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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by candygirl4real: 11:25pm On Apr 27, 2020
I can relate... my own na to follow my children sleep when I am not in the mood for that wahala. No amount of force can pull me out if I no want.
Is there a spare room in the house? Sneek inside there and sleep joor...

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Sensini123(m): 11:26pm On Apr 27, 2020
James289:


gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense
The madam said her is faithful to her. which one be "sleep with anything again"?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SweetOlive(f): 11:26pm On Apr 27, 2020
Give it to him hot hot until he gets tired of it.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 27, 2020
This is what happens when you marry someone whose urges aren't on the same level with yours. Why didn't you just go for a man that doesn't fancy too much sex?
Abeg shift, your problem is not serious.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Okortor: 11:27pm On Apr 27, 2020
because she is lucky to av a good man. Am sure you know how most Nigerian men behave
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Sensini123(m): 11:27pm On Apr 27, 2020
James289:
Everyday is not Christmas, which one is sex everyday? If he is angry make e knack head for wall
What he dies while knacking his head for wall?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 11:28pm On Apr 27, 2020
skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high
Lol. On point.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Trimque2k1(m): 11:28pm On Apr 27, 2020
Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!
Legendary!!
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by g4gerald: 11:29pm On Apr 27, 2020
Unik3030:
u are not willing to give it to him everytime despite d fact u are married....hope if he seeks solace outside u won't complain oooo.cos it's like not giving someone enough food n still telling him not to get it outside
Abeg the man shud try nd learn how to control his urge. What will happen if either him or his wife travels, how then will he cope. Discipline is wat defines u as a man. Ur comment is just like saying if a child is not given enough money (by parents) therefore if he goes outside nd steal, nobody shud complain. Don't 4get dat the person u are fvcking everyday is a human being nd not a machine, u shud consider dat while u seek ur selfish interest. She is ur wife nd not a sex doll

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bigdreamers: 11:29pm On Apr 27, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Hotguy27: 11:29pm On Apr 27, 2020
Hello OP

I want to ask you a sincere question.

Which do you prefer between this your husband constant desires for sex and him being impotent?

I am asking for one Babalawo that is looking for where to test him powers.


Anyway, what I believe is that you are just looking for funny responses which you are obviously getting now.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by selfemployed(m): 11:29pm On Apr 27, 2020
Check for drugs that can reduce libido
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Dewisedick: 11:30pm On Apr 27, 2020
Just give it to him. He will get tire along the line. If you deny him you create room for him to continue asking. He is your husband.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by uchrikk(m): 11:30pm On Apr 27, 2020
OP,
Apart from "liking sex", which is just your conclusion about your husband, has it crossed your mind that he may be overworking himself just to impress you. Some men have the notion that if they don't satisfy their wives in bed, she might go outside. So, he is using the opportunity of this lockdown to prove himself to you. I bet that if you ever make him feel he is disturbing you, you may still come back here to tell us that he did not touch you for the next two years. Just don't go and kill his morale because what goes around comes around.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Sensini123(m): 11:30pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot
Case finished
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot
The moment your man mentions cheating as an alternative to getting his needs met by you, even in a rhetorical form, then you can be sure that the thought of cheating on you has crossed his mind a couple of times, meaning, its only a matter of time before he acts on it.
No go do pass yourself o If you kpai, he'll replace you.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ghettochild(m): 11:32pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Enjoy your marriage
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sammyranking(m): 11:33pm On Apr 27, 2020
I think you are tired of the marriage. This is your husband and you can't talk to him about you people sexual life.. your just lucky please don't mis use it. And if you are tired of him tell him straight and stop using sex issues to scatter things. Who is perfect?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by AntiWailer: 11:33pm On Apr 27, 2020
Just allow him go out before he use dick destroy Ur destiny
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Biafra1stson: 11:33pm On Apr 27, 2020
ThreeBlackBird:


I have no doubt you'll have a failed marriage because your expression shows what background you come from. I'm very sorry your father turned out that way. A lady vouched for her husband not to cheat and what you can tell her is he'll still cheat? My condolences to the unfortunate soul that would put up with you.

Laff don kill me o. You don finish Jesuisbelle na pure feminist single girl wey no sabi anything. Until the marriage scatter this one go happy

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Designer147: 11:34pm On Apr 27, 2020
This question is for only married ladies but as for me I will say always give it to him to avoid cheating on you.
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by MrCodeSolo: 11:34pm On Apr 27, 2020
selfemployed:
Check for drugs that can reduce libido
dz one weak me� drugs actually dey wey go reduce libido�
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by psalmylee(m): 11:36pm On Apr 27, 2020
Una no date??abi ki lo tie man she a won girls yii naa
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by YemyTemmy: 11:38pm On Apr 27, 2020
Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

Find him ekaete, he will be tired and calm down
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by CptCharlesVane: 11:39pm On Apr 27, 2020
Honestly, I’m not much of a cheating type but if my wife believes and does so much as you say up to recommending a sex timetable, I’ll ensure she regrets that decision for the rest of the marriage. She will beg for attention until we dissolve the marriage. You think you’re doing your faithful husband a favour by making him beg for sex?

Sex is meant to be enjoyed, more so by women if not during this pandemic it wouldn’t be women all over the internet dancing naked and talking about sex all the time. if the woman doesn’t enjoy it then maybe she needs to check her history. Many women in Africa have been genitally mutilated so that may be one of the reasons and that’s why I really take opinions of women on such less seriously because nobody knows who has a full clitoris and those without yet every woman’s advice should hold the same weight.

Don’t come and spoil somebody’s groove with duty duty sex. It isn’t attractive to healthy men with active sex drives. Again monogamy is very unnatural but it is just one of the many things that distinguishes us from other primates so we do it anyway especially as it is good for raising children, but no man with low libido married many wives even then for mere achievement grin what about poor people? Don’t they take many wives? Or they also think achievements, why are they selective then if they don’t intend to sleep with them as much as they desire?

Pound for pound no man with excessively high libido can match his equivalent in a woman but monogamy, marriage, relationships often is about compromise. Personally, I avoid girls who see sex as something only a man wants that’s why I never signed up for the ‘no sex before marriage’ clause. We’ve been enjoying sex with other people before we got married so don’t come and dull my life and expect faithfulness for lifeless negotiated sex.

It takes tremendous discipline to remain faithful to one woman, especially as an attractive and desirable man and trust me comments like yours would make many seemingly good men laugh because you really don’t know what you’re asking for. Some people are sex addicts, while some are too busy to have sex all the time, but every healthy straight man loves sex and would want it as much as possible with the woman he’s attracted to. so please be guided.
LilMissFavvy:
The men sleeping around do so cuz your society permits them, their wives do not have a say......(some wives). I spoke my mind and you got absolutely no business to call me out. As for your stupiddd advice, keep it for your sisters, thank you. Your kinds are the type that preach and encourage cheating, it does not occur to you that everyone, male and female can actually develop self Descipline.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Incandescent(m): 11:39pm On Apr 27, 2020
Fake story
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by hardbody: 11:39pm On Apr 27, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad

Wait until you marry. No put mouth for matter when you never bam
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by exminister(m): 11:41pm On Apr 27, 2020
Hope u complain like this to you boyfriend at school then, because most girls spend there strength on so called boyfriend. Then when they are married they usually complain when their man needed sex from them. Shame on uuuuuuuu.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by selfemployed(m): 11:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
MrCodeSolo:
dz one weak me� drugs actually dey wey go reduce libido�

https://time.com/23982/low-libido-11-drugs-that-affect-your-sex-drive/
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Strech(m): 11:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
So! Na for these my forum you wan get better advice?.good luck to you aunty.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by akilo1: 11:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
Madam give him sex oooo there is lockdown
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by elonize(m): 11:43pm On Apr 27, 2020
yettymuse:
Not everytime penetration . B!ow job, handjob can do the job. He can mast.urbate too..Na wickedness be everyday nack abeg. If he insists on penetration, call his family members! Make he no kee person pikin abeg!
masturbate...c wetin person wife or future wife dey suggest...men mk una pray well o

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