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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by nelogee7(m): 9:52am On Apr 05, 2020

Bro... just Forget about her... if you cannot comprehend Ubunja’s miseducations, lookout Coach Greg Adams on Youtube... your Answers are there... Millenia women are not happy and can never be satisfied as a result of extreme feminism, social media which allows them validations everyday in addition to their hypergamy nature... .... Today’s women are big problems with so much entitlements and expectations... you lucky it’s a son you have ... love your life man and chase money .. the more you beg the more she resents

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by gulfer: 10:41am On Apr 05, 2020*

berbz:
I really need your advice on this please...

My wife and her mum went to pack everything in our matrimonial home because we had issues. She said she can't live with me anymore. She packed everything and left me with nothing.
She's a legal wife and her mum followed her to pack things from my house.

Can I take her back

Something similar happened to my brother n 2017; actually a repeat as it happened in 2016 and he begged her to come back. This last time i told him not to take her back or else forget me as a brother. He listened and started putting his life together gain...in January 2018, he applied for a US visa and lo and behold, he was given. He is now based in the US having left in April 2018......some women need to leave your life for certain things to happen cool

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Magnoliaa(f): 10:48am On Apr 05, 2020

jawalis:
Hey bitch. I have kept quite long ago. Fix your low life

You try.

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by adexpa(m): 11:10am On Apr 05, 2020*

grandstar:
Oga, that marriage can never work with that type of mother-in-law. Nothing he has done justifies the mother in law's actions. The mother-in- law is a domineering tyrant.

But we can't ask him to throw his marriage away just like that..... He probably knows the connection between his wife and her mother before he went into the marriage. There are many green light we don't pay attention to during courtship...... Any lady that can not have her opinion without bringing her mother into issues is a green light already but since op refused to address that earlier, he will have to face the consequences. We can not ask everyone having issues with their partners to always leave.... They can still find a way out. Besides, he needs to try ways to curb the menace n prevent it from reoccurring before he can decide to back out if those approach does not work.

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Nobody: 11:35am On Apr 05, 2020

berbz:
my son is with with them, because he is still a year plus... And she works

People that aren't in your shoe or experienced what you're going through now will never ever understand the phase of life you're experiencing now.

If you can do/survive without the items packed, I suggest you let them have it.

The essential you need in the item packed, call her, arrange a meeting, let your ego take a hit, beg and appeal to her good side to release them to you.

Since she work and I assumed the money she earns is enough to take care of herself and your child, she doesn't really need your items packed but I believed she is really hurt with what happened and trying to get back to you to hurt you somehow.

Probably sending you an indirect message that she is hurt and still hurting.

I don't know what happened that lead you to this phase of life but she still kinda love you and want you to keep in touch.

Be sensitive, what has happened between you had happened, the person that need to apologize for wrong doing need to say sorry and the hurted need to forgive.

You need a family meeting, same set of people that sat on your introduction day especially the father and mother of the day.

This phase of life is hard, you need plenty patience and need to thread carefully what you say or do.

I don't know who wrong who in your relationship but this shit need plenty patience and less aggression.

If possible, pend the divorce process for now because its too early to start seeking it, since both of you are currently living apart, you're technically separated.

Use this moment to build yourself, you need help and support to stay mentally strong during this hard phase of life, I believe you should have one or two friends willing and ready to support you on this journey. Don't bottled up things, it wouldn't help you on the long run.

Taking to alcohol or smoking during this phase is also a terrible mistake.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by agbonkamen(f): 11:36am On Apr 05, 2020

Many comments here shows that majority of Nairaland guys are useless and senseless. Someone brought his marital issue without full details of what transpired and you guys are saying dump her, good one will come......una dey mad ni

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Amumaigwe: 12:49pm On Apr 05, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Yes you can every relationship has it fights so yours isn't new.....Just apologize to her and try as much as you can to change so what lead to the fight won't repeat itself......save your home and be a better man

You sound like a typical Nigerian lady: selfish and entitled. He should apologise to her for doing what exactly? What if it is the lady that is the guilty party and choses to start a drama to push the man into defence?
Guy, if you carry oit this advise, that will become your lot till death/divorce do you apart. Once any lady walks away by her own volition, it is her duty to walk back by her self whenever her drama ends, that is if at all she still findss the vacancy she created by her exit.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Amumaigwe: 12:53pm On Apr 05, 2020

Olunmercy56:
Why not solve the issue why she left. Maybe you need to hustle more or your wife is still acting like a kid.

Olosho no dey hide. It must play out somehow.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Amumaigwe: 1:35pm On Apr 05, 2020

berbz:
Lawyer said I should leave it cos I bought everything when we were together

That must be a charge and bail grade lawyer. Even if you bought everything from a joint purse while you were together, does being your wife confer her with their absolute ownership? Under which law please? You have legal grounds to take measures to recover your properties and possibly jail her mother as accessory to theft. However, if the properties are not so expensive, you may choose to ignore them because they may just be hoping to use those properties to bait you back; unless you foresee a reunion.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Greatzeus(m): 2:34pm On Apr 05, 2020

berbz:
I really need your advice on this please...

My wife and her mum went to pack everything in our matrimonial home because we had issues. She said she can't live with me anymore. She packed everything and left me with nothing.
She's a legal wife and her mum followed her to pack things from my house.

Can I take her back

The day you got married,you guys were very happy,both in laws were grateful to God, eating and drinking,not knowing it is heading for the rock. Maybe they even mock the singles in the wedding ceremony say" go and get married and be responsible" but look now undecided

Well at least she didn't stab you to death and you didn't kill her with months old pregnancy. Like the many stories we have read here on Nairaland.
Well I'm still single as f uck,love to start a family soon but I am not expecting much. God help us.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 12:31am On Apr 06, 2020

I'll explain what transpired between us tomorrow. Thanks

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Tunagee(m): 6:38am On Apr 06, 2020*

Freelane33:
Let me laugh first . With the big head on your profile you can’t still think , what are you doing with that big head ? My guy take it off . Yea word of advise Omo boy don’t take anybody back , if the same still happen her mama go stilll come back and repeat the same action , see there is an adage that says “ bad wife is still manageable but bad in-laws is not manageable . Don’t put yourself in a problem you will never get out of . Just let the jabesi leave .no matter what might happen , her mama no get right come help her pack her load legal or no legal . She ought to have bury the hatchet btw you guys ni not fueling the fight or hatred . With what she did she’s not a good woman and a bad person to be your in-law . I’m sorry I’m abusing your in-law

Same thing my mum in law did, kept her daughter with her for a year plus cos her daughter and I had issues, as husband and wife; though she did not come with her to pack her things, but instructed her daughter to. Wife is still begging me to forgive her, till now. Some mother in laws are just devils.

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 9:07pm On Apr 07, 2020

Greatzeus:
The day you got married,you guys were very happy,both in laws were grateful to God, eating and drinking,not knowing it is heading for the rock. Maybe they even mock the singles in the wedding ceremony say" go and get married and be responsible" but look now
Well at least she didn't stab you to death and you didn't kill her with months old pregnancy. Like the many stories we have read here on Nairaland.
Well I'm still single as f uck,love to start a family soon but I am not expecting much. God help us.

it's just like two people from different world

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by FGonline: 10:01pm On Apr 07, 2020

otipoju:
Problem leave your life, you wan go carry am come back. Are you okay?

hahahahaha

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by DaddyRochie1642: 11:30pm On Apr 07, 2020

Millenniumlady:
Yes you can every relationship has it fights so yours isn't new.....Just apologize to her and try as much as you can to change so what lead to the fight won't repeat itself......save your home and be a better man

Op, never take relationship advise from a woman

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 3:28pm On Apr 30, 2020

DaddyRochie1642:
Ok sir

Op, never take relationship advise from a woman

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 3:30pm On Apr 30, 2020

Tunagee:
Same thing my mum in law did, kept her daughter with her for a year plus cos her daughter and I had issues, as husband and wife; though she did not come with her to pack her things, but instructed her daughter to. Wife is still begging me to forgive her, till now. Some mother in laws are just devils.

Now the mother is calling me to come and settle our differences between her daughter after she went to pack from my house.

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Skepticus: 5:21pm On May 09, 2020

berbz:
Now the mother is calling me to come and settle our differences between her daughter after she went to pack from my house.

If you are taking her back in, you must lay strict rules especially making sure that your mother in law reduces her influence on your wife.

If you let them in easily, the same event will be repeated again.

From there you correct errors especially the ones where you had her names with yours on legal documents

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 6:45pm On Jun 03, 2020

Skepticus:
If you are taking her back in, you must lay strict rules especially making sure that your mother in law reduces her influence on your wife.

If you let them in easily, the same event will be repeated again.

From there you correct errors especially the ones where you had her names with yours on legal documents

sure sir ... Thank u sir

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Oizee(f): 3:28pm On Oct 09, 2020

berbz:
I really need your advice on this please...

My wife and her mum went to pack everything in our matrimonial home because we had issues. She said she can't live with me anymore. She packed everything and left me with nothing.
She's a legal wife and her mum followed her to pack things from my house.

Can I take her back

You still haven't told us what really transpired between you two before they decided to take that kind of action.
Well, no matter what happened, since you didn't throw her things out with your own hands, please let her be, give dem time to calm down and think it through by themselves, if she decides to come back, den can forgive and accept her back, but don't ever go begging when your woman leaves u especially when the mom is involved. But Op are you ashamed to brief us what happened? Cuz what wl make a mother to accompany her daughter to her matrimonial home to pack her things? I'm not interested in ur issue o but just curious

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 6:27pm On Oct 09, 2020

Oizee:
You still haven't told us what really transpired between you two before they decided to take that kind of action.
Well, no matter what happened, since you didn't throw her things out with your own hands, please let her be, give dem time to calm down and think it through by themselves, if she decides to come back, den can forgive and accept her back, but don't ever go begging when your woman leaves u especially when the mom is involved. But Op are you ashamed to brief us what happened? Cuz what wl make a mother to accompany her daughter to her matrimonial home to pack her things? I'm not interested in ur issue o but just curious

It's a long story

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Xxx123xxx(m): 8:20pm On Oct 09, 2020

berbz:
I really need your advice on this please...

My wife and her mum went to pack everything in our matrimonial home because we had issues. She said she can't live with me anymore. She packed everything and left me with nothing.
She's a legal wife and her mum followed her to pack things from my house.

Can I take her back

...Have you addressed these underlying issues ?

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by berbz(op): 2:49pm On Oct 16, 2020

Xxx123xxx:
...Have you addressed these underlying issues ?

I forgot the items

Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 16, 2020

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Re: My Wife And Her Mum Packed Everything And Left Me With Nothing. by Nobody: 2:54pm On Oct 16, 2020*

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