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Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 2:27pm On Apr 06, 2020
missimelda01:


In other words only Christians that are virgins are allowed to abstain from sexual acts? What of non-virgins who have decided to be celibate till after marriage.. you're being one sided.

Okay. Disciplined Christians then. Who are matured (in the spirit).
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2020
Paxie55:
It's not easy my dear. cry
Especially when your partner is so sexy undecided
no be lie. My ex used to be a church girl with principles like no intimacy relationship and no premarital sex... until she met me..
Babe couldn't resist my sexiness grin
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Paxie55: 3:05pm On Apr 06, 2020
Semperty:
no be lie. My ex used to be a church girl with principles like no intimacy relationship and no premarital sex... until she met me.. bae couldn't resist my sexiness grin
Lol. I'm struggling with mine. grin
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by robosky02(m): 3:12pm On Apr 06, 2020
missimelda01:
Aside from the dangers of premarital sex, as Christians we know that fornication is a sin. Truth is, it's pretty difficult to totally disengage from every form of sexual act like kissing, smooching and the rest. My question is, as a Christian how do we totally avoid such things in a relationship?

Primadonna0
Ladylite

Your input would be appreciated.




Don't let anyone deceive you.....it is very possible as a Christian

Several people have a good testimony

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Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by spiceadole: 3:44pm On Apr 06, 2020
Having a no sex before marriage relationship has nothing to do with being a Christian.

Many Christians do not feel anything wrong with it ..some even justify it.

Its a matter of respect and value for one's body. Especially ladies.
Once a man fvcks you,he begins to see you like a slvt.
If a relationship without sex ends...Ladies can walk away with shoulders high..They lost nothing.
But men? They become the losers.

Men know that everything about a woman's pride lies in between her legs. that's why they will do anything to smash in there.

Women who have pride and value themselves do not engage in premarital sex.
If he so loves you,let him marry you.

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Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 7:35pm On Apr 06, 2020
spiceadole:
Having a no sex before marriage relationship has nothing to do with being a Christian.

Many Christians do not feel anything wrong with it ..some even justify it.

Its a matter of respect and value for one's body. Especially ladies.
Once a man fvcks you,he begins to see you like a slvt.
If a relationship without sex ends...Ladies can walk away with shoulders high..They lost nothing.
But men? They become the losers.

Men know that everything about a woman's pride lies in between her legs. that's why they will do anything to smash in there.

Women who have pride and value themselves do not engage in premarital sex.
If he so loves you,let him marry you.
You made some points, but I'd like to correct something, because some 'christians ' try to justify the act doesn't take away the fact that sexual purity is one of the most important thing to observe as a Christian. People remain celibate for different reasons but I'm referring to Christians in this post.

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Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Apr 06, 2020
IamDavids:


No qualms. What about when Uncle Coro's regime elapses?
No idea when it's gonna elapsed
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by IamDavids: 7:45am On Apr 08, 2020
Preshieben:
No idea when it's gonna elapsed

It's alright, I will pm you anyways
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Albertone(m): 10:19am On Apr 08, 2020
Preshieben:
chronic fornicators sad
Preshio!
See being in a relationship and avoiding fornication is like a herculean task.Even so called church brothers and sisters fall into the temptation.Unless it's a long distance relationship.
So "THEY" can't be blamed("they" because I'm not one of them lol)
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by rex444(m): 10:36am On Apr 08, 2020
you don't tell this to a rivers man....how can he be in a relationship that has marital prospects and not know the fertility level of the partner.... abeg even garri U wan buy, U no go taste am?? it's one sin we have all fallen short but as long as your conscience guides U and you listen to your inner voice .....live life ...yolo
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by cooljoe(m): 11:13am On Apr 08, 2020
Yall be speaking utopian scenarios. Say something practical. The only way is to not have a relationship shikenah. When u are ready to marry, and he or she is ready to marry, do ur courtship fast fast and marry.
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by cooljoe(m): 11:15am On Apr 08, 2020
robosky02:





Don't let anyone deceive you.....it is very possible as a Christian

Several people have a good testimony
is marriage now an award or achievement or proof of love
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:23am On Apr 09, 2020
Albertone:
Preshio!
See being in a relationship and avoiding fornication is like a herculean task.Even so called church brothers and sisters fall into the temptation.Unless it's a long distance relationship.
So "THEY" can't be blamed("they" because I'm not one of them lol)
Lolz
True
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Albertone(m): 10:31am On Apr 09, 2020
Preshieben:
Lolz
True
*winks*
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by mindsta(m): 2:08pm On Apr 14, 2020
Ladylite:




Errrrmm Hmmmmm

Another narrative is where you avoid sex, or sex chats and every sexual topic (because abstinence also means verbal+oral) ONLY to finally marry and discover that the man is a 2minute noodle man- ME I CAN NOT WAIT FOR THREE YEARS and be condemned to Indomie for 50+ years.

Soo also for some men who keep to the NO INTIMACY Before MARRIAGE commandments finally discover that the *holy* sister they married without touching or kissing is an expired and repentant HOE, while normal ladies have a HISTORY... Based on body count, she has a HOESTORY based on what is between her legs is now a Hole that has been over stretched beyond any hope of return. Ngbo, biko.. How will the HOELY Broda cope??

Jewessgratitudd
faithfull18



Sadly after Kwarantine, many HOELY peeps will go and collect IT heavily grin

So my philosophy is NOBODY HOLY or HOELY PASS.... I do not even believe any lady is a FARGIN anymore, because hiMEN na scam, our minds are so wild but our church faces and strict godly outward discipline bury our wetness as a witness that it is just lack of proper opportunity and fear of biological and spiritual and societal consequences that makes many of us close our legs o.


#nobodyholypass





Sorry ma, but u are very wrong.... God is too faithful n rewards u according to ur works. When you fervently keep yourself, He can never give u some hoe or fuckboy 2 marry....
What you give is wat u get.. Tnk u
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by mindsta(m): 2:14pm On Apr 14, 2020
missimelda01:
Aside from the dangers of premarital sex, as Christians we know that fornication is a sin. Truth is, it's pretty difficult to totally disengage from every form of sexual act like kissing, smooching and the rest. My question is, as a Christian how do we totally avoid such things in a relationship?

Primadonna0
Ladylite

Your input would be appreciated.



Hello, the first point i will note here is that it's not enough jst being a Christian, you have 2 b spiritual 2 avoid temptations..
And now to your question, you can not avoid those things if u aren't in a relationship with a God fearing person or better still, completely avoid relationships if u know you aren't prepared 4 marriage now cos come 2 think of it, what's your biz wit a relationship that might likely not lead 2 marriage?? It ain't necessary
Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by adexpa(m): 10:26am On Apr 16, 2020
Everything called sin are not for God but for our benefits and uplifting. Bible mentioned couple of things that we are not suppose engage ourselves, if we properly check all those things they are all for our good and not primarily to make heaven. Having premarital sex brings/bonds you to your partner emotionally and if anything like breakup(we are humans, breakup is inevitable in relationships) happens you will have your emotion suffer and one might not recover from it forever (not everybody handles breakup well). If you engage in adultery, the two of you might be emotional about it and it can destroy your already built home. All these things are for our own good n not for God.

If you want to avoid premarital sex;
1) Don't go to relationship when you are not ready to marry...you can have friends n make it strictly friends.... No friends with benefits
2) Long time relationship should be avoided n first rule will solve that. You can start relationship maybe when you are hoping to marry next year
3) Do not yoke with an unbeliever... Go with someone that believe in your orientation
4) state the rules from the beginning and abide by it.
5) Reduce your friendship with other opposite sex once you enter agreement with one person for relationship to avoid suspiciousness.
6) flee from all appearances of evil.... Try to avoid been in close door most time... You can visit but avoid closeness inside room
7) be determined to achieve it..... It is not easy but it is possible.

It is possible with reasonable partner cus it is not achievable alone, the two must agree.. Amos 3:3

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Re: As A Christian How Do You Avoid Premarital Sex In A Relationship? by Brunicekid(m): 6:17pm On Apr 18, 2020
IamDavids:
Forget Christianity, you can't avoid that shit abeg. The thing too sweet joor.
You can never forget CHRISTIANITY in this matter.

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