primesoccer: I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.
In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.
I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...
She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.
When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.
She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.
So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.
Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.
I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.
Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.
On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.
I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.
Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?
I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
oh boy she don turn to your sex slave be that start giving her sex F U C K the hell out her and dump her .dont waste your time anymore bro
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly[/quote]
Seriously speaking I think men already had 99 problems and women shouldn't be part of those problems. If she isn't in line with your plans please let her go.!
I'm very much interested in your last paragraph please. Could you also help me with a passive income source that would generate about 20k for me in a month please. I'm serious about this bro.
Butoneday2: So people still get time for all those orchins out there that called themselves woman. Guy you better think of what to do with your precious life before they will send you to jump inside lagoon. With all these signs you still they pamper her. If I must say, you are the most stupid.d person I've ever seen. You better dump that beast before she will send you to your ancestors. Wise up guy.
In as much as I agree with all that's been said that ur girl ain't loyal, have u imagined the possibility of her being aware of this? And is just playing along? It's why u shouldn't confront her with all you've got just yet.
I will be teaching 3D and 2D animation and how I make money from it during this period and beyond. You can finally work for yourself with these skills. They are in high demands but no much professionals.
Ogediluv: You will pay me for reading this long post. Girlfriend and boyfriend matter everywhere, everyday. We wey no get, who we go dey talk about nah...
hafa ? .....star boi dey for you (singing in wizkids voice )
We were real lovers and she trusted me with her soul which she and her friend confirmed to me that I was extraordinary. But who extra ordinary help when a woman is a woman? I supported her even to her admission. Her attitudes prior her admission became annoying that my BP was something daisy owing that we came from a long way. However, after her admission, I immediately freed her. No calls and no text. There was a reason for that. We have had traffic jam experience like u just did now where I noticed that I can't WIFE her as I had in mind REGARDLESS of the love I have for her.
Though it was tough. It affected me all round and my family didn't know we weren't together up until after a year. Funny enough. The girl that doesn't chat me up neither did we call, will always go to my room in my family house and pass NIGHTS THERE. U can see that women can bewitch u just to have u as SUBSTITUTE or LAST RESORT. One day my mum called me that my ex went to market with her. The girl that hasn't spoken to her guy for almost a year. That day, I called her friend that has been trying to fix the broken relationship to tell her about her friends stupid acts... She (her friend) encouraged me to call her and tell her to stay off from my family house and she will as well call her to tell her same. And I called her and SHOUTED on her that she had to give like 5km off my house.
Love is there but summon courage and push her off. She is gone since and u are just her SUBSTITUTE and LAST RESORT in case all her games fail. WARNING! Be wise! If she gets pregnant today and everyone she has met deny her, OMO U DONE MARRY with another man pikin be that..... But to be safe EMOTIONALLY, check out those ladies that admire u and give one a chance, maybe ur wife might be any of them. Do this before pushing her out so that the space could be filled.
I encourage u still chat her up and when u are through with fixing urself with another girl, invite her out for a date and appear there at her table. That is the best evidence and surprise to pay her. She will probably say goodbye by herself because she has already gone but with the move, u become the winner. Thanks and goodluck
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_ym_OY5xQc I will be teaching 3D and 2D animation and how I make money from it during this period and beyond. You can finally work for yourself with these skills. They are in high demands but no much professionals.
I sense that too. he is emotionally weak, though he migh tnot accept it.
My theory is that he cannot leave this girl of his, despite all the evidence that he is being played, big time. At the end of the day, he would end up a very sad man, ruined by the one he loves.
Reminds me of a Book l read, close to twenty five years ago, cant remember the author anymore: Pattern for Destruction. The lady name is 'Libby' and she so messed up the guy's emotion and brain, till he committed suicide at the end.
I hope this one survives, because l can see the pattern. he does not have a strong Will, nice person but soft center. Sad.
raybestman: guy before u open up to her, please try Bleep her very well without condom. release all the sperm into her. try Bleep her three times daily for seven days without condom and if possible let her suck your dick all time you Bleep her and release the sperm inside her mouth. on the seventh day of the Bleep make sure she suck your dick and in the process urinate inside her mouth. hold her head strong to your dick so that your dick remain in her mouth and urinate hot urine inside her mouth before you open up to her. after the seventh day Bleep and release of sperm and urine in her mouth then show her the chat with the stranger and call it a quit. pls call it a quit after you've opened up and never look back.
. Haaaaaàahh!!! Kilode. This one no too much. Let him kuku kill her be that naaah
CsRockefeller: In Philosophy, it is said that Objectivity means talking from the view of the object.
Thats what I am going to try to do, no pity party, no emotions.
Sometime this year, I went for an interview and also met a host of other prospective candidates around, some of us were jobless, some already had jobs.
We began discussing about d pay, we speculated between 70 to 100k, I told them that it cant be more than a 70k given its the Chinese (very stingy persons). Amongst us was a guy already earning 150k somewhere, we scolded him, how can one attempt to leave a good paying job for peanuts, we warned him about the consequence of loosing his good job. He had his interview and quickly left, I felt he was so greedy, even if u want to leave a 150k job, it should be for a higher pay, his friend said he's fond of jumping from one interview to the other. With a pay of 150k, a lot of people would seat at that place for at least 2 years.
Man, the ordinary man has always been selfish, he seeks himself alone, remember Cain and Abel, Jacob and Esau, Absalom and David, David and Saul, the list is endless.
For a long time, I tried to convince myself that everything on earth doesnt revolve around Economics/Money/Status/Financial stability but I was wrong, as I get older I know better.
I dont want to make this longer than necessary, but if your financial position as they say in Accounting is not where your lady wants it to be enough for her to commit to u then, she is still in the market and when that guy comes with her bag of expectations, she will jump.
It is what it is, call them gold diggers, hoes, sluts, it is what it is, man seeks himself first, and don't forget that your country is the poverty capital of the world, everyone wants to escape it.
The 20k is something, there's a lady who would be happy with it, but not this one. People will continue to search for jobs, and partners that meet their financial expectations.
It is not ideal, it is not fair, it is not right in a suituation where human emotions are involved but is the World fair itself?
primesoccer: I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.
In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.
I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...
She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.
When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.
She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.
So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.
Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.
I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.
Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.
On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.
I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.
Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?
I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
You might not be compatible or she senses you are not serious with the relationship or she is not serious with the relationship or both of you are not serious with the relationship, if you really want a girl to be part of your life and possibly wife first make aquintance with her family members especially those she respect and loves and start making plans from your family side about the marriage and if possible no sex till after marriage.
But to me, it would be a complete waste of time confronting her with it.
If she loves you, she isn't committed to you. You can love and not be committed but you can't be committed without loving.
Obviously you have your own self doubt about the whole relationship with her that's what prompt you to go get a new line and start pretending to be what you're not with her.
Time to move on with your life brother.
I don't know why you keep talking to the guy. If he wants to show how weak he is to his girl, let him. That's his friggin problem!
You goofed up big time by showing her all your cards bro. Relationship these days are like card games. You don't display all your cards to your opponent to avoid being kicked off the game. You play it smartly with your head not with your heart.
Now, you're of no relevance to her again, and there's nothing that you'll do to gain that back from her. To her, she's just using u as a step up plan until she lands her target man.
In otherwords, you're on your own All, I'll say now is, start searching for another girl that would keep ur hrt occupied at moment, after that dump her and move on. That's d only way to mk her feel d break up, don't let her break ur hrt, break hers first that's how you'll get to win on this bro. Outside it, it'll be an all-round win for her. So be smart and act fast.
Note: all these should be on code. Don't let her notice anysh*t as regarding ur intention towards her. Oya go win this bro
I made this same mistake bro, and now am a rebranded person.
Read on miseducation by Ubanja
The guy should block the 20k passive income channel and see if she won't beg for mercy. No be woman?
Very ungrateful fellow na hin majority of them be.
primesoccer: I will definitely meet her with the evidence. But I still want to continue chatting with her to get more info from her before I make the move.
Stop being a pvssy and start fvcking her properly and take your mind off the relationship.
She sees you as soft and that is why she decided to sideline you
primesoccer: I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.
In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.
I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...
She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.
When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.
She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.
So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.
Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.
I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.
Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.
On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.
I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.
Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?
I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
Ladie! Please can I have your contact? I want disscss something with you
@Op, if the picture you have painted is the truth, kindly walk away. You don't owe her any explanation whatsoever.
Having said the above, please ALL GIRLS DESERVE A GOOD THING! Let them be the ones to prove otherwise by their actions. One reason I agreed with the poster who advised guys not to lay all their cards before a lady. But please, don't always be about your interest, no matter your sex, If you are a guy, you may have a sister, your mother may be widowed and may intend to marry, you may have daughters... It is not always the best to think of yourself as just a man or woman. We are all interconnected to and interdependent on one another.
primesoccer: I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
Apologies on you having a shity girlfriend, you deserve better. Since she's an inconsiderate numbskull I need more information on the passive income source Abeg help a brother.
primesoccer: I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.
In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.
I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...
She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.
When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.
She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.
So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.
Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.
I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.
Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.
On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.
I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.
Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?
I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...
Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly
You are intelligent and someone has been using you for two years. Mr respecter well done ooo. Girls really like guys that are fools.You think these holes deserve all these things u are saying?
See jamb kweshion u said it yasef u are not into the cash..look at it this way you do all those things for her shop, being there 4 her, yet you still haven't caught her attention bros you don't have the volume of moni she needs. take my advice discontinue that shii u call relationship and move on you did mention you want to seal things up with her c'mon that's you wanting to marry you don't want to waste any more tym with the biatch no be she be last born of girls.
Mummyfour: So sorry guy. Guys like you are really hard to come by. She will just end up using a good husband material to do boyfriend and use ordinary boyfriend to do husband,then she will say it's her village people. She doesn't love you simple.she is using you to fulfill righteousness that she has a Bobo. I am a woman o,but I hate the way women treat guys at times honestly. Just move on.meanwhile that 20k passive income still dey available?. Anything for this lockdown period
You wan beg money, you come use style style advice am abi ?
akinjojo1234: You don't have a girlfriend. For your girlfriend to tell a guy that she is not in a relationship simply means she really is not in a relationship.
I hate seeing guys being played. Man up and do the right thing
raybestman: guy before u open up to her, please try Bleep her very well without condom. release all the sperm into her. try Bleep her three times daily for seven days without condom and if possible let her suck your dick all time you Bleep her and release the sperm inside her mouth. on the seventh day of the Bleep make sure she suck your dick and in the process urinate inside her mouth. hold her head strong to your dick so that your dick remain in her mouth and urinate hot urine inside her mouth before you open up to her. after the seventh day Bleep and release of sperm and urine in her mouth then show her the chat with the stranger and call it a quit. pls call it a quit after you've opened up and never look back.
24kmagic: As a man, once you're able to fvck any girl you approached, you already won. All the calls, the efforts, the outings and the shoppings are all aiming towards sex. Shey you don fvck her? Oya breakup.
It's either you're damaging her kpekus or breaking her heart. If you're not doing any of these two things, you're the woman in the relationship.
For God's sake which man leaves his phone with a b!tch just because he wants to prove that he's faithful? What rubbish is that? It's a sign of "weakness." She should be the one doing that to prove that she's a wife material. Even if you don't have any side chick, you dare not let her know. In fact, you'll need to pretend that you have many girls disturbing you, if not she'll just rubbish you. Girls? Hmm
Again, I can bet my left ball that money was the key factor you used in getting her. The way you kept stressing how you buy her this and that, shopping for this and that, I can say money was a major factor in getting her. Shey you don fvck her? Oya, leave her.
She's in for the cash, she doesn't like you like you think. Reason why I don't always succumb to the "make money and girls will follow you notion." Money will get you girls but it won't get you their loyalty. No girl turns down the idea of a man coming to meet her people except she doesn't love him, which is the case here.
Finally, I want you all reading this to know that "NO GIRL DESERVES A GOOD THING" and the earlier guys realise that, the better. That good thing you think she deserves, she doesn't deserve it because she doesn't want it.
What she wants and deserves are pain, cry, games, cheating, lies, manipulations, STDs, and every form of one discomfort or the other.
If you can do all these without laying a finger on her, you're EVERY GIRL'S DREAM MAN.
Forget what they say online
You have had bad experience bro.. You were well hit. You are pained
Anybody who you are "dating" (Male or female), and is still on the look out for other potentual relationship does not regard you as their main partner. Move on!!
