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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by OgaTheTop2: 7:23pm On Apr 09, 2020
princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE
Same thing happened to my professor friend here in US. His wife is living off his child support and government benefits. Now, you see her posting pictures of herself and the child on FB. On those pictures, I look deep in her eyes and realized she's living a very lonely life. Not so many people could see this, but that woman is lonely! America can make or mar a marriage. Most times I wonder if it worth bringing a wife to US.. Many stories about naija women and their behaviors in marital homes can make you shudder.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by mofedamijo(m): 7:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

Hahahaha.
I Pray say you come.
But Get a Sound Naija Guy first.
DIASPORA can be lonely ooooo.

OYIBO no dey like us wey people go Waka come knock for your door dey ask you whether you sleep well.

No one borrows Maggi here ooo.
No one Keeps people engaged here.
PEOPLE WORK WORK and WORK, because there are JOBs. U can resign a job today and get another one by Saturday provided your PROFILE is devoid of nuisance.

Why do you think our AGED PARENTS rush back to AFRICA after visiting here.
It simply because they miss AFRICA INTERACTIONS and GOSSIPS... grin grin.
Nothing Like IN-LAW here oooo cheesy grin grin grin

I have been following your post, and honestly, i will like to know you bro, no homo though.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by hodari: 7:24pm On Apr 09, 2020
flyingdutchman:
Lemme break it down for Australia:
White women first
LGBTQs and Other women Second
Children, Dogs and Cats Third (yes, same category)
White Men Fourth
Asian Men Fifth
Africans and Aborigines Sixth
Chai! What of Pacific Islanders? Maoris? We use to be above Aborigines.Wetn happen? I blame all those Sudanese gangsters in Melbourne.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by dfrost: 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
Chai thread 48 pages vs Reply To: Chai Thread 30 pages

48-30

Me na scores I come count.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gnykelly(m): 7:25pm On Apr 09, 2020
DeRay98:


A family Friends of mine in Canada told me same about Nigerian and other African women/wives in Canada. How they adapt to life there, see the power the law gave women over their husbands and marriage.
Once they settle down they mingle with single divorcee women who teach them how to get rid of husbands and take over their property anytime they quarrel.
They begin to lead wayward life of freedom after sending their husbands to jail or homelessness.
Some bring back the offence their husbands committed against them (way in Nigeria) as if it's recent and report to police. The man can only be overwhelmed by the plot as it hits him below the belt.
By the time the children reach teenage and adolescent years, the absence of their father in the life becomes a major cause of lack of control as they rebel against their mums.

this is really eye opening...will consider my options. I would rather stay here and enjoy a good family values with whoever I marry than experience this.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by joelag: 7:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
Maduawuchukwu:


Lol. That's not a problem nah. I am equal to the task grin grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Ikennamurphy: 7:26pm On Apr 09, 2020
hAlexandro:
lol I go tell the instigator when he calls me I go send una number
Baba can u send me your WhatsApp number so I can remind u
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by joelag: 7:27pm On Apr 09, 2020
Diggydanny41:
abeg pass me the koso

Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by yassinattah(m): 7:28pm On Apr 09, 2020
mamatwiny:


Some ppl are done with men or women and don't want anything rship or marriage, but at the same time want children. What will you advise
Surrogacy comes first b4 adoption.
You see,the white has succeeded in hypnotizing ur thinking because as it stands there's nothing like a perfect marriage,Of cos once in a while there might be flaws in marriages but that doesn't mean one will just quit totally and conclude he or she is done with the opposite gender spouse.
I can't even preach surrogacy to a lady except there's no other natural means of conceiving,See we are still religiously conscious within this clime so based on religious ethics I won't do this in the tropics except overseas.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 7:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
author=gargoylern post=88246524]
Bad as it may be in Nigeria, it's easier to get a man here. Men would actually look at you or whistle or somehintg like that, even if it's bad tactic. Why not then? After all, they are your "kind" in some way. Trust me, some Nigerian women in Canada don't as much as get looked at twice. Some who I know who didn't dress too well back in Nigeria have seen good reason to up their dressing in CA, if only that will at least get them noticed.[/quote]




Its really sad but its not just about the white men aint looking at them...i think the main cause is the availability of women in general in population.I only marry any lady in diaspora based on love not her wealth.I have lived a life of pleasure.I want happiness in my home,number one catalyst is love between the couples
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gargoylern: 7:30pm On Apr 09, 2020
Prettiepearlz:

Lmao cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy, nothing can pain this one sha. Anyway I hope you know I come in peace. May your friend find comfort to whatever is making her sad. But you know it could be that she is missing her family. Living alone abroad without friends and families for both genders I heard can be depressing. But it doesn't stop us from going ooo cheesy
Leaving abroad is not all the fun it's made out to be. The only interesting thing is probably the constant light and the sane environment. Everything else about leaving abroad, you can probably get in Nigeria. I'm sure she'll be fine. She'll be in Nigeria by July and will probably rekindle some good old friendship.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
Swiitdoll:
They are all probably hell bent on strictly dating Nigerian men only or African men only. I’m sure other races of men look at them and they ignore. It was same in U.K. a while ago till they started opening up their options. They should give other races of men a chance let’s see if they’ll still be lonely after that.
Nice point. I think some of us single Nigerian-Canadian women should be more open to dating other races. I haven't dated much but I'll be more open to other races now. Some of us don't live in cities with lots of Nigerians anyways, so it makes sense to look at other options

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MariamAlheri: 7:31pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

Hahahaha.
I Pray say you come.
But Get a Sound Naija Guy first.
DIASPORA can be lonely ooooo.

OYIBO no dey like us wey people go Waka come knock for your door dey ask you whether you sleep well.

No one borrows Maggi here ooo.
No one Keeps people engaged here.
PEOPLE WORK WORK and WORK, because there are JOBs. U can resign a job today and get another one by Saturday provided your PROFILE is devoid of nuisance.

Why do you think our AGED PARENTS rush back to AFRICA after visiting here.
It simply because they miss AFRICA INTERACTIONS and GOSSIPS... grin grin.
Nothing Like IN-LAW here oooo cheesy grin grin grin

You're so lucky, God really blessed you.

Are you yoruba? And is that your uncle still single?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by abuuzy(m): 7:32pm On Apr 09, 2020
sanusiabayomi69@gmail.com
Am 29
Graduate
Tall
Am open minded.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by OgaTheTop2: 7:33pm On Apr 09, 2020
ednut1:
hahahaha another reason be this. E better make man find baby mama there o. U self why you go cheat.
I won't blame him. Girls here are straightforward and damn sexy. I met a beautiful lady in an elevator at a place in Lowell, she said to me point blank "You are cute, I like you". Well, that wasn't a first time though, but what made that incident a first time was when she said she would like to give me a BJ if I so desire. If I lie make shark comot my prick. Oyinbo girls no dey do shakara like our naija sisters. That aside, there are many lonely single mothers here....mehn, those ones sure pass garri.. So my guy, don't blame that brother. This is real.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by chikeorji123(m): 7:37pm On Apr 09, 2020
hAlexandro:
grin grin I Concur yeah. I've had 2 various offers. One lives in Manitoba rich young banker. She needs a guy from 9ja here in the other is from Edmonton also busty girl of Nigeria descent

Only you brother..
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Roon9(m): 7:38pm On Apr 09, 2020
Charleys:


Guy when you reach oyibo land. Those chicks no longer make sense.

2 of my guys come naija come pick wife. I shock bros

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by luminouz(m): 7:44pm On Apr 09, 2020
joelag:


Did you see my last line?
Yes..she has a big ass?

You dont like big booty women? grin
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Xyzee: 7:56pm On Apr 09, 2020
Deoboss:


My friend lives in Canada, he said life can get quite boring & becomes a routine. He said the weather is not friendly at all.

Food is okay as lots of fish like Salmon etc. Canadians love Poutine a lot as it is eaten every where & cost of living is high especially housing as most Nigerians won’t believe this until they get to Canada.

Homes in Canada cost over C$1million to buy as funny as it might sound (via mortgage of-course).

Nigerian ladies over there know what’s up but just pretend that all is well when they come home for holidays as no much serious relationship there, a lot of Naija guys don’t send Naija babes at all which annoys them other than this he said Canada is a good country to live in if you are not the loud or lousy person


This is a bare-faced lie. I am a home owner at the heart of Canada’s Capital city and the cost of a 4 bedroom fully detached duplex (town house) is less than $500,000.00 depending on location. Stop the lies!

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:04pm On Apr 09, 2020
mofedamijo:


I have been following your post, and honestly, i will like to know you bro, no homo though.
Thanks, I appreciate.
U reside in the STATES...or Nigeria..?
I treat my security with all seriousness but I still believe there are GooD people out there.
So, where's your Base..?
Married or Single..?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:07pm On Apr 09, 2020
MariamAlheri:


You're so lucky, God really blessed you.
Are you yoruba? And is that your uncle still single?
Thanks Very Much.
Deeply Appreciate.
I'm not Yoruba, but I Love them.
My UNCLE is not Married yet and I don't think he will again, because I am Far Far his Junior. He came to the US, in the early 80's, so no be today ooo
Although anything can still happen.
My MOM is seriously pleading and persuading him.
Although POPSY don tire for the matter. cry cry cry
It appears he took a serious vow.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Xyzee: 8:08pm On Apr 09, 2020
Samadhii:

Please sir, like how much would it cost to migrate to Canada and look for job. I graduated with Biochemistry. I don't mind odd jobs tho

Can’t you read people saying Canada is not a good place to live in this thread? Baba, stay in Naija, it is better than Canada.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 09, 2020
Xyzee:


Can’t you read people saying Canada is not a good place to live in this thread? Baba, stay in Naija, it is better than Canada.
You are advising him to remain in Naija.
BUHARI dey gree stay for Naija.. grin grin grin

No be CORONAVIRUS keep BUHARI for Naija...?
Who no like GooD LIFE.

Even BUHARI knows that ASO ROCK can't fetch him 24hrs power supply, that's why you see him running out of the country to COOL OFF.
How can a 2020 Presidential Palace be running on GENERATOR 24/7...?
that's Madness

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Xyzee: 8:12pm On Apr 09, 2020
Raalsalghul:


I can't argue with this, true.

87 % of our females are after 22 % of our males: the rich and financially comfortable ones I mean.

What kind of mathematics is this?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by walkwithgod(m): 8:21pm On Apr 09, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:
I'm with a BlaCKGuy now, he's very uniQue.
He Can SPeak iGBo like a NiGeRian, PiDGin, no TRaCes of being AmeRiCan. At the same time, He speaks exactly like a Black AmeRiCan, no TRaCes of NiGeRianEnGlish. The thing Dey BuRSt my head. His name is elOChuKwU OJimnaGa a.K.A O.G

OmG. He's so SPeCial. He makes me CRy everyday. IDi too much smiley
Made a post about him

Why are you typing like you've got parkinsons disease ?

Is everything really okay at home ?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Moji12(f): 8:23pm On Apr 09, 2020
Veryfoolishboy:
Please I need a Nigerian lady in Canada

I am handsome and hard working
really with this your moniker..... wonder undecided

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 09, 2020
CinnamonTea:

Nice point. I think some of us single Nigerian-Canadian women should be more open to dating other races. I haven't dated much but I'll be more open to other races now. Some of us don't live in cities with lots of Nigerians anyways, so it makes sense to look at other options


Yes pls open up your options. Don’t limit yourself to one group of men. Best of luck sis

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:30pm On Apr 09, 2020
yassinattah:

So why the insult now.
This woman why are showing emotion with the insult again,he wasn't referring to you but u decided to take it personal,Abi him call you.
We are Nigerians,any race one decides to hook up and hitch up with is his or her own cup of Shayi,
Insinuating Nigerian women are undesirable is a hate speech u both gtfo
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Moji12(f): 8:32pm On Apr 09, 2020
greggng:



Bros connect me with one of them ....she most be ugly cos I am not getting the best from beautiful women...she most 've good character to make up for her ugliness
cheesy cheesy cheesy which one be this for God's sake.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by hAlexandro(m): 8:35pm On Apr 09, 2020
chikeorji123:


Only you brother..
lol processing PR also its just and offer if I would love to cut corners asap marriage level.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by chikeorji123(m): 8:36pm On Apr 09, 2020
hAlexandro:
lol processing PR also its just and offer if I would love to cut corners asap marriage level.

Go for it bro... you never can tell..
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MariamAlheri: 8:42pm On Apr 09, 2020
EVILFOREST:

Thanks Very Much.
Deeply Appreciate.
I'm not Yoruba, but I Love them.
My UNCLE is not Married yet and I don't think he will again, because I am Far Far his Junior. He came to the US, in the early 80's, so no be today ooo
Although anything can still happen.
My MOM is seriously pleading and persuading him.
Although POPSY don tire for the matter. cry cry cry
It appears he took a serious vow.


Okay, I asked if you're yoruba cos your story seem similar to a clients of mine, he's yoruba.

I guess your uncle was really hurt then. I'm not keen about marriage but I'm keen about making friends with elderly people if he doesn't mind.

Thanks.

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