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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by crystalwig326: 10:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
[quote author=samsard post=88929449]Men cheat everywhere. Stop romanticizing foreign men.for the fact that all the men u new are cheaters those not mean all men cheat
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by innobarca(m): 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2020
If it's women from Asian or some other west African countries, they will give it to you non stop for 4 days and you will feel dizzy for at least 2 days.
Nobody will tell you to take it easy after that.

I remembered my days in Thailand, Na ur body go tell you.


Secondly I do not think you people has started having kids, bc when he stays awake sometimes bc of the cries of his child in the night, he won't always have stamina for sex unless he is jobless.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Rexnegro(m): 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2020
Unik3030:
so if d man decide to have sex with another woman,will heaven fall?

She have to count herself lucky cos the guy is only doing it with her,some guys will not complain they will just go out n satisfy themselves low-key n d wife won't know
another sensible angle again... diff strokes for different folks... who get cap no get head and who get head no get cap.reality of life. she has what another is suffering from . life SHA
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by drey076(m): 10:44pm On Apr 27, 2020
it is just for a little while, please endure it, a time will come that he will run away from you. Yoruba will say 'olomi lo ma re'
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by mayorlee007: 10:45pm On Apr 27, 2020
Except you prefer he masturbate or look for satisfaction outside or you talk to him
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by EASTERNPOL: 10:45pm On Apr 27, 2020
Kindly exercise patient, It's Normal, it will subside within 3 to 4 years of the marriage, especially with the arrivals of Children, you will subsequently begin to enjoy it.,
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by AnanseK(m): 10:45pm On Apr 27, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad

Nothing to do with Nigeria. It’s a fact of life almost everywhere.

The sex appeal their wives have tends to fade in their eyes, and many try finding at least a complementary partner outside.

You may want to deny this fact but even the women know it, because a faction of them are the complementing partners.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Daboomb: 10:46pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Give it to him or do you have another activity the Phekus is doing?
Problem solved.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by humilitypays(m): 10:47pm On Apr 27, 2020
Futurejoy:

I am not saying they should have sex everyday, the woman may be exaggerating. I am saying she should be grateful cos she can work her way round it. I hope you will have the same energy to join her in prayer when her next thread states that the man has started walking upandan. And they are newly weds or less than 2 years......what are you even talking about
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits angry angry


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense! angry

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by NovusHomo(m): 10:47pm On Apr 27, 2020
Iamundisputed:


Well, it's a good thing that your husband finds you sexually attractive and doesn't hide his feelings.

If he wants sex everyday and you can't handle it, there are other freaky things you can do to spice up the relationship. Encourage him to kiss and handle you more instead of the main sex and with time, he'll get used to it. You can also tell him when you're too tired to have sex or you're uninterested. No big deal...

But make no mistake, a man with a high sex drive will demand for it most times, so you need to also get used to it. It's part of your marital rites.

In other words, SUCK and LICK. Dammit, you are a pro. grin grin grin cool cool cool cool
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by zoghys: 10:47pm On Apr 27, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad

So you mean non Nigerian husband don't cheat on their wives. Sis, men irrespective of color do cheat if they really want to. Stop been unnecessarily foreign about a universal problem.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by luluosas(m): 10:48pm On Apr 27, 2020
Please, allow him anything he is on heat, except during your menstruation. Thank you
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by NovusHomo(m): 10:48pm On Apr 27, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

And this from a man?!
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Kings66: 10:48pm On Apr 27, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

You ladies don't get it sha. When you deny your husband sex, just expect anything and everything. Walahi he will normalize you.
I dey single dey hustle Bleep, I go still marry dey hustle Bleep. Kole werk

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by samsard(m): 10:49pm On Apr 27, 2020
[quote author=crystalwig326 post=88929550][/quote]And you think all women are faithful Are you a learner?
I've seen married women sneak into hotels! With men and unmarred ladies knowingly sleep with married men.
Men cheat everywhere, don't watch telemundo and conclude you know Western men

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Futurejoy(f): 10:49pm On Apr 27, 2020
humilitypays:
any married man with kids still fooling around with girls having indiscriminate sex is not reasonable. Something he has been having since teenage, some started massive fvcking of different ladies from high school, it will shock u to know that an average Nigerian man of 3yrs have fvcked more than 20 different ladies before he gets married, so what else is he looking for He should be retiring from that stressful exercise called sex and focusing on other issues of life that will prolong his stay here on earth.


Focusing on training his kids to be the best in the society, helping people overcome life challenges instead still wasting his time and energy on having sex every now and then.


Something must be wrong with the husband psychologically or mentally or hormonally. If the op is saying the truth, it is abnormal
There is nothing wrong
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 10:50pm On Apr 27, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!


God bless your Mother!

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 27, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Feminist, please help escalate the destruction of her home, so you guys will be on same level grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Kalubolt(m): 10:51pm On Apr 27, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.
That's why he said she's lucky cus majority of men nowadays has missus outside and so if you find a man that's not into that, she's lucky

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Futurejoy(f): 10:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
humilitypays:
it seems you ladies are all pretenders always pretending not to love sex but deep down your hearts you all are sex maniacs just waiting to get official marriage ticket to start fvcking around like rabits angry angry


What do u mean they are newlyweds 2 years of fvcking is new to you What's special about sex Can you and those ladies complaining of their husband not touching them for months swear that u ladies haven't been fvcking since you were 18 or 20 or something Are u people not supposed to be tired of it by now Nonsense! angry
Shift your anger to your government

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by TruthSpeaker: 10:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
COPE BY COPING, IF NOT HE WILL BEGIN TO LOOK FOR IT OUTSIDE. IF HE GETS IT SWEETER AND ALMOST FOR FREE, THEN HE WILL TROUBLE YOU LESS.
THE GOOD PART OF THE STORY IS THAT THIS LOCKDOWN WILL LAST FOREVER. WHAT YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT IS HOW TO HAVE A TRUSTWORTHY CONTRACEPTIVE IN PLACE SO THAT YOU DON’T END UP WITH 12 KIDS.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by omisego(m): 10:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
buy him a jar of vaseline and subscribe pornhub premium. total cost = N2,000

shikena!

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by NovusHomo(m): 10:52pm On Apr 27, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad

Welcome to the real 9ja. If you didn't know, now you know ni**#r.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by International28: 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Sometimes I don't know what u women want! "My husband is not satisfying me in bed". "My husband is not allowing me to rest" What should men do?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by dona2us(m): 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.
ok advice her to say no to him and see whether she will not also come back here and cry that the man is cheating on her. Sometimes i always ask my self what exactly do women really want
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Slimranky(m): 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
You never see anything you dey shout

So after claiming that he never banged you before marriage you're here complaining that he's banging you everyday and how does everyday sex affect pussy?
If you all run out of styles you can go online and watch new love making style's and tell him to learn how to Make your pussy wet before insertion, y'all African women are insatiable

Do na crime
No do na still crime

You don see wey Yankee woman dey complain of fvvk in marriage before
You are talking as if you were forced to marry him against your will

Well my advice is for you to get young beautiful House help with succulent breast and hips that brings wave's like tsunami
I bet you would come back here and open a new thread saying

"Oh no help me my husband has refused to touch me for 3 month's, he doesn't eat my food again "

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Apr 27, 2020
I'm not married but hey, I can imagine what hell of a stress that would be.

Why not go on a short stay at your sister's place or some familys place to spend like a week or two? That way you get to recuperate and come back. You can do this from time to time. And if you feel family would see it somehow, go to any camp and spend a time of refreshing before your maker (God). You can even take him along for prayers. At least he can't request for it in an open camp ground.

It is well with your mhm...

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by arimahoseloka(m): 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2020
Talk to your husband, tell him your vagina hurts and you need rest. A man must have self control, not yielding every time to appetite. More importantly pray to God about it and have faith that God will bring a solution.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by steppin: 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2020
sassysure:

A friend is in this shit. More than 10yrs of marriage.
She cried out after like 6yrs of bondage. The worst thing is that if a situation calls for them being separate for some time, he will find relief elsewhere. Once she comes back from hospital after delivery, he will continue pounding her without mercy. When her mum visited for the first òmùgwò, she noticed and approached her but she was being a good wife and denied. Her biggest mistake and regret.

Her vaginal walls don't have feelings anymore. She is constantly dry. She don't have sexual feelings anymore.
Nothing entices her again as far as making love is concerned.

The only exception is during menses but not always.

Babe, talk to your people probably your mum. She is in the best position to protect and fight for u.
I honestly don't have a clue except this.
Story, story! Once upon a time! Time time time!
Yarn better thing not this cóck and bull story.
I guess prostitutes should be as dry as desert, considering they fúck up to like 10 times in a day with different men.
Abeg, there are adults here.
Ask your friend what she's suffering from.
Could be she has an infection.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by JohnQ01(m): 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2020
It's a man thing my dear, some of us could be hyperactive sometimes.I was totally sex demanding from my wife for about 2years after our 2nd child. I returned from work around 6pm, eat and sleep by 7pm and became hyper actively awake after about 5hours of sleep. Just a round of about 45min long and I disturbed the house watching movies and looking for things to eat up and down in the house till am set for work around 5:30am.

My wife can give excuses, you will hear my hand is paining me ooo, it's my leg ooo, it's my stomach ooo and etc. She tried to cope and mostly plead and reasoned that she is not enjoying it but only trying to satisfy me. She sometimes complained that my actions is just like rape as I want it when I want it and I do not even spice it up other than to do my thing and go. It was a daily thing. I later changed because of her complaints and plead. But now, sometimes for two weeks I may not even look at her and she comes touching me and all that. Just keep trying and mostly try to enjoy it the few times you can, he will soon get over it.

Keep registering your displeasure and dont deny him outrightly. You can't blame him for making love with you. You are all he has. She is all I've got to make love to and the urge is alive.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by omumeen534: 10:54pm On Apr 27, 2020
obinnanelson4:
A woman who thinks like you will make a bad wife. is that how to console a lady who brought her marital problem for advise? terrible!

She is not married and She can't make good wife as well. If OP like she should follow her advice. we will be here when she will come back with story that touch.

Call your man. Have heart-to-heart discussion with him, let him know your challenge and both of you should reach compromise on how to make thing better. please, do not listen to those home breakers. They will be the one that will eventually trace your man and lure him with marathon sex. Half a word is enough for the wise

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 27, 2020
Your keptus is too Sweet.

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