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sexylassie2:
So how many Nigerian men go into marriage with substantial inheritance

How many Nigerian men ask for prenups?

Actually, you should be asking “how many Nigerian men ask for prenups when they are clearly the lesser earner?”

You don’t ask your babe for a prenup if you have nothing to lose, well, except your relationship, of course.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

She Doesn't have God and she doesn't love you, I'm soRRy. A woman who truly loves her man won't put him through that no matter the GReViance.

PrincessJr:
Did you just exaggerate?

Bby girl i swear i got tripping for the flushness of your skin and it's natural allure

deleson:
This is, perhaps, the thread of the week; widely read with a plethora of comments.

A couple of expressed thoughts are based on mere speculations and sweeping generalisations that do not hold sway.

Every society has its dynamics. Understanding the workings of each society will give you mastery and penetrative advantage.

Right here in Nigeria, there are thousands of men and women professionally doing well who are not considering relationship or marriage. Same way, there are others who are interested in relationship/marriage but have not found any...Yes, some of them are lonely while others really do not care and are not lonely.

So, saying all ladies out of relationship or marriage are lonely, is absolutely wrong and unfounded.

Except God helps a man, the race to life, happiness and joy in marriage will end in futility.

Life is spiritual.

That is it. I have a female friend currently in Canada. B4 she left , I linked her to atleast 3 ppl , tall ,educated ppl with florishing career, ppl with money ooo but she was hesistant. Even after she left, one is still ready to marry her but considering staying apart as time no dey. Sometimes , I wonder what she wants in a man? I have advised her to take a step of faith as she has few years to hit 40 but no she won't. Somehow I feel she has made a choice to remain a single lady. Op will see someone like her and say she is lonely, no she is not. It is just her choice.

AfroKnight:
How many Nigerian men ask for prenups?

Actually, you should be asking “how many Nigerian men ask for prenups when they are clearly the lesser earner?”

You don’t ask your babe for a prenup if you have nothing to lose, well, except your relationship, of course.

They don't have nothing, many go broke into a relationship that is why they want us to struggle with them in their poverty.

Stop hyping your self you Nigerian men. The ego is too much.

InvertedHammer:
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Who wins at the end of a divorce? The lawyers on both sides.

Once you fill out the asset declaration forms and they see your overall networth, they will drag the divorce for more billable hours. Once the fund is exhausted, they will start suggesting amicable resolution

Only full-blown morons fall for their gimmick. God forbid your ex to be is an emotional train wreck, they will milk her to the last drop.

It pays to take a trip to a divorce proceeding not the tv show. You may never get married after the experience.

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Kennedyiheme02:
lol you can fight me, you cant fight reality and nature, chase that career and see what happens to you... take a pen and paper, create a diary with my username, stating i warned you

You keep screaming but nobody can hear you. The feeling is draining I know.

What did you say? We truly are unable to hear you.

Nuel4:
can you explain to me how women were oppressed by our ancestors?
Celebration of LGBT is an aberration of societal norms and values.

Bro leave that girl alone. The most important thing in life is having a good family it's simple as ABC but difficult to attain. Nothing comes before family Until all this retards realize earlier the better for them.

All these small small girls who are still far from menopause allow the old mamas to deceive them. One question this ladies should ask themselves, who will take care of you at your old age, who's going to give you a befitting burial if not your kids. Ladies who are close to menopause knows this secrets that's why they have a baby at all cost. The likes of Linda ikeji and Halima knows better. No matter how we try to manipulates God's plan it'll still hunt us down. Nigerian men are one of best in the world take it or leave it and the girls we've in our generation most of them don't deserve us.

With all the upper hand the system gives the women in the West their men still misbehaves only the rich ones are caught in the Web or immigrants but the poor nationals still defy child support I've come across many.

Mizwisdom:
My advice to them is to settle for less or import a hungry nigger from Nigeria

settling for less is bad it will kill you psychologically

EVILFOREST:
What do you do, just be honest..? Because na my BROTHER IN-LAW u want become naaa. Feel Free, you mustn't be dangote

Can I send a pm?

Ahh, so this is the original thread! Interesting!

What a thread!

Meanwhile, if you're a lady in Europe or US looking for a true love. I'm available, reach me 0701.215.3525.

Trust me, loneliness isn't an option, you deserve better.

pansophist:
Redpillers will find this thread refreshing. Dream come true

Cc. Martine z39s, ubu nja, Ari za, food don ready

The thing tire me, I believe there's some sort of exaggerations on this thread though. It can't be that bad. Have you seen the counter thread? .


Anyways, this will not stop me from processing my immigration Sha. As a matter of fact it is giving me ginger

Ariza:


The thing tire me, I believe there's some sort of exaggerations on this thread though. It can't be that bad. Have you seen the counter thread? .


Anyways, this will not stop me from processing my immigration Sha. As a matter of fact it is giving me ginger

Where is the counter thread?

Swiitdoll:
Lies. My boss is a Nigerian woman married to a half polish and half English man with three kids going strong fifteen years. So many Nigerian women are married to men of other races and doing well. Divorce isn’t limited to a race or ethnicity. Many marriages regardless of race fail. Your hatred is showing gtfo

So why the insult now.
This woman why are showing emotion with the insult again,he wasn't referring to you but u decided to take it personal,Abi him call you.
We are Nigerians,any race one decides to hook up and hitch up with is his or her own cup of Shayi,

kalufelix:
See finishing.. You missed the word 'selfish' they think the men are robots without emotions who doesn't deserve to be cared for.. Everything is about them..and they assume the man will be just fine so long as he ejaculates with their honey pot..lol..that for them is the biggest commitment

In other words, showing up for naija women is contribution enough

pansophist:
Where is the counter thread?

I've given you a mention on it.

Ikennamurphy:
Baba I'm available, link me to one

lol I go tell the instigator when he calls me I go send una number

Minxie:
Social scientist, to be specific.
We theorize so that we can find solutions. Even what you just said is a theory and it's a good one.
So therefore we can suggest the solution of educating people about the differences in culture abroad?
I'm totally on board with that

See? that's why people debate
Anyway, i hope those girls adapt and that they realise that some societies in West demands something different than some African societies.

To be honest, i find dating easier abroad because it's very superficial. Men just ask you out on a date randomly. But in SA people will want to get to know you first. I like our way though

Pls can I get address link of any open forum like nairaland in your country?

sexylassie2:
They don't have nothing, many go broke into a relationship that is why they want us to struggle with them in their poverty.

Stop hyping your self you Nigerian men. The ego is too much.

This doesn’t make sense. Why would any person who goes broke into a relationship ask for a prenup? What (and how) would he gain from his wealthier partner after the divorce?

I think you are reacting to a different issue here. All I said, in summary, was men who ask for a prenup, risk losing their relationships.

gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny

Bro please I need to travel to Canada. I need all d assistance I can get via concrete info about it.
Am 32yrs of age.
Am a graduate here in Nigeria but unemployed.
I just need relocation for a better life.
Please give me advice on how I can travel out and what is needed. Thanks. If possible here is my WhatsApp num +234 902 179 1413. Thanks.

AutoshalomUSA:
WHAT WE NEED IS A NIGERIAN DATING/ MARRAIGE PLATFORM -

Developers in the house , get at me , we can pull it off together .
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That will be nice. Let me know when it is created.

Send me an email rontol@protonmail.com

gargoylern:
I no know o. I think she was something controls or something. I no know jor.

okay thanks

Lol..like seriously

And men dey naija here dey waste ni

We dey here ooo��

I like this thread and it is actually very enlightening.

The issue is not everyone can fit just anywhere. Male or female, it is the same, if you are not in the right location, your dreams will freeze and you may never fully achieve them.

People underestimate the power of circles, societal norms and values. If for example you live a simple life here in Nigeria and you move to a different country without a spouse, you would continue as normal.

It is for this reason the immigration categories award more points to those with spouses or with a relative already in the country to help smoothen the settling process for a new immigrant.

If your peace of mind is in Nigeria and you are in the US, be rest assured that you might be comfortable where you are, but you will know there is a void somewhere.

GreenKalada:
Hi please can you send me links to their channel? Or contacts Please I need a lady! You can reach me at enobong83@aol.com

LoL guy, you still dey use aol ?

yassinattah:
Does this surrogacy of a thing even looks natural to you,u go inject urself of somebody else's sperm without pre-intimacy,no sexual intimacy leading to Climax and u r happy with it as a viable lady.
OMG what is this world turning Into

Some ppl are done with men or women and don't want anything rship or marriage, but at the same time want children. What will you advise
Surrogacy comes first b4 adoption.

Its really true most Nigerian girls in diaspora are lonely,i once had a nurse that wanted marriage so my people fixed her to then i was in University and was during exam period so couldnt see her and she had short time that was how we never met.This is true....to be honest i wont rush to ask for a girls hand in marriage cos of her wealth what happens when u find urself not in love,will u have the heart to dump her,mostly likely d may kill d guy.So if there is any lady available overseas,i need to see her pictures and know her age.I can never marry any woman i dont love even if her papa na President.I dont joke with love and happiness....these are paramount.Thanks

After reading almost all 39 pages, kudos to the guys and ladies here and those who shared their experiences. There were no insults, no mention of tribes and bashing and thread derailing; no judgements but a light-hearted educative thread.

This quarantine really gives all an opportunity to appreciate each other even more and to realize that irrespective of tribe, religion, country, many things (like loneliness/companionship/friendship, quest for a better life, mutual concern) unite us.

Post-corona, I pray this new wave of thinking rules the world.

Roon9:
Bros why u nor just help one out of the lots na

Guy when you reach oyibo land. Those chicks no longer make sense.

luminouz:
Why u no marry her?

U be her campaign manager abi?

Did you see my last line?

Minxie:
actually yes. my mom was treated very much like a human. My father joined the equal rights bandwagon ages ago. When you have strong women, the only thing you can do is adapt. If your success and happiness is attributed to the oppression of others (women or the LGBT community) you are no different from the ones who oppressed our ancestors for their happiness and success. Think about it... and if you feel okay with being the same as them, expect the same retaliation that they got

if you don't respect my existence, you can expect my resistance.

What's your definition of a strong woman? My own definition of strong woman are the mothers and father's who give their lives to set good precedent for their kids, not what this Rubbish women are doing nowadays marrying for business enterprise, disrespecting their spouse in the name of freedom.

I don't know how the white man managed to manipulate your mentality that polygamy is bad but LGBT is welcomed that's the highest hogwash.

It's like a mad man telling a Sane person he's insane. I've never seen a male goat sleeping with a male goat nor a female goat doing the same. LGBT is a thing to ashamed of not to be celebrated.