₦airaland Forum

bilulu:
It's not about Nigerians alone, they hardly get married here in Canada, it's all about boyfriend or girlfriend. You will see a lady of 40 telling you she's never married in her life but she's having kids with different men. So it's like a way of life. You hardly get a boyfriend or girlfriend because no place of meeting unlike Nigeria. You can't just see a girl on the road and approach her. So it's not about Nigerians but whites inclusive

SBL28:
Hmmmmm, this thread right here is one of the major reasons I'm still in Nigeria.
My friend moved to Canada in February and she was telling me to do mine all the while she was processing hers.
I've read too much on quora, I know Canada is not all its cracked up to be. I'm a divorced mum of two, I can't imagine moving away from all my loved ones to a cold country with only two kids for company. I don't want to go and fall into depression there. It's easier when you are moving with a spouse. I feel I have better chances in Nigeria here.
With the way our leaders are handling this Coronavirus issue, I'm thinking about my relocation plans again. I want to leave this country but I don't want to end up like those desperate and lonely women. It is well.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

EVILFOREST:
May GOD and JESUS, bless you including AMADIOHA...
U are absolutely correct.
If a MAN escapes such, he is MADE for LIFE.
COME to the US and see those Ladies, looking for marriages to devour.
The Funny Thing is, they are Loaded with Cash too.
So if you are not CAREFUL, u sink...

MOST of them are here changing ESCALADE and RANGE ROVER JEEPS like wrapper meanwhile, they haven't pulled any member of their families from Nigeria.
Very Common among those NURSES who suddenly saw MONEY and started weeping, saying " Can I be this RICH"..... more terrible especially with those ones that suffered Unemployment/Poverty in Nigeria for too Long.

.... a NORMAL smart RICH GIRL from a humble home is OK.
Since she has never tasted poverty.

SBL28:
Hmmmmm, this thread right here is one of the major reasons I'm still in Nigeria.
My friend moved to Canada in February and she was telling me to do mine all the while she was processing hers.
I've read too much on quora, I know Canada is not all its cracked up to be. I'm a divorced mum of two, I can't imagine moving away from all my loved ones to a cold country with only two kids for company. I don't want to go and fall into depression there. It's easier when you are moving with a spouse. I feel I have better chances in Nigeria here.
With the way our leaders are handling this Coronavirus issue, I'm thinking about my relocation plans again. I want to leave this country but I don't want to end up like those desperate and lonely women. It is well.

GreatResearcher1:
Has anything positive ever come out from Nigerian ladies?

Xyzee:
Oga, never say this again. I still respect Nigerian and black ladies. I live in Canada and never ever compare these junkies, drunks and druggists to our decent Nigerian girls.
They are bad people everywhere and never demean my Nigerian ladies in this manner.

joelag:
Yes, I do like heavy duties too as well.

GreatResearcher1:
Then sue me

tydi:
My next move bro..

I'm in search of an Arab woman here in UAE to give me those Arabian cuties and we discus about her oil well she inherited.

Xyzee:
You are in search of Arab women after abandoning your son with his poor mother in Minna. Go and try that abroad and go to jail.

You are not even qualified to speak as a man here.

Anuofia.

deleson:
This is, perhaps, the thread of the week; widely read with a plethora of comments.

A couple of expressed thoughts are based on mere speculations and sweeping generalisations that do not hold sway.

Every society has its dynamics. Understanding the workings of each society will give you mastery and penetrative advantage.

Right here in Nigeria, there are thousands of men and women professionally doing well who are not considering relationship or marriage. Same way, there are others who are interested in relationship/marriage but have not found any...Yes, some of them are lonely while others really do not care and are not lonely.

So, saying all ladies out of relationship or marriage are lonely, is absolutely wrong and unfounded.

Except God helps a man, the race to life, happiness and joy in marriage will end in futility.

Life is spiritual.

EDDYBABA01:
Finally, a woman is following us here! But your name shaa it’s well

SBL28:
.

What about my name?

EVILFOREST:
If you are 30, then you are too YOUNG for him.
You will definitely run away, no doubt.
Your LOVE for OLDER MEN is questionable .
This story no be today matter.
I have other uncles who experienced similar thing.
One just remarried Last Year, through me.
But after that, I vowed never to engage in such.

I know you may want to ask why my uncles disturb me for such. They do that because of the NATURE of my JOB when I was in Nigeria.
I am a Professional in the Health Sector.
So they always believe I will meet the GooD ones.

I have told them that, If anyone needs wife, abeg enter PLANE come Naija and pick your package.

lefulefu:
so what are we supposed to call them?
pink men?

Drinksarena:
what abt UK?

Rawhumper:
Please if yo see a girl and approach her on the road what will happen am curious. Cant a guy appoach peson e like?

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would love to be there also

Aboguede:
But why the crowd in this tread

Nawa oh

I just can't stop laughing

4 yrs ago I was in 9ja and my prayer was that if I enter europe, my dream is made and that I could stay for 10yrs b4 coming back for the first time

Alas alas

Here I am in europe for only less than 4yrs

I now know that i was a better person in 9ja even with small pucket

The only difference is that I have now understand life better and can now see that enjoying life is not by bank balance

Unfortunately many people here still can not understand their problem even after many yrs in western world

Inside life

yettymuse:
I better be lonely in Canada and USA than be unlonely in Nigeria! Who all of una epp

Mstick:
So him that cheated on his wife didn't misbehave?!

Ryabcool:
loool nobody epp o. You sef as you dey so, you no epp anyone. You most likely no dey genuinely relevant to anyone at the moment hence the willingness to cut any and everyone off

BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

gargoylern:
$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

yettymuse:
you’re an idiot!

Ikennamurphy:
@emboldened, this is why I like ladies, you ladies don't settle for less unlike the not so reasonable men that marry ladies out of poverty , a lady will rarely do that..I have actually thought through it and won't be settling with this poor woman I wanted because I deserve the best..I'm really learning from here