Rapmoney:
Anyone who doesn't want sex should stay off romantic affairs! Sex is a human act.

It's natural.

missimelda01:
Aside from the dangers of premarital sex, as Christians we know that fornication is a sin. Truth is, it's pretty difficult to totally disengage from every form of sexual act like kissing, smooching and the rest. My question is, as a Christian how do we totally avoid such things in a relationship?

Primadonna0
Ladylite

Your input would be appreciated.

missimelda01:

You mean romantic relationships?

Ladylite:




Errrrmm Hmmmmm

Another narrative is where you avoid sex, or sex chats and every sexual topic (because abstinence also means verbal+oral) ONLY to finally marry and discover that the man is a 2minute noodle man- ME I CAN NOT WAIT FOR THREE YEARS and be condemned to Indomie for 50+ years.

Soo also for some men who keep to the NO INTIMACY Before MARRIAGE commandments finally discover that the *holy* sister they married without touching or kissing is an expired and repentant HOE, while normal ladies have a HISTORY... Based on body count, she has a HOESTORY based on what is between her legs is now a Hole that has been over stretched beyond any hope of return. Ngbo, biko.. How will the HOELY Broda cope??

Jewessgratitudd
faithfull18



Sadly after Kwarantine, many HOELY peeps will go and collect IT heavily

So my philosophy is NOBODY HOLY or HOELY PASS.... I do not even believe any lady is a FARGIN anymore, because hiMEN na scam, our minds are so wild but our church faces and strict godly outward discipline bury our wetness as a witness that it is just lack of proper opportunity and fear of biological and spiritual and societal consequences that makes many of us close our legs o.


#nobodyholypass

Rapmoney:


Relationships between young men and women who are single and not related are meant to be romantic affairs.

missimelda01:


But it is possible to be in a 'romantic' relationship without necessarily having a romantic affair.

Ladylite:




Errrrmm Hmmmmm

Another narrative is where you avoid sex, or sex chats and every sexual topic (because abstinence also means verbal+oral) ONLY to finally marry and discover that the man is a 2minute noodle man- ME I CAN NOT WAIT FOR THREE YEARS and be condemned to Indomie for 50+ years.

Soo also for some men who keep to the NO INTIMACY Before MARRIAGE commandments finally discover that the *holy* sister they married without touching or kissing is an expired and repentant HOE, while normal ladies have a HISTORY... Based on body count, she has a HOESTORY based on what is between her legs is now a Hole that has been over stretched beyond any hope of return. Ngbo, biko.. How will the HOELY Broda cope


Sadly after Kwarantine, many HOELY peeps will go and collect IT heavily

So my philosophy is NOBODY HOLY or HOELY PASS.... I do not even believe any lady is a FARGIN anymore, because hiMEN na scam, our minds are so wild but our church faces and strict godly outward discipline bury our wetness as a witness that it is just lack of proper opportunity and fear of biological and spiritual and societal consequences that makes many of us close our legs o.


#nobodyholypass

missimelda01:
Aside from the dangers of premarital sex, as Christians we know that fornication is a sin. Truth is, it's pretty difficult to totally disengage from every form of sexual act like kissing, smooching and the rest. My question is, as a Christian how do we totally avoid such things in a relationship?

Primadonna0
Ladylite

Your input would be appreciated.

Ladylite:




Errrrmm Hmmmmm

Another narrative is where you avoid sex, or sex chats and every sexual topic (because abstinence also means verbal+oral) ONLY to finally marry and discover that the man is a 2minute noodle man- ME I CAN NOT WAIT FOR THREE YEARS and be condemned to Indomie for 50+ years.

Soo also for some men who keep to the NO INTIMACY Before MARRIAGE commandments finally discover that the *holy* sister they married without touching or kissing is an expired and repentant HOE, while normal ladies have a HISTORY... Based on body count, she has a HOESTORY based on what is between her legs is now a Hole that has been over stretched beyond any hope of return. Ngbo, biko.. How will the HOELY Broda cope??

Jewessgratitudd
faithfull18



Sadly after Kwarantine, many HOELY peeps will go and collect IT heavily

So my philosophy is NOBODY HOLY or HOELY PASS.... I do not even believe any lady is a FARGIN anymore, because hiMEN na scam, our minds are so wild but our church faces and strict godly outward discipline bury our wetness as a witness that it is just lack of proper opportunity and fear of biological and spiritual and societal consequences that makes many of us close our legs o.


#nobodyholypass

Magnoliaa:


Simply avoid them?

Should there be a how?

If you're both Christians and virgins, disciplined by the Spirit, I don't see how it should be an issue.

Though, a complete avoidance... of kissing,
hugging and the likes... are those sinful?

When does physical contact start becoming 'sinful?' When do you decide that?

Jewessgratitudd:


My stand in the matter still remains "no to premarital sex"
I thing I know for sure, God does not give His own bad gift. So He will not give me an "indomie" man.
As for a man settling for "borehole" God cannot give a genuine born again man who has dedicated his life and services to him a "borehole" except he's those fake bro that claim born again and still go behind to do the do and still come back claiming bro and saying " God is merciful ". Let's not be deceived, God is not mocked.

Shalom.

duchaB:


Lol.. Sister.. I really don't like what you are saying..stop it..
You are confusing me..
What concern borehole and indomie for this talk now..

missimelda01:

Yes, but is that realistic?

yanabasee:
I don't..... I have sex....


And I will make heaven.....


Having sex doesn't translate to evil..... infact, letting your conscience to fight you is the evil....



I live my life and I worship God the way that I know will please him.

IamDavids:
Forget Christianity, you can't avoid that shit abeg. The thing too sweet joor.

Magnoliaa:


Simply avoid them?

Should there be a how?

If you're both Christians and virgins, disciplined by the Spirit, I don't see how it should be an issue.

Though, a complete avoidance... of kissing,
hugging and the likes... are those sinful?

When does physical contact start becoming 'sinful?' When do you decide that?

yanabasee:
I don't..... I have sex....


And I will make heaven.....


Having sex doesn't translate to evil..... infact, letting your conscience to fight you is the evil....



I live my life and I worship God the way that I know will please him.

Teegelop:


And what Happened to Hebrews 13:4

"Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things. And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous."
Let us not satisfy carnal needs at the detriment of God's law.
You can get married in time to avoid pre-marital sex.

yanabasee:


Will you marry me??

Teegelop:

No wahala. #LOL#

IamDavids:
Forget Christianity, you can't avoid that shit abeg. The thing too sweet joor.

Ladylite:




Errrrmm Hmmmmm

Another narrative is where you avoid sex, or sex chats and every sexual topic (because abstinence also means verbal+oral) ONLY to finally marry and discover that the man is a 2minute noodle man- ME I CAN NOT WAIT FOR THREE YEARS and be condemned to Indomie for 50+ years.

Soo also for some men who keep to the NO INTIMACY Before MARRIAGE commandments finally discover that the *holy* sister they married without touching or kissing is an expired and repentant HOE, while normal ladies have a HISTORY... Based on body count, she has a HOESTORY based on what is between her legs is now a Hole that has been over stretched beyond any hope of return. Ngbo, biko.. How will the HOELY Broda cope??

Jewessgratitudd
faithfull18



Sadly after Kwarantine, many HOELY peeps will go and collect IT heavily

So my philosophy is NOBODY HOLY or HOELY PASS.... I do not even believe any lady is a FARGIN anymore, because hiMEN na scam, our minds are so wild but our church faces and strict godly outward discipline bury our wetness as a witness that it is just lack of proper opportunity and fear of biological and spiritual and societal consequences that makes many of us close our legs o.


#nobodyholypass

Preshieben:
chronic fornicators

IamDavids:


Coming from a bird of a feather, I am not vexed. We should hook up? What do you think?

Preshieben:
not in this uncle coro's regime

gremp:


There are a lot of question marks in your reply and I'm confused... My bad.

It's a razor-line pathway, there are times when your sexual desires are high and what used to be normal would seem erotic. Your mind when idle would feed on the brief moment of kissing your partner's lips or the feel, temperature and contour of your partner's body when both of you hugged. Remember in Matthew 5:28 when Jesus Christ talked about adultery committed when you lust after someone in your heart. So it's better not to give yourself reasons to fuel your lust as prevention is better than cure and I feel their passions can be unleashed after marriage .