Martinez39s:
You are a big .... If you use your brain, will you die?

This thread was inspired by people like him.
if there were no sick people, there wouldn't be need for hospitals and doctors.

...Easy on the strong words.

Kindly edit your post to reflect and project that calm and collected side of yours willing to help the unlearned Boys .

Rich Regards
Don

Zabiboy:


Nothing.....

Jzt Move on.....act like u dont care..

Meet other girls and relate welll with them

GL

Thanks HARDDON any thoughts ?

Good evening guys, I really need your advice. There's this girl I met when returning to school in January, we met on the bus and she started a conversation with me, honestly she was very lively and fun, I was thinking of how to get her contact cos my phone was dead, when she gave me her phone to type my number, well I was glad. She later called in the night and we chatted on WhatsApp, she told me she has a boyfriend back in school(they're still together). The 4th day after we met this girl asked me for 6k to complete her house rent, well I told her I don't have, even if I did, I couldn't have given her, 4th day for God's sake. Now the issue is since I was unable to give her the money, she lost interest and is always boring when we chat, we've agreed to meet again , I don't wanna date her though. My question is should I go ahead? Hope she won't bill me, hope the date wouldn't be boring? Thanks.

OJLion:
Usually I don’t do stuff like this
But hell why not. ?

My relationship has spiraled out of control. I was in charge , then I fell in love and I feel this girl is just using me to catch cruise now .
What can I do to get the relationship back in line ?

It takes a mental mastery for a man to realise and admit his wrongs.
Hat's off.

at bolded, you already know what you should do.
Do it quickly before you lose more balls, life n limb.

Emeraldfynest:
Good evening guys, I really need your advice. There's this girl I met when returning to school in January, we met on the bus and she started a conversation with me, honestly she was very lively and fun, I was thinking of how to get her contact cos my phone was dead, when she gave me her phone to type my number, well I was glad. She later called in the night and we chatted on WhatsApp, she told me she has a boyfriend back in school(they're still together). The 4th day after we met this girl asked me for 6k to complete her house rent, well I told her I don't have, even if I did, I couldn't have given her, 4th day for God's sake. Now the issue is since I was unable to give her the money, she lost interest and is always boring when we chat, we've agreed to meet again , I don't wanna date her though. My question is should I go ahead? Hope she won't bill me, hope the date wouldn't be boring? Thanks.

cc: HARDDON

HARDDON:


This thread was inspired by people like him.
if there were no sick people, there wouldn't be need for hospitals and doctors.

...Easy on the strong words.

Kindly edit your post to reflect and project that calm and collected side of yours willing to help the unlearned Boys .

Rich Regards
Don

No hard feelings; I was even laughing (as seen by the emoji) when I typed that. I will edit my post.

Emeraldfynest:
Good evening guys, I really need your advice. There's this girl I met when returning to school in January, we met on the bus and she started a conversation with me, honestly she was very lively and fun, I was thinking of how to get her contact cos my phone was dead, when she gave me her phone to type my number, well I was glad. She later called in the night and we chatted on WhatsApp, she told me she has a boyfriend back in school(they're still together). The 4th day after we met this girl asked me for 6k to complete her house rent, well I told her I don't have, even if I did, I couldn't have given her, 4th day for God's sake . Now the issue is since I was unable to give her the money, she lost interest and is always boring when we chat, we've agreed to meet again , I don't wanna date her though. My question is should I go ahead? Hope she won't bill me, hope the date wouldn't be boring? Thanks.

You were an easy target by a seemingly lively yet highly manipulative lady who is totally in control of the flow between you two.

She told you she has a bf to kill any dating idea that might be playing in your mind . this is a classic manipulative move by ladies which I use alot too.

1. that statement simply means I'm not ready for dating drama. Rather I'm here for the money and fun.

2. I totally want to place you in a corner. clip your wings.


Her asking you for that money was another classic test/move.
She wants to test how financially buoyant you are and the depth of her manipulative fangs in you.

She lost interest because
a. she partially has proven that you ain't financially buoyant
b. She wants to emotionally blackmail you into submission.

Your respond here should have been : "Not so fast,you have to come and show me some skills first."
or some other line that tells her squarely you do understand what's up and she has to come please you first.


She agreed to meet so she can finally prove if you got money or not.
some guys would easily part with the money with just seeing her and a manipulative peck.

Others that gets her game would tell her to meet them at a hotel that they've made room reservation( this would tell her that they know what's up and are ready to pay for service).
Suggest any other place other than a motel or hotel and she would have you by the balls.

Your last question shows you are not ready for this kind of lady YET. So call off the date. but do it in an annoying way.
Play along till that day. When she arrives at the venue, tell her you are a moment off. Let her call and call and call.
NEVER SHOW UP. After that, block and delete her contacts.
no one has monopoly of madness.

A gurl that is rude enough to be this manipulative deserves no act of kindness.


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MY ADVICE?

Pull a German stunt on her.
Take her out to a very posh place for dinner. Throw jokes, make her very comfortable. After eating, while sipping your wine. Tell her that you have done alot of thinking about the relationship and couldnt see where it is heading. lLook at her straight in the eyes and Tell her , without flinching that you are calling it quits. wish her well in her future endeavours and roll out( go home) before she can recollect her self for any stupid speech.

After saying all those( just b4 u leave)

Call the waitress
Pay for your drinks( just yours)
Give the waitress extra cash(tips) for herself..

Then zoom off....

U hv suceeded in collecting ur BALLZ back

Emeraldfynest:
cc: HARDDON

I am not a pro in this game.. but guy just forget the girl.. ghost her. that girl no be am, unless you just wan smash and dip

Hello guys in the house... There's an issue bothering me.
So there's someone that i know in my department. I've talked to her twice and she seems nice, during this corocoro period i collected her number from someone and chatted her up...i told her i was a guardian angel coming to spread peace, love and shii and she replied with wow. I sent her a message and she replied with lol. Should i still continue. Just asking. I haven't replied the lol

Hello guys in the house... There's an issue bothering me.
So there's someone that i know in my department. I've talked to her twice and she seems nice, during this corocoro period i collected her number from someone and chatted her up...i told her i was a guardian angel coming to spread peace, love and shii and she replied with wow. I sent her a message and she replied with lol. Should i still continue. Just asking. I haven't replied the lol. I just have a mild crush on her

IAmRoot:
Hello guys in the house... There's an issue bothering me.
So there's someone that i know in my department. I've talked to her twice and she seems nice, during this corocoro period i collected her number from someone and chatted her up...i told her i was a guardian angel coming to spread peace, love and shii and she replied with wow. I sent her a message and she replied with lol. Should i still continue. Just asking. I haven't replied the lol. I just have a mild crush on her

Nigerian Gals nor jus Sabi chat...

I dey wait for wetin boss HARDDON wan talk make I learn

HARDDON:


You were an easy target by a seemingly lively yet highly manipulative lady who is totally in control of the flow between you two.

She told you she has a bf to kill any dating idea that might be playing in your mind . this is a classic manipulative move by ladies which I use alot too.

1. that statement simply means I'm not ready for dating drama. Rather I'm here for the money and fun.

2. I totally want to place you in a corner. clip your wings.


Her asking you for that money was another classic test/move.
She wants to test how financially buoyant you are and the depth of her manipulative fangs in you.

She lost interest because
a. she partially has proven that you ain't financially buoyant
b. She wants to emotionally blackmail you into submission.

Your respond here should have been : "Not so fast,you have to come and show me some skills first."
or some other line that tells her squarely you do understand what's up and she has to come please you first.


She agreed to meet so she can finally prove if you got money or not.
some guys would easily part with the money with just seeing her and a manipulative peck.

Others that gets her game would tell her to meet them at a hotel that they've made room reservation( this would tell her that they know what's up and are ready to pay for service).
Suggest any other place other than a motel or hotel and she would have you by the balls.

Your last question shows you are not ready for this kind of lady YET. So call off the date. but do it in an annoying way.
Play along till that day. When she arrives at the venue, tell her you are a moment off. Let her call and call and call.
NEVER SHOW UP. After that, block and delete her contacts.
no one has monopoly of madness.

A gurl that is rude enough to be this manipulative deserves no act of kindness.


I just saved you tons of stress and funds. if only you know...

Wow, thanks for this bro, or should I simply block her and move on, I mean why bother with setting up a date in the first place? And I was the one that asked her if we could meet again, not the other way round, then what do you mean by she blackmailing me into submission?

SkinnyNigga:
I am not a pro in this game.. but guy just forget the girl.. ghost her. that girl no be am, unless you just wan smash and dip

Thanks bro, I will adhere to this, I appreciate.

Emeraldfynest:
Wow, thanks for this bro, or should I simply block her and move on, I mean why bother with setting up a date in the first place? And I was the one that asked her if we could meet again, not the other way round, then what do you mean by she blackmailing me into submission?

Don't waste your money my brother
That money u will use in setting up a date, send it to your younger ones. Just block her & move on

xrayj:

Don't waste your money my brother
That money u will use in setting up a date, send it to your younger ones. Just block her & move on

Ok bro, I will do that.

Olasco93:
I think HARDDON should use simple words, those slangs you are using are not really helping at all. I expect you to use understandable words that every person should understand... Just my opinion though!

because the idea and words are not his but stolen like Chinese efforts to gain control globally.

IAmRoot:
Hello guys in the house... There's an issue bothering me.
So there's someone that i know in my department. I've talked to her twice and she seems nice, during this corocoro period i collected her number from someone and chatted her up ...i told her i was a guardian angel coming to spread peace, love and shii and she replied with wow. I sent her a message and she replied with lol. Should i still continue. Just asking. I haven't replied the lol. I just have a mild crush on her

@ Emboldened is why she is replying like that

1) collecting her number frm any source other than her directly indicates weakness and cowardice

2) she doesnt knw u so she doesnt want to b open...Hence showing u d ASD

What Do you Do:

You have to reveal urself to her but not in a straightforward way( so it wuld b fun)

Once m free, i'll cook up one or two lines u can use....

My 2 centa tho

Harddon would throw more light

HARDDON:


It takes a mental mastery for a man to realise and admit his wrongs.
Hat's off.

at bolded, you already know what you should do.
Do it quickly before you lose more balls, life n limb.

Yes
But my question per se is how ?
If you don’t understand I really do like this girl

Zabiboy:



After saying all those( just b4 u leave)

Call the waitress
Pay for your drinks( just yours)
Give the waitress extra cash(tips) for herself..

Then zoom off....

U hv suceeded in collecting ur BALLZ back

Ouch! Super mean! Ouch.

IAmRoot:
Hello guys in the house... There's an issue bothering me.
So there's someone that i know in my department. I've talked to her twice and she seems nice, during this corocoro period i collected her number from someone and chatted her up...i told her i was a guardian angel coming to spread peace, love and shii and she replied with wow. I sent her a message and she replied with lol. Should i still continue. Just asking. I haven't replied the lol. I just have a mild crush on her

You can't spring in with an element of Surprise/mystery( she doesnt know who you are) and make statements that are not open ended.
Statements that don't elicit responses.

before I proceed,
Reread that ice breaker of yours and come up with better ones.

we waiting...

Emeraldfynest:
Wow, thanks for this bro, or should I simply block her and move on, I mean why bother with setting up a date in the first place? And I was the one that asked her if we could meet again, not the other way round, then what do you mean by she blackmailing me into submission?

Oh sure. just block her and delete her.

You ain't ready for this kinda stunt yet.


Emotional blackmail:
She ask for stuff, you didnt give, she withdrew the lively and fun part and started giving you monos hoping that if she starves u of that, you'd roll over, ask for her Acnt, send the money so everything can go back to normal.

Classic move. even wifys use it on their husbys when they demand something and he isn't giving....

OJLion:

Yes
But my question per se is how ?
If you don’t understand I really do like this girl

the thing with falling in love and then start acting all needy and wussy is: once you lose your balls, the chances of getting them back are very slim.
it is like demoting your self from the owner of the house to a house boy.
It is like when you get to that point where your woman starts addressing you as YOUNG MAN.

You don't need a soothe Sayer to tell you that the time to move on has come. WHETHER YOU CARE SO MUCH ABOUT HER or not is irrelevant.

Why? because everything you do from that time forward, would further push her away and you lose more balls( respect), resources, life and limb. While she is basically restricting you access to places yet cheaply giving same away.

you might even turn to a gf beater.


Take a royal roll bro

ayoola27:


Nigerian Gals nor jus Sabi chat...

I dey wait for wetin boss HARDDON wan talk make I learn

Lol Lol .

HARDDON:


Oh sure. just block her and delete her.

You ain't ready for this kinda stunt yet.


Emotional blackmail:
She ask for stuff, you didnt give, she withdrew the lively and fun part and started giving you monos hoping that if she starves u of that, you'd roll over, ask for her Acnt, send the money so everything can go back to normal.

Classic move. even wifys use it on their husbys when they demand something and he isn't giving....

You're too much, I blocked her already, thanks.

Emeraldfynest:
You're too much, I blocked her already, thanks.

That doesn't take care of your dating knowledge deficiencies.

Now it's time to read and arm yourself.

Go back to page on of this thread and visit our blog ....

HARDDON:


That doesn't take care of your dating knowledge deficiencies.

Now it's time to read and arm yourself.

Go back to page on of this thread and visit our blog ....

Boss you haven't reply my message sir.

HARDDON:


Go back to page on of this thread and visit our blog ....

Doing that already.

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