Godoverevery:

I get your point but actually interested on your birthday... Have any done anything spectacular for you before

Naah... apart from the usual gift nothing spectacular bruv

Godoverevery:

I get your point but actually interested on your birthday... Have any done anything spectacular for you before

Naah... apart from the usual gift nothing spectacular that i can remember bruv

Do you know what I've done for her , how much do you think it cost in trowing a mini birthday party in a hotel room with friends.. maybe you're a broke ass and you're dating a broke Girl..

ZINIBANKS:

We both know you are lieing
Nigerian girls don't do that even the rich ones

ifykris22:
Do you know what I've done for her , how much do you think it cost in trowing a mini birthday party in a hotel room with friends.. maybe you're a broke ass and you're dating a broke Girl..

Most of you come here to tell lies
Cause you know we can't find out
And we don't know you

Never!

Most of you.. you should have moved on when you saw my reply.... how much you think say to do birthday cost for hotel...

If your gf is broke mine Ain't

ZINIBANKS:

Most of you come here to tell lies
Cause you know we can't find out
And we don't know you

Godoverevery:

are you sure she is actually your gf

M not sure again o.
I am trading with caution now

ZINIBANKS:

Can you see she didn't even greet you
Not to talk of taking you out

Even after reminding her,she said "sorry oo" without still wishing me a happy birthday

Godoverevery:
Am in my early 30's and this has only happened once.....I have actually done this for almost every lady I have dated but only one person have reciprocate that gesture the rest I hardly even got a gift from them.

I can't say they didn't love me but I just think our ladies think taking a guy out is a Taboo..the reverse must always be the case.

please share if a lady have done that to you.

Not in Nigeria and if you find just 2% of the female population in Nigeria, em try be that...my money is my money syndrome ......

Period007:
Yesterday was my birthday and up till now my girlfriend have not wished me a happy birthday .

i understand d feeling bro

Period007:

Even after reminding her,she said "sorry oo" without still wishing me a happy birthday

I understand the feeling bro.....I once experience something like this she didn't care even after I challenge her......so I just cut things off immediately.
few years later she came around to apologize but I never had a thing with her again.

At 20, my gf bought me an expensive watch. I was shocked.

We went for dinner at one of the best restaurants in the city and I paid but it was not even up to half of what she spent on the watch.

Another day, my gf and I were window shopping. I rarely buy anything, she just wanted to look at stuff. I saw a shoe I liked, picked it up and kept it back. She begged me to just try it. I tried it and kept it back. She went 'to the toilet', bought the shoe and gave me it. I didn't like the shoe all that much but I still have it because she bought it.

This is a Nigerian girl o. She was not richer than me at that time at all.

Our women are amazing when you meet them. Women, not pikins.

Godoverevery:
Am in my early 30's and this has only happened once.....I have actually done this for almost every lady I have dated but only one person have reciprocate that gesture the rest I hardly even got a gift from them.

I can't say they didn't love me but I just think our ladies think taking a guy out is a Taboo..the reverse must always be the case.

please share if a lady have done that to you.

My girlfriend threw a suprise birthday party for me last year, while my ex hosted a pool party a week after. Those 2 girls changed my perspective about girls. There are still some very good and caring girls in this country.

cooooooks:
At 20, my gf bought me an expensive watch. I was shocked.

We went for dinner at one of the best restaurants in the city and I paid but it was not even up to half of what she spent on the watch.

Another day, my gf and I were window shopping. I rarely buy anything, she just wanted to look at stuff. I saw a shoe I liked, picked it up and kept it back. She begged me to just try it. I tried it and kept it back. She went 'to the toilet', bought the shoe and gave me it. I didn't like the shoe all that much but I still have it because she bought it.

This is a Nigerian girl o. She was not richer than me at that time at all.

Our women are amazing when you meet them. Women, not pikins.

is she the only you ever dated

MightySirKay:
My girlfriend threw a suprise birthday party for me last year, while my ex hosted a pool party a week after. Those 2 girls changed my perspective about girls. There are still some very good and caring girls in this country.

waooo this great to hear....I guess u are angel Micheal

Godoverevery:

waooo this great to hear....I guess u are angel Micheal

Angel Micheal? I don't understand what you mean by that

MightySirKay:
Angel Micheal? I don't understand what you mean by that

You getting that from your gf and a ex is something rare..u must be an angel to them

Godoverevery:

You getting that from your gf and a ex is something rare..u must be an angel to them

Lol... Not by power or might but by my spirit says the Lord.

If 60-70% of the guys on this thread could say a lady did this, then why all the female bashing by the guys here NL?
is it that the new standard now is double standards?

pryme:
If 60-70% of the guys on this thread could say a lady did this, then why all the female bashing by the guys here NL?
is it that the new standard now is double standards?

bro am shocked myself...but the bashing angel is has regards ladies love for money and the feminist issh

No. My 2nd and longest gf.

We had to break up after a moral change.

Godoverevery:

is she the only you ever dated

Bros....e dey happen but most African ladies do see it as a big deal.

If it's in the Western part of the world...their ladies do that alot

ZINIBANKS:

We both know you are lieing
Nigerian girls don't do that even the rich ones

guy babe has done that for me, we're not even intimate guun. No carry ur own full everywhere na
Babes way value go surely spend on you

holocron:
If your girlfriend spends on you know this:

1) you have spent heavily on her and she's thanking you with a little from your loot.

2) She believes that you have or will SOON have good money and you will soon reciprocate her good gestures 10 fold. If this your potential fails to materialize in a short time, you will know what's up very fast.

3) you are a cuckold just for her entertainment. She has a big god or gods that supply her needs and she can afford to share some of her loot to encourage your performance.

The natural way in relationship is a ceaseless flow of material resources from the male to the female as long as it lasts, if not even after. Seek to pervert that at your own peril.

Bla bla bla, what about those that don't do anything for you after doing all that you mention, which one is better

EzzyCarter:
Not just on my birthday. Regularly
If girls see value in you, (excluding the hungry ones) they'll spend on you. It's simple as ABC

Deborah, you might not see this but I hope true happiness finds you. You deserve it

My own pray for me for almost one hour

Unfortunately na struggling chica

She was an angel, real heaven sent

I bliv say if she get money for hand she for spoil me DAT day

I still like her oooo

Parkleader:

Bla bla bla, what about those that don't do anything for you after doing all that you mention, which one is better

The ones that give nothing at all have seen through your fake efforts to entice them, that you have nothing they need or want. They just collect your offering and move on to more worthy prospects.

You don't get it, do you? ANY SPENDING ON YOU IS AIMED AT HER FUTURE BENEFIT FROM YOU. It's not about helping you. Never expect altruism from a woman you are romantically involved with. In fact, don't be surprised if she kicks you when you are down and pokes fun at you. A man who requires help is totally worthless to a woman.I know, this pill might be too bitter for you to swallow but that's just the way it is.

holocron:


The ones that give nothing at all have seen through your fake efforts to entice them, that you have nothing they need or want. They just collect your offering and move on to more worthy prospects.

You don't get it, do you? ANY SPENDING ON YOU IS AIMED AT HER FUTURE BENEFIT FROM YOU. It's not about helping you. A man who requires help is totally worthless to a woman.I know, this pill might be too bitter for you to swallow but that's just the way it is.

Do you mean monetary help? They say behind a successful man there is always a woman and in the bible God created a woman to be a helper to the man
Maybe you mean monetary help

Parkleader:

Do you mean monetary help? They say behind a successful man there is always a woman and in the bible God created a woman to be a helper to the man
Maybe you mean monetary help

The balance of ALL help (monetary or otherwise), or if we can borrow from the language of physics, the NET help must always be in favour of the man. In any romantic relationship the female will make sure that the most help is rendered by the man, else it's all over.

"Behind every successful man..." Yes, because the women seek out the successful men or the men with such potential and line up behind them.

Godoverevery:

I understand the feeling bro.....I once experience something like this she didn't care even after I challenge her......so I just cut things off immediately.
few years later she came around to apologize but I never had a thing with her again.

We finally broke up.
Good riddance to bad rubbish