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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by pheyhi(f): 9:07am On Apr 18, 2020
flytaminC:
How can she be positive for 5 years without knowing and without ARV. Sounds impossible. Also within that 5 years, she never had sex with her husband

It is easier for women to contact HIV than men because of the longetivity of the urethra tract, the tract of women is quite short so it's easier to contact it via sex but the most painful thing is that most ignorant people think it's only via sex HIV could be contacted, she might have gotten it from a salon or shared a sharp object with one that had the virus.

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 18, 2020
Just tested negative
Yeeehhhh
So happy grin grin
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by ucham: 9:15am On Apr 18, 2020
ceaser:


Getting married does not guarantee a 100% safety. If one of the partner gets infected thru the various ways available (wrongly or innocently), the other partner is at risk.

What would you say about Health Care Workers who got infected from patients in the line of diligently discharging their duties? D'you want 'em to blame God?
Your partner will not get infected if they sterilize their clippers or hair braiding tools.
97% of people who contract hiv get it from sex and blood transfusions.

By the way, hiv is not the only deadly disease. There's a plethora of STDs killing and destroying people today.

The best thing is to get married and remain faithful.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Kemblaze: 9:18am On Apr 18, 2020
Having HIV is not the end of the world i didn`t have a choice as i was born with the virus now in still getting older and i havent died of the virus yet to me its not the virus that kills the patient but the thought of having the virus same thing applies to Convid-19 just ignor it and focuse more on your immune system till there is a confirmed cure for the virus.

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Amanda4life: 9:20am On Apr 18, 2020
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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by perryy(m): 9:21am On Apr 18, 2020
Preshieben:
Just tested negative
Yeeehhhh
So happy grin grin

HIV test is a fraud. By now , scientists should be able to make something that test for the virus and not the anti body. What if little quantity of HIV is introduced to my blood which ginger the anti body to be produced while the virus wasn't able to harm me ? Won't I still test positive to HIV antibody? If a test to antibody is a confirmation of the presence of a virus , how then is vaccination done ? If you are vacinnated , you must test positive to the anti body of to the virus you were vacinnated against. For example, if I take polio vaccine and I am tested for polio anti body, I must test positive. Does that mean I have polio? No. It simply means small amount of polio was introduced into my body but my body resisted it by producing enough antibody to counter it.

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by PureGoldh(m): 9:21am On Apr 18, 2020
Amanda4life:



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How much?

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by perryy(m): 9:23am On Apr 18, 2020
Kemblaze:
Having HIV is not the end of the world i didn`t have a choice as i was born with the virus now in still getting older and i havent died of the virus yet to me its not the virus that kills the patient but the thought of having the virus same thing applies to Convid-19 just ignor it and focuse more on your immune system till there is a confirmed cure for the virus.

You don't have any virus. The anti body you tested positive to us not specific to HIV. Many things can make your body to produce that anti body. Take your peaceful mind off there and enjoy your life.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Kemblaze: 9:27am On Apr 18, 2020
perryy:


You don't have any virus. The anti body you tested positive to us not specific to HIV. Many things can make your body to produce that anti body. Take your peaceful mind off there and enjoy your life.

thanks bro but i have long over looked that i dont have it i just take my medication and live my life to the fullest cheesy cool smiley

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Ibrahiimo(m): 9:28am On Apr 18, 2020
perryy:
Ogbeni, that your auntie has no HIV. The so called HIV drugs are general macrobicides that kills any bacteria, or fungi irrespective of the nature. Someone has HIV, she has been making love with her husband for over 5 years , yet the husband wasn't infected . Hahahaha. What manner of HIV was that ? If that is the case , it means HIV is not sexually transmitted. Forget about discordant couple balderdash, many HIV positive people I've met always have a negative partners! What is the reason for the discordance? Any scientific reason given so far ?

Truth is , your auntie had some ailments either caused by bacteria or fungi which the Dr couldn't really find out the cause . So, when she tested positive to HIV antibody, the whole blame was put on HIV as the cause. The anti body she tested positive to is not perculiar to HIV, malaria, pregnancy, and sixty other conditions could make the body produce the anti body which they call HIV ant body . Some anti HIV scientists conducted a test in a remote village in Japan where no contact has been made with people outside the community, some of them were found to be positive. Where did they get it from ? Some blood samples taken during the second world war were tested for HIV antibody, some of them came out positive. Do you know the meaning of that ? It means HIV has been in existence before man even discovered it. Now, if that is the case , by now more than half of world population would have been HIV positive and since the drugs were only made in the 20th century, the virus would have wiped out more than half of human race before the drugs were made. But did we have something like that ? No. HIV=Aids is a hoax . A virus is not a living thing hence incapable of mutation, if it gets into your body it either kill you in a short time or your body fights it off and you regain your health. It won't remain idle for years and woke up all of a sudden after 5-10 years. That is not a characteristic of a virus and don't let WHO tell you otherwise. I know someone who has been HIV positive for over 15 years , he smokes , drinks and do hard labour without taking any ARV, yet no sickness. On this same naira land , a guy posted last time that he was sleeping around with random ladies and he suddenly developed some symptoms which look like those of HIV , he went to a teaching hospital where tests were run but it turned out negative! What could be the cause of those symptoms? Some other people would have those symptoms and test positive, depending on the genotype or blood group . Imagine if he had tested positive to HIV, he would have been treated for HIV. As at the time the guy posted the information on naira land , the Dr has not been able to determine what was wrong with him so the guy came here to seek for help. Imagine if he had tested positive? May God open our eyes. Watch videos on YouTube and do more readings about this.
stop SLEEPING around

don't CONSOLE yourself

AIDS is real, it does not show on the FACE
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Ibrahiimo(m): 9:41am On Apr 18, 2020
Preshieben:
Just tested negative
Yeeehhhh
So happy grin grin
Lol

CLAP for YOURSELF

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by daraj: 9:54am On Apr 18, 2020
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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by moeasy(m): 9:58am On Apr 18, 2020
Notyamate:
Going through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5795526/how-found-out-hiv-positive/1 I went through comments and I laugh at the ignorance of some people on Nairaland. I'm sharing this story to people living with HIV reading this, you are not alone. Believe me there are many people out there with this disease, some happily married, growing old and having healthy kids.

On April 2013 my aunt got diagnosed with HIV at Catholic Hospital, Oluyoro. If you stay in Ibadan you'll know this hospital. She was 58 years at the time of her diagnosis. Before she was diagnosed she was getting sick and having symptoms like cold, head ache, sweating at night, and insomnia. We were worried because this is a person that hardly get sick, so we took her to a private hospital where the doctor told us she has typhoid. She was on drip for two days before discharge after that she was fine again. Not until 3 months later she started having those symptoms again, we didn't count it as anything and took her to that same hospital where she was given drips again. After the drips she was fine again.

The last straw was when she started vomiting and fainted on me, I was the only one at home that day. I performed CPR on her and then I decided to take her to a general hospital where proper medical examination can be done on her.

When we got there we queue, collect card and wait for doctor to attend to us. The doctor ask us some questions and the symptoms she has been having and for how long. After that the doctor directed us to where a nurse collected samples of her blood and we waited for the result.

When the doctor said she has HIV I couldn't believe my ears, all blood drained from my body and I was shaking. It was the last thing I expected because this was a person whose last born was 19years at the time. After she was diagnosed the doctor gave her drugs, she started explaining how to take the drug and how taking it everyday without missing a dose is important.

Our journey back home was quiet, I was thinking throughout, how did this happen? When we got home we meet my uncle (her husband) and we told her everything the doctor said. Everybody was just looking at one another, thinking 'we all don get HIV'.

The next morning my uncle took us all to the hospital to get tested and to know who and who have the disease. After going through the hospital routine our results came out. We were all tested negative including her husband, which brings all of us to ask, how did she get it? Till today no one knows. Her doctor says she has been living with it for over 5 years and none of us know including her.

My observations in her years of taking ARV drugs.

As I said earlier she was very sick when I took her to the hospital. Her CD4 count was 194, way too low. Normal CD4 count is from 500 to 1400. CD4 count is a test that measures how many CD4 cells you have in your blood. Low CD4 count means your body can't fight bacteria, viruses, and other invading germs.

Three months into the drugs she was tested again and her count was 242, another 3 months and it was 269.

She has been getting tested every six months and in the last five years her CD4 count has being between 340-390 and she hasn't suffer any illness whatsoever. Except for the drugs she's taken you won't know she has HIV.

How the drug is taken.

The drug is taken once in a day. It is left for you to decide when you want to take it but once you chose, you must be consistent with the time when you take the next dose so that it will be the exact time everyday. Doctors usually advise patients to take the drug at night because of the side effects which includes drowsiness and dizziness. The drug is taken 2 hrs after eating. When I asked the doctor why she said something about pepper and oil reacting with the drug.

The ARV drugs is free if you go to general hospital. The bottle contains 30 tablets to be complete in a month.

Important things you can do as an HIV person.

1. Avoid drinking alcohol/smoking as this can compromise your health condition. This is really very important.

2. Eat good and healthy food.

3. Exercise.

4. Eat a lot of fruit: her doctor emphasize on this. It doesn't have to be expensive, you can buy oranges, mangoes, bananas, watermelons and other cheap fruits.

5. Take your drug daily: This is very important even if you forget to take it at the usual time, just take it whenever you remember. Like let's say you normally take the drug at 9pm but then you forgot or you slept off. When you wake up just take it. DO NOT MISS A DOSE.

6. If you feel or have any changes in your body. Go to your doctor and explain to him/her. I'm saying this because after few months of taken her drug she was coughing persistently, her doctor had to give her some cough medicine. Although she's not using any cough medicine again as all symptoms has gone. Only the ARV drug and septrin.

The side effect of ARV drugs

The first month she started the drugs she complains of having nightmares, fatigue, headache, and dizziness but with time her body adapted to it and all the symptoms disappeared.

Having a strong immunity also plays important role in an HIV person. I think those with genotype AA tends to adapt well with HIV which explains why none of us know she has the virus in her body for over five years.

All I'm trying to get to is that having HIV is not the end of the world, it's not a death sentence. What kills most of these people is the fear and stigma from friends and family.

When people tell you they have HIV, do not run away from them like they are plague or some kind of viral infection. Love them, support them, play with them, laugh with them. You cannot contract the disease by playing with them, eating together, sharing cutleries, handshakes, hugs, etc.

In the end we are all going to die whether today or tomorrow, accident happens everyday. People slumps and die, people drown, fire accident happens, building collapse. I mean there are 1000 ways to die.

Those that you think they will die today, you may die before them. When it is your TIME, it is your TIME.
nice
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by OgogoroFreak(m): 10:03am On Apr 18, 2020
She should have gone to test in another hospital
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by zelnababa(m): 10:26am On Apr 18, 2020
How she got it is not a misery, but how her husband remained negative for past five years.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 10:32am On Apr 18, 2020
perryy:


HIV test is a fraud. By now , scientists should be able to make something that test for the virus and not the anti body. What if little quantity of HIV is introduced to my blood which ginger the anti body to be produced while the virus wasn't able to harm me ? Won't I still test positive to HIV antibody? If a test to antibody is a confirmation of the presence of a virus , how then is vaccination done ? If you are vacinnated , you must test positive to the anti body of to the virus you were vacinnated against. For example, if I take polio vaccine and I am tested for polio anti body, I must test positive. Does that mean I have polio? No. It simply means small amount of polio was introduced into my body but my body resisted it by producing enough antibody to counter it.
undecided
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 10:34am On Apr 18, 2020
perryy:


HIV test is a fraud. By now , scientists should be able to make something that test for the virus and not the anti body. What if little quantity of HIV is introduced to my blood which ginger the anti body to be produced while the virus wasn't able to harm me ? Won't I still test positive to HIV antibody? If a test to antibody is a confirmation of the presence of a virus , how then is vaccination done ? If you are vacinnated , you must test positive to the anti body of to the virus you were vacinnated against. For example, if I take polio vaccine and I am tested for polio anti body, I must test positive. Does that mean I have polio? No. It simply means small amount of polio was introduced into my body but my body resisted it by producing enough antibody to counter it.
are you HIV positive?
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by molbic(m): 10:47am On Apr 18, 2020
emeijeh:
Donstan18, this thread is for you
. oga donstan Don kpai he died last year
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by sofiscatedmoron: 11:09am On Apr 18, 2020
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Notyamate:
Going through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5795526/how-found-out-hiv-positive/1 I went through comments and I laugh at the IME, it is your TIME.
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You people should save us all these stories, hiv is a very bad thing to have as a Human being,, dont tell us hiv is not the end of the world, its actually the end of the world and the beginning of the end, ,
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Yoyostic: 11:25am On Apr 18, 2020
Same with people living with sickle cell, diabetes,HBP,cancer.If your time is not yet ripe, nothing will kill you.Some thing must definitely kill a man though.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 11:48am On Apr 18, 2020
lefulefu:
lol its not easy to cut off from something u heavily addicted to.u cant just tell an alcoholic or a heavy smoker to stop smoking and u think he or she will just stop cheesy cos he or she has hiv.


I agree
We don’t even have the right channels for quitting addictions in the country. Drinking is even a dividual way to cope with the stress of being in Nigeria (with its attendant wahala).
So it will be hard.
Well we still counsel and hope the person has sheer will (this is a real factor that determines someone’s chances of quitting too).
Well if they can’t or won’t quit, they should cut down appreciably.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 18, 2020
Preshieben:
are you HIV positive?

SMH
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by raydboi(m): 12:00pm On Apr 18, 2020
The thought someone having to rely on a daily pill � for a lifetime...it's disheartening
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by snowblaq(f): 12:48pm On Apr 18, 2020
ibkayee:
Helpful, positive information

Not to be a debbie downer however, but how accessible are these treatments for the average person in Nigeria? It isn't a death sentence when you have access to a certain quality of healthcare
The drugs are given for free at any general hospital, teaching hospital etc... Unless people who don't want others to know they have it, then they can buy the drugs at pharmacies.

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Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by bossrillboss: 1:08pm On Apr 18, 2020
d day I go wan private hospital go do typhoid nd malaria test,d private hospital for dia law,dey will do hiv test for u secretly nd staple it nd gv it to u to show d doctor,dem gv me d stapled paper I wan die o,plenty thngs dey run for my mind o,las las I tear am o,has I see negative d kind heat nd cold breeze wey blow me d same time no b here o,I just rest for one bench,nurse think say I wan collapse ni,I just tell am I wan rest,dem dey tell me sorry for my mind I dey thank God dey laugh,.dat hiv result bf e cum sme pple don die already self.e no easy.
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Wayne4uall(m): 1:16pm On Apr 18, 2020
Hopebringer:


Yeah read up on PEP and Truvada

Bro information is key

Yea I hv heard about pep and truvada.. Pls were did u get them and hw much
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Wayne4uall(m): 1:16pm On Apr 18, 2020
Hopebringer:



Yeah read up on PEP and Truvada

Bro information is key

Forget about pep or not pep.. U still get mind.. I csnt do such a thing
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by DexterousOne(m): 1:59pm On Apr 18, 2020
nairalandbeast1:


If you did not like attention you won't be here quoting

Huh?
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 18, 2020
I remember when I was 12 and someone thought I had HIV I was perplexed

What will make them think this waited 8 years to actually take the test which was negative be choosy with your partners no be just face and cologne check their body there are always signs

I look at the legs they can’t hide much

God heal everyone
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by dedeorji(m): 3:25pm On Apr 18, 2020
Thanks for the information.
However, if she has had the virus for a 5 year period and she stays with her family, how did the husband's result come out negative?
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by Legendguru: 3:30pm On Apr 18, 2020
Hmmm
Re: Having HIV Is Not A Death Sentence by cococandy(f): 3:54pm On Apr 18, 2020
Thanks for sharing this very personal and useful information.
Notyamate:
Going through this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5795526/how-found-out-hiv-positive/1 I went through comments and I laugh at the ignorance of some people on Nairaland. I'm sharing this story to people living with HIV reading this, you are not alone. Believe me there are many people out there with this disease, some happily married, growing old and having healthy kids.

On April 2013 my aunt got diagnosed with HIV at Catholic Hospital, Oluyoro. If you stay in Ibadan you'll know this hospital. She was 58 years at the time of her diagnosis. Before she was diagnosed she was getting sick and having symptoms like cold, head ache, sweating at night, and insomnia. We were worried because this is a person that hardly get sick, so we took her to a private hospital where the doctor told us she has typhoid. She was on drip for two days before discharge after that she was fine again. Not until 3 months later she started having those symptoms again, we didn't count it as anything and took her to that same hospital where she was given drips again. After the drips she was fine again.

The last straw was when she started vomiting and fainted on me, I was the only one at home that day. I performed CPR on her and then I decided to take her to a general hospital where proper medical examination can be done on her.

When we got there we queue, collect card and wait for doctor to attend to us. The doctor ask us some questions and the symptoms she has been having and for how long. After that the doctor directed us to where a nurse collected samples of her blood and we waited for the result.

When the doctor said she has HIV I couldn't believe my ears, all blood drained from my body and I was shaking. It was the last thing I expected because this was a person whose last born was 19years at the time. After she was diagnosed the doctor gave her drugs, she started explaining how to take the drug and how taking it everyday without missing a dose is important.

Our journey back home was quiet, I was thinking throughout, how did this happen? When we got home we meet my uncle (her husband) and we told her everything the doctor said. Everybody was just looking at one another, thinking 'we all don get HIV'.

The next morning my uncle took us all to the hospital to get tested and to know who and who have the disease. After going through the hospital routine our results came out. We were all tested negative including her husband, which brings all of us to ask, how did she get it? Till today no one knows. Her doctor says she has been living with it for over 5 years and none of us know including her.

My observations in her years of taking ARV drugs.

As I said earlier she was very sick when I took her to the hospital. Her CD4 count was 194, way too low. Normal CD4 count is from 500 to 1400. CD4 count is a test that measures how many CD4 cells you have in your blood. Low CD4 count means your body can't fight bacteria, viruses, and other invading germs.

Three months into the drugs she was tested again and her count was 242, another 3 months and it was 269.

She has been getting tested every six months and in the last five years her CD4 count has being between 340-390 and she hasn't suffer any illness whatsoever. Except for the drugs she's taken you won't know she has HIV.

How the drug is taken.

The drug is taken once in a day. It is left for you to decide when you want to take it but once you chose, you must be consistent with the time when you take the next dose so that it will be the exact time everyday. Doctors usually advise patients to take the drug at night because of the side effects which includes drowsiness and dizziness. The drug is taken 2 hrs after eating. When I asked the doctor why she said something about pepper and oil reacting with the drug.

The ARV drugs is free if you go to general hospital. The bottle contains 30 tablets to be complete in a month.

Important things you can do as an HIV person.

1. Avoid drinking alcohol/smoking as this can compromise your health condition. This is really very important.

2. Eat good and healthy food.

3. Exercise.

4. Eat a lot of fruit: her doctor emphasize on this. It doesn't have to be expensive, you can buy oranges, mangoes, bananas, watermelons and other cheap fruits.

5. Take your drug daily: This is very important even if you forget to take it at the usual time, just take it whenever you remember. Like let's say you normally take the drug at 9pm but then you forgot or you slept off. When you wake up just take it. DO NOT MISS A DOSE.

6. If you feel or have any changes in your body. Go to your doctor and explain to him/her. I'm saying this because after few months of taken her drug she was coughing persistently, her doctor had to give her some cough medicine. Although she's not using any cough medicine again as all symptoms has gone. Only the ARV drug and septrin.

The side effect of ARV drugs

The first month she started the drugs she complains of having nightmares, fatigue, headache, and dizziness but with time her body adapted to it and all the symptoms disappeared.

Having a strong immunity also plays important role in an HIV person. I think those with genotype AA tends to adapt well with HIV which explains why none of us know she has the virus in her body for over five years.

All I'm trying to get to is that having HIV is not the end of the world, it's not a death sentence. What kills most of these people is the fear and stigma from friends and family.

When people tell you they have HIV, do not run away from them like they are plague or some kind of viral infection. Love them, support them, play with them, laugh with them. You cannot contract the disease by playing with them, eating together, sharing cutleries, handshakes, hugs, etc.

In the end we are all going to die whether today or tomorrow, accident happens everyday. People slumps and die, people drown, fire accident happens, building collapse. I mean there are 1000 ways to die.

Those that you think they will die today, you may die before them. When it is your TIME, it is your TIME.

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