My opinion

The guy is right. Ending things instead of cheating on her.

The girl is right too for wanting to wait for a guy that deserves it since she doesn't feel he does.

One thing I want ladies to know is that a guy asking for sex doesn't mean that's y he's in a relationship with you..

Niceeeee

Its a very tricky situation, men have almost no need but to be desired emotionally because every other thing he can do himself sadly it isnt really is a guarantee that he will stay. However the absence ofbit cannot sustain a relationship for the long term. So not giving a man sex is inconsequential to how the relationship will pan out all it does in the end is make him develope insecurities occasioned by her mistrust and in the end thats whay rather hurts the budding relationship. Relationships are a risk if you going in with one foot, you shouldn't be in one.

Selfish girl, no sex because that's what u want, what about him that wants sex, he should stay and do your wish? That guy is wise, keep deceiving yourself, he will see someone who is far better than u. It's as simple as he made it, he wants sex and u don't, so he moves on to find it, u shouldn't be pained, move on to find who is ready to wait for your fermented pussy

You give him sex..... he will dump you..
You refused him sex.... he will still dump you....



You dated three guys and they all dumped you and you feel the problem is them??

I've seen where a man married a virgin and still divorced her and she married another man, this time around, not as virgin....


This virgin idea doesn't help anymore.... You just have to live your life and be very careful...

if you want to remain a virgin, stay away from boyfriend. They'll always demand for it....


You can't have it both ways.... Except you meet someone that shares the same vision With you.....

and you say this is human to human conversation..... it's too telepathically, the time of reply is too close to be true huh

Both of dem dey sell fish

inderhappy:
and you say this is human to human conversation.....so oo telepathically, the time of reply is too close huh

you get am!

Funny part....you can't get anyone like me..who are you:the daughter of otedola!

hmmm

FAKE CONVERSATION STORY.

Stupid guys. You now want a lady to offer sex to every guy she meets because of love.

If she had sex with her 3 former boyfriends and now last fellow, the same guys campaigning for sex will call her a hoe.

The girl asked a nice question, he had sex with all his exes, wetin come out?
This is how they pressure girls into sex and come out to demand for virgins.
Kitikpa rachakwa unu ike.

If you lose a good girl as a man just because of sex, I pity you!

funshint:
If you lose a good girl as a man just because of sex, I pity you!

it's vice-versa bro

crazysam001:
Its a very tricky situation, men have almost no need but to be desired emotionally because every other thing he can do himself sadly it isnt really is a guarantee that he will stay. However the absence ofbit cannot sustain a relationship for the long term. So not giving a man sex is inconsequential to how the relationship will pan out all it does in the end is make him develope insecurities occasioned by her mistrust and in the end thats whay rather hurts the budding relationship. Relationships are a risk if you going in with one foot, you shouldn't be in one.

Just say once the commitment is there. The girl would know when to drop even without I do.

I have come to understand now that every relationship and marriage is give and take, there is nothing like true love anymore, just selfish desires and interests, virgin or not, sex or not, whosoever wants to leave will leave, and whoever wants to stay will stay, just pray not to have too many guys on your list.

Fountainofyouth:
I have come to understand now that every relationship and marriage is give and take, there is nothing like true love anymore, just selfish desires and interests, virgin or not, sex or not, whosoever wants to leave will leave, and whoever wants to stay will stay, just pray not to have too many guys on your list.

exactly.... sex or no sex whoever want to leave will do so. In her case maybe she's insecure about something, I mean after 3exs n now dis? Wetin happen

Sex again?


Wetin sex no go cost Nigerians.?

Paxie55:
The girl asked a nice question, he had sex with all his exes, wetin come out?
This is how they pressure girls into sex and come out to demand for virgins.
Kitikpa rachakwa unu ike.

Funny enough, if he had waited and proved his worth, the lady might have given it to him willingly. But demanding for it makes it seem like that's what he is in the relationship for.

I like the Lady. She stood her ground

It's very simple even it requires no logic
When she no give you pussy
You too don't give her money lobatan there's nothing hard there

you dont tell a girl you want sex, you make her get h0rny with words and touch. do it in the dark and hold her hand, all she needs is hear your voice softly whispering close to her ear.

when you learn to talk and touch, she would get it off herself.

the darkness is an added advantage, with more confidence you can pull it off in daylight

Silly girl. Go to Hell with your rotten cunt. How can you say what has become of his previous relationship which involve sex. You that has been refusing sex, what has happened to your previous relationships too? All I see is a girl who’s insecure and has a smelly Vj. The guy should seen it coming from a far, such delusional lady deserves to be 3rd or 4th side chick who will be restricted to cooking meals.

Fountainofyouth:
I have come to understand now that every relationship and marriage is give and take, there is nothing like true love anymore, just selfish desires and interests, virgin or not, sex or not, whosoever wants to leave will leave, and whoever wants to stay will stay, just pray not to have too many guys on your list.

that is why its a relationship in the first place. Even in the family where you are supposed to be loved unconditionally you still have roles to perform which could cost you the family's love and support if you are not performing them. Take for instance a mother that doesn't care for the children or a father that is irresponsible, the children may still see them as their parents because there is nothing they can do about them but will they love them?

Love is all about sacrifices - give and take. If you are in a place where you feel you are not reciprocated then japa. The young man wants sex the girl does not so it is best they part ways. She should go find someone who will reason with her or she should stay off relationships.

Ariza:
Funny enough, if he had waited and proved his worth, the lady might have given it to him willingly. But demanding for it makes it seem like that's what he is in the relationship for.

I like the Lady. She stood her ground

Nne, this is what we ladies see in the hands of these men. Most of them have nothing else in mind other than sex, it's quite devastating.
Laughable how they come online to turn the table around, shouting what girls have to offer other than sex, meanwhile, their sole aim of going into relationship is to have sex, deny them that sex, and they will take to their heels.
I love that lady!!

If a girl that isn't a virgin tries this shit ...what for
My gf tried these some months ago...that she wanted to keep herself to be sure...I told her...for wetin... Oya lemme go and staff cos I can't be Hot every night ....who nows another is pounding

difficult one here, the young man made a choice, the celibate lady should also keep to her choice and not try to guilt trip the guy.. relationship is about mutual agreement

quite franky if your Vagina is off limit to me then its better we keep things platonic


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Paxie55:

Nne, this is what we ladies see in the hands of these men. Most of them have nothing else in mind other than sex, it's quite devastating.
Laughable how they come online to turn the table around, shouting what girls have to offer other than sex, meanwhile, their sole aim of going into relationship is to have sex, deny them that sex, and they will take to their heels.
I love that lady!!

Lol make ladies wake up! They shouldn't be emotionally blackmailed into doing something they aren't ready for.

Ariza:
Lol make ladies wake up! They shouldn't be emotionally blackmailed into doing something they aren't ready for.

You are right.

A woman who doesn't want sex in a relationship should desist from having a boyfriend. you cannot come and be compiling our problem. we men go through alot. so adding emotional traumas will really complicate issues

When two people are not on thesame frequency, this is what happens.

Anyone who discusses sex or makes his or her partner to complain about sex has hidden issues.

If one person craves it before the other, there are issues.

Sex just happens..

Seconded

yanabasee:
You give him sex..... he will dump you..
You refused him sex.... he will still dump you....



You dated three guys and they all dumped you and you feel the problem is them??

I've seen where a man married a virgin and still divorced her and she married another man, this time around, not as virgin....


This virgin idea doesn't help anymore.... You just have to live your life and be very careful...

if you want to remain a virgin, stay away from boyfriend. They'll always demand for it....


You can't have it both ways.... Except you meet someone that shares the same vision With you.....

stvpid boy
smart girl