₦airaland Forum

So got chatting with an ex yesterday, asking her about her welfare only for to response with her nude pic. As if that isn't enough,she ask me to visit her. I told her I will show my girl the chat,she responded that it won't mean anything to her until she makes love to me again. She knows I am in a serious relationship.
Another time, another ex refuse to help me out with a loan unless I slept with her.
My questions is How can I tell women who was in my life that it over between us and they can truly let go. Shouldn't we break up in peace again? Share your experience with your ex,let learn.

I ended tins with her cos of my immaturity. We didn't communicate for close to two years, eventually we met and became close. She visited me and old feelings were trying to come up, I just told her plain dat I'm nw in a very serious relationship and I can't disrespect my woman in such manner. She understood and left, we still keep in touch but after dat day its wasn't really as strong as before

factormatt6:
So got chatting with an ex yesterday, asking her about her welfare only for to response with her nude pic. As if that isn't enough,she ask me to visit her. I told her I will show my girl the chat,she responded that it won't mean anything to her until she makes love to me again. She knows I am in a serious relationship.
Another time, another ex refuse to help me out with a loan unless I slept with her.
My questions is How can I tell women who was in my life that it over between us and they can truly let go. Shouldn't we break up in peace again? Share your experience with your ex,let learn.

Did it ever occur to you that she might be setting you up for a real beating?

Hmmm. Okafor's Law is stronger than the three laws of motion combined.

SLAP44:
Did it ever occur to you that she might be setting you up for a real beating?

. No she isn't that kind of person but I think past memories but she actually disrespect my woman.

Haniel18:
I ended tins with her cos of my immaturity. We didn't communicate for close to two years, eventually we met and became close. She visited me and old feelings were trying to come up, I just told her plain dat I'm nw in a very serious relationship and I can't disrespect my woman in such manner. She understood and left, we still keep in touch but after dat day its wasn't really as strong as before

. You were lucky then. I have up to three ex's who were very friendly but the moment they find out I am in a relationship, they become very toxic, two tempt me with good amount of money knowing fully well that I am in dare need of money for business investment. It disgusting I must say

DanseMacabre:
Hmmm. Okafor's Law is stronger than the three laws of motion combined.

. There is a reason why she is an ex and I aren't going back

wat if she now has STD and felt she should give u as a revenge for leaving her ass?

Funny!

For me no experience! I don't chat nor reconnect with ex. I blank them off my life after breakup. No hate, No love, no likeness.

SmellySperm:
wat if she now has STD and felt she should give u as a revenge for leaving her ass?

. Guy maybe. I better be careful

TonyeBarcanista:
Funny!

For me no experience! I don't chat nor reconnect with ex. I blank them off my life after breakup. No hate, No love, no likeness.

. I am thinking about this,but then I also reasons it will be an act of im maturity

TonyeBarcanista:
Funny!

For me no experience! I don't chat nor reconnect with ex. I blank them off my life after breakup. No hate, No love, no likeness.

I feel u bro! May not be the best way to go but one cannot allow these girls that refuse to move on put sand inside ones garri!

Rhozabeth:
I feel u bro! May not be the best way to go but one cannot allow these girls that refuse to move on put sand inside ones garri!

My woman is not perfect but she is faithful, I can't disrespect her in any form. I wonder why some ladies like to fool around

factormatt6:
. I am thinking about this,but then I also reasons it will be an act of im maturity

What is immature in letting past be past and concentrating on the present and future? Exes are past.

Or you seriously think that an Ex that you broke up with will be happy seeing that you've moved on without them and in a new relationship? Except she has a better guy than you that treats, cares for and loves her better than you did, she will always be bitter towards your new relationship.

Don't allow societal rhetoric fool you.

Rhozabeth:
I feel u bro! May not be the best way to go but one cannot allow these girls that refuse to move on put sand inside ones garri!

@First Emboldened: It is actually the best way to go. If you understand the length at which a bitter woman could go, you wouldn't want to risk it. When they know that you don't give a damn about them they will back off.

The goal is to avoid the second emboldened

This lockdown and exs are like mathematics and x

TonyeBarcanista:
What is immature in letting past be past and concentrating on the present and future? Exes are past.

Or you seriously think that an Ex that you broke up with will be happy seeing that you've moved on without them and in a new relationship? Except she has a better guy than you that treats, cares for and loves her better than you did, she will always be bitter towards your new relationship.

Don't allow societal rhetoric fool you.

. You are right. I ask my ex a loan of #200000, she offered to give me half a million if only I visit her and spend some time with her. I told her I have a girl I want to marry, she told me point blank that she can't build another lady's house. I fear who know some persons whether man or woman

Another morning, another lie about exes.

What's it with romance section folks and their exes?

factormatt6:
My woman is not perfect but she is faithful, I can't disrespect her in any form. I wonder why some ladies like to fool around

Your lady is lucky. I envy her.

24kmagic:
Another morning, another lie about exes.

What's is with romance section folks and their exes?

. It takes a liar to know his or her member. Run along

Eberechi24:
Your lady is lucky. I envy her.

. It is the right thing to do. I hate complicated life.

factormatt6:
So got chatting with an ex yesterday, asking her about her welfare only for to response with her nude pic. As if that isn't enough,she ask me to visit her. I told her I will show my girl the chat,she responded that it won't mean anything to her until she makes love to me again. She knows I am in a serious relationship.
Another time, another ex refuse to help me out with a loan unless I slept with her.
My questions is How can I tell women who was in my life that it over between us and they can truly let go. Shouldn't we break up in peace again? Share your experience with your ex,let learn.

. I just noticed women who are beautiful and sexy doesn't really like to let go, I ask myself why

TonyeBarcanista:
Funny!

For me no experience! I don't chat nor reconnect with ex. I blank them off my life after breakup. No hate, No love, no likeness.

U re a real man, likewise me even if we eventually meet na greet and pass with no break.

I cleared all elements that lead to the path of ex. Nobody should tell me isn't the best way, na my opinion hold urs.
An ex called me with another line sometime in February the first term since she broke up without any reason trying to convince me of the need of friendship after breakup, I told her that is her perception, I'm not interested in any friendship after all, while dating her I never get in touch with any of ex.
No need of emotional mix up.

My ex is in a serious relationship and is still telling me how special I am and how he is missing me and missing the time we spent together.
Imagine someone that pushed me away is saying all these. Guys are something else

If ‘old flames’ wish to reconnect and shag I have no problem with that in as much as she’s not married. Shagging with no commitments is the best thing that can ever happen. No emotional waters spilling here and there, just for the shag sake and we move on with our lives. Exes can be very sweet!

elmagnifico411:
If ‘old flames’ wish to reconnect and shag I have no problem with that in as much as she’s not married. Shagging with no commitments is the best thing that can ever happen. No emotional waters spilling here and there, just for the shag sake and we move on with our lives. Exes can be very sweet!

. Even if you are in a serious relationship?

You only know you’re in a serious relationship when your partner is around u. When he or she is not, you’re on your own. You don’t want to bother your head with what he/she might be doing when not around u.

factormatt6:
. Even if you are in a serious relationship?

factormatt6:
. I am thinking about this,but then I also reasons it will be an act of im maturity

I kinda agree, we shouldn't even hate, we could just be indifferent

elmagnifico411:
You only know you’re in a serious relationship when your partner is around u. When he or she is not, you’re on your own. You don’t want to bother your head with what he/she might be doing when not around u.

. I understand your point, but I keep my ends hoping it will pay off. Life itself is a risk

Tajbol4splend:
I kinda agree, we shouldn't even hate, we could just be indifferent

a lot of ladies don't see it that way.

doris4u:
My ex is in a serious relationship and is still telling me how special I am and how he is missing me and missing the time we spent together.
Imagine someone that pushed me away is saying all these. Guys are something else

Maybe he didn't kpekus you during your time together and he's tryna get into your head so he can explore the road he didn't travel, just saying