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Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 9:10pm On Apr 12, 2020

Alright, I am a sex therapist and I would like to know people cheat in a relationship and if after cheating did you find what you were looking for.
Let's make the thread fun and others can learn

Cc lalasticlala, Mynd44

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by DaddyMorenike: 9:18pm On Apr 12, 2020

Yes. Just for the fun.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Noloss(f): 9:36pm On Apr 12, 2020

No.

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 9:37pm On Apr 12, 2020

Noloss:
No.

so u have never cheated before hmm na so

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by AfroKnight: 9:45pm On Apr 12, 2020

Well, me, I’ve never cheated before.

Just here to read comments. cool

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by dawnomike(m): 9:45pm On Apr 12, 2020*

Yes I did... I consider stupidity on my part now though as at the long run, nothing good really comes out of it... It is just anotherwaste of time, energy and resources!!!

Ayaf repented!!! grin

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by donbachi(m): 9:46pm On Apr 12, 2020

I cheated on my babe back then..cos na only bishop style she dey give me...b4 i jam one babe wey dey hang leg for roof.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by bigpicture001: 9:46pm On Apr 12, 2020

...no .I have not!

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by emkz: 9:51pm On Apr 12, 2020

Aabheaven:
Alright, I am a sex therapist and I would like to know people cheat in a relationship and if after cheating did you find what you were looking for.
Let's make the thread fun and others can learn

Cc lalasticlala, Mynd44

Are you a certified sex therapist or a trainee sex therapist? Where did you receive your therapeutic training? What, in your experience, makes you a sex therapist? I ask because you should be the one explaining the psychology of a cheat to us.

PS: There was a girl I was chasing. The day I had the opportunity to get down with her, I was in a relationship...I couldn't go on with the cheating. I think people who cheat do it because they can (and feel they won't be caught). They lack conscience/empathy and want to feel the "high" you feel when you drink spirits or sniff hard drugs but the satisfaction is momentary which explains why they never stop.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 12, 2020

I cheated on my ex with my real G

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2020

Semperty:
I cheated on my ex with my real G

real G. Do u mean u are bisexual

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 12, 2020*

Aabheaven:
real G. Do u mean u are bisexual

my real girlfriend . My ex wasn't real enough.
Though my real girlfriend is now married grin

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Lamanii22(f): 10:27pm On Apr 12, 2020*

Would kissing be regarded as cheating?

Kissing another person*

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Noloss(f): 10:30pm On Apr 12, 2020

Aabheaven:
so u have never cheated before hmm na so

No, I haven't.

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by HARDDON: 10:36pm On Apr 12, 2020

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by OmoAlakija: 10:42pm On Apr 12, 2020

To be honest I cheat on my girl because of temptations in skirts and gowns .. God will help me to be disciplined.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Tapout(m): 10:55pm On Apr 12, 2020

Lamanii22:
Would kissing be regarded as cheating?

even telling a guy thank you after he compliments you is cheating.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Lamanii22(f): 11:10pm On Apr 12, 2020

Tapout:
even telling a guy thank you after he compliments you is cheating.

Ha! Mad oo

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by wizdomnzube(m): 11:19pm On Apr 12, 2020

Wetin be cheating abeg??

If u carry babe go houz, comot ha kpata, use ur kporon rub ha kpomo, na cheating be dat??

Just asking for a friend grin

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by rawpadgin(m): 11:23pm On Apr 12, 2020

I have cheated on every girl I have dated cry

God give me a sign !!!

I need to be loyal to this wonderful woman I have now

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 11:25pm On Apr 12, 2020

Lamanii22:
Would kissing be regarded as cheating?

Kissing another person*

well depending on your intention. If u caught ur guy kissing another girl will it go down well with you

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by chinchonglee(m): 11:37pm On Apr 12, 2020

Dere is nothing like cheating in a relationship...

You re allowed to cheat as my girlfriend dnt jst deny me sex wen its my turn period!

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Lamanii22(f): 11:46pm On Apr 12, 2020

Aabheaven:
well depending on your intention. If u caught ur guy kissing another girl will it go down well with you

It won't oo... Lol... Cheating should be scrapped then. Don't do what won't go down well with you to others...

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by yrex01(m): 11:52pm On Apr 12, 2020

I can't just stop. Maybe it's bcoz of my experience in previous relationship or trust ish I got. I always just find my self cheating.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 12:17am On Apr 13, 2020

rawpadgin:
I have cheated on every girl I have dated

God give me a sign !!!

I need to be loyal to this wonderful woman I have now

what really makes you cheat. What do you see in them u don't see in your current gf

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Aabheaven(op): 12:19am On Apr 13, 2020

The thing is guys are more open about this than the ladies where as ladies cheat more because of the attention they get from guys on a daily basis. Ladies are more hypocritical about issues like this

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Nobody: 12:20am On Apr 13, 2020*

I had no reason to cheat.
Oh, I think she had her reasons, as her cheating led to marriage. The man is made.

I still can't cheat as I am only getting into another r/shp when I am MADE like the man who snatched my only EX cool

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by ghettochild(m): 12:22am On Apr 13, 2020

I just loved to cheat. Used to feel fly bout it.. Man no know say e dey sell out him destiny

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by fattprince(m): 2:02am On Apr 13, 2020

Lamanii22:
Ha! Mad oo

Funny right? Don't mind him. Acknowledging a compliment is not cheating it is curtsey

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Sixfeetbelle: 3:59am On Apr 13, 2020

chinchonglee:
Dere is nothing like cheating in a relationship...

You re allowed to cheat as my girlfriend dnt jst deny me sex wen its my turn period!

Cheating in relationships lead to Cheating in marriages. If you don't master self control now, it's unlikely you'll develop it in marriage

Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by Sixfeetbelle: 4:01am On Apr 13, 2020

rawpadgin:
I have cheated on every girl I have dated

God give me a sign !!!

I need to be loyal to this wonderful woman I have now

Don't jump into that marriage until you've learnt self control, otherwise you'll make both of you very unhappy in that marriage.

Good luck on finding a wonderful woman but don't use foolishness and loose her.

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Re: Have U Ever Cheated In A Relationship? What Are Your Reasons by chinchonglee(m): 7:44am On Apr 13, 2020

Sixfeetbelle:
Cheating in relationships lead to Cheating in marriages. If you don't master self control now, it's unlikely you'll develop it in marriage

.

True talk sister but i dnt cheat in relationships, they always cheat on me and i dnt even care... But i met a queen here on NL who loved me like mad, i dnt even knw what happened but am sure i was at fault so she left me....

Fact is i hardly love and dnt always take relationship issue serious

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