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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Powerintoxicate: 12:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
Swiitdoll:
They are all probably hell bent on strictly dating Nigerian men only or African men only. I’m sure other races of men look at them and they ignore. It was same in U.K. a while ago till they started opening up their options. They should give other races of men a chance let’s see if they’ll still be lonely after that.
don't fool yourself. No other race wants Nigerian women. Most times those marriages end in divorces. Nigerian women are not just attractive and only attractive to their fellow Nigerian men

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by pseudonomer: 12:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.


Most ladies in Nigeria will pretend to love you like forever as soon as you tell them you live abroad which can be very confusing... even the ones that was playing some form of hard to get back then will suddenly build this kind of “loving you” stuffs.

I think I will start thinking in your direction from now, it doesn’t worth it... bringing a lady from Nigeria, and things later get so messy. Every married “egbons” that I know abroad always beg me not to marry Nigerians.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
sexylassie2:


can you forgive an adulterous woman if you are married to one?

wont you divorce her?

you want the women to take all ills while the men go about sleeping with every women and then bring home disease.
he betrayed her and no body on earth will be comfortable with betrayal.
There are things I considered when I wanted to get MARRIED and I prayed about them.
I am not the PRAYERFUL type but GOD answers me each time I call on him.
May be because I call on him in my Native Language grin grin grin.
If MY PRESENT WIFE does so of which I know it's almost impossible, I will forgive her straightaway, but on some conditions.
She will earn forgiveness from me.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by snipesdam(m): 12:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.


Lovely so lovely...

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by madridsta007(m): 12:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
Gerrard59:


Wait bros, are you saying black women aren't really that beautiful compared to other races? Even in the US?

Lol no one referred to black women as a general group.
Read the thread again Bros.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bukatyne2: 12:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
jaxxy:


Beyounce home isn't broken. because they cud work it out and both agreed to. Cheating doesn't automatically destroy a home. The modern day family has done well to improve many things from our older marriages bt they have failed to make it last.

Modern Marriages now don't last because both party don't know how to handle issues.

What would you advice if a wife cheated on her husband?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by azpekuliar: 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
Nuel4:
I'm not Googling anything. Just in case you didn't know Google is one of the most radically leftist organisations in the world. The main group of people who want to turn the world upside down. It should not be hard for you to tell me how women are oppressed since you are a woman.
LGBT nonsense has nothing to contribute to the society, it is not even in any way comparable to racial discrimination. All races whether blacks, whites Asians and Arabs dislike a group of people that are defying natural order and want to be celebrated for it. white people hate gays as much as blacks the only problem is that whites can't show it because of hypocritical bosses and government, who would never ever want their children to be gays or transgender but would quickly sack them in order to appear woke.

Let me tell you this, every single idea you have on how women were oppressed has an even worse equivalent in what men suffered at that same time. What they teach you in your victimhood cult of Feminism is just cherry picking

Your ignorance stinks the high heavens! I advice that you stop polluting the thread with it. Or better still that lady should just stop engaging you so you can just go on to other matters you maybe better versed in.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Analysiscorner: 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
Sanctification1:
To buttress your various points... currently, i have friend in CA about three girls are fighting on one guy that just entered from Nig . in the means of dragging him they used their to own to affect the guy and he was deploy back to Nig after one among them lay some serious accusations on him......To be candy, black girls over are somehow and boredom really killing them.
So sad.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Varys: 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
I remember my encounter with a Naija girl at Loblaws in Queens and Richmond Toronto. She walked up to me and asked if I was single just because she heard me speaking yoruba on a call.

Na fine girls sha.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Mizwisdom(f): 12:39pm On Apr 09, 2020
My advice to them is to settle for less or import a hungry nigger from Nigeria

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by SUGARCyprian247: 12:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
FOR REAL?

oh Damn! I wish I would get to meet any of them. At least an average good looking and below 28.

I want a career woman in my life.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by generationz(f): 12:40pm On Apr 09, 2020
BestAccessories:


Prenuptial agreement doesn't really sort this thing out, it only delay it from happening very quickly.

Read up about Janet Jackson last divorce from her billionaire husband.

The singer split from her billionaire husband after five years of marriage. The couple welcomed their son, Eissa Al Mana on Jan. 3, 2017, then separated a little more than a week later. Before that, Jackson announced they were trying to start a family and therefore canceled her world tour.

Jackson could get up to $200 million due to the terms of their prenup, according to Page Six. Her personal net worth is reported to be $150 million. Family sources also revealed that she would be entitled to $100 million if they were married for at least five years and according to the New York Post, she would also get another $100 million if they had a child.


Some ladies major business in America and Europe, is to get married to a rich guy, divorce his ass, split his wealth.

Many so called celebrities there do that to accumulate wealth.

Read up on the Kardashian sisters and how they make their initial millions.

Cheers

Sources - https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/things-we-know-about-janet-jacksons-divorce.html/


https://www.thedailybeast.com/inside-janet-jacksons-billion-dollar-divorce-singer-tired-of-being-the-obedient-muslim-wife


Ahn Ahn, only one Kardashian sister (Chloe) was married before Kim and she didn't get spousal support.

The Kardashians are self made millionaires (and a billionaire) through their mom and Kim's influence.
Not all women's wealth is linked to men in their lives.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by hAlexandro(m): 12:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
grin grin I Concur yeah. I've had 2 various offers. One lives in Manitoba rich young banker. She needs a guy from 9ja here in the other is from Edmonton also busty girl of Nigeria descent

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by joelag: 12:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
Maduawuchukwu:



How far bro? Make we talk about this babe nah?

Next week. But did you see my last line.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by naijacann: 12:41pm On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

$3.5k a month is a very poor salary here in Canada. Which city does the person live? If Toronto, then that's equivalent to earning 120k naira per month in Abuja. A one bedroom apartment here inToronto goes for 1500$ per month cheapest. Some areas goes for 1900$ a month. Does she drive? She spends like 200$ per month for auto insurance. Phone, internet and other utilities gulps like 500$ per month. Reserve about $300 for feeding per month. Plz how much money is left? By the way, 1cnd$=280 naira as at today.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by BarrElChapo(m): 12:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
Martinez39s:
People don't realise that female nature is universal. If you pick a wife in Nigeria and send her abroad to come live with you, she will most likely destroy you in the family courts at one point once she learns about the system and gets engrossed in feminism over there. At that point, she doesn't have to be loyal and submissive because the court system has given her all the power over you in the relationship. Those who live abroad and think picking a wife in Nigeria will guarantee a loving, well-cultured, traditional, and submissive wife are under a great misapprehension. Once these women learn the system and embrace radical feminism over there, the man is done for.

What do you suggest as the ultimate advice ?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by joelag: 12:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
joshboo:

Bro link up na

Did you see my last line?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
pseudonomer:


Most ladies in Nigeria will pretend to love you like forever as soon as you tell them you live abroad which can be very confusing... even the ones that was playing some form of hard to get back then will suddenly build this kind of “loving you” stuffs.

I think I will start thinking in your direction from now, it doesn’t worth it... bringing a lady from Nigeria, and things later get so messy. Every married “egbons” that I know abroad always beg to me not to marry Nigerians.
You are CORRECT.
that's why you see me advising GUYS on NAIRALAND to marry LADIES that are resourceful and have so many things to offer beyond sexxx.
I have sexxx with my wife as expected but that's not exactly what keeps the MARRIAGE going.

COMMITMENTS and LOVE keep it going.
Sexxx Is just a Bedmatic prize for a Romantic Fantasy.
After 24hrs of SEXXX, what Next..?
In the US, u pay Bills Every Day.
Most LADIES in diaspora here are hardworking
AVOID mentally LAZY GIRLS.

If you get a GOOD ONE, message me I will support your marriage, financially.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by kem9491: 12:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Donpenny(m): 12:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
I need a very good and heard working Canada or USA base girl for a serious relationship. I work here with a multinational in PH and I do shuttle bwt the aforementioned countries often cux of the nature of my job. DM allanturing985@gmail.com for hook up
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by generationz(f): 12:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
BestAccessories:


Prenuptial agreement doesn't really sort this thing out, it only delay it from happening very quickly.

Read up about Janet Jackson last divorce from her billionaire husband.

The singer split from her billionaire husband after five years of marriage. The couple welcomed their son, Eissa Al Mana on Jan. 3, 2017, then separated a little more than a week later. Before that, Jackson announced they were trying to start a family and therefore canceled her world tour.

Jackson could get up to $200 million due to the terms of their prenup, according to Page Six. Her personal net worth is reported to be $150 million. Family sources also revealed that she would be entitled to $100 million if they were married for at least five years and according to the New York Post, she would also get another $100 million if they had a child.


Some ladies major business in America and Europe, is to get married to a rich guy, divorce his ass, split his wealth.

Many so called celebrities there do that to accumulate wealth.

Read up on the Kardashian sisters and how they make their initial millions.

Cheers

Sources - https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/things-we-know-about-janet-jacksons-divorce.html/


https://www.thedailybeast.com/inside-janet-jacksons-billion-dollar-divorce-singer-tired-of-being-the-obedient-muslim-wife


Ahn Ahn, only one Kardashian sister (Chloe) was married before Kim and she didn't get spousal support.

The Kardashians are self made millionaires (and a billionaire) through their mom and Kim's influence.
Not all women's wealth is linked to men in their lives.


In Janet Jackson case, being a wife to an Arabian man who values subservient/stay at home wives made her loose money from tours etc. He didn't sign the contract blindly. He knew what he stood to lose and left all the Arabian women for an older American entertainer.


Same way Mariah carry sued James Parker for canceling their wedding and wasting her time. She got $5M.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Albertone(m): 12:43pm On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.
Whizqueen is it true? Lol
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nairalandmonika: 12:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:


Don't ever consider MARRIAGE until you find a LADY that LOVES you more than she loves herself and also more than you Love her.
Don't WASTE your MARRIAGE oooo.

For US here, them many but NOBODY they near them again.
I don't match my relatives with NIGERIAN LADIES again. It's a Vow that I have made.
MY WIFE even detests such.
She always ask the MEN to go to NIGERIA themselves and pick their packages grin grin grin grin
My PEOPLE have suffered in their HANDS.
Some even escape right at the AIRPORT and elope with BF Men.
Some choose Social Gatherings to escape.
Even coming back to Nigeria and picking a wife still did not help my uncle.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Bizibi(m): 12:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.
this is serious
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by TLION(m): 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
PrinxArthur1:
This is the type of thread I love to see!!!
. How you no go love am grin grin grin
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by bilulu(m): 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
Mstick:
The truth is you've said EVERYTHING.

The reason majority of Nigerians accept and stay in bad marriages is because of finance and bad government policies.

I am sure millions of women putting up with bad husbands will walk away if we had similar structure as Canada or other European countries.

It's not love that make them stay but lack of opportunities.
Let me give you a live story of a Nigerian couple.... The woman is a nurse and the man decided to switch career and started studying nursing because there is money. The woman said the man wants to start competing with her in her career and the man should drop, the man refused. So she thought the man was joking and he continued. The woman had to divorce the man because she felt the man is competing with her. You can see the flimsy excuse. My dear men are suffering in this part of the world. The quickest way to lose everything you work for is through your wife.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
I hate seeing her CRY...

Wow you are so wonderful I love thls your comment I wish I can double like it for you lol

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Kennedyiheme02: 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
so as i dey, i will leave nigeria, go canada con go dey date nigerian babe? the one wey i do here never do?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by sexylassie2(f): 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

There are things I considered when I wanted to get MARRIED and I prayed about them.
I am not the PRAYERFUL type but GOD answers me each time I call on him.
May be because I call on him in my Native Language grin grin grin.
If MY PRESENT WIFE does so of which I know it's almost impossible, I will forgive her straightaway, but on some conditions.
She will earn forgiveness from me.

you will forgive her because you will lose.

if you had nothing to lose, i am sure you wont forgive her.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 09, 2020
Husband is everywhere
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by odinga1of: 12:46pm On Apr 09, 2020
Aboguede:


Oga give me the site here sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Am in europe and tired of agbo and EDO girls with their little brain

Boss plz forward the site to me too jojjokeharry3@gmail or jokeharry1@gmail.com

Thanks

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