Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)

Theclaaa:
Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)

... counseling and deliverance?...like I said earlier you enabled this guy.

you don't want to let him go because he Bleep you in the absence of your husband. if he leaves there will be no one to satisfy your sexual urges . silly fool

@op I don't kwn how old is ur brother,since you don't have someone he will stay with for now ,let him learn a trade to keep him busy.
You can't trust this kind of person with a female child in his custody.
If he is grown enough to stay alone, get him an apartment to be staying, with a close matured person monitoring him.
More also take him to church for prayers & deliverance.
Raping a small girl both in Anal & verginal is something I can't comprehend, maybe he has been into it and you don't kwn.
Surgesting to him that he should have get a prostitute for him self rather than raping the small girl is another wrong suggest for him also.

Imagine people using deliverance and counseling to conceal evil. No wonder many are abusing Christianity, how can you be talking about deliverance when this guy should be in police custody? Kai

Theclaaa:
Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)

Did you just say counselling and deliverance in a church for a rapist? I think the authorities must trace you and get u arrested with ur brother and the would-be counsellor. From all people have been saying its obvious ur gonna let that poor child suffer in vain but i can bet anything, that girl will never forget and when she's grown older and realises u cld av done more to help her, she would never forgive u and ur offsprings. You will have to watch ur back for the rest of life. I am not the karma believing type, but in any ways something worse must happen to u or ur immediates. Na ur husband i pity sha cos the poor man is out there hustling his life while his criminally minded wife is abetting rape and child molestation under his roof!

asapeola:


Did you just say counselling and deliverance in a church for a rapist? I think the authorities must trace you and get u arrested with ur brother and the would-be counsellor. From all people have been saying its obvious ur gonna let that poor child suffer in vain but i can bet anything, that girl will never forget and when she's grown older and realises u cld av done more to help her, she would never forgive u and ur offsprings. You will have to watch ur back for the rest of life. I am not the karma believing type, but in any ways something worse must happen to u or ur immediates. Na ur husband i pity sha cos the poor man is out there hustling his life while his criminally minded wife is abetting rape and child molestation under his roof!

Thank you dear, she will rather shield a 19years old rapists instead of the victim. A minor at that, you keep wondering how this people sleep at night. She is not even considering her children, what a shame!!!

Graxie:
Thank you dear, she will rather shield a 19years old rapists instead of the victim. A minor at that, you keep wondering how this people sleep at night. She is not even considering her children, what a shame!!!

There is a pattern here with the boy's character. From stubborness (which is just a mild term for a delinquent) to rape. She knows the boy is alrdy hardened and like someone rightly said above that the boy has joined bad gang, but she's forming ostrich. In her warped mind, its only rape but she also deeply knows the boy has now graduated to a criminal. That boy if not handled by the law will definitely come back to haunt her. He would definitely move to armed robbery and kidnapping. Where else to test skills than ur sister's whose husband is not even in town! Its really nauseating!!

Theclaaa:
Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)

Send him away but don't get him arrested. Forget nairaland hypocrites. As if they would easily get their blood brother arrested for such crime. Something you would plead with outsiders not to involve the police if you can, it is now for you to hand your brother to be tried and jailed for years.


My advice is for you to send your brother away and make sure he never stays alone with underage children

asapeola:


There is a pattern here with the boy's character. From stubborness (which is just a mild term for a delinquent) to rape. She knows the boy is alrdy hardened and like someone rightly said above that the boy has joined bad gang, but she's forming ostrich. In her warped mind, its only rape but she also deeply knows the boy has now graduated to a criminal. That boy if not handled by the law will definitely come back to haunt her. He would definitely move to armed robbery and kidnapping. Where else to test skills than ur sister's whose husband is not even in town! Its really nauseating!!

It's better the guy commits crime outside and get arrested than for her sister to hand him over to the police.

You all are forming righteous now because you're not the ones involved.

There is an infestation of self-righteous hypocritical persons on this thread.

As if any of you can have your blood brother arrested if you were to be the one in the OP's position.

Theclaaa:
Thank you for all the comments , I totally agree with what you are all saying , I will let him go after lockdown , he will go and stay in church for counselling and deliverance, right now he have nowhere to go , I don’t want him to be in the streets to be infected with this deadly disease ( corona)

Ensure he is properly dealt with for his actions. Don't let him get off easy, he'll most likely not learn his lesson

PuZZyNegro:


It's better the guy commits crime outside and get arrested than for her sister to hand her over to the police.

You all are forming righteous now because you're not the ones involved.

Dont worry! Sebi the "outside" might just your own side. You asked her to send him "away" to where exactly? Y dont u ask her to send the boy to ur family house? Dont worry what goes around comes around as they say.

crackkhaus:
There is an infestation of self-righteous hypocritical persons on this thread.

As if any of you can have your blood brother arrested if you were to be the one in the OP's position.

Its both ways! As if u wld allow d boy b given a pat on back if the little girl was ur daughter or relative? Its not a case of truancy, we are talking about crime here n ur talking abt hyprocrisy. Same Nigerians blaming Buhari for not closing borders cos his daughter was still outside.

asapeola:


Its both ways! As if u wld allow d boy b given a pat on back if the little girl was ur daughter or relative? Its not a case of truancy, we are talking about crime here n ur talking abt hyprocrisy. Same Nigerians blaming Buhari for not closing borders cos his daughter was still outside.

To think most of them kicking against reporting to police are Christians, tomorrow when that girl grow up with a huge bitterness towards mankind, the same people will judge her. I know they don't feel any pain towards a girl child, but to this level is horrible. Imagine adults talking about hypocrisy when a child of 11 years have been raped, the same people mocking a woman trying to get her 12years old back from people calling him thief. A woman decided to damn the consequences for her 12years old son, they called her names but they are here ready to path a 19years rapist on the back because he is the woman brother. Horrible shameless idiots.

asapeola:

Its both ways! As if u wld allow d boy b given a pat on back if the little girl was ur daughter or relative? Its not a case of truancy, we are talking about crime here n ur talking abt hyprocrisy. Same Nigerians blaming Buhari for not closing borders cos his daughter was still outside.

Humans are motivated primarily by self-interest, not even you nor anyone is exempt from this.
You can only try to deceive yourself by claiming otherwise.

So yes, of course if she was my daughter, I won't take it lightly.. I would personally strangle the mofo, no questions asked.

However, the issue here is that he is her brother.
Not even you or any one of those people on this thread will have their brother arrested on a whim. It takes a whole lot of self-will.

I don't know where you saw me blaming Buhari for anything or why that slipped into your comment. Nonetheless, my mind is much more developed than most to nurture that kind of hypocrisy.
The same things you think Buhari does for his family's self-interest are the same things most of you will do if you are in his position.

You can try to pretend you are an angel in human skin, but reality knows better.

crackkhaus:

Humans are motivated primarily by self-interest - not even you nor anyone is exempt from this.
You can only try to deceive yourself by claiming otherwise.

So yes, of course if she was my daughter, I won't take it lightly.. I would personally strangle the mofo, just like you would too.

However, the issue here is that he is her brother.
Not even you or not any one of those people on this thread will have him arrested on a whim. It will take a whole lot of will.
You can also try to deceive yourself by claiming otherwise.

I don't know where you saw me blaming Buhari for anything, my mind is much more developed than most. The same things you think Buhari does for his family's self-interest are the same things most of you will do if you are in his position.

You can all try to pretend you are angels, but reality knows better.

I would have him arrested if its within my capability but ofcourse this is a "faceless" forum as they say but from my first post i alrdy suggested they be arrested by the appropriate authorities. Crime is crime regardless of who's involved. Crime is mostly solved even when people volunteer as witnesses. I find it very surprising that u seem to trivialise a grave crime like rape of a minor and subsequent physical abuse by the sister (with her continuous barrage of slaps). Did u realise the situation in which the action was done? The boy's own niece was convulsing and rushed to the hospital, yet all he cld think of was rape and possible physical assault. In saner climes that you ("you" in dis case is a metaphor) all like comparing nigeria with, these crimes carry decades behind bars no matter how long it took the law to catch up with u a la roman Polanski and Harvey Weinstein. Using buhari as an example was because we all wanted to protect ourselves by asking him to close all borders even as his own daughter was still outside yet some of us still selfishly want this lady to protect her own brother too. Stay safe bro!

Theclaaa:


she has made me angry but i was still worrying about her but she wasn’t cooperating with me and the way that girl cried frustrated me , it made me more angry that i gave her 2 hot slaps and send her out of the house still my heart bled because i knew what i did to her was wrong but her refusal to talk has caused it and the girl stopped crying but did not tell me the causes of her cry.

i asked her if she is really sure of what she is saying , i gave her a slap to make sure she is was conscious of what she is saying , she said yes Aunty.
I will protect and take care of her and i told her to keep this as a secret , the poor girl agreed and said she has forgiven him too.

Dear Aunty, you can't protect the child, please do let her go. Neither has she forgiven your brother, please do not influence her decision.

P. S. The child was behaving strangely, yet you couldn't be patient enough to calm her down but rather gave her 2 hot slaps (a traumatised child). She eventually opened up to you, you still slapped her to confirm if she was saying the truth, right?

Suzie1:


Dear Aunty, you can't protect the child, please do let her go. Neither has she forgiven your brother, please do not influence her decision.

P. S. The child was behaving strangely, yet you couldn't be patient enough to calm her down but rather gave her 2 hot slaps (a traumatised child). She eventually opened up to you, you still slapped her to confirm if she was saying the truth, right?

Sister: Child assaulter
Brother: Child rapist

I swear that girl don suffer for that house. I am very sure that's how she's bn using that poor girl's face as hand sanitizer whenever she feels the urge. But her own child was sick and she rushed him to the hospital! Yet she be using slaps to diagnose a young kid's problem. She n her brother are same and one!

I really wish this post gets to the FP and appropriate agencies look into the matter.

asapeola:

I would have him arrested if its within my capability but ofcourse this is a "faceless" forum as they say but from my first post i alrdy suggested they be arrested by the appropriate authorities. Crime is crime regardless of who's involved. Crime is mostly solved even when people volunteer as witnesses. I find it very surprising that u seem to trivialise a grave crime like rape of a minor and subsequent physical abuse by the sister (with her continuous barrage of slaps). Did u realise the situation in which the action was done? The boy's own niece was convulsing and rushed to the hospital, yet all he cld think of was rape and possible physical assault. In saner climes that you ("you" in dis case is a metaphor) all like comparing nigeria with, these crimes carry decades behind bars no matter how long it took the law to catch up with u a la roman Polanski and Harvey Weinstein. Using buhari as an example was because we all wanted to protect ourselves by asking him to close all borders even as his own daughter was still outside yet some of us still selfishly want this lady to protect her own brother too. Stay safe bro!

My problem with having civil conversations with a lot of you here is that you're quite adept at manufacturing interpretations that are not in line with the comment you quote.

At what point did you get the idea that I trivialised the crime of rape?

Calling out hypocritical dimwits who are advocating for his arrest is not the same as dismissing the crime. My comment simply denoted that for the OP, it won't be so easy to just have her brother arrested regardless of the crime like you all make it seem, especially when she knows how the Nigerian police handles criminals.
She's putting a lot of things into perspective first.


Your answer in the first sentence has a condition attached to it. You stated you would have your brother arrested IF... lol. And without even realizing it, you made my point.
I wonder what that if conditional clause is doing in your answer when you know a crime is a crime.
Would you even include an if assuming it's your own daughter that was raped and you had to arrest the rapist? I don't think so.

That's what I meant by self-interest bro... You couldn't even fake the fury/anger to type something like "of course, I will definitely arrest my idiot paedophile brother if he rapes my house girl..." Lol..
You're adding if... If what?

crackkhaus:

My problem with having civil conversations with a lot of you here is that you're quite adept at manufacturing interpretations that are not in line with the comment you quote.

At what point did you get the idea that I trivialised the crime of rape?

Calling out hypocritical dimwits who are advocating for his arrest is not the same as dismissing the crime. My comment simply denoted that for the OP, it won't be so easy to just have her brother arrested regardless of the crime like you all make it seem, especially when she knows how the Nigerian police handles criminals.
She's putting a lot of things into perspective first.


Your answer in the first sentence has a condition attached to it. You stated you would have your brother arrested IF... lol. And without even realizing it, you made my point.
I wonder what that if conditional clause is doing in your answer when you know a crime is a crime.
Would you even include an if assuming it's your own daughter that was raped and you had to arrest the rapist? I don't think so.

That's what I meant by self-interest bro... You couldn't even fake the fury/anger to type something like "of course, I will definitely arrest my idiot paedophile brother if he rapes my house girl..." Lol..
You're adding if... If what?

1. The "If" i used was because i misconstrued ur statement on whether we could get the boy in question arrested.
2. Even if he was my brother, "If" is still apllicable depending on my current location. If I'm around i would definitely get him reported.
3. By calling pple hypocrites in this situation is tantamount to supporting the evil deed (pls dnt patronise wt ur big grammatical jargons). It is not a time for buck passing but to admit crimes have been committed. Calling pple hypocrites sends a message of camaraderie to the lady n her rapist bro (like dont worry nothing is gonna happen after all they r not in ur shoes).
4. We r talking about the life of a little kid that has been foreverly affected, scarred and if care is not taken conditioned permanently to react when faced wt certain situations even if harmless. I have talked abt rape with a victim before n her reaction was touching even years after the incident.

You can call people dimwits or whatever, I hope ud find a name to call us when the table is turned in the near future. Shalom

What did I read I can’t help but comment. This poster you are one of the many reasons evil people dwell amongst sane people. This little girl’s life seems scarred for life. You are actually very cruel and still don’t sound apologetic about this. If any of my brother tries this he would face the full wrath of the law.

All evil perpetrators shouldn’t go scot free. You have succeeded in ruining this girl’s life. Even if your brother gets convicted it would take a really long while for this little girl to heal and get out of this trauma.

You should share your location if you really want justice for this helpless young girl. She needs standard medical attention and so much love and care now and forever, which I doubt you can provide.

Say no to RAPE and anyone who shields a rapist should equally be convicted No difference between both of you, orphans or whatever.

You guys should have more compassion knowing what it means to lose loved ones. I hate your lot if you expect pity because you are both orphans.

You ain’t even qualified to be a woman, yet you have given birth how terrible!!you lack motherly love in you and should wallow your head in shame.

Spits!!!

Tales by moonlight

asapeola:

1. The "If" i used was because i misconstrued ur statement on whether we could get the boy in question arrested.
2. Even if he was my brother, "If" is still apllicable depending on my current location. If I'm around i would definitely get him reported.
3. By calling pple hypocrites in this situation is tantamount to supporting the evil deed (pls dnt patronise wt ur big grammatical jargons). It is not a time for buck passing but to admit crimes have been committed. Calling pple hypocrites sends a message of camaraderie to the lady n her rapist bro (like dont worry nothing is gonna happen after all they r not in ur shoes).
4. We r talking about the life of a little kid that has been foreverly affected, scarred and if care is not taken conditioned permanently to react when faced wt certain situations even if harmless. I have talked abt rape with a victim before n her reaction was touching even years after the incident.

You can call people dimwits or whatever, I hope ud find a name to call us when the table is turned in the near future. Shalom

In the mind of a guiltless impartial person, being called a hypocrite will not evoke the kind of reaction you're exhibiting here, simply because you would know for a fact that identifying hypocrisy has absolutely no bearing on my moral judgement of the crime, but only shows my understanding of the OP's restraint given the circumstances.
Every law court judge on earth will back me on this.

In the mind of a true hypocrite like you however, and as a defense mechanism, being called a hypocrite means I am supporting the crime simply because you don't want to admit to yourself that deep down, you know you will definitely think twice before having your own brother arrested for raping a maid whom you probably never loved or treated like their your own daughter in the first place.

crackkhaus:
There is an infestation of self-righteous hypocritical persons on this thread.

As if any of you can have your blood brother arrested if you were to be the one in the OP's position.

You are really smart. The posters have no attachment to the boy, so it's easy to call for his head. While they see a criminal who should put to the sword, the OP sees a sinner that is not beyond redemption. It is a dilemma really.

The posters shouting traumatized and scarred for life bla bla bla are only saying things they see in Hollywood movies. They have no experience with any child that has been raped. Just emotions. A raped child can recover and live a full life.

crackkhaus:

In the mind of a guiltless impartial person, being called a hypocrite will not evoke the kind of reaction you're exhibiting here, simply because you would know for a fact that identifying hypocrisy has absolutely no bearing on my moral judgement of the crime, but only shows my understanding of the OP's restraint given the circumstances.
Every law court judge on earth will back me on this.

In the mind of a true hypocrite like you however, and as a defense mechanism, being called a hypocrite means I am supporting the crime simply because you don't want to admit to yourself that deep down, you know you will definitely think twice before having your own brother arrested for raping a maid whom you probably never loved or treated like their your own daughter in the first place.

I agree with u. Don't mind all those hypocrite. They think it is easy for the lady in question. I still maintain. What if the Rape in question carries a death sentence, Do they expect her to put her only brother in the limelight to be hanged without thinking twice? Let's take it easy on her abegii. E no easy jare

ThothHermes:
You are really smart. The posters have no attachment to the boy, so it's easy to call for his head. While they see a criminal who should put to the sword, the OP sees a sinner that is not beyond redemption. It is a dilemma really.

The posters shouting traumatized and scarred for life bla bla bla are only saying things they see in Hollywood movies. They have no experience with any child that has been raped. Just emotions. A raped child can recover and live a full life.

You are very stupid for saying this
Your foolishness knows no bounds
An 11 year old child was raped through the vagina and anus repeatedly and you think she can just move on like that?
Hear yourself "a raped child"
When they rape your daughters pat them on the back. OK?
When they sodomize your sons, take the rapists for counseling.
After all, they would get over it.
So a rapist is a sinner who needs redemption? Why are we now complaining that Buhari is rehabilitating Boko Haram
You people's foolishness is just wonderful

Rape apologists every where
You can tell the kind of parents they are by their posts.
A minor was sodomized and still slapped 3 times and when you call for justice, you a labelled a hypocrite.
May this befall on anyone who trivialises this 11 year old child's pain.
How can a mother even be slapping a child that just said she had been sodomized. Jesus! What kind of sick world do we live in?
Fools.

crackkhaus:

In the mind of a guiltless impartial person, being called a hypocrite will not evoke the kind of reaction you're exhibiting here, simply because you would know for a fact that identifying hypocrisy has absolutely no bearing on my moral judgement of the crime, but only shows my understanding of the OP's restraint given the circumstances.
Every law court judge on earth will back me on this.

In the mind of a true hypocrite like you however, and as a defense mechanism, being called a hypocrite means I am supporting the crime simply because you don't want to admit to yourself that deep down, you know you will definitely think twice before having your own brother arrested for raping a maid whom you probably never loved or treated like their your own daughter in the first place.

I really find it interesting ur frequent use of the word hypocrisy. Ur calling pple out for what exactly? What is ur intention for "attacking" people who advocated that the law should be allowed to take its course in the sense of justice for the innocent little kid. All ur jargons are meaningless to me cos ur imagination seems to be quite fertile for u to decide what i wld do if i were the lady. Bros, ur not me so dont speak for me or any one else!!!

I wonder where u studied ur law where it is written that sentiments are allowed in justice. A judge who overlooks a case of abetting crimes deserves to be de-benched n shot!

Ur gloating here cos its a stranger raped n ur not bothered. Like i said, when the tables r turned (not necesarrily rape) but a case where u feel helpless and the law is ur last resort, then the judge will also call u hypocrite n dismiss ur case! Shalom bro

Madam say the truth. If it was your husbands brother that raped little Grace like this, would you be so understanding?
Would you let him keep living with you people in that house?
It is well . Let us also remember that what goes around comes around.

asapeola:


I really find it interesting ur frequent use of the word hypocrisy. Ur calling pple out for what exactly? What is ur intention for "attacking" people who advocated that the law should be allowed to take its course in the sense of justice for the innocent little kid. All ur jargons are meaningless to me cos ur imagination seems to be quite fertile for u to decide what i wld do if i were the lady. Bros, ur not me so dont speak for me or any one else!!!

I wonder where u studied ur law where it is written that sentiments are allowed in justice. A judge who overlooks a case of abetting crimes deserves to be de-benched n shot!

Ur gloating here cos its a stranger raped n ur not bothered. Like i said, when the tables r turned (not necesarrily rape) but a case where u feel helpless and the law is ur last resort, then the judge will also call u hypocrite n dismiss ur case! Shalom bro

What I find disturbing about that sociopath's posts is that he does not even have any reprimands for the rapist. According to the psychopath you are quoting, the rapist is a national treasure that must be protected at all costs!
Anyone that remotely suggests punishment for him is a hypocrite.

Brazenbabe:
Rape apologists every where
You can tell the kind of parents they are by their posts.
A minor was sodomized and still slapped 3 times and when you call for justice, you a labelled a hypocrite.
May this befall on anyone who trivialises this 11 year old child's pain.
How can a mother even be slapping a child that just said she had been sodomized. Jesus! What kind of sick world do we live in?
Fools.

You know normally i dont comment on this forum, but honestly this free period has allowed me to log in n air my views. But I swear to God, if these guys are really real abt these comments, then there's a big big problem in our society. Even a female monicker is supporting these despicable crimes. We are talking abt crime they r talking abt hypocrisy and one is even saying if the penalty was death, will i betray my bro. My brother that was busy raping a child while i was in the hospital running around for my own child not to die! What has really happened to humanity