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Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Mcslize: 3:12pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: You love this girl. Who told you that's love? A girl that will live with you based on how much you have is not love. That's a pure scam. Wake up! Give yourself enough time to heal from this emotional manipulation you call love. A girl that truly loves you will never leave you when you are broke. Kanye West was broke some years ago, even begging Mark for financial help, his wife Kim never left him. Today he is now a billionaire. Any girl that stays with you due to what you have is a pure scammer. What will happen if something along the line occur and everything crumbled? She will definitely leave you again. Have you thought of that? You are in love with a girl that told you will cheat on you if you don't let her go? You better wake up from this emotional torment you call love. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: Which contract, can we work together to win more contracts? I don't av money ooo but I can offer my strength and intelligence.. I can work with you to fulfill those contracts |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: Forgive rubbish... OP, if them born u well, u send her any foolish money.. Never take dt girl back. Another thing is, ignore her But i feel u can help her whenever she needs help dt her Alhajis can provide 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Zabiboy: 3:48pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Millenniumlady: I'm not surprised.... Nothing good can and will ever come out from dirty wh0re, whose Hope u'll tell ur Pitiable children that you were a sex object.. Bcz of the peanut CaptainMitch sends to u, you are alredi promising him diff sex styles after d lock down and then u go around claiming you have self worth.... My dear, your worth is far less than a bottle of water... Hopefully you dont giv birth to a bastard....and if/once u do, tell her not to toll your irritating path Now look at my moniker....Incase u cant read, its "Zabiboy"....Never Ever till you deactivate ur account quote me again GL.... 6 Likes |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Millenniumlady(f): 4:12pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Zabiboy:Awwwww i can see you're bitter because your can't find a lady that loves you the way i do to Piiko that's why your mad because you're frustrated with know hope of today yesterday and tomorrow.......I heard your fada die on his way to use you for money ritual to buy danfo take dear because right now you seems frustrated |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by DaySpringer: 4:14pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: Brother. I am going to tackle this from several angles. I understand that you are heartbroken at the moment but while your heart might be feeling psychosomatic pain, the best way to heal would be to reorient your mind. You have been dating her since she was 17. For her to be even loyal for that long, she has tried. But then again, was she really loyal? Your friends suspected foul play that you did not see because you were blinded by love. Think about it. What if there was foul play behind your back all these while, how would you feel? SHE IS WEAK-MINDED Okay. Someone made a comment Rhozabeth: You are a man that is heading to the top. Yes, she stood by you but she also allowed herself to be influenced into giving up the investment that she has been building for the past 3 years. Will you say you did no give her one naira throughout the relationship? No. She got greedy. She wanted more than you can give. Listen a man needs a woman who has a strong mind. Who believes in him and what he can become. You were not lazy. You had a business and you were working hard for your future, a future that she would have enjoyed had she remained with you. Yet she allowed herself to be misled by a girl that slept with men for money. A weak-minded girl can never be loyal because she will be influenced left and right by different flashy things. She will definitely cheat on you that is why you should be happy that she is gone. You want someone that stays with you because of you and not just because of your money and you should learn how to make this distinction because when you make money there will be girls that will flock around you because of that same money. WHAT DOES SHE REALLY HAVE TO OFFER? She evaluated you based on financial capacity. Now think about this logically like a businessman. What does she have to offer that is worth the value of that money? Now don't answer me like someone that has been brainwashed by the Gynocentric society we live in. It takes guts, determination, persistence, strategic thinking, and the right networks to make money. Which of these did she contribute in your life to bring you the money or the contract that you got later? If she can evaluate and leave you because of your financial status then you should evaluate her on her qualities that can influence that financial status or even her own. Let me tell you a girl that is business-oriented will not leave you because you cannot provide for her needs, such girls understand potential and hustle. They understand patience. DON'T MIND SIMP BOYS Posters like Slap44 are so feminized that they want to further guilt trip you into feeling bad. They have bought into the narrative that girls need to be taken care of for the mere fact that they are females. That sleeping with the girl means that you should consequently be taking care of her financial needs. I don't know whether the guy even read the age of the girl and saw that she was just 20. Your girl wants to hoe around and slap44 wants to have you believe that she is looking for marriage. SLAP44: At 20 your girl is still approaching her peak period of attractiveness and she wants to milk it from as many guys as possible like her friend is advising her. Is your girl an orphan? or is she from a poor home, does she not have parents who are taking care of her needs? Will she say that you have not given her a dime in the 3 years of the relationship? SIMPs want you to believe that because you have been having sex with her, you should be taking care of her financial needs. Is she a prostitute? SLAP44: No Nigerian babe currently wants marriage at 20. Except the guy is a billionaire like Ned Nwoko. A girl should be in charge of her own Personal development. This is another thing you should look into with any future girls you want to be with. Be with a girl that takes responsibility for their own personal development and does not wait for the man to do it. SLAP44: Look at the silly fantasy he is giving you. It is this silly fantasy that has turned many girls into baby mamas for men that will never be emotionally available to them, the way you would have been for that lady. Look at the fantasy again, it doesn't say anything about the girl's own aspirations or dreams or efforts or goals. It simply sees her as an international housewife and that is the definition of success. I don't know which "Contracts" are 50,000 naira in this country but it is clear that Slap44 and his cohorts have been influenced by the gynocentric society to believe that women should be taken care of for existing just as women and that their Sex organ should be paid for. Young man, be happy. You are just starting life. In 5 years' time you will more successful and have the pick of all the 20-year-olds you want. Or you will have found a girl that understands patience and loyalty. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by DaySpringer: 4:18pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: Wake up and don't be a simp. Listen. Make me a promise. Don't spend on that girl until you have read UBUNJA's threads on nairaland. or his website miseducations.com and then read the book The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. If you finish reading those books and you still want to spend on her then be my guest. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by dafeoroyo: 4:18pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
When a woman is fed up ,there is noting u can do about it |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 5:19pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
DaySpringer: Wow wow, this is just the reason I brought my predicament here, I'm gonna save this, read everyday till I heal, this is just it bro, the eye opener. , thank you so much, I need to concentrate now God bless you God bless you so much for this. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 5:22pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
ProfDview1: Thanks, I understand better |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 5:23pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
DaySpringer: Checking on this right away 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by ChristianNorth: 5:33pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011:You mumu sha |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by ChristianNorth: 5:35pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011:You mumu sha. This is the second time I am telling you this. |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Jflex07(m): 5:37pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
SLAP44:So she was doing him a favour by giving him pussy or dating him ?I used to think that you were wise, never knew you are Simp and a weakling. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011:Can u carve me into ur project? Pls |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 6:53pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
ProfDview1: I noticed you bro, kindly let me know your skills, let's see how it works, tho i got my team already. |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 6:54pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
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Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by CChillz: 7:23pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
OP, Can you FOCUS on building your future for now and let the opposite sex be your least worries? Once you do this, you will become so busy that you would not even have time for relationships. You are very young and at the infantry stage of Manlihood. This stage is very critical as it could spur you to the wealth you so desire if well managed. Secondly, you also do not need to carry your "Ex" along your new contract. She made her choice already so let her be.. Thirdly, avoid anything that has to do with getting into dating and relationship again for now so your FOCUS will not be divided and also don't allow your "ex" to emotionally manipulate you later into starting a relationship again when she comes around her senses... Don't also ever also taunt her with your new status or flaunt your wealth for her to see, only CHILDREN does that. A time will also come when she will ask you about the contract and how you're faring? Do not loose FOCUS and let your pursuit for greatness be your only FOCUS. Have you asked yourself this question? Is this not a blessing in disguise for me to FOCUS more? Apart from married men, the joy of being single is non negotiable most especially when you had a demanding partner. Op, FOCUS on utilizing the starting point like your dad said. Make him see that his investment in your University degree is worth it. Finally finally, do not lavish that money during your youth service because most young boys take youth service and being a corp member as a time to show off wealth and class. Let your youth service also be among the time for you to FOCUS on your future plans. Prioritize your time, money and FOCUS and see yourself BECOME A MAN YOU CAN BE PROUD OF. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: What kinda project is it? Which industry |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by UniqueQueen12(f): 8:46pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Nggs121:My sister, why hmmmm. Lol I am just been sincere, the way some ladies carry money matter for head is unreasonable, to the extend of breaking up with boyfriend, that means no true love from the start |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by UniqueQueen12(f): 8:49pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Mcslize:Wetin I do na, I should not say my mind again? Be careful |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Adams011(m): 9:02pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
CChillz: OMG!! Thank you thank you thank you, this is so fatherly, God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011:Is she your wife? Which fruit of patience? End time Adams 2 Likes |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by kaycee125: 9:09pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kenechukwu Nwafor why are you mentioning CaptainMitchh? Zabiboy: |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by zanebaddo(m): 9:16pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
SLAP44:and what if a guy lies to you about marriage and commitment just so he can always get in between your legs at will. I have seen such cases ... |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by SLAP44: 9:18pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
zanebaddo: Then he is lying and all liars will get their rewards. |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Okoroawusa: 9:24pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Nigeria is a place where women see being a "girlfriend" as a full time job. You ask a Nigerian girl,"Onyi why you no get phone?" and she goes, "I no get boyfriend nah" 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Kobicove(m): 9:28pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Adams011: Go and organise your life first. Once you start making money ladies will be the ones chasing you then you can select the one you want |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by KingWarri: 9:36pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
iamadonis2: Exactly.... Vice versa I think this is coz by 2much Nollywood movies 1 Like |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by KingWarri: 9:37pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Kobicove:It's more difficult to pick the right one then... Coz you don't know what they truly coming for... |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Mcslize: 10:33pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
UniqueQueen12: Abeg say your mind o, rather than hide it inside. You bold gan! I like bold girls though than the ones that pretend. This kind of boldness is what I call point and kill. Express delivery. |
Re: Why Has Some Ladies Turned Relationship Into A Poverty Alleviation Scheme? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Answer the question will you let your brother go back or marry her. Millenniumlady: |
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