From the converation it is very clear that what the man really wants is sex and nothing else. You cannot force someone to have sex with you so it was better when he called things off. The relationship was never going anywhere good with what was going on. The girl already knew that the boy likes sleepping with his girlfriends in the past. If she clearly knew this then what was she even doing in the relationship. Men will always be men. Once they get a taste of the fruit they want more and more.There is no way a guy like that can then date a virgin. If he knnew that the girl is a virgin then he should have left her already. Trying to take away many peoples virginity is not the right way to go. The girl did the right thing. You cannot let a non virgin take away your virginity just like that.

KingZaddy:
you dont tell a girl you want sex, you make her get h0rny with words and touch. do it in the dark and hold her hand, all she needs is hear your voice softly whispering close to her ear.

when you learn to talk and touch, she would get it off herself.

the darkness is an added advantage, with more confidence you can pull it off in daylight

The darkness is an added advantage hmmmm.... You're experienced lol

I honestly do not believe in what the guy ont the text is saying. How does having sex with someone show that they trust you with their bidy. This kind of things happen everyday and then the girl gets pregnant and the man flees like he did not see anything. Sex before marriage has never been a good idea. The girl litearally said that she wants to wait for them to get married and the boy still persists on sex being a sign of trust. If he trusts the girl then he should also accept her wish to wait till marriage. Breaking up with someone that fast because they do not want to get intimate with you is just crazy. The boy has no ability to reason. he clearly does not love the girl. Love is patient and is willling to change for the person you lobve. He should sotp his desire for sex for the sake of his girlfriend.

yanabasee:
You give him sex..... he will dump you..
You refused him sex.... he will still dump you....



You dated three guys and they all dumped you and you feel the problem is them??

I've seen where a man married a virgin and still divorced her and she married another man, this time around, not as virgin....


This virgin idea doesn't help anymore.... You just have to live your life and be very careful...

if you want to remain a virgin, stay away from boyfriend. They'll always demand for it....


You can't have it both ways.... Except you meet someone that shares the same vision With you.....

I fault your reasoning small.

How will you find husband without meeting boyfriend?

Sixfeetbelle:


I fault your reasoning small.

How will you find husband without meeting boyfriend?

Then make the sacrifice or wait until you find a man that will share the same vision of no sex till marriage....

These days relationships are all about sex. Without it they seem pretty useless. That is the treand and finding a partner that disagrees with that fact can cause relationships to die down really fast. The guy wanted it and te girl did not. There is usually a high chance that after a couple have sex for the first time thay are more likely to break up. There is usually a feeling that comes after they are intimate and thay start doubting each other. It is sweet whan you are still trying to get it but after you get it it is no longer that interesting. The guy had had a lot of sexual relationships in the past judging from the conversation. Why did his past relationships end if all the girls he got intimate with trusted him with their bodies.

The guy is right for breaking up with the girl. He said that he did not want to cheat on her which many men do in the new age. I have seen men sleeping with other girls because their girlfriends are saving themselves for money.They go on unnoticed and finall get married to the girl and get what they wanted all a long. He did the right thing because that is obviously what he would have got himself into.Once you lose your virginity you have tokeep on going. Stoping is next to impossible. It is like drug addiction. Once you have had a taste you will keep on wanting more and more. The only way for a relationship to work out is if both partners are virgins or non virgins. I have done my research and that is the fact. It may not work in some cases but rarely.