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Who is Mr. Right?

Every woman has her definition of her perfect man, her expectations, and derives towards a successful relationship.

What we call a perfect or successful relationship is not obtainable, but is a going concern, a workable distance that is associated to understanding, friendship and finally love.

My definition of Mr. Right is an adjective used to qualify someone who is responsible, gentle, intelligent, jovial, successful, truthful, friendly, accommodating, caring, loving, not secretive, and God fearing.



Where is Mr. Right?

There is no part of the world, country, locality you will not find a guy. But truly, I am talking about someone who you are in talking terms with, in your office, residence, schools, market place, pub, clubs, neighbors, internet and dating sites.

In computing, they do say garbage in garbage out, what ever you put into the system is what you will get out of the system.

The same is applicable in relationships. No one can determine were you will meet your Mr. Right but be open minded, always put up a smiling face and be nice to every one who comes your way.

How do you know/ recognize Mr., Right

Mr Right will come like every other guy, but with a stronger feelings, perception and lots of caring about caring about you. He will possess the following Characters:

- Respects your feelings and share his daily activities with you

- Not forcing you to go against your will Seek your advise regularly

- Create a friendly atmosphere for communication

- He plays a brother, father, friend, and Husband figure in your life

- Appreciates every thing you do and corrects you politely

- He is not always angered by small things

- Defines the relationship



Qualities You Must Possess



-Smile always and be nice to every one

- Be of good character

- Be clean

- Be god fearing

- Always help those in need







Qualities of Mr. Right

The quality of one’s Mr. Right is an individual thing and has to do with your expectations

Every woman has her own expectations of her Mr. Right, which is true, but must be rated in percentage of 100% to access his true value and quest

Write down on a plain sheet of paper the preferred qualities you will want your Mr. Right to have.

If the total qualities written is 20 which means 100%, if he scores between 50-90%,then he is still there for approval. Any thing below 50% is not acceptable.

Do note that no one is perfect and that you can work things out if there is a will to change.

The Commitment Question.

The commitment questions is scrutinized from two perspectives:

-Some men are not ready to be committed while

-Others pretend to be serious, get what they want and disappear.

In other to combat both situations and emerge victorious do ensure he defines the relationship by asking him these commitment questions:

-What are your intentions for the relationship; he should attach dates and time Remember that he has only 3 months to decide the way forward for the relationship.



Do’s and Don’ts



Don'ts

-Don’t over flog the question- ask only once and note his response

-Under no circumstance should you have sex with him

- Don’t be drunk when you are on a date with him

- Don’t tell him much about yourself until you have found him serious

- Don’t assume any negativity until he as proven to be wrong



Do’s

-Talk Intelligently

- Compliment him

- Be real about yourself

-Dress decently

-Show concern were applicable

Who do you fellowship with?

Hang around those of your friends with serious relationships. Remember the popular saying birds of the same feather flock together.



Advises

- Never filtrate your taught with the opposite. Assume with the next three months you are having Mr. Right.

- Always say to your self every morning and night that within the next three months you will be with Mr. Right.

Congratulations. Expecting to hear from you.
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Improve yourself to be that perfect partner someone would want to spend the rest of his/her life to be with...

I already found my Mr Right
Nice write-up!

Petyprincess:
I already found my Mr Right
Nice write-up!

How old are you!

Nice write up! May God help me

Akinsoladwayne:
How old are you!

40 years old

Bola146:
Nice write up! May God help me

I'm hoping God can help us if we decide to be there for one another, what do you think?

Yes Bola,
God almighty will only help you if you ask. We can never be perfect and have our flaws to contend with. We need one another to compliment these flaws. Find the right person you will get over it and if you do not, then you will sink and stay away from home.
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Valcon888 is that you? Yes. Another moniker.

NaijadrivaCars:
Valcon888 is that you? Yes. Another moniker.

Nope. Not me. Lol.