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Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 11:20pm On Apr 08, 2020
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by dawnomike(m): 11:31pm On Apr 08, 2020
Well, i kind of disagree with that...

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 08, 2020
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Cruzzygraphics4: 11:36pm On Apr 08, 2020
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:38pm On Apr 08, 2020
I guess this is what emmaodet was talking about. Lol



Lemme learn grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:39pm On Apr 08, 2020
gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected.

Eeyah, aside for the lonely pussies, what else do you observed that is positive.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 08, 2020
so why are they not dating the white men dere

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:41pm On Apr 08, 2020
fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 11:44pm On Apr 08, 2020
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Eeyah, aside for the lonely pussies, what else do you observed that is positive.
The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 11:46pm On Apr 08, 2020
lefulefu:
so why are they not dating the white men dere
A couple of reasons. They don't know how to approach, since they have never approached a man all their life. Na una Naija guys dey rush them na, lol.
Two, the white guys don't really find them attractive. Some asian men do though. Some Nigerian men also do. But because most Nigerian guys are not stable (i..e they are still working survival jobs), they are not ready to marry.
Trust me , these Nigerian girls are in serious dilemma.

Again, if you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada. Think twice about it. Be sure that's what you really want.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 11:48pm On Apr 08, 2020
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:50pm On Apr 08, 2020
fairfora:
I always notice that too. Guys are also scared of getting married over there, irrespective of their employment status, dunno why

You are better off with gf and baby mamas there than getting married.

Half of your networth would be gone by the time she decide to leave you or when you wanna move on.

Example: Jeff Bezos paid MacKenzie Bezos $35 billion in 2019 to get a divorce (Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces)

Below are amount paid to their wives to get divorced

1. Alec Wildenstein and Jocelyn Wildenstein, 1999 $3.8 billion
2. Rupert Murdoch and Anna Torv, 1999 $1.7 billion
3. Bernie Ecclestone and Slavica Radi, 2009 $1.2 billion
4. Steve and Elaine Wynn, 2010 $1 billion
5. Harold Hamm and Sue Ann Arnall, 2012 $975 million
6. Adnan Khashoggi and Soraya Khashoggi, 1980 $874 million
7. Dmitry Rybolovlev and Elena Rybolovlev, 2014 $604 million
8. Craig McCaw and Wendy McCaw, 1997 $460 million
9. Mel Gibson and Robyn Moore, 2006 $425 million
10. Bob Johnson and Sheila Crump Johnson, 2002 $400 million

(Source - https://www.pulse.ng/bi/finance/the-10-most-expensive-divorce-settlements-in-history-total-over-dollar11-billion/g65zsmq)

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by feedthenation(m): 11:50pm On Apr 08, 2020
The cold weather also plays a part, distance between two locations etc etc

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 11:53pm On Apr 08, 2020
feedthenation:
The cold weather also plays a part, distance between two locations etc etc
Yeah, a little bit.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 11:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
Why won't they be lonely? The relationship climate over there is quite different. And trust naija guyz na canadian babes or any other foreigner sure pass.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Charleys: 12:06am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

Yeah, a little bit.

How much do the average make immigrants earn over there?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by emmaodet: 12:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Ariza:
I guess this is what emmaodet was talking about. Lol



Lemme learn grin

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U see say i no lie.
Aje ke lana, omo ku leni. Tani o mo wipe aje toke lana lo pa omo leni. - A witch cried bitterly yesterday, a child dies today. If we put 2+2 together, it is safe to assume the bitter witch, killed the child.
Yesterday morning, told you on a thread how we have a lot of nigerian ladies littering the cities of developed nations most lonely and dejected. And here we have it - a similar thread been opened acknowledging my comment.
Is pur Lord not a good God Maria

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by JustinNepolian: 12:09am On Apr 09, 2020
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Your only hope of acceptance is from the church particularly Pentecostals but you've got to prove yourself worthy of their trust like being very committed or joining any department in the church... Too bad if you ain't a church goer of which most indulge to kill boredom.

School is a very good avenue to showcase yourself and talent of which you've got to be at the top of your game...before they somehow get to accept you and as for marriage, those guys are afraid of anything beginning with M- word.

Truth is many people that moved there are surprised, disappointed and depressed with what the got upon arrival. Weather nkwanu...is discouraging because you can't put up with the snow for too long.

If you're a student try to have a girlfriend particularly blacks that are citizens before you graduate... It will help you to break the barrier easily and don't be greedy because it will kill your chances...and this is my conclusion Canada is better than US..100times and that's if you want peace of mind.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

My brother, not only in Canada, come and observe small in Nigeria.

If you have time, take time out to visit Lekki, Ikoyi or Victoria Island and you would see the height of loneliness (Guys & Babes). See beyond the big houses, the flashy cars and the rest. Look at the person living in the house or riding the big car.

I will however, not discourage anyone (male or female) from travelling for greener pasture or to earn more money as far as you can cope.

Making more money also comes with depression and it isn't everyone that know how to cope or manage the pressure that comes with having more money at your disposal. You have all the resources to make you comfortable but can't find true love.

You don't know if the babe or guy you are dating is dating you for your money or really love you. Making more money also comes with arrogance. You don't wanna take shit from anyone, because he earns good money and you also earn good money, so why should I take shit from you.

Until you reach certain level, you can't understand what it takes to survives there.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by kalufelix(m): 12:21am On Apr 09, 2020
Not just Canada ..but diaspora at large...African girls can house and feed a man as long as he stays with her...oyibo prick no dey strong and African guys dey find foreign women...

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 12:22am On Apr 09, 2020
Charleys:


How much do the average make immigrants earn over there?
$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 12:23am On Apr 09, 2020
JustinNepolian:
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Strong point! And their thinking is just immature.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 12:42am On Apr 09, 2020
JustinNepolian:
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Your only hope of acceptance is from the church particularly Pentecostals but you've got to prove yourself worthy of their trust like being very committed or joining any department in the church... Too bad if you ain't a church goer of which most indulge to kill boredom.

School is a very good avenue to showcase yourself and talent of which you've got to be at the top of your game...before they somehow get to accept you and as for marriage, those guys are afraid of anything beginning with M- word.

Truth is many people that moved there are surprised, disappointed and depressed with what the got upon arrival. Weather nkwanu...is discouraging because you can't put up with the snow for too long.

If you're a student try to have a girlfriend particularly blacks that are citizens before you graduate... It will help you to break the barrier easily and don't be greedy because it will kill your chances...and this is my conclusion Canada is better than US..100times and that's if you want peace of mind.
The situation doesn't only apply to black ladies mind you. White ladies too suffer same boredom...theirs is even worse and often leads to suicide...boredom among girls over there isn't race-related at all.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by doggedfighter(f): 12:46am On Apr 09, 2020
gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny grin
Since you are on yansh opening spree I hope you are giving us the true situation of things

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Kobicove(m): 1:01am On Apr 09, 2020
doggedfighter:

Since you are on yansh opening spree I hope you are giving us the true situation of things

I think he is telling the truth

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by doggedfighter(f): 1:03am On Apr 09, 2020
Kobicove:


I think he is telling the truth
Oh...... Great then

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by adexpa(m): 1:13am On Apr 09, 2020
Generally, it is not advisable for women to focus on money too much n neglect marriage thinking she can always find marriage later..... Such ideology can work for men n not women. It is good for women to locate marriage and start pursuing money with her husband than doing it alone. What op is saying happens virtually everywhere including Nigeria here. It is always tough for women to find love after making money.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by BusterG: 1:26am On Apr 09, 2020
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Designer123: 1:30am On Apr 09, 2020
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Teaser4(m): 1:39am On Apr 09, 2020
Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.
mad go kee 'em

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by potent5(m): 2:32am On Apr 09, 2020
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You are better off with gf and baby mamas there than getting married.

Half of your networth would be gone by the time she decide to leave you or when you wanna move on.

Example: Jeff Bezos paid MacKenzie Bezos $35 billion in 2019 to get a divorce (Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces)

Below are amount paid to their wives to get divorced

1. Alec Wildenstein and Jocelyn Wildenstein, 1999 $3.8 billion
2. Rupert Murdoch and Anna Torv, 1999 $1.7 billion
3. Bernie Ecclestone and Slavica Radi, 2009 $1.2 billion
4. Steve and Elaine Wynn, 2010 $1 billion
5. Harold Hamm and Sue Ann Arnall, 2012 $975 million
6. Adnan Khashoggi and Soraya Khashoggi, 1980 $874 million
7. Dmitry Rybolovlev and Elena Rybolovlev, 2014 $604 million
8. Craig McCaw and Wendy McCaw, 1997 $460 million
9. Mel Gibson and Robyn Moore, 2006 $425 million
10. Bob Johnson and Sheila Crump Johnson, 2002 $400 million

(Source - https://www.pulse.ng/bi/finance/the-10-most-expensive-divorce-settlements-in-history-total-over-dollar11-billion/g65zsmq)
But prenuptial agreement can sort this out if the woman is for real and the man wants it.

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