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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 2:54am On Apr 16, 2020
Petyprincess:

Seriously? Next time observe okay?
I would have shared you some link bt i really don't have the time to start digging
must be the black dudes with very low self esteem dat get jealous.i see no reason why i should be offended if a blk woman prefers a white guy

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 2:56am On Apr 16, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


True. Look at the hatred on this forum. I love African men. You’re good men but our generation is losing the plot on making and keeping a home. Going white is something I’ve considered as when you marry white it doesn’t come with the family drama, it doesn’t come with constant worry your man is cheating or coming home when he likes ( the black community has normalized having a side chic), being a cook/worker in your own home and or puts his friends above his wife. I’m only noting from relationships I’ve seen with friends and family who have gone white. Even those relationships come with their challenges but not like the one’s we have in our community.

You are so naive about white men and their family troubles. White men cheat on their wives/women just like any other race of men.

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 3:00am On Apr 16, 2020
Felimax:
Who cares! Black men are cultured, don't like it, go for what you like.
How are you cultured and what's so great about it that would make others give a care?

P.S. Everyone has a culture it may be different than yours but it's no better nor worse than your own.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 3:10am On Apr 16, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


True. Look at the hatred on this forum. I love African men. You’re good men but our generation is losing the plot on making and keeping a home. Going white is something I’ve considered as when you marry white it doesn’t come with the family drama, it doesn’t come with constant worry your man is cheating or coming home when he likes ( the black community has normalized having a side chic), being a cook/worker in your own home and or puts his friends above his wife. I’m only noting from relationships I’ve seen with friends and family who have gone white. Even those relationships come with their challenges but not like the one’s we have in our community.
white men dont have side chics..they have mistresses grin

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 4:41am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


You are so naive about white men and their family troubles. White men cheat on their wives/women just like any other race of men.

Please read what I wrote. Clearly you missed my point. I said normalize having a side chic... in the black community this is openly accepted

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 5:20am On Apr 16, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


Please read what I wrote. Clearly you missed my point. I said normalize having a side chic... in the black community this is openly accepted
It doesn't matter if it is excepted or not it still happens in the white community but the white man will leave his wife and children for the side-chick. In which black community is it openly accepted?

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Deepfeel(m): 8:52am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


Nigerian girls make the same type of asinine threads on this site, but far less than the guys. undecided
Saw this screenshot being discussed in an African American group, what do you have to say about it?

Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 9:09am On Apr 16, 2020
Deepfeel:

Saw this screenshot being discussed in an African American group, what do you have to say about it?

Deepfeel, read what I added

There's nothing shocking about that, like I told you before most African men especially Nigerians lust after other races of women. We all knew Jeezy was a piece of crap when he made the song **All white everything**.

What's really disgraceful about him is the fact that he chose a girl who said on national TV that she craves dark meat but marry white meat because her family is racist toward dark skin. No wonder her white husband dumped her ass and this stupid nigga settled for the left overs

There are multiple threads on this site about this topic created by your Nigerian brothers who worship women of other races including Stevie.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Deepfeel(m): 9:22am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:

There's nothing shocking about that, like I told you before most African men especially Nigerians lust after other races of women. We all knew Jeezy was a piece of crap when he made the song **All white everything**.

There are multiple threads on this site about this topic created by your Nigerian brothers who worship women of other races including Stevie.

In the African American group that I saw this, most of the guys supported the guy that made the comment in the screenshot , the females were angry about it most of them said they will start dating white guys to shame their black brothers too

So what's going on with you people?

Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Deepfeel(m): 9:36am On Apr 16, 2020
The point is there are many guys that think like jeezy amongst your people that's the point

khiaa:


Deepfeel, read what I added

There's nothing shocking about that, like I told you before most African men especially Nigerians lust after other races of women. We all knew Jeezy was a piece of crap when he made the song **All white everything**.

What's really disgraceful about him is the fact that he chose a girl who said on national TV that she craves dark meat but marry white meat because her family is racist toward dark skin. No wonder her white husband dumped her ass and this stupid nigga settled for the left overs

There are multiple threads on this site about this topic created by your Nigerian brothers who worship women of other races including Stevie.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 10:00am On Apr 16, 2020
Deepfeel:
The point is there are many guys that think like jeezy amongst your people that's the point

Your point is, you said you went to an AFRICAN American site and saw this, when I made the point that African men **The Key Word Here is AFRICAN** lust after other races of women simply because they see themselves inferior to other men.

They need other races of men women to make themselves feel worthy of living on this Earth. Their self esteem is very low.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Deepfeel(m): 10:08am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:

Your point is, you said you went to an African American site and saw this, when I made the point that African men **The Key Word Here is AFRICAN** lust after other races of women simply because they see themselves inferior to other men. They need other races of men women to make themselves feel worthy of living.

That group is for black Americans I was added to the group by the girl I was chatting with on Facebook she's black too


I pointed that out to you cause you hate whites and you make it looks like all your brothers and sisters feel the same way you do which is not
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 10:14am On Apr 16, 2020
Deepfeel:


That group is for black Americans I was added to the group by the girl I was chatting with on Facebook she's black too


I pointed that out to you cause you hate whites and you make it looks like all your brothers and sisters feel the same way you do which is not

You are a liar I never brought other people into this, I only expressed my opinion. The truth is, most Black men no matter what continent they reside, are brainwashed to hate themselves resulting in hating their own women.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Deepfeel(m): 10:22am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


You are a liar I never brought other people into this, I only expressed my opinion. The truth is, most Black men no matter what continent they reside, are brainwashed to hate themselves resulting in hating their own women.

Haba you always argue on behalf of your people ,from topics that has to do with black and white, love , marriage, beauty, fashion lifestyle bleaching etc you don't speak for yourself alone don't lie
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Kingsteve(m): 10:36am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


Deepfeel, read what I added

There's nothing shocking about that, like I told you before most African men especially Nigerians lust after other races of women. We all knew Jeezy was a piece of crap when he made the song **All white everything**.

What's really disgraceful about him is the fact that he chose a girl who said on national TV that she craves dark meat but marry white meat because her family is racist toward dark skin. No wonder her white husband dumped her ass and this stupid nigga settled for the left overs

There are multiple threads on this site about this topic created by your Nigerian brothers who worship women of other races including Stevie.

Sorry to chime in here...
For the record and clarification purposes, I DO NOT WORSHIP WHITE WOMEN.
I only said I like light-skinned women.
As in...women who are naturally fair in complexion.
Even women with caramel complexion are also fair.
Fair women are all over the continent you know?

Even in Africa...
from Kenya to SA, to Malawi, to Egypt, Tunisia, Ethiopia, and even in Naija.
It has absolutely nothing to do exclusively with white female Caucasians.

I think you really misunderstood me.
Remember what I said about fair thighs?
wink
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 10:46am On Apr 16, 2020
Kingsteve:


Sorry to chime in here...
For the record and clarification purposes, I DO NOT WORSHIP WHITE WOMEN.
I only said I like light-skinned women.
As in...women who are naturally fair in complexion.
Even women with caramel complexion are also fair.
Fair women are all over the continent you know?

Even in Africa...
from Kenya to SA, to Malawi, to Egypt, Tunisia, Ethiopia, and even in Naija.
It has absolutely nothing to do exclusively with white female Caucasians.

I think you really misunderstood me.
Remember what I said about fair thighs?
wink

Read my post again, where did I mention White girls? You are only showing what's on your mind.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Kingsteve(m): 10:47am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


Read my post again, where did I mention White girls?
Oh...ok!
My bad!
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 10:50am On Apr 16, 2020
lefulefu:
must be the black dudes with very low self esteem dat get jealous.i see no reason why i should be offended if a blk woman prefers a white guy
My dear, they do. Look at how they bash Serena Williams and co. They call them all sorts of names, make them feel ugly, bulldog, bitch, thot, ho, LovePeddler, and yet they want them to continue to marry them and bear them dark skin boys and lightskin daughters.

Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 10:51am On Apr 16, 2020
Kingsteve:

Oh...ok!
My bad!

You agreed that Arab girls are the most beautiful so how are you any different? undecided
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 16, 2020
Deepfeel:


In the African American group that I saw this, most of the guys supported the guy that made the comment in the screenshot , the females were angry about it most of them said they will start dating white guys to shame their black brothers too

So what's going on with you people?
colorism boo!
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Kingsteve(m): 10:59am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


You agreed that Arab girls are the most beautiful so how are you any different? undecided

Most Arab girls are exotically beautiful, truth be told.
Brazilians and Latinas too...
Spanish too...

I think it's a personal opinion.
Remember, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Having said that, it doesn't take away the beauty of other races in the world.
There are so many gorgeous women all over the world, but when we try to argue about the most beautiful, then other factors will be considered.

Some of these factors include how sharp their features are.
Eyes
The nose
Eyebrows
Eyelashes
Complexion
Silky hair
General body shape.

When you put all these factors together, I think, in my humble opinion, that most Arabs are up there.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


You agreed that Arab girls are the most beautiful so how are you any different? undecided
Blame slavery and black society for failure to hold black men accountable for their choices.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 16, 2020
Kingsteve:


Most Arab girls are exotically beautiful, truth be told.
Brazilians and Latinas too...
Spanish too...

I think it's a personal opinion.
Remember, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Having said that, it doesn't take away the beauty of other races in the world.
There are so many gorgeous women all over the world, but when we try to argue about the most beautiful, then other factors will be considered.

Some of these factors include how sharp there features are.
Eyes
The nose
Eyebrows
Eyelashes
Complexion
Silky hair
General body shape.

When you put all these factors together, I think, in my humble opinion, that most Arabs are up there.

With media conditioning of white,light, bright as the standard of beauty, it is truly hard for beauty to be in the eye of the beholder.

It is what it is. Even black women would marry white, but because black men guilt them to stay in the black race, as brooding mares for their sons.

If I was an African American woman, I would date every single other men, African, carribean, Latina, Chinese, Indian, white, except for African American men.

Besides the whites are more open to life, African Americans to me, seem closed off and bitter.

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by ednut1(m): 11:03am On Apr 16, 2020
Make una respect people's choices na. There is more to life tham relationship and marriage na
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 11:05am On Apr 16, 2020
ednut1:
Make una respect people's choices na. There is more to life tham relationship and marriage na
Don't run under the umbrella of preference Biko. There's a difference.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 11:08am On Apr 16, 2020
Kingsteve:


Most Arab girls are exotically beautiful, truth be told.
Brazilians and Latinas too...
Spanish too...

I think it's a personal opinion.
Remember, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Having said that, it doesn't take away the beauty of other races in the world.
There are so many gorgeous women all over the world, but when we try to argue about the most beautiful, then other factors will be considered.

Some of these factors include how sharp there features are.
Eyes
The nose
Eyebrows
Eyelashes
Complexion
Silky hair
General body shape.

When you put all these factors together, I think, in my humble opinion, that most Arabs are up there.

Arab, Brazilian, and Latinas can come in different races and colors so you do not make any sense here. Spanish girls are white. So you judge a woman's beauty on the silkiness of her hair? Yah made his people with curly and coarse hair and according to your list that's unacceptable.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by ednut1(m): 11:10am On Apr 16, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
Don't run under the umbrella of preference Biko. There's a difference.
there is preference my dear. Forget about african Americans they are a damaged dysfunctional society lets face Africans abroad. For me i prefer to date a Caribbean or african lady than a Nigerian one due to my past dating experience with one.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Kingsteve(m): 11:10am On Apr 16, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
With media conditioning of white,light, bright as the standard of beauty, it is truly hard for beauty to be in the eye of the beholder.

It is what it is. Even black women would marry white, but because black men guilt them to stay in the black race, as brooding mares for their sons.

If I was an African American woman, I would date every single other men, African, carribean, Latina, Chinese, Indian, white, except for African American men.

Besides the whites are more open to life, African Americans to me, seem closed off and bitter.

That's how the media/Hollywood have potrayed most African American women/men to be.

I can't really say if it's stereotypical or not.
I think it's best to witness it first hand, before jumping to conclusions.
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by khiaa(f): 11:11am On Apr 16, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
Blame slavery and black society for failure to hold black men accountable for their choices.
Bullshyt!!! I blame their parents for not teaching them to love themselves. All black men didn't experience slavery.

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 11:12am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:


You are so naive about white men and their family troubles. White men cheat on their wives/women just like any other race of men.
But at least most pay the bills and aren't hobosexual

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Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 16, 2020
khiaa:

Bullshyt!!! I blame their parents for not teaching them to love themselves.
same thing. Most of these men are from single parent homes. Can't blame them
Re: Why Do So Many Educated Black Women Date White Men? by Nobody: 11:14am On Apr 16, 2020
Kingsteve:


That's how the media/Hollywood have potrayed most African American women/men to be.

I can't really say if it's stereotypical or not.
I think it's best to witness it first hand, before jumping to conclusions.

I have witnessed a little first-hand

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