Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Westernlove: 4:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Sheriman:
So ordinarily mouth/nose cover na in you won go dey still deliver to people house.. All right I dey Sokoto State and I won order Only 1 Which Kind human being be this sef lol |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by LeeSantos(m): 4:29pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
GreatAchiever1:
When husbands sometimes tell their wives "God bless the day i found you." What do u think they meant?
Lemme say dis, just as you said the bible says "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" . Also note that the bible also says Every good and perfect gift comes from God.
When they marriages fails, that means you should blame God? The day these divorced children of God found their wife, was the day also not blessed by God? Also note that the bible also says Every good and perfect gift comes from God, then let's say Solomon's marriage to 1000 women was a gift to him that destroyed him? Please read and ask the holy spirit for interpretation when next u read ur Bible. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:
Did he know he was gonna fail? do teachers intend for students to fail their test? |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 5:01pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emddi: do teachers intend for students to fail their test? Did he know? |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GreatAchiever1: 5:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
LeeSantos:
When they marriages fails, that means you should blame God? The day these divorced children of God found their wife, was the day also not blessed by God?
Also note that the bible also says Every good and perfect gift comes from God, then let's say Solomon's marriage to 1000 women was a gift to him that destroyed him?
Please read and ask the holy spirit for interpretation when next u read ur Bible.
Funny how u are using solomon case of getting married to 1000 women, when u nd i both know the topic was on being married to one person. Owk lemme ask u, when u find ur own woman, will u see it as a gift from God or a gift from urself in ur own might? |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by MrMacinterchi1: 5:41pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emddi: OK.Let me tell you a little about God. God is using human beings as an experiment to determine what we really consider life to be. Yes..,he created food and everything on earth for our pleasure. But God is using this to test if we truly value him more(the soul within) or the things he created for sensual pleasure(sex,food e.t.c) About the G and g,it like saying Father and sons. Tell me about God? lol u can not tell about who you don't know. Your human Psychology will still dealing with you on this aspect. But, it's well. Tell me about God indeed. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by JimmyBishop: 6:04pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
LeeSantos: The same Bible says. He who find a good wife findeth a Good thing..
U are so sarcastic with what you think you know and you you don't know.
Same Bible say A man shall leave his father n mother, same as the woman. N they shall become one. The Bible didn't say I (God) will take them out of their parents house.
This Bible passages will teach u what u don't know.
Genesis 34:12 (But give me the damsel to wife) Exodus 22:12
Judges 1:12 & 13( I (Caleb) will give Achsah my daughter to wife
We even have instances where the man's father find wife for their sons. A wife for Isaac Genesis 24
You don't seek God for a wife or husband, cus he has giving u a free will to choose from good or evil. Only you know who, what is good for you. Would you blame God for men of God divorcing their wife, or a Christian home been broken, NO. Would u say God you have me this wife and now she is my problem No. God himself know you will still complain, that's why humans have the free will
Only one person (Joseph & mary) actually did courtship, other instances, immediately they sighted their eyes in the beautiful damsel the head to marriage, no time wasted
Tell me where you have it in the Bible where God himself gave a man wife . N I will send you ₦5k
The problem of African is our religion, a lot people have misinterpreted the words For the bolded: Gen. 2:21-25 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
MrMacinterchi1:
Tell me about God? lol u can not tell about who you don't know. Your human Psychology will still dealing with you on this aspect. But, it's well. Tell me about God indeed.
OK.have it your way. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by showafrica(m): 6:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Interesting15:
Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.
The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.
The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).
Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.
So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).
Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship
So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".
This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God
That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.
Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!
Run into the waiting arms of Christ! Nice but perfection is almost impossible in the later Adams body. The body is weak, I suggest you do not discard your soul mate because of mistakes. Jesus always give us second chance to make amends. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by sunshineV(f): 6:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emddi: how would he know? I thought he knows yesterday, today and tomorrow |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 6:35pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Osagyefo98: Abraham had a side chick who he has sex with God didn't condemn him but blessed the fruit and encouraged him more in life..
David had many side chicks but still a man after God's heart..
Solomon had multiple wives and side chicks but God still blessed him with wisdom...
Jacob married two wives, married first one and still dated the second one yet God blessed him.
Samson upon all escapades with Delilah, God still gave him chance
Even Pastor Wilson, sucking ministry of Ethiopia..
It is only in Africa that will turn the Bible upside down with un related analysis in real life...God has thought of Good for us and not evil..
He said to Adam I had created all these for you to enjoy....Let's guide ourselves on what we write and stop misleading people
Check Op life, and discover many amorous relationships perfectly hidden from people
Are you done? Continue..... One day, you will remember what the Original poster said today and don't mislead others with your opinions pls. Continue... 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Westernlove: 6:58pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Hormones, external and other body factors do affect it. It's doesn't get hard forever as it will diminish in time. If you hold urine for a long time it also occur too. I'm sure u must have been Ignorantly engaging yourself In this deadly act for a while. Well my advice for you Is start saving up for Kidney Transplant In the nearest future...... |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Tifunloran: 6:59pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Timil: How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.
No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books. Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.
Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.
God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.
If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.
You got got wrong here dear If truly the bible was not inspired by God as claimed in 2Timothy 3:16 How did the writer of 2Timothy 3:1-5 knows all those things writing in there. in all sincerity the bible was given to humans by God to guide them, but we fail to adhere to it principles and guidance. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Fa44me: 7:08pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Thank you very much Op. A word is enough for only THE WISE. God bless us all. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Stephenmoka4(m): 7:15pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Westernlove:
I'm sure u must have been Ignorantly engaging yourself In this deadly act for a while. Well my advice for you Is start saving up for Kidney Transplant In the nearest future...... I don't like doing it, there are position where I can't use the restroom. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Achorise: 7:15pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
emddi: How do you understand what it meant when Jesus said we should "eat his flesh and drink his blood". It sounds nonsense right? Christianity is hard to understand. You aren’t making any sense my friend,you are only trying to prove you know too much. Which maybe pride. Christianity is simple,they are unbelievers here on this forum,Oga learn to buttress your point or your comments so unbelievers can at least learn something. No hard feelings sir. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by LeeSantos(m): 7:31pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Well in your question . You already have your answer.
The word of God is not meant to be argued or deliberated cus I see you have been blinded by ur own doctrine.
Further discussion here may/not lead to sin.
Let's rest it here.
Thank you |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Fucsheetup(f): 7:35pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Jeromejnr: Many are called, few are chosen.
Many will give excuses now for their love of sin, but will they on the day of the Lord?
Many who claim to be Christians also fall prey in justifying this sin, I say this to your shame.
Eternal regret is the reward of the cowardly and those who turn from the commandments of the Lord.
Be wise and flee from the wrath to come.
To the truly faithful, hold fast to your crown, so that no man may take it. Ode |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Makuos19: 7:37pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Fucsheetup: Ode U look like a Prostitute in your dp,... True or False |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
I think God want us to have sex with multiple partners just like the male of every other animal. A man cannot truly be satisfied sleeping with one woman for the rest of his life, swallow this bitter truth and walk away from this post, thank you. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Jeromejnr(m): 7:40pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Fucsheetup: Ode Why are you chasing me everywhere lady? 1 Like |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Fucsheetup(f): 8:09pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Makuos19: U look like a Prostitute in your dp,... True or False True. I do look like your mom. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Nobody: 8:15pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:
I thought he knows yesterday, today and tomorrow You don't understand the privilege God gave man |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by GreatAchiever1: 8:35pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
LeeSantos: Well in your question . You already have your answer.
The word of God is not meant to be argued or deliberated cus I see you have been blinded by ur own doctrine.
Further discussion here may/not lead to sin.
Let's rest it here.
Thank you well whatever answer it is, concerns u tho coz it is a personal question. but d advice u gave me earlier on, I hope say u sef dey follow am... |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by gideonvalor98(m): 8:57pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Timil: How sure are you that this is all God wants?.. or is it because the Bible says so?.
No one knows what God really wants, what he wants isn't in the Bible nor Qur'an nor Torah nor any other religious books. Don't be deceived by those books that were written by men claiming to be inspired by GOD when they weren't.
Any sound mind can sit down to write a book and say God has inspired him or her to write it. OP even you can write your own religious books and people would believe it especially Nigerians so far you hide under the guise that GOD INSPIRED YOU or GOD SAYS.
God has given us a sense of reasoning and a free will to live the way we choose and make our own decisions.
If God had wanted us to live in a specific way he would have come live with us in earth to guide us or send his emissaries to come live with us so as to enforce his rules/laws to live life.
I will leave you with these verses of the scripture and to others with your like of comment NIV version; 2tim.3:16-17.."all scripture is God-breathed and is is useful for teaching, rebuking.... " 1cor 6 :15 - 20. "Do you not know that your bodies are the members of Christ? ......." 2cor 6:14-18.."do not be yoked together with unbelievers.... " Heb. 13: 4 "marriage should be honoured by all, and the marriage bed kept pure...." Truly God has given us freewill but this is to please him in words and action... "He that loves me keeps my commandment." Freewill doesn't warrant us to cross God's path but living in obedience to him. Freewill led to the fall of first man but his GRACE through our lord Jesus Christ gave us second chance. Will you let your so - called FREEWILL blew your chances this last TIME ! Think! I pray the holy spirit ministers to you. Amen |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Interesting15: 8:58pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
showafrica:
Nice but perfection is almost impossible in the later Adams body. The body is weak, I suggest you do not discard your soul mate because of mistakes. Jesus always give us second chance to make amends. After you've made amends with God and you become an approved child of His with the Spirit leading you according to His Will, He knows how He will fix things for your good. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Akhagbenidestin(m): 9:11pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Interesting15:
Romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into grevious issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.
The core reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because it was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.
The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).
Listen, I don't care what modernism or so called civilization is saying. This is the Will of God, and any contrary opinion doesn't matter. In fact, anything contrary will always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.
So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).
Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship
So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you have backslided already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".
This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God
That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.
Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!
Run into the waiting arms of Christ! . you when write am you nor dey Bleep |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by kollinz1234(m): 10:08pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
sunshineV:
Why did he create Adam if he knew he will disobey him or he didn't know? lol we are saying the same thing. That's why I just told you that God's ways and our ways are not the same. You can hardly serve God with logic, but it should not stop you from serving Him. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by showafrica(m): 10:25pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Interesting15:
After you've made amends with God and you become an approved child of His with the Spirit leading you according to His Will, He knows how He will fix things for your good. The body that is demanding for sex should not be condemned. |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Interesting15: 11:46pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Akhagbenidestin: . you when write am you nor dey Bleep By God's Grace, I clocked 25 on Thursday, and I can confidently say I haven't defile myself (yeah, I also have very healthy urges) Listen Bro, don't let anyone deceive you that it is impossible to live a chaste and holy life that honours God. When the Lord God Almighty said "be holy as I am holy", He knew we can actually be holy if we are ready to cooperate with the Spirit of God. See, when you accept Jesus as Lord and Savior, you will receive true power to have true dominion and control over your body (including over all other things and elements). Just embrace Jesus Bro. God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by kapitacity(m): 3:40am On Apr 27, 2020 |
My son, My daughter, when sinners entice thee, do not consent. |