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raybestman:
guy before u open up to her, please try Bleep her very well without condom. release all the sperm into her. try Bleep her three times daily for seven days without condom and if possible let her suck your dick all time you Bleep her and release the sperm inside her mouth. on the seventh day of the Bleep make sure she suck your dick and in the process urinate inside her mouth. hold her head strong to your dick so that your dick remain in her mouth and urinate hot urine inside her mouth before you open up to her. after the seventh day Bleep and release of sperm and urine in her mouth then show her the chat with the stranger and call it a quit. pls call it a quit after you've opened up and never look back.

tomju:
I will start by disagreeing with you about relationship being like a card game! It is better the shit happens now than later when he is really deep into it, like in marriage.
Why would I date a girl who always rejects her calls when we are together? 1st wrong signal.
Why would I date a girl who turns off her data when we are together? Another wrong signal.
When she always locks her phone, then definitely she is hiding something. Listen, if you cannot pick your girl friends phone and answer her calls, then she is cheating period.
Firstly, a serious relationship her parents should know you or atleast the mom should know there is someone. Except maybe you are dating an underage girl. This takes me to another issue. Relationship should be for adults! Not kids. Adult decisions, adult consequences.
Okay, i give ya'all an assignment. Propose to your girl or boy a game. Phone swap. We switch our phones for a day or two. You pick all my calls, I pick all yours. We read each others text messages. Anyone that has something to hide CAN NEVER agree to this proposal. NEVER.
Several years ago, I was in a very serious relationship. I would never suspect my girl was cheating, because she didn't need to. She had everything she wanted. I mean everything. Story for another day.
Now, I went to Abuja to visit her serving then NYSC. In the night she removed network from Her Blackberry phone before going to bed, you know like airplane mode, you can just click and mobile network is disconnected. As she slept off, I inserted network again, about 12am calls and text messages came in. Several like 7 in total.
Some girls were calling her to come out....and another text threatening her to leave her husband alone? blah blah blah. She work up in the morning looking confused. I said you had several text messages! Reavealing ones at that. She was shocked. Did you read any, I said yes. tThe one that said you should stay away from Mr Nnaji! Mrs Nnaji sent it. She broke down and cried..started apologising and all, but boy! my mind was made up. Long story short, I left.
A week after I left her for good, a lot unfolded. Love is blind init? Anyway, the thing is: be yourself. Don't "play" your relationship as "a game"! It should not be. Its either he/she is worth it or they are not. Imagine if I had married the slut that time? So I will be battling depression et al, or running upandan for paternity tests!
Love your girl/guy for real but be open minded to expect any eventuality. This is the part I had to agree with you on loving with your head, and not with your heart. A good woman is a good woman. Play a game or don't play a game. Some women have values. Norms they can die for.
If a woman or man, is cheating behind your back, and you are not...its just a matter of time, they'll be exposed. You are better off loosing a cheating girlfriend than a cheating wife.
I believe some good girls are still out there. Pray you meet one. Remember the good ones may not come in the right shape! or skin colour...you know what I mean. I wish all faithful men/women the faithful partners of their dreams or atleast be honest about who they are seeing. So you can choose which way to go. Staysafe bro. It will be okay.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

argent412:
Some girls are mean sha . Just try and meet her one on one and ask her if she still interested with the relationship and if she says yes, then you can show her ur evidence.


Ur babe is just wasting your time.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

lefulefu:
babe wan move to yankee sharp sharp with her american lover .most ladies in naija when their boyfriend is unambitious or nothing seems to work for him if a better guy with prospects comes along they will deny their guy sharp sharp.u can imagine a girl dating a guy who is a chronic gambler and addicted to nairabet and she comes across a medical doctor or prosperious lawyer who is interested in her wat do u expect she would do .or a girl dating a barber or an okada rider with no prspects of upgrading and a rich entertainer signifies interest to her she would deny her guy flat

stevmatt15:
The same you will come here to lament and call him a coward for marrying such girl if you heard he was killed or poisoned

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

fatymore:
I need the passive income ideas.thanks

tomju:
I will start by disagreeing with you about relationship being like a card game! It is better the shit happens now than later when he is really deep into it, like in marriage.
Why would I date a girl who always rejects her calls when we are together? 1st wrong signal.
Why would I date a girl who turns off her data when we are together? Another wrong signal.
When she always locks her phone, then definitely she is hiding something. Listen, if you cannot pick your girl friends phone and answer her calls, then she is cheating period.
Firstly, a serious relationship her parents should know you or atleast the mom should know there is someone. Except maybe you are dating an underage girl. This takes me to another issue. Relationship should be for adults! Not kids. Adult decisions, adult consequences.
Okay, i give ya'all an assignment. Propose to your girl or boy a game. Phone swap. We switch our phones for a day or two. You pick all my calls, I pick all yours. We read each others text messages. Anyone that has something to hide CAN NEVER agree to this proposal. NEVER.
Several years ago, I was in a very serious relationship. I would never suspect my girl was cheating, because she didn't need to. She had everything she wanted. I mean everything. Story for another day.
Now, I went to Abuja to visit her serving then NYSC. In the night she removed network from Her Blackberry phone before going to bed, you know like airplane mode, you can just click and mobile network is disconnected. As she slept off, I inserted network again, about 12am calls and text messages came in. Several like 7 in total.
Some girls were calling her to come out....and another text threatening her to leave her husband alone? blah blah blah. She work up in the morning looking confused. I said you had several text messages! Reavealing ones at that. She was shocked. Did you read any, I said yes. tThe one that said you should stay away from Mr Nnaji! Mrs Nnaji sent it. She broke down and cried..started apologising and all, but boy! my mind was made up. Long story short, I left.
A week after I left her for good, a lot unfolded. Love is blind init? Anyway, the thing is: be yourself. Don't "play" your relationship as "a game"! It should not be. Its either he/she is worth it or they are not. Imagine if I had married the slut that time? So I will be battling depression et al, or running upandan for paternity tests!
Love your girl/guy for real but be open minded to expect any eventuality. This is the part I had to agree with you on loving with your head, and not with your heart. A good woman is a good woman. Play a game or don't play a game. Some women have values. Norms they can die for.
If a woman or man, is cheating behind your back, and you are not...its just a matter of time, they'll be exposed. You are better off loosing a cheating girlfriend than a cheating wife.
I believe some good girls are still out there. Pray you meet one. Remember the good ones may not come in the right shape! or skin colour...you know what I mean. I wish all faithful men/women the faithful partners of their dreams or atleast be honest about who they are seeing. So you can choose which way to go. Staysafe bro. It will be okay.

primesoccer:
And who did that?

argent412:
Mine will be worse, because I might break his head.

I hate been played. If his not interested with the relationship he should tell me, not him playing and wasting my time.

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that ergenerates about 20k for her monthly

adexpa:
You already have answer my brother, a mature mind don't jump into action, take your time to hear from her through the chat and know more things. Information you will get will also help you in your next relationship/phase. If possible you can arrange a date through the anonymous chat and you can spit out during the date n then move on with your life. Please, do not allow emotion n feelings attach you back to her cus the present evidence is enough but the further step is to have room to prove to her so that she wouldn't jump around and be telling people that you dump her for no reason.

argent412:
Mine will be worse, because I might break his head.

I hate been played. If his not interested with the relationship he should tell me, not him playing and wasting my time.

hustla:
If na me be you - here's what I will do


- I will get as much evidence as possible
- I will open a new Microsoft account and upload all the evidence to my OneDrive account and send to my Email also
- I will tell my friends what happened and then we will all go out to drink it off and cool off
- I will not tell her i found out anything, no need for that and all other super story
- I will continue to enjoy free pekus
- I will find a serious girlfriend by the side and proceed with emotional detachment from my unfortunate ex
- Confront her with evidence and
- Break up at a location that is open - before she pour hot water for my head or nack me with juju
- Pick race

seunmohmoh:
Dating issue today
Marriage tomorrow
Una no dey tire?