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Ginaz:
What a long post . Dear kindly move on as you are causing more damages with all you wrote up there. There are things you shouldn’t have said like “getting abortion “ losing “virginity “ and the rest . Were they really necessary?

The fact is , nobody cares and most wont read the lengthy write up and some have completely forgotten about the matter till you brought it up again yesterday. I think majority would have gone back to read the initial post to have a better understanding where you are coming from.

Shadowpearl I remembered I went to check your Instagram account when setobaba first made the post last year .

Take my advice. Forget and move on with your life . Except you want to be called names like “ashewo and slutt “ you can continue even though I don’t know why you should put yourself through all these to get back at him.

This thread resurrected cos of you . .. put an end to this failed attempt at revenge and move on with your life . To be frank, what you wrote up there isn’t comprehensible and understandable at all. My head felt like it was rolling nonstop while reading and getting to understand what you were trying to say.

setobaba:
Oponu see the idiot fucking around she has come to defend herself......slot how many of my friends slept with you ? 3? Or it’s now increase to 5? Ans the question and let others judge you. Fool




Pls I’ve moved pass this slot

Shadowpearl:
If you do not understand the whole thing but atleast you get my point that what prompt me to have pasted such was d lady he cheated on with me she came to his house while I was around and she picked my shoe and left after she picked it, she went ahead and even call my line the following day she picked my shoe and she was threatening me again and she happen to be a herbalist daughter and till today the shoe is nowhere to be found and she Neva stop constituting her nuisance,despite the fact i tried avoiding her i blocked her up severally, and she went ahead and use friends WhatsApp to chat me and monitor me.....I told this so called setobaba but he ignored it
And she begin to fight me spiritually that I had to loose my job,go through a lot of pains loose friends
Which a pastor revealed she went ahead and do some certain things so as pple to develop hatred for
I do not know what this guy has done to her that made her bitter to the extent she's not up to the guy but me.

Ginaz:
Shadowpearl is there a way you could try to solve this issue offline ? Obviously the guy treated you badly and I know you’re speaking from a hurtful place in your heart but however , kindly let go of the matter and pray consistently against the powers of evil and nothing shall happen to you.

I’m so sorry about your ordeal and as a fellow woman I sympathize with you for all you have gone through .

The truth is , you’re better off without clinging to the past . I suggest you should change your SIM card , quit your social media account or best take on a new identity.

Forget about setobaba and all he has done to you . Let whatever that has been done or said stop having a hold of your life . And as for the abortions , his cup will be filled one day for messing up your life but thankfully, mistakes can be corrected.

Kindly let go of the matter dear .

setobaba:
Good evening nairalanders

Pls help me, how is the best way to address this or fight back this useless empty head called my Ex.

It's been months we broked up, and after then she went on fucking two of my course mates, thinking they were my friends as retaliation, because we took pictures together. Her excuse for the break up, was she came to my place and met a lady shoe at the door, so she turned back for leave notifying me of the breakup.

We met recently, about two months ago, then she confessed her terrible acts, and started pleading to make things work back, I told her Immediately, what I shared with her was just a thing, not that serious to call it love, that I hold noting against her, and we started getting in tough with each other.

So fast forward to yesterday, I uploaded a picture on whatsapp, showing myself and a lady, only for this my Ex to download the picture and post it on her Instagram page tagging it RIP.

A friend of mine saw it, and immediately call me if am alright, he was shocked and sent me the screenshot.
I don't have her as friend on my Instagram and Facebook because of the kind of nature of being she is on hearing this, I rushed to view her page, and I noticed she has taken it down because a friend have seen it.

I plan to respond to this, as this is not her first time of wishing me death, she once threatened 2 of my Ex via her social handle.

She used to be a very nice person during my tenure in school, so caring and always feeling insucure despite her beauty. but this her anger issue always get me in check till I lose my total interest on her.

Pls I need matured or better still legal advice to address this. I don't want to drag in the mud with a pig.
This is a lady I have her nude on my phone, sent to me herself many months ago, someone said I should reply her post with her nude, others said i shouldn't but handle this legally.

Shadowpearl:
Apology to all nairalanders if these is not the right place for me to direct the storyline
Olatunde Kenny orire popularly known as settingz (setobaba)
I met this guy 2015,then we started our love life before I gained admission,we started seeing eachother,its time to do the normal thing a lady and a guy has to do then i made him realize am a virgin and am not ready to loose my virgintiy to someone who seems not to be serious with me cus I waited patiently, that I Neva want to get hurt then he begin to do on and off.....I guess he's still seeing the lady he told me about who he claimed the lady was his ex during his ND days at Ib poly
I was given admission then so we see once in a while,alongside during the period I still notice hes still in contact with his ex but I overlooked it....then I see no sign of seriousness in him so we take a break for a while 2017 then this so called my ex came back, was in school premises then from the back someone covered my face and it happened to be my ex den I turn around and see it was him, and we keep in touch together again the only thing I could remember DAT day was him saying I want my girl back and with the fact that I loved him so much I accept him back ,2017 towards Ramadan period my boyfriend invited me to a carnival only for me to see my guy smoking and dancing with d lady my guy always refer to as bestie in school,the carnival passed and 3days after my guy confessed he has been cheating on me with Christiana his course mate and he always lies to me d lady was his bestie that d lady bleeped up he met a guy in the lady room and he should av focused on me if not the fact that am still a virgin and he's not a virgin.
2018 march after I had finished my ND program in school I loose my virginity to my boyfriend and stood by him, with the hope that we won't have any problem,few months later i had an abortion for him and a month after I loose my virginity to him,a lady chatted me up saying she was a friend, she send a picture of someone I do not know,the lady insist she knows me claiming am a friend to her ,then I told her I don't know yoh, I don't have friend who's a copper and not even with the name she mentioned itunu,then I made it clear I don't have a friend who bears itunu....since I know the type of guy am dealing with and with the fact I had no one else but him ,I send d screenshot to him asking my guy I hope this is not one of those folks u sleeping with who has picked my contact on your phone,then we turn it to a joke matter,not until 3days after I was at his place of work then and he notice my post was related to someones post on his list then he called my name and ask me to bring my phone
Then I said to him, shey I told you abt this lady who appear from nowhere claiming to be my
friend and I don't know her...then he explained the whole drama to me saying he once dated the lady friend and since then the lady has been on her neck once her friend traveled to Lagos..and he has been trying to avoid the lady but you know you guys can be so funny,not until he slept with d girl that there's nothing serous BTW both of them

This guy is someone I so much care about that I could go extra miles to make him happy..... my friend warned me then you are doing too much for this guy and showing too much concerns he will take it for granted and spot a weakness,I turn deaf ears but with all that my guy see it as nothing rather he's still cheating on me with his ex Ibrahim adeola barakat,funny part ex of 2014 still appearing and sending my guy recent and beautiful pictures with voicenote on whatsapp till date and my guy kept on saying he has stopped the lady from doing that severally after i have complained bitterly and give him time to make amendment and i see no sign the lady is willing to stop even my guy doesnt take it serious then i make sure i get her contact and message her she should stop sending pictures to my boyfend that she should av d sense of let an ex be ex hes into another relationship that I do not joke with my guy he stop fucking with his course mate Christiana then hes still fucking the other lady afusat temmy agboola, and there's nothing I won't tell my boyfriend
One day a guy walk up to me ,I told my guy abt this but with the way i describe him to my guy he said he know the guy very well ,he happen to be his course mate for him to be sure I have nothing to do with the guy I told him I will pay him a visit one day in school maybe when the guy see both of us he will stay away from but my guy was saying no no no,a week after 23/11/2018 I called him hes not picking up den I had to leave a text telling him am coming to his place that am having a running stomach and the next day happen to be the last Saturday that I don't want anybody to disturb me some minutes later he called and told me hes at one skuchies joint settling some fight btw friends that same night my friend boyfriend was around to pick his girl up then I followed them to jucntion where am supossed to pick bike waited for some minutes I left without seeing his call
Some days after I pay him a visit,then I notice some things,saw a lady hairbrush,weavon and all sort of things.I asked him but I didn't hear a word from my guy later on after we've talked and hes asleep I go through his phone den I later realize that sam day I was calling my guy he took a lady out to one skuchies joint and brot the lady to his house I just read their conversation den all I could see was did you enjoyed your self,I love spending time with you and I even saw the lady naked picture on his phone DAT same day which he send to his friend to confirm he slept with d lady CU's his friend find it difficult to bliv him or so you know guys talks nau,even saw my friend chat with him telling him to delete their chat because that my friend caught him with d lady at d skuchies joint den promising him she won't tell me the secret but he was so foolish that he didn't delete the lady picture on his phone and not even delete the chat not until I saw it and I was so quiet and thinking what on earth can you do to a guy that would made him stop cheating den I realize nothing
CU's I was so loyal to my boyfriend
I never place anyone above my boyfriend
I support him financially with my hard earned money and sweat yet my boyfriend still go around and tell those slut hes fucking with am paying for his love
I support him Spiritually
He Bleep me freely
I aborted for him twice
I pay my bills when the bills come
Because my boyfriend was a cheating type he stop taking pictures with me there's more more to this but I want to fast forward it to what prompt me to have pasted RIP post

When we had issues then 2018 December period
Because I still found out my boyfriend was still cheating on me, he told me he was fighting me because I message his ex he blocked me up from all his social handles few months my friend begin to show me his updates on Facebook and WhatsApp to my surprise all I could see his the lady my boyfriend refer to as his ex they both took picture in his room holding eachother so tight with her hair unkept the lady came all the way from Ibadan but I was telling my friend this guy is now my ex how on earth will a guy say he blocked or fight her girlfriend because of his ex
Then my guy came back last year to apologize for all his wrong doings and want his relationship back as usual ,but only for me to let him know how it feels to be cheated on severally and this guy am talking abt value his ego more than his relationship as he deh so
I caught him cheating wat I was expecting my guy to do is to apologize and we both let go of everything but instead my guy was saying shit telling me peace offend him and he wants to descipline her
When he apologize then I say that to him to know how it feels that I have dated and Bleep 2 of your his course mates but he trusted me so much that I wouldn't Go to that extent and we continue our relationship not until the 3rd day I was in my guys place den he called and told me to lock his door I stood up and lock the door after some minutes later I heard someone knocking okay fine I talk to the person call him hes not around after that i put on the DVD player and was listening to music
I later called my boyfriend asking who the person was and he didn't inform me he's expecting someone while speaking with him on phone I heard d lady saying I should open the door,did she know me from anywhere bfor ,that she has no business with me but with the way my guy sound on phone den he and that person must have talk to each other on phone but with the fact the lady has her own mission she intentionally show up
15minutes later my guy was around then I was so mad@him telling him we just sort issues of this ur womanizing matter 2days ago and now lady's has been showing up at ur place
Den I decided to take my leave on getting to the door only for me to put on my shoe I found out the lady has picked one of my shoe the left leg
I call his attention and tell him if anything happen to me he will find himself to be blamed ,we should trust no one that d lady is so desperate she can do and undo but with the fact i was still inlove with him he calm me down and say to me he knows the lady very well she can never do any bad thing to me that she was just around to cause problem and seperate us and all his friends where begging me CU's of what happened and the following day we went ahead and get another shoe ,after she picked my shoe
The following day a strange number called telling me she was the one calling this is temmy den I later recollect it was d lady DAT picked my contact den 2018 who was claiming shiz my friend then which my guy later explain how it goes then to me
And I was like this lady get mind o
She was like had it been I opened the door that day she wanted to beat me up and she started saying all sort of things and she still went ahead and place a call on boyfriend telling him I was calling her and cursing
Nairalanders I do not know this girl from nowhere but through my guy and I received diiferent messages that this lady has taken my name to a herbalist so as to do me bad and she always appear and threatened my life that she gon kill herself not me severally I blocked her up severally from my social handles but still yet this still went ahead and use different numbers to chat me so she can monitor me lady I don't know wat dis guy had done to her that make her so bitter to that extent that she would destroy the relationship and even make us enemies to each other till today we can't find the shoe
She threatened me and she kept on sending VN
And even deal with me spiritually, a pastor revealed she went ahead and do jazz pple around me should begin to develop hatred for me,I loose my job,loose friends, I being to go from one church to the other to pray over what I know nothing about ,
Send guys to block me up
This same last year I had an operations
After all this guy had put me through
I message him to let him know what's going on but he ignore my messages and hes busy posting a picture with a new catch and because we had issues then
How can a guy be so heartless that I was asking my guy which I had a 5 yrs relationship with to let me know where we are heading to if my relationship with him won't be a waste of time and the only respond hes giving was why is it DAT it was after a day or DAT same day sef I help him financially that am asking him such question and because I was helping him I shouldn't think someone would not help me tomorrow.then I free him and you pple should all know I will be in pain at that moment,this same lady appeared saying the shoe she picked it was my boyfriend that told her to pick it that he wants to use it for rituals

With all this I think you should all understand me

Shadowpearl:
Apology to all nairalanders if these is not the right place for me to direct the storyline
Olatunde Kenny orire popularly known as settingz (setobaba)
I met this guy 2015,then we started our love life before I gained admission,we started seeing eachother,its time to do the normal thing a lady and a guy has to do then i made him realize am a virgin and am not ready to loose my virgintiy to someone who seems not to be serious with me cus I waited patiently, that I Neva want to get hurt then he begin to do on and off.....I guess he's still seeing the lady he told me about who he claimed the lady was his ex during his ND days at Ib poly
I was given admission then so we see once in a while,alongside during the period I still notice hes still in contact with his ex but I overlooked it....then I see no sign of seriousness in him so we take a break for a while 2017 then this so called my ex came back, was in school premises then from the back someone covered my face and it happened to be my ex den I turn around and see it was him, and we keep in touch together again the only thing I could remember DAT day was him saying I want my girl back and with the fact that I loved him so much I accept him back ,2017 towards Ramadan period my boyfriend invited me to a carnival only for me to see my guy smoking and dancing with d lady my guy always refer to as bestie in school,the carnival passed and 3days after my guy confessed he has been cheating on me with Christiana his course mate and he always lies to me d lady was his bestie that d lady bleeped up he met a guy in the lady room and he should av focused on me if not the fact that am still a virgin and he's not a virgin.
2018 march after I had finished my ND program in school I loose my virginity to my boyfriend and stood by him, with the hope that we won't have any problem,few months later i had an abortion for him and a month after I loose my virginity to him,a lady chatted me up saying she was a friend, she send a picture of someone I do not know,the lady insist she knows me claiming am a friend to her ,then I told her I don't know yoh, I don't have friend who's a copper and not even with the name she mentioned itunu,then I made it clear I don't have a friend who bears itunu....since I know the type of guy am dealing with and with the fact I had no one else but him ,I send d screenshot to him asking my guy I hope this is not one of those folks u sleeping with who has picked my contact on your phone,then we turn it to a joke matter,not until 3days after I was at his place of work then and he notice my post was related to someones post on his list then he called my name and ask me to bring my phone
Then I said to him, shey I told you abt this lady who appear from nowhere claiming to be my
friend and I don't know her...then he explained the whole drama to me saying he once dated the lady friend and since then the lady has been on her neck once her friend traveled to Lagos..and he has been trying to avoid the lady but you know you guys can be so funny,not until he slept with d girl that there's nothing serous BTW both of them

This guy is someone I so much care about that I could go extra miles to make him happy..... my friend warned me then you are doing too much for this guy and showing too much concerns he will take it for granted and spot a weakness,I turn deaf ears but with all that my guy see it as nothing rather he's still cheating on me with his ex Ibrahim adeola barakat,funny part ex of 2014 still appearing and sending my guy recent and beautiful pictures with voicenote on whatsapp till date and my guy kept on saying he has stopped the lady from doing that severally after i have complained bitterly and give him time to make amendment and i see no sign the lady is willing to stop even my guy doesnt take it serious then i make sure i get her contact and message her she should stop sending pictures to my boyfend that she should av d sense of let an ex be ex hes into another relationship that I do not joke with my guy he stop fucking with his course mate Christiana then hes still fucking the other lady afusat temmy agboola, and there's nothing I won't tell my boyfriend
One day a guy walk up to me ,I told my guy abt this but with the way i describe him to my guy he said he know the guy very well ,he happen to be his course mate for him to be sure I have nothing to do with the guy I told him I will pay him a visit one day in school maybe when the guy see both of us he will stay away from but my guy was saying no no no,a week after 23/11/2018 I called him hes not picking up den I had to leave a text telling him am coming to his place that am having a running stomach and the next day happen to be the last Saturday that I don't want anybody to disturb me some minutes later he called and told me hes at one skuchies joint settling some fight btw friends that same night my friend boyfriend was around to pick his girl up then I followed them to jucntion where am supossed to pick bike waited for some minutes I left without seeing his call
Some days after I pay him a visit,then I notice some things,saw a lady hairbrush,weavon and all sort of things.I asked him but I didn't hear a word from my guy later on after we've talked and hes asleep I go through his phone den I later realize that sam day I was calling my guy he took a lady out to one skuchies joint and brot the lady to his house I just read their conversation den all I could see was did you enjoyed your self,I love spending time with you and I even saw the lady naked picture on his phone DAT same day which he send to his friend to confirm he slept with d lady CU's his friend find it difficult to bliv him or so you know guys talks nau,even saw my friend chat with him telling him to delete their chat because that my friend caught him with d lady at d skuchies joint den promising him she won't tell me the secret but he was so foolish that he didn't delete the lady picture on his phone and not even delete the chat not until I saw it and I was so quiet and thinking what on earth can you do to a guy that would made him stop cheating den I realize nothing
CU's I was so loyal to my boyfriend
I never place anyone above my boyfriend
I support him financially with my hard earned money and sweat yet my boyfriend still go around and tell those slut hes fucking with am paying for his love
I support him Spiritually
He Bleep me freely
I aborted for him twice
I pay my bills when the bills come
Because my boyfriend was a cheating type he stop taking pictures with me there's more more to this but I want to fast forward it to what prompt me to have pasted RIP post

When we had issues then 2018 December period
Because I still found out my boyfriend was still cheating on me, he told me he was fighting me because I message his ex he blocked me up from all his social handles few months my friend begin to show me his updates on Facebook and WhatsApp to my surprise all I could see his the lady my boyfriend refer to as his ex they both took picture in his room holding eachother so tight with her hair unkept the lady came all the way from Ibadan but I was telling my friend this guy is now my ex how on earth will a guy say he blocked or fight her girlfriend because of his ex
Then my guy came back last year to apologize for all his wrong doings and want his relationship back as usual ,but only for me to let him know how it feels to be cheated on severally and this guy am talking abt value his ego more than his relationship as he deh so
I caught him cheating wat I was expecting my guy to do is to apologize and we both let go of everything but instead my guy was saying shit telling me peace offend him and he wants to descipline her
When he apologize then I say that to him to know how it feels that I have dated and Bleep 2 of your his course mates but he trusted me so much that I wouldn't Go to that extent and we continue our relationship not until the 3rd day I was in my guys place den he called and told me to lock his door I stood up and lock the door after some minutes later I heard someone knocking okay fine I talk to the person call him hes not around after that i put on the DVD player and was listening to music
I later called my boyfriend asking who the person was and he didn't inform me he's expecting someone while speaking with him on phone I heard d lady saying I should open the door,did she know me from anywhere bfor ,that she has no business with me but with the way my guy sound on phone den he and that person must have talk to each other on phone but with the fact the lady has her own mission she intentionally show up
15minutes later my guy was around then I was so mad@him telling him we just sort issues of this ur womanizing matter 2days ago and now lady's has been showing up at ur place
Den I decided to take my leave on getting to the door only for me to put on my shoe I found out the lady has picked one of my shoe the left leg
I call his attention and tell him if anything happen to me he will find himself to be blamed ,we should trust no one that d lady is so desperate she can do and undo but with the fact i was still inlove with him he calm me down and say to me he knows the lady very well she can never do any bad thing to me that she was just around to cause problem and seperate us and all his friends where begging me CU's of what happened and the following day we went ahead and get another shoe ,after she picked my shoe
The following day a strange number called telling me she was the one calling this is temmy den I later recollect it was d lady DAT picked my contact den 2018 who was claiming shiz my friend then which my guy later explain how it goes then to me
And I was like this lady get mind o
She was like had it been I opened the door that day she wanted to beat me up and she started saying all sort of things and she still went ahead and place a call on boyfriend telling him I was calling her and cursing
Nairalanders I do not know this girl from nowhere but through my guy and I received diiferent messages that this lady has taken my name to a herbalist so as to do me bad and she always appear and threatened my life that she gon kill herself not me severally I blocked her up severally from my social handles but still yet this still went ahead and use different numbers to chat me so she can monitor me lady I don't know wat dis guy had done to her that make her so bitter to that extent that she would destroy the relationship and even make us enemies to each other till today we can't find the shoe
She threatened me and she kept on sending VN
And even deal with me spiritually, a pastor revealed she went ahead and do jazz pple around me should begin to develop hatred for me,I loose my job,loose friends, I being to go from one church to the other to pray over what I know nothing about ,
Send guys to block me up
This same last year I had an operations
After all this guy had put me through
I message him to let him know what's going on but he ignore my messages and hes busy posting a picture with a new catch and because we had issues then
How can a guy be so heartless that I was asking my guy which I had a 5 yrs relationship with to let me know where we are heading to if my relationship with him won't be a waste of time and the only respond hes giving was why is it DAT it was after a day or DAT same day sef I help him financially that am asking him such question and because I was helping him I shouldn't think someone would not help me tomorrow.then I free him and you pple should all know I will be in pain at that moment,this same lady appeared saying the shoe she picked it was my boyfriend that told her to pick it that he wants to use it for rituals

With all this I think you should all understand me

Ologundudu2020:
Young lady you can end up in jail for this post, you are only making unsubstantiated claims here and again the post exposes your atrocities more. My advice delete this and move on. He owe you nothing.

@mod what happened to rule no 10 of this site why is this lady not banned yet?

Thanks anyways
I wish he had done that and report to police
And he will tell the world what he has done to the lady he cheated on with me to have pick my shoe in the 1st place and take it to an herbalist to do me bad and despite the fact she picked my shoe she still went ahead and threatening me consistently ,she gon kill herself not me,after I have blocked her up severally on my social handles, this useless and reckless guy was so foolish to allow a lady go through his phone and pick his ex girlfriend contacts
You talk of rule here while he expose my IG page isn't it.......and he knows what he pasted was all lies and hes the cause of all the problems He's facing now
Am not here to exchange words with anyone.

Ologundudu2020:
no wonder your pussy was waisted, so you lack manners.... How old do you think I am? Disrespect me again here and I will hunt you down. Useless she goat like you will be spdeading legs for everyone. The guy self musty have been unfortunate to admit you as a gf... See English self.... As in come why do you even think a guy should spend months with you with this very poor attitude?