e̷̷l̷̷v̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷t̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷e̷̷a̷̷r̷̷c̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷B̷̷e̷̷t̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷r̷̷o̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷r̷̷e̷̷l̷̷a̷̷t̷̷i̷̷o̷̷n̷̷s̷̷h̷̷i̷̷p̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷e̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷s̷̷e̷̷r̷̷v̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷i̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷.̷̷
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̷̷I̷̷'̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷a̷̷y̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷r̷̷e̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷e̷̷g̷̷n̷̷a̷̷n̷̷t̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷j̷̷u̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷f̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷H̷̷a̷̷h̷̷a̷̷h̷̷a̷̷h̷̷a̷̷h̷̷a̷̷h̷̷a̷̷.̷

FanOfMyself:
You're a murderer!!! God will judge you!!!

UyaiIncomparabl:
I hope she learns this sooner than later. Sadly, most of them never learn. Love is blind, they say.

nuele:
Na survival strategy o lol.

I think the guy and the lady need to agree on a plan. He has to settle matter. He can even rent them another place.

But he shouldn't dispose them off to nowhere.

HelloHolla:
Good evening everyone, I've been a guest for quite a while, created an account cause I need advice from the audience.

How long should an engagement ring be worn for? I've been engaged since last year May (dated for 4yrs), my Fiance hasn't talked about proceeding to do introduction or marriage, it's like he just proposed to me because he felt like.

This man has refused to be on his own, his Grandma and 5 siblings (younger and older) live with him and he takes responsibility for them all, two of his siblings living with him also have their partners living with them. It's only a 3 bedroom flat. I feel like quitting the whole thing cause I don't feel comfortable going to his house. When I do, he wants me to cook for everyone which gets me strained.

With the look of things, he has no plans of moving out for them cause he rented the apartment, neither do they have intentions of moving out on their own, it's more like a family house. My period is two days late and I'm scared to the marrow.

Please advice me on what to do cause I can't live with him if they're still there after marriage, he's not even talking about marriage, I've not asked him yet so as not to sound desperate but why propose if you don't have plans of doing the next thing after a max of 6 months?

He's 31 and I'm 24

Thanks.

Stacyomolola:
̷N̷̷e̷̷x̷̷t̷̷D̷̷1̷̷8̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷l̷̷e̷̷a̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷u̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷i̷̷m̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷u̷̷p̷̷p̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷e̷̷l̷̷l̷̷o̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷p̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷r̷̷a̷̷s̷̷h̷̷,̷̷
̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷f̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷u̷̷r̷̷p̷̷o̷̷s̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷i̷̷f̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷r̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷u̷̷n̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷.̷̷
̷̷S̷̷h̷̷e̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷b̷̷e̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷o̷̷o̷̷k̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷s̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷c̷̷h̷̷i̷̷n̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷e̷̷n̷̷e̷̷r̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷h̷̷e̷̷l̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷x̷̷t̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷e̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷a̷̷m̷̷i̷̷l̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷k̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷t̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷s̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷'̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷o̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷v̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷p̷̷r̷̷o̷̷p̷̷o̷̷s̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷i̷̷a̷̷g̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷c̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷a̷̷n̷̷n̷̷a̷̷b̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷e̷̷m̷̷i̷̷n̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷.̷̷
̷̷M̷̷a̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷s̷̷t̷̷e̷̷r̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷e̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷n̷̷e̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷A̷̷M̷̷E̷̷N̷̷.̷̷
̷̷S̷̷u̷̷c̷̷h̷̷ ̷̷d̷̷e̷̷t̷̷r̷̷i̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷a̷̷l̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷t̷̷u̷̷n̷̷a̷̷t̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷u̷̷n̷̷r̷̷e̷̷a̷̷s̷̷o̷̷n̷̷a̷̷b̷̷l̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷m̷̷e̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷a̷̷d̷

Chidonc:
No brother, let the siblings start taking care of themselves. Things are hard but we also need to give each other space to grow.

Amanee:
When he's supposed to tell you exactly when the wedding is taking place as he's giving you the ring...


Some girls una too mumu

For your mind now you're engaged. You better go on your knees and pray to whatever you believe in that you're not pregnant so you can easily throw away that chain and walk away.

HelloHolla:
Thank you for the contribution, I accepted his ring because I thought he was going to "change" and perhaps, start living on his own, obviously, he doesn't look like he's moving anywhere, he has chased off other eligible suitors off me.

crackkhaus:
Women 100x better than you obviously.

Kill yourself...

HelloHolla:
Thank you ma.

SweetCunt97:
You men should tell yourselves the truth! You engage a lady but yet show no serious sign of settling down and u call her desperate?

UyaiIncomparabl:
How's she too desperate? You think every lady out there wants to turn to an evening newspaper before they finally settle down?

Do you even know if she has her goals and ambitions set out and achieving them already? I see no reason why a girl shouldn't settle down at that age as long as she brings something beneficial to the table.

And yes, she should act desperate because her future is on the line. The decision she takes right now is liable to make or mar her. Many 24 year olds and even younger are getting married. If you like, wait till 38 before you settle down, na your own be that.

dominique:
̷Y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷l̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷a̷̷v̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷a̷̷k̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷o̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷e̷̷l̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷o̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷a̷̷w̷̷ ̷̷t̷̷h̷̷a̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷v̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷a̷̷n̷̷g̷̷e̷̷m̷̷e̷̷n̷̷t̷̷.̷̷ ̷̷D̷̷o̷̷n̷̷'̷̷t̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷o̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷,̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷i̷̷l̷̷l̷̷ ̷̷m̷̷a̷̷r̷̷r̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷y̷̷o̷̷u̷̷ ̷̷o̷̷f̷̷f̷̷i̷̷c̷̷i̷̷a̷̷l̷̷l̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷w̷̷h̷̷e̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷e̷̷e̷̷l̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷e̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷e̷̷e̷̷d̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷ ̷̷l̷̷i̷̷v̷̷e̷̷-̷̷i̷̷n̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷o̷̷u̷̷s̷̷e̷̷h̷̷e̷̷l̷̷p̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷s̷̷i̷̷b̷̷l̷̷i̷̷n̷̷g̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷ ̷̷n̷̷a̷̷n̷̷n̷̷y̷̷ ̷̷f̷̷o̷̷r̷̷ ̷̷h̷̷i̷̷s̷̷ ̷̷g̷̷r̷̷a̷̷n̷̷d̷̷m̷̷a̷̷.̷

SweetCunt97:
You must think the guy Issa Dangote son ba? Do u know if he's struggling

NextD18:
Give him money to rent another apartment if you can't cope with him and his family in the same building.

Or better still, give him money for wedding expenses if you can't wait or exercise some patients till he's ready for wedding!

You are 24!
-Do you work?
-Are you a student?
-Are you learning any skill?
-Do you have any meaningful thing to boast of?

Who and what are you exactly to the society and what exactly are you impacting in his life to warrant such thoughts of pressurizing him into sending his families out and marrying you as soon as possible!!

Smh! Keep fvckin him with reckless abandon, until you get pregnant, then will you understand the gravity of your fvckery!!

No use your head now wey you young!
Kpata kpata you'll turn to a single mother and a feminist wannabe, nothing go still change! Men go still dey ball higher!
Ask single mothers and feminist wannabes how they ended up and if anything changed in their lives after ranting and hating on men.