At times i wonder, what is humanity all about. One minute you are alive struggling, the other you are dead. That is why nothing ever moves me. At times I really do not understand the plan God had for us all.

Family is everything.

My condolence

prettyangel10:
My two brothers died within the space of one year. The first one which is our first born died of heart related issues, was with him in the hospital for one month, he was discharged and three months after, he gave up the ghost.

Then our last born, had a dream about him that we were mourning him, I prayed about it, got family members involved in the prayers but three months after, he was having lunch/break time at work, and he choked on the meat in his mouth, rushed to the hospital but was too late.

I've always cried each time I remember the memories of the two of them. cant take them off my mind. Continue to rest in peace my lovely brothers.

I literally cried
God should help us over come

Firstly my mum she died 2000 in second Gastly accident, she survive the first one with tear on her head, but the second one claim her life. Secondly, my father brooding about her death leads him to 2 years of pain and agony of stroke, he gave up the ghost after two years of her death

My condolence sir

lakeside79937:
I haven't seen my sister in 15years cos I moved to England so I travelled to ivory coast last year October when she learnt I was there she wanted to come to from nigeria and meet me in ivory coast just to say hello to me cos she has not seen me in 15 years but I asked not to come but she refused to listen to me and she came we spent 3 weeks together in Abidjan ivory coast she said she wont go back to nigeria till we both leave together . When I was coming back to England she followed me to the airport and I didnt know that is the last time I would ever see her . She passed away in december .did she come to meet me to say good bye to me ?

My condolence

Ijeamaka1:
Today makes it 8days I lost my dad, cant get my mind of the call i got last week around 3am that my dad is dead ,still crying my eyes swollen, today am frying akara for his 8days prayer, sad realities

I have lost about five loved ones but the most painful of them all is my step sister Ngozi. She died 5years ago during childbirth and her demise is still fresh in my mind. She appeared to me in my dream sometime ago and told me something which I won't disclose here. Even though she was my senior she treated me like I was her age mate and always backed me up whenever I fvcked up. Am never at fault no matter what I did because she will always support me so they tagged us back then as partners in crime. I wish she could come back.

Painful page.

My condolences to everyone on this thread who has lost loved ones to cancer...

If you have anyone who is undergoing such grievous ailments such as these, please send an email to me here.

Let’s encourage one another.

Futurejoy:
I lost my Aunty (my mum’s immediate younger sister) last year on the 4th of March. She was very sick and was always been rushed to the hospital due to Bp. The worst thing was that her pastor kept on recommending her that she should bathe with salt and drink it. She carried her pastor for head like tray.
She would go into coma and wake up or just pass out for days , thank God her immediate younger sister was staying with her back there in Lagos.she was running Helter skelter, so my mum being the senior suggested for them to bring her down to our state so she could be admitted in the teaching hospital but she bluntly refused .After much quarrel , she went into coma the next day and the hospital they rushed her to rejected her, so arrangements was made for her to be brought back home from Lagos. They chattered a Sienna and brought her down to the teaching hospital, moment before they could admit her, she passed on.
What pained me the most was the fact that the church she worshipped in for years and played a major part in their growth didn’t send a representative for her burial, the pastor that used to chop her tithe and her money did not show.Her company sent representatives and some money to my grandma. She died without getting married and without a child (feminist).
I knew her to be a feminist as at 2015 when I saw her last in Lagos, don’t know if she she changed but she died in her 50’s.
Her death pains me so much. I have had two dreams of her since she died telling me she is not resting. I don’t know why but I bind and cast her spirit. I am too young to start worrying about the dead. I pray for God to please rest her soul

Sorry for your loss,but there's no point tagging feminism to being unmarried,many feminists are married and people who are not feminist are unmarried too.

Samfloxin:

Brother,your family need serious prayers cos these deaths are not ordinary. You need toughen yourself spiritually

Yeah I know..

ojun50:
My dad Bt he pass on yesterday May his soul rest in peace
The worst part is I can't leave where I am because of the lock down

Take Heart Bro.

Aplaudez:
Nothing is irreplaceable, even nobody, lost my dad 2003, since then I've been the ones fending for my siblings, mum remarried and relocate to meet her hubby, I had to pause school after my diploma cause my imidate was in second year in the uni, all bills on me, to the glory of God he's now serving, we're living better life, now I've commenced my HND!

You're Really a Good Bro.
I'm So Proud of you

Bennie99:
My dad. he died 20th of March last month. his death still remains a shock to me. everyday that passes by since that day still now the thought of him is always in my mind, especially when am alone. what can we say or do what has happened has happened.

Take Heart Bro.

To everyone grieving and non grieving . Remember this..

"This world is not my home I'm just a passing through
My treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue
The angels beckon me from heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home in this world anymore
Oh lord you know I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home then lord what will I do
The angels beckon me from heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home in this world anymore
I have a loving mother just over in gloryland
And I don't expect to stop until I shake her hand
She's waiting now for me in heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home in this world anymore
Oh lord you know I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home Then lord what will I do
The angels beckon me From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home In this world anymore
Just over in gloryland
We'll live eternally
The saints on every hand are shouting victory
Their songs of sweetest praise
Drift back from heaven's shore
And I can't feel at home In this world anymore
Oh lord, you know I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home Then lord what will I do
The angels beckon me From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home In this world anymore"


Song by Late Jim Reeves

Both My Dad and Step sister. My sis Died February 27

2019 with just a week of brief illness.Dad passed away

April 27 same year cause he couldn’t bear the loss.That

was when I knew it doesn’t take long before Doctors

give names to illness.They said he suddenly developed

pancreatic cancer . We didn’t spend much as he died

2 months after my sis death.Tomorrow is his one year

remembrance though he pleaded with my mom that

he won’t be able to carry on his duties as a Father and

Husband.Hence,he requested that only bean cakes

should be fried on the 3rd day of his death.I was really

mad at my sister for long because he was a real father

Who was neither old nor ripe enough to be whisked

away by the cold hands of death.

Heineken:
The worst and painful death is that of one's mother. E go be like say life don end sef for person eyes. God abeg no allow my mum die now o.. If not ehn, I fit even kill myself. I fit cope if popsy die though I no pray am. Mumsy ehn, God abeg o.

me too...I can't stand it...anything happening to my mum...I go just die...in fact I will have a nervous break down

my MOM.... her death shook me....

i miss her everyday..
Rest on abiamo toto

Larcardii:
me too...I can't stand it...anything happening to my mum...I go just die...in fact I will have a nervous break down

lol not only you o. Sometimes even when my mum say she get headache e dey affect me ehn. Mother's ehn. God forbid o. Not even now..God will keep them for us.

mamarazi:
my MOM.... her death shook me....

i miss her everyday..
Rest on abiamo toto

so sorry mama. Olorun a Dari ji won.

My dear Mum.

She passed in 1982. As at yesterday April 25th 2020, I missed her so much that I cried like it happened yesterday

My Mum : She was even the one giving us the words of courage, after Doctors revealed the cause of her ailment.
Whole thing was within 6months. Dec 2015 to January 2016 was not funny for any members of the family.
She finally gave up the ghost, Feb.18th 2016.
Oh dear mother, you promised to be alive to carry my twins , when I finally get married.
Mummy, my wedding is just less than a month time, but now, you are nomore.......

My Aunt : She died few weeks into January 2013. I cried uncontrollably, I cried my eyes out, especially whenever I remember the times I spent and stayed with her at the hospital.

WhatALife!

I believe we shall all see again in paradise, where joy unquantifiable shall be our portion

Heineken:
lol not only you o. Sometimes even when my mum say she get headache e dey affect me ehn. Mother's ehn. God forbid o. Not even now..God will keep them for us.

Amen o God will keep our mothers nothing will happen to dem

My dad, he died July 3 2019 in UCH Ibadan after suffering from a brief illness. I was at work when mom called me on phone crying that my dad has died, I immediately succumb to shock, when I got to the facility asking the mortician to show me his corpse, tears rolled down my face seeing my dad looking more handsome and cold in his morgue.
Tilll date I still can't believe he is gone, I always remember him for his love, support and encouragement as a Father. RIP Dad till we see to path no more.

Heineken:
so sorry mama. Olorun a Dari ji won.

Amen

Thank you

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Sorry abt your loss I also lost my dad last Monday.

stanliwise:
In this context use childlike not childish

Noted! Thanks

Can't remember the last time i cried this topic makes me cried tonight
this topic really got me sad tonight upon say i don high

Himm