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I am confused about three men in my life I don’t know what to do with them,,,
the first has been a friend since my uni days ,, I didn’t accept his proposal cause he was very stingy , I changed my number n we didn’t talk till I graduated , he added me on Facebook n asked for my number , I gave him n we started talking, still stingy as he has always been , still asking me out,,, didn’t give him any answer, decided to give him little attention but he starts acting up ,, when I stop talking to him n blocked his number, he starts making me feel like a bad person,, I unblock him n we started talking again , I start giving him a little of my time n attention he starts acting up again ,,, I block him again even his number directly but he finds a way to reach me n start talking , been a constant routine for a while n I am tired . When I ignored n stoped talking to him , he kept on calling me every single day saying his checking on me n all even if I don’t answer him ,,, now again am trying to loosing up ,calling him he didn’t pick .... if I stop talking to him now , he would start being all caring lovi dovi n making me feel bad

Second one we dated for a while , no sex tho ,, I liked him n but wasn’t as mutual as I thought , he got angry saying i was insecure n stoped talking to me , I felt bad cried n moved on , after a month he’s calling saying I never cared n I forgot all about him ,, am I suppose to kill myself,, still on my tail calling n acting all lovi dovi but I don’t feel nothing for him ,

The last guy was a very nice guy , we were so intimate n he sent me money when I needed, but he has a gf , got tired of everything n blocked him on WhatsApp, he sent me messages on Facebook n asked me why I blocked him on WhatsApp n I told him I don’t wanna be too attached , ofcourse he misses me n all n I do also but u know it can’t work .

What u all think .. I feel like blocking them n never talking to them again forever ,,, hope I am not overreacting, apart from the last guy tho . He’s okay on my Facebook

Uzodimma I don't know

We are at war and this is what you choose to make your problem? Are we not supposed to busy advising people on how to stop the spread of Covid-19?

Dreiwizzy:
Uzodimma I don't know

really ??

Liliantalks:
I am confused about three men in my life I don’t know what to do with them,,,
the first has been a friend since my uni days ,, I didn’t accept his proposal c..He’s okay on my Facebook

You block and unblock them yet they keep chasing you around?

You're dating guys with low self-esteem!

Kobicove:
You block and unblock them yet they keep chasing you around?

You're dating guys with low self-esteem!

hmmmm

scaramucci:
We are at war and this is what you choose to make your problem? Are we not supposed to busy advising people on how to stop the spread of Covid-19?

lol so Covid19 should be what my life be all about ?

You don't like the stingy one,you like the one that gives you money so stop pretending

Just focus on yourself stop worrying them

Arajoon89:
Just focus on yourself stop worrying them

I actually ain’t worrying any of them . I hate the fact they make me feel like a bad person when they noticed am over them . Now I am making my final decision

uruba23:
You don't like the stingy one,you like the one that gives you money so stop pretending

yes u r right

Kobicove:
You block and unblock them yet they keep chasing you around?
You're dating guys with low self-esteem!

GBAM!!! You hit the nail right in the head We move

Makavelli25:
GBAM!!!
You hit the nail right in the head
We move

I know they actually ain’t but let’s say they r , r u talking about self esteem here

Liliantalks:
I know they actually ain’t but let’s say they r , r u talking about self esteem here

Forget the three of them
They are lowlives

Liliantalks:
lol so Covid19 should be what my life be all about ?

I wouldn't know about your life if you had kept it private. Don't bother us with your silly life issues. The world is busy tackling real challenges that faces us all.

Makavelli25:
Forget the three of them
They are lowlives

abi

scaramucci:
I wouldn't know about your life if you had kept it private. Don't bother us with your silly life issues. The world is busy tackling real challenges that faces us all.

i didn’t force ur hands to drop s comment ,, since ur life is all about Covid19 mine isn’t

You people block, un-block and block again and again...smh...childish at best..

Liliantalks:
i didn’t force ur hands to drop s comment ,, since ur life is all about Covid19 mine isn’t

No wonder you can't even decide what you want.

Mryacks:
You people block, un-block and block again and again...smh...childish at best..

eyes rolls .. okay o

scaramucci:
No wonder you can't even decide what you want.

yeah am too indecisive, it’s crazy but I hv a very soft heart

You are never a straight individual u don't have to change for no one, if u not cool with someone let it be that way, even if youll be painted bad...learn to be reckless atimes except if u like d attention...

Rickjordan:
You are never a straight individual u don't have to change for no one, if u not cool with someone let it be that way, even if youll be painted bad...learn to be reckless atimes except if u like d attention...

thanks , I appreciate
Will do the needful

Just focus on yourself swiddy.... They aren't worth it... Take care of yourself, love yourself, achieve all your goals, the right one will come for you... You won't need to block and unblock any longer...

You added problem to resolved problem. You decide then undecided, then decide again and then you undecide yet again.

Solve this problem and This problem would either go away become worse, your Choice.

Lamanii22:
Just focus on yourself swiddy.... They aren't worth it... Take care of yourself, love yourself, achieve all your goals, the right one will come for you... You won't need to block and unblock any longer...

thanks babe

U need self discipline

Do what you think would favor you, follow your mind not your feelings. See my signature below if you have N10k and above and want to make N60,000 upward monthly trading bitcoins on LocalBitcoins platform.

I see a kid playing with three adult-kids in the mud. You happen to be the leader of this children play group.

Few days ago, you lamented the inability of getting a dream man. How could you, with this erratic persona.

As far as I'm concerned. You are dating yourself and still very much single. Just put all three behind you and move on. They are time wasters.

Look forward for better opportunities. You'll find that someone. Trust me.