Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Take small monkey tale ...infact...your libido go high ....n.a. your husband go Bleep taya and Bleep go taya him

Futurejoy:

Madam, you don’t know what God is doing for you o. You husband is demanding for sex from you everyday... go on Joro’s page and hear married women complain about their husband not visiting their warehouse for months, some married women are battling with side chicks that are ready to do back flip for this men while some are battling with gay husbands. Go down on your knees right now and tell God to forgive you for not being grateful.

Why must they complain

twice a month is okay for married couples....they should devote their time to other things of life, life for a married couple is not just about sex.....if there are kids, let them devote more time to playing with their kids....teaching their kids computer appreciation, how to paint, and other stuffs.....people are making sex sound too much of a big deal....something they have been having since they were teenagers, na wa o

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

There's nothing Buhari will not hear from lockdown
Buhari have you seen what you have done?

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

badt advice. Plz dear OP, work on your husband, he's your property so u know how best to handle him, u must also accept the reality that sexual satisfaction is paramount in any marriage. What if it was u who had this high crave for sex, the person am quoting would tell u ur hubby isn't man enough to meet up with d demands of being married. Thank God u can attest to the fact he's a good man and isn't showing any sign of cheating on u, don't make him regret keeping d bed undefiled cos its not so easy to find a man who is ready to wait till marriage. Search the internet on how to have sex and enjoy it, there are Christian literatures which handle such issues if u are a Christian, plz brace up, its a lifetime thing.

Ghostmode2two:
Divorce him

LMAO

enemyofprogress:
Don't mind the op jare, na lie she dey lie

I strongly agree with you cos its not possible for any man in his right senses to be having sex with his wife everyday no matter how sexy or gorgeous she is, he will get bored and used to her body in few months of course

bdchange:
I believed sex should be enjoyed between both parties involved, so discuss with him why you can't have it everyday like he wanted it. He has high sexual urge but he should be reasonable with his sexual partner so that both can come to concord on how to go about it. It shouldn't be done in a selfish manner.

MARRIED FOR ONLY 2 YEARS, HE WILL SOON BE TIRED. TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Some have food and cannot eat.
I know you are suffering in silence, but you married a man with a very high libido. Express your feelings to him, the main essence of marriage is communication. I believe he loves you, he will listen. He might even start avoiding you after that, if he feels he is hurting you. I just pray this doesn't pushing him into getting a side chick. Just go on your knees.


Another solution is this, do you have a child yet? If you do, and you get pregnant again, make sure he accompanies you to the labour room during child birth. Believe me he will need therapy, before deciding to have sex with you again. I know a married woman that complained to me to talk to her husband who is my friend to please stop over petting her even during sex, that since he watched her giving birth in the labour room. My guy has never been the same ever since.
Na expo bi this ooo.

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

When you get married, please don't look after yourself at all o. Get fat beyond proportion and always tie wrapper around your chest because your husband has got no choice but to find you attractive even when you are not.

If you have a problem with that, you can always get a divorce.

that guy is running on 5G

Do people comment before stuff are posted ...see number of comments

AND SOME GIRLS MIGHT HAVE ADVICED THE HUSBAND TO GO AND MARRY INSTEAD OF WALKING AROUND .SEE THE RESULT NOW.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Prostitutes have sex everyday sometimes with ten different men daily just for ordinary money... try see it has the sacrifice you have to offer for love and stability of your marriage, because if that man who is wild mistakenly taste it outside by mistake, then he is gone, I mean gone without any form of return... just try and talk to him politely and with all the love you can that the frequency of the sex is making it less enjoyable to you, and you also want to enjoy it with him and not feel raped.. a reasonable man would never want to here rape or selfishness in form of sex, or lacking to satisfy you, that would deflate his ego abit

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

get him two side chicks if u really love him

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

The mistake you made is not finding out if you two are sexually compatible before marriage.
You should've had sex before you married.
He isn't abnormal,he's highly sexually active and you aren't.
You two are not compatible sexually and that's a very big problem.
It's either you get divorced or you endure.

I guess you just married the guy for no reason without knowing him, most especially money reason and now see the consequences

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

I don't know what to say to you

Tajbol4splend:




LMAO

What you cannot handle you drop it by the way side. No time to check time

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Then tell him if it's affecting you health-wise. A good husband will always understand.

Give it to him till when he tired. Stop doing daddy and mummy style. Handle him well.. he will start giving you space that you needed. You are not satisfying this man reason for coming back everyday. Ride him well as in well well

Man is not meant to be monogamous.
He should get another wife to satisfy his sexual urge so op can rest.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

I have no doubt you'll have a failed marriage because your expression shows what background you come from. I'm very sorry your father turned out that way. A lady vouched for her husband not to cheat and what you can tell her is he'll still cheat? My condolences to the unfortunate soul that would put up with you.

I'm not married but I think the best thing is when getting on in the act or maybe after try and talk it over with him.If you try it everytime you have sex at least it should be hammered into his head.And maybe you can try to distract him with some other leisures so he doesn't get too preoccupied with sex but pls be careful so he doesn't end up with another woman.

Jesuisbelle:


I believe sex is the number one ingredients in marriage, but seriously sex don't keep a man, Giving a man sex everyday will not make him not to cheat , the sad truth is A cheat is a cheat if you like give him sex 24/7 do acrobatic and turn 360degree on the bed he will still cheat...

It you two are sexually active and he enjoys the pussy ,he won't cheat..

You don't really love your husband as you claimed. If you love your husband daily sex will not be a burden or point of concern to you... you will always want to have more. Probably your husband is boring in bed compared to your previous experience. Madam 2yrs of marriage is too early for this kind of flimsy excuses and complaints.

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solmus:


Prostitutes have sex everyday sometimes with ten different men daily just for ordinary money... try see it has the sacrifice you have to offer for love and stability of your marriage, because if that man who is wild mistakenly taste it outside by mistake, then he is gone, I mean gone without any form of return... just try and talk to him politely and with all the love you can that the frequency of the sex is making it less enjoyable to you, and you also want to enjoy it with him and not feel raped.. a reasonable man would never want to here rape or selfishness in form of sex, or lacking to satisfy you, that would deflate his ego abit

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If he is still asking for sex everyday, you are lucky.

Someone like me can't eat rice everyday

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

He his your husband,sit him down and let him know how u feel,sex is supposed to be enjoyed not to be endured,if u hurt your self because u want to satisfy or perform marital rites,u will have yourself to blame because the same man will abandon u and start cheating.let him control his self and channel his energy to something else.

Ghostmode2two:


What you cannot handle you drop it by the way side. No time to check time

This is marriage we're talking about, not some fvcking trivial relationship

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

You are the one who has been brainwashed by the white man. In the history of the African man, it is only in the last few decades where it is common for an African man to have only 1 wife. That alone tells you it is an alien concept and not the norm. furthermore, in the history of mankind in general. Having one wife is only a recent phenomenon considering man has been on earth for millions of years.

I am just saying this when you start talking about “norm”

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You are complaining of him having sex almost everyday , hope you won't come tomorrow and complain your husbands is cheating on you? try as much as you can to satisfy him sexually, you are just 2 years into marriage and you have started complaining , i doubt if you will be able to cope for the next 2 -5 years to come. He is your Husband and not your ordinary boyfriend . After-all he is a good man and not the cheating type ( Meaning he is taking good care of you).