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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by MrMacinterchi1: 1:57pm On Apr 26, 2020
emddi:
Me adding food was because I wanted to make a strong point;azzin if one can go without food(the very need for survival),then what is sex?

It made ur comment out of point.
No matter how far u claimed to go without food and water forever together with that ur spirituality, you will see yourself coming back to it because u need it to live. except, you have decided to meet ur creator.

Unlike sex, the person will not die but it will be continues struggle to overcome the natural inclination in him because of his Christian beliefs.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Agboriotejoye(m): 1:58pm On Apr 26, 2020
Osagyefo98:


You all twisting God's words and it is wrong

Song of Solomon 1 vs 2

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine.


Proverbs 5:18-19 “Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.”


This scriptures counters your stance. Let the word of God remains undiluted.
I suspect you have comprehension issues. You don't even need to be a Christian to see wife in that scripture you quoted. I really don't get where you're going

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Agboriotejoye(m): 1:59pm On Apr 26, 2020
Vicvalentine:


You’ve got a good point on this matter.

The issue about this topic is most people that preach it , do it in a way that they willeven forget that we are human beings and things like that are bound to occur somehow in humans life.

It is not easy.

Let’s say in the natural sense , sex will definitely occur between the male and female.

True. But what he's giving us is a reminder. We have to accept it soberly
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 26, 2020
MrMacinterchi1:


It made ur comment out of point.
No matter how far u claimed to go without food and water forever together with that ur spirituality, you will see yourself coming back to it because u need it to live. except, you have decided to meet ur creator.

Unlike sex, the person will not die but it will be continues struggle to overcome the natural inclination in him because of his Christian beliefs.

Wonder why Jesus said "I am the bread of life.whoever believes in me will never go hungry,whoever believes in me will never be thirsty".
Ask your self,does God eat?If we were Created in the image and likenessof God,then we can very well go without food if we choose to pay the price.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Okwyjesus(m): 2:06pm On Apr 26, 2020
Timil:
How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.

No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books.
Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.

Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that [b[GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.[/b]

God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.

If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.


Do you even believe in God since you are now a messiah of yourself.

Trying hard to justify wrong by condemning the bible.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by iammolise(m): 2:06pm On Apr 26, 2020
Well every man to his thoughts, opinions, orientation and perception shaa. U people make sex seem like its a tool crafted by the devil... God is not who y'all are making him to be with all these dogmatism, he's not a hinderer of freedom.

Besides, ask ur selves; what if greater beings don't care what we do ... Like we don't care what ants do.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by christ007(m): 2:13pm On Apr 26, 2020
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by kollinz1234(m): 2:14pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?
If God didn't want Adam and Eve to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and eveil, why did he include it in the garden?? God's way are not our ways. Be guided and don't mislead people so that God will not rebuke you.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by MrMacinterchi1: 2:24pm On Apr 26, 2020
emddi:
Wonder why Jesus said "I am the bread of life.whoever believes in me will never go hungry,whoever believes in me will never be thirsty".
Ask your self,does God eat?If we were Created in the image and likenessof God,then we can very well go without food if we choose to pay the price.
And that will be death.
Then , God will be mad for creating a person that neglected using the reasoning he gave freely.
And, you are not God and can never be close to what he represents. The earlier u wake, the better.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Achorise: 2:29pm On Apr 26, 2020
Anyone can write to appear holier than others ,It easier written ,said ,condemn than practice.
Please let’s write more on how to overcome immortality.
God help us because it’s not easy in this adulterous generation.
Many are trying to come out immorality,but they are finding it difficult because of so many factors.
It’s possible to live right.
God will help us all in Jesus name.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Ayor007: 2:31pm On Apr 26, 2020
Martinola:
I really do not like how christianity is being practiced in Nigeria. We preach against things that are not too serious while our hearts are full of wickedness.
Good deeds is the best religion to me. Help and take care of the people around you if you have the might, love your neighbours, do not steal nor kill, do not wish people bad etc.
People will preach against minor things like pre-marital sex, but will watch a hungry human starve to death even when he/she has the capacity to help.

Best quote of the day. God bless you
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Achorise: 2:31pm On Apr 26, 2020
emddi:
Wonder why Jesus said "I am the bread of life.whoever believes in me will never go hungry,whoever believes in me will never be thirsty".
Ask your self,does God eat?If we were Created in the image and likenessof God,then we can very well go without food if we choose to pay the price.
what are you even saying?
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Ifechi2020: 2:41pm On Apr 26, 2020
True talk. The Bible is our standard. Any other philosophy is simply personal opinion. The bible says that "marriage us honorable and the bed undefiled".
People should read and act God's word.
The bible should be the bedrock of our Christian living. The standard was not changed and won't be for anyone.
A lot are possessed today, destiny exchanged or distorted and many other evils cos of some few minutes of pleasure. Those virtues lost are prices paid for disobedience to God's word and more.
Watch and pray.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Skmoda(m): 2:41pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?
ah! See question, wetin happen now?
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Ifechi2020: 2:48pm On Apr 26, 2020
kollinz1234:
If God didn't want Adam and Eve to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and eveil, why did he include it in the garden?? God's way are not our ways. Be guided and don't mislead people so that God will not rebuke you.

Its unfortunate that we are myopic in reasoning and understanding of God's word. God is great. Despite creating us and giving us what we have, he doesn't force his will on us. He says "if we ".
Sodom and Gomorrah were advised to repent and accept Christ, they refused and we know the end was destruction. The people of ninevah accepted the Lord's word, repented and God spared them.
U have a choice. Decide on which. I hope u make the right one
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 2:48pm On Apr 26, 2020
MrMacinterchi1:

And that will be death.
Then , God will be mad for creating a person that neglected using the reasoning he gave freely.
And, you are not God and can never be close to what he represents. The earlier u wake, the better.
Matthew 10 31-34:Again the Jews picked up stones to stone Jesus,because he a mere man claims to be God.
Jesus answered them,'is it not written in your law,"I have said you are gods".
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 2:57pm On Apr 26, 2020
Achorise:
what are you even saying?
How do you understand what it meant when Jesus said we should "eat his flesh and drink his blood".
It sounds nonsense right?
Christianity is hard to understand.

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by MrMacinterchi1: 3:02pm On Apr 26, 2020
emddi:
Matthew 10 31-34:Again the Jews picked up stones to stone Jesus,because he a mere man claims to be God.
Jesus answered them,'is it not written in your law,"I have said you are gods".

This doesn't still change the reality that has eluded you.
at least u started your God with g.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 26, 2020
MrMacinterchi1:


This doesn't still change the reality that has eluded you.
at least u started your God with g.
OK.Let me tell you a little about God.
God is using human beings as an experiment to determine what we really consider life to be.
Yes..,he created food and everything on earth for our pleasure.
But God is using this to test if we truly value him more(the soul within) or the things he created for sensual pleasure(sex,food e.t.c)
About the G and g,it like saying Father and sons.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by missvaj2015(f): 3:11pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?


The same thing I keep telling people and they think am the greatest sinner ever in man kind.
If God do not need sex b4 marriage, he would have waited until your marriage night b4 giving a man dick and the woman her pussy.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Legitz: 3:13pm On Apr 26, 2020
LeeSantos:
The same Bible says. He who find a good wife findeth a Good thing..

U are so sarcastic with what you think you know and you you don't know.

Same Bible say A man shall leave his father n mother, same as the woman. N they shall become one.
The Bible didn't say I (God) will take them out of their parents house.



This Bible passages will teach u what u don't know.

Genesis 34:12 (But give me the damsel to wife)
Exodus 22:12

Judges 1:12 & 13( I (Caleb) will give Achsah my daughter to wife

We even have instances where the man's father find wife for their sons.
A wife for Isaac Genesis 24

You don't seek God for a wife or husband, cus he has giving u a free will to choose from good or evil. Only you know who, what is good for you.
Would you blame God for men of God divorcing their wife, or a Christian home been broken, NO. Would u say God you have me this wife and now she is my problem No. God himself know you will still complain, that's why humans have the free will

Only one person (Joseph & mary) actually did courtship, other instances, immediately they sighted their eyes in the beautiful damsel the head to marriage, no time wasted

Tell me where you have it in the Bible where God himself gave a man wife .
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The problem of African is our religion, a lot people have misinterpreted the words
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by MicroSweet(m): 3:16pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:
If God wants sex before marriage why do u have a d.ck and it gets hard before marriage?
God gave you the will power and free will to choose and decide your path. Good or evil? He's a just God, not a dictator. He doesn't invade your 'privacy', neither does He impose himself on his creatures. He doesn't wield his power over you without your consent. You may go ahead to stick your diick into any damn hole you wish right now...

But you must be ready to give Him a rundown of how you 'managed' the diick He gave you

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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 3:20pm On Apr 26, 2020
MicroSweet:

God gave you the will power and free will to choose and decide your path. Good or evil? He's a just God, not a dictator. He doesn't invade your 'privacy', neither does He impose himself on his creatures. He doesn't wield his power over you without your consent. You may go ahead to stick your diick into any damn hole you wish right now...

But you must be ready to give Him a rundown of how you 'managed' the diick He gave you
Chai..,it is difficult to find people like you that actually understands God
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GreatAchiever1: 3:26pm On Apr 26, 2020
cooooooks:
OP contends that sex must be reserved for marriage. That thinking causes people to marry early just to soothe the natural itch to have sex.

However, marriage has a number of cultural and legal ramifications which can sometimes be limiting and difficult to get out of.

By your question, you are equating all relationships with marriages.


Nope i wasn't.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Ochuksbaba(m): 3:44pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:


He who based his life on a story book is the lost one and that ain't me
Savage
a story book with many versions,KJV,new KJV, Good news etc Africans emancipate urselves from religious slavery
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 3:44pm On Apr 26, 2020
kollinz1234:
If God didn't want Adam and Eve to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and eveil, why did he include it in the garden?? God's way are not our ways. Be guided and don't mislead people so that God will not rebuke you.

Why did he create Adam if he knew he will disobey him or he didn't know?
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 3:47pm On Apr 26, 2020
Mywd:



Baba is out of point......JJC does not matter na sense matter okay? grin

Lol logic plenty but that sh.t happens whenever you comment on Islam thread
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 26, 2020
sunshineV:


Why did he create Adam if he knew he will disobey him or he didn't know?
I said I love you,but if you really wanted to test my love for you..,you might set me up with one of a female friend to test my loyalty.That is exactly what God did to Adam.
It's about loyalty,and Adam failed the test.
Even though Jesus Christ was the son of God,he still had to be tempted/tested and he passed his own test.
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 4:15pm On Apr 26, 2020
emddi:
I said I love you,but if you really wanted to test my love for you..,you might set me up with one of a female friend to test my loyalty.That is exactly what God did to Adam.
It's about loyalty,and Adam failed the test.
Even though Jesus Christ was the son of God,he still had to be tempted/tested and he passed his own test.

Did he know he was gonna fail?
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by jayson87: 4:17pm On Apr 26, 2020
Interesting15:



Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!
]

This is a myoopic way of reasoning pastor. You can do better. You guys are the reason most people are still going into premarital sex. Every average thinking person would know that thing you put in this very mention is absolute balderdash. Do better pastor and refine your teachings. Don't peddle lies and frights to pass the Gospel of Jesus
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Westernlove: 4:23pm On Apr 26, 2020
Martinola:
I really do not like how christianity is being practiced in Nigeria. We preach against things that are not too serious while our hearts are full of wickedness.
Good deeds is the best religion to me. Help and take care of the people around you if you have the might, love your neighbours, do not steal nor kill, do not wish people bad etc.
People will preach against minor things like pre-marital sex, but will watch a hungry human starve to death even when he/she has the capacity to help.

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