Eulalia:
I think it should be friendship, courtship, marriage, then sex. .

Chi59:

How I take care of my urges is not the focus here. Don't derail the topic.

missimelda01:
The thing is, people don't know what they want and people don't want what they want.

Don't confuse a fling with a serious relationship, it is said that a relationship without the foundation of quality friendship is like a balloon of fantasy that would soon be burst by the needle of reality.

Op you're very correct and I hope people will be patient enough to get the content of this post and act accordingly. Sex itself is becoming overrated, nothing beats having a companion who understands you, accept your flaws and is willing to help you grow.

Casemiro:





Like my mentor Nwaamaikpe will say,


Just plug and play.



Furk her hard because that's what they deserve.



why waste your time trying to build friendship with a lady that will jump onto the next available priick?


Don't waste your time building friendship with gals of this generation, most of them are irredeemable and the only thing that is in their heads is

picmix,

iPhone,

.Make up,

send me airtime,

Buy me indomie,

suck prickk,





Tell, me, how can you build friendship with a lady whose brain is full of sawdust? What will you be discussing, Jenifer's dairy?







and before I forget,

Fouk ma school and fouk ma teacher too!

Chi59:

Talk to them yourself. I'm not your spokeswoman.

Eulalia:
I think it should be friendship, courtship, marriage, then sex. .

DoubleEngine007:
Op you're correct.. I believe that guys who jump to sex without friendship sees those girls as oloshos,and that's what most of them truly are..

Our nowadays girls don't need the friendship at all.. 95% of them usually work with this saying "money for hand back for ground. No girl should ask me of how I got the statistics. Guys are aware of this fact, and that's why they rubbish our nowadays girls.. And most girls of this generation lacks wisdom,to know who truly love them and who doesn't... As long as d guy has ego and big preek,he is good to go.. Even if he is a beast,she will tell you,that she will change him..
Patiently waiting for those dumb ass,that calls themselves feminist here.. Quote me talk nonsense,make ogun kill you..

mopol123:
i have what i call QRS(quick response squad). the girls are always available for me when i want sex but everyone of them believes she is in a serious relationship with me

Rapmoney:
Why Friendship Should Come Before Sex In A Relationship

We live in an era where sex is the first thing most young men think when they intend starting a relationship with a member of the opposite gender. The female folks are not left out. Most young women will 'size' an approaching man from a far. They will not fail to estimate, calculate and approximate the financial status of the man. And if their calculations seem accepted or okay by them, they will not hesitate to start up an affair with the man with utmost alacrity. This is often times disastrous. One mind think sex and the other thinks financial gains (and even sex sometimes too).

Friendship goes beyond sexual attractions. It has to do with having a personal relationship with someone and being aware of both positives and negatives in his/her life. Allowing sex to come before friendship may make both parties to hide vital things about themselves. Most people (especially the female folks) would hide things about themselves after series of sexual acts because they feel there is a bond that has been created which signifies 'commitment' and as such, they would not want the negatives in their lives to terminate the affair.

Have you noticed that you might find it easier to talk about negatives or embarrassing secrets in your life with a friend you have no sexual attachments with than one who you sleep with? It is because true friendship was not formed before you delved into sex. Early sex makes most people to hide things that could practically tear a marriage into shreds later on when they are discovered. Early sex brings with it, bags, bags and more bags of false commitment and attachment.

There are vital things that each partner is supposed to know before a committed relationship is formed. Sex may not allow us to ascertain these things. We have been engrossed in the sweetness of it that we cannot share the shortcomings in our lives in order not to lose the 'sweet flavour of sex'. There are people who see themselves as partners/lovers and have sex regularly yet they might not even know the health status of each other and other little vital things that are easily neglected. That is not a healthy relationship; it is just a long term hookup!!! There are even guys who do not know their girlfriend's surname and vice-versa. They only know him/her as Collins, Fehintola or Kesiena. Sex for these people could be 5 times a week too. If such common information is not known, then which information will you know that is less important than that?

If my post does not harshly condemn or drag sex before marriage on the ground, realize that I am just a social writer who grew up in the streets of Warri and not a moralist. I leave that for the moralists and religionists to flog.

Rapmoney:
Why Friendship Should Come Before Sex In A Relationship

We live in an era where sex is the first thing most young men think when they intend starting a relationship with a member of the opposite gender. The female folks are not left out. Most young women will 'size' an approaching man from a far. They will not fail to estimate, calculate and approximate the financial status of the man. And if their calculations seem accepted or okay by them, they will not hesitate to start up an affair with the man with utmost alacrity. This is often times disastrous. One mind think sex and the other thinks financial gains (and even sex sometimes too).

Friendship goes beyond sexual attractions. It has to do with having a personal relationship with someone and being aware of both positives and negatives in his/her life. Allowing sex to come before friendship may make both parties to hide vital things about themselves. Most people (especially the female folks) would hide things about themselves after series of sexual acts because they feel there is a bond that has been created which signifies 'commitment' and as such, they would not want the negatives in their lives to terminate the affair.

Have you noticed that you might find it easier to talk about negatives or embarrassing secrets in your life with a friend you have no sexual attachments with than one who you sleep with? It is because true friendship was not formed before you delved into sex. Early sex makes most people to hide things that could practically tear a marriage into shreds later on when they are discovered. Early sex brings with it, bags, bags and more bags of false commitment and attachment.

There are vital things that each partner is supposed to know before a committed relationship is formed. Sex may not allow us to ascertain these things. We have been engrossed in the sweetness of it that we cannot share the shortcomings in our lives in order not to lose the 'sweet flavour of sex'. There are people who see themselves as partners/lovers and have sex regularly yet they might not even know the health status of each other and other little vital things that are easily neglected. That is not a healthy relationship; it is just a long term hookup!!! There are even guys who do not know their girlfriend's surname and vice-versa. They only know him/her as Collins, Fehintola or Kesiena. Sex for these people could be 5 times a week too. If such common information is not known, then which information will you know that is less important than that?

If my post does not harshly condemn or drag sex before marriage on the ground, realize that I am just a social writer who grew up in the streets of Warri and not a moralist. I leave that for the moralists and religionists to flog.

KingRabota:
Guy overwise is your blessing !
Excess oil dey ya head !!
Confirm man !!!


That part about sawdust filled skulls really brought back some memories.

TwoBottles:



Then, what do you do or who do you go to when you feel like it? Masturbate or what? Common...... be real. The number of times I make love to my girlfriend means nothing to me if I truly love her. Sex isn't a big deal, I wonder why people even discuss it.

ise82:
Sex first is really powerful. It’s a covenant. The gals we have now are promiscuous so friendship first can’t work with them. And most of them can’t contribute to the friendship in any meaningful way. They always want things to be done for them and if they leave the guy will suffer most. The best way to see they contribute very actively is through sex. Else it’s your loss!

dawnomike:
I agree with you... Friendship strengthens the strings that bounds the commitment in a relationship

omotola90:
thanks man.... You know I'm fed up with the whole sex stuff in a relationship..... Must a relationship be defiled?? It's quite grotesque I must say very horrid

djon78:


And in the debacle I think women lose more in such kind of relationship.
They should not give in to sex. At least even if the guy leaves, they lost nothing, they kept there body from being manhandled.

But when they give in to sex, they lose a lot, there respect and many more.
Women really need to wise up. They will benefit more

missimelda01:
The thing is, people don't know what they want and people don't want what they want.

Don't confuse a fling with a serious relationship, it is said that a relationship without the foundation of quality friendship is like a balloon of fantasy that would soon be burst by the needle of reality.

Op you're very correct and I hope people will be patient enough to get the content of this post and act accordingly. Sex itself is becoming overrated, nothing beats having a companion who understands you, accept your flaws and is willing to help you grow.

Casemiro:





Like my mentor Nwaamaikpe will say,


Just plug and play.



Furk her hard because that's what they deserve.



why waste your time trying to build friendship with a lady that will jump onto the next available priick?


Don't waste your time building friendship with gals of this generation, most of them are irredeemable and the only thing that is in their heads is

picmix,

iPhone,

.Make up,

send me airtime,

Buy me indomie,

suck prickk,





Tell, me, how can you build friendship with a lady whose brain is full of sawdust? What will you be discussing, Jenifer's dairy?







and before I forget,

Fouk ma school and fouk ma teacher too!

Eulalia:
I think it should be friendship, courtship, marriage, then sex. .

BotafogoJunior:
casemiro has finished topic,class don close all of you should pack your bags,go to your houses and go to sleep..........casemiro na phd lecturer for this topic,him talk everything

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