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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by excanny: 8:43pm On May 02, 2020
Great tips grin Will avoid them like plagues.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:


Are all Nigerian men the same?
Babe wassup now
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 02, 2020
Next tip: I have always been a Nigerian and I will be a Nigerian until I die. I will never burn my brother's cable. Anything that will help me to uplift my brothers, I will do it
So this brings me to the next point. Some of you want to know how to reach these women huh? Simple, use social media. Instagram and Facebook.

My advice to you is to go for the older ones. The ones in their 30s and 40s. The ones in their 50s have no oil left in their tank. grin

The ones in their 30s are desperate or have given up hope entirely and will pick anything that comes their way. The ones that have given up hope are better to get because they believe that men generally have no interest in them anymore but if you continue to holler them, they will begin to feel young and wanted again. Those ones will waste no time coming to naija to see you.

Also please do not form big boy for any of them. The more broke you are, the better. They just want a companion and someone who will love and be with them. They will take care of you cos they have money. Just tell them the truth and tell them your situation. Many of them have a soft heart and will pity you and want to make your life better just to keep you. So put your big boyism inside your pocket.

The ones that are in their 20s still have plenty of super visco static oil in their tank and won't have time for you. Don't go for those ones. You will just waste your time chasing them up and down on social media. I know they look good in the leggings and bum shorts but dont waste your time. Those ones are after niggas with tattoos and prison records.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 02, 2020
wickyyolo:


Hello can we be friends?
cheesy

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Go on Instagram
Go through Snoop Dogs page you go pick tire grin
Just dey message dem if you message like 50 I bet you one will answer you and from there you get to know each other don't lie to them O cause most of them hate lies tell them openly that you're Nigerian
One more thing to make it more easier try to message those that are elderly they reply fast
The young ones will see your message and won't reply
Am giving you some tips I use back then in 2019 when I found this women from Louisiana but she no carry

Chop knuckle. You sabi the format. grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 8:51pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Babe wassup now
The op said all Black American women were the same, all 20 million of us and I was wondering were all Nigerian men the same.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:55pm On May 02, 2020
Reminds me of an ebook I wrote for a Canadian man who wanted tips on how an African can meet and date an African woman.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 8:57pm On May 02, 2020
Dpharisee:

There are good AA women, my uncle has been married to one for years and she is religious, she has a child from a previous relationship but decided to learn how to live with a Nigerian man.
But I do watch Paternity Court on YouTube and can relate with most of what he described here

You cant judge a nation of people by a tv show, that's foolish. Do you judge the whites by the same show, I very much doubt that you do? Am I to judge all Nigerians like the idiots I see on Nollywood movies?

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by yuswrld20(m): 8:58pm On May 02, 2020
tHE disadvantage is plenty than the advantage I beta go 4 a nigerian white akata based here

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:

The op said all Black American women were the same, all 20 million of us and I was wondering were all Nigerian men the same.
not what am saying
can we be friends smiley
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:00pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Chop knuckle. You sabi the format. grin
Na for your hand I take learn am babagrin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:03pm On May 02, 2020
Deepfeel:


When you said most Nigerian men worship white women that was an educational statement ?

It's a true statement. Most Nigerian men worship white girls

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by drips8(m): 9:06pm On May 02, 2020
Dpharisee:


Please watch Paternity Court on YouTube by Judge Lauren and you will realise that OP is on point

I've watched the show a couple of times and most of the people on it are negative but still they don't represent the black community in America. Many might lead questionable lifestyles though.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:10pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Just ignore her. I am telling reality here.

You are telling a false reality because someone hurt your feelings.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:10pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:


Who in the hell told you I am a democrat? The Republican party is just as rotten as the Democrats.

I get so tired of ignorant people like you and the op posting what you don't know anything about. You put all black Americans in the same hole.

What does it take to make you ignorant people understand that there are poor, rich and wealthy black Americans in the US, some more wealthier than any Nigerian can dream of being in the US?

Black men are responsible for getting black girls pregnant in the US just like black men are responsible for getting teenage girls pregnant in Nigeria. Black men are responsible for the poverty in Nigeria.

Nigerians need to fix Nigeria and her problems and stop worrying about what black Americans are doing. Fix Nigeria and stop running to other countries with your criminal intent.

You missed this part
"I hate that black people all over the world are getting it wrong."

We spend a great deal of our time calling out useless Nigerian and other African leaders. We call out the fraudsters and drug dealers amongst us. Leave white people alone and start showing tough love to disgraceful and shitty black people.

That's why I wasn't outraged when Trump made the S hole remarks. Black people all over the world needs to do better. But you are free to keep on making excuses for shitty behavior.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:23pm On May 02, 2020
excanny:
Great tips grin Will avoid them like plagues.

Thank you.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:26pm On May 02, 2020
excanny:
Great tips grin Will avoid them like plagues.

Each one, reach one grin

Welcome baba.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:29pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: Always have an exit plan.

Remember, if your plan at the beginning was love, then work on staying for happy or for worse.

If your plan was for papers. Then your strategy will take about 3 years until you acquire your citizenship. After you acquire it, then you can Waka away from the relationship and still remain a citizen of US and then marry your naija sweetheart who will cook you okro soup with fresh tilapia or croaker instead of using salmon. grin

I don't know how many Nigerian guys can live with an older foreign woman with all that baggage and remain in it for the rest of his life.

So always have a plan. And keep the plans to yourself. Cos she already has an exit plan against you too.
when i was in benin i knew some guys who were married to old white women in europe but came ack to nigeria to secretly marry their nigerian heartthrob or nigerian wives arranged for them by their parents or siblings.dont think it will be that easy to just divorce ur american wife and be flaunting your nigerian wife at her face.that spells for disaster cheesy.most guys would keep their foreign wife back overseas and go back to naija and marry their naija wives and ensure their naija wives remain in naija.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:31pm On May 02, 2020
1Sharon:



Why call them names you bastard?
you are a big FOOL for calling someone bastard

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:31pm On May 02, 2020
scaramucci:


You missed this part
"I hate that black people all over the world are getting it wrong."

We spend a great deal of our time calling out useless Nigerian and other African leaders. We call out the fraudsters and drug dealers amongst us. Leave white people alone and start showing tough love to disgraceful and shitty black people.

That's why I wasn't outraged when Trump made the S hole remarks. Black people all over the world needs to do better. But you are free to keep on making excuses for shitty behavior.
I'm not making excuses that's why I said Nigerians need to do better and clean up your own shithole and stop spreading your shithole behavior to other countries. All of those 419 scams, prostitution, illegal marriages, identity theft, love scams, and drugs sales need to stop or at least leave it in Nigeria.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:32pm On May 02, 2020
lefulefu:
when i was in benin i knew some guys who were married to old white women in europe but came ack to nigeria to secretly marry their nigerian heartthrob or nigerian wives arranged for them by their parents or siblings.dont think it will be that easy to just divorce ur american wife and be flaunting your nigerian wife at her face.that spells for disaster cheesy.most guys would keep their foreign wife back overseas and go back to naija and marry their naija wives and ensure their naija wives remain in naija.

Baba, in this life nothing is easy. All na strategy. Me just dey drop one type of strategy. Other strategies dey. wink

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:33pm On May 02, 2020
excanny:
Great tips grin Will avoid them like plagues.
You can befriend them but marrying them
You're risking a bigger problem
Her ways will be very different from yours angry

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:34pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: I have always been a Nigerian and I will be a Nigerian until I die. I will never burn my brother's cable. Anything that will help me to uplift my brothers, I will do it
So this brings me to the next point. Some of you want to know how to reach these women huh? Simple, use social media. Instagram and Facebook.

My advice to you is to go for the older ones. The ones in their 30s and 40s. The ones in their 50s have no oil left in their tank. grin

The ones in their 30s are desperate or have given up hope entirely and will pick anything that comes their way. The ones that have given up hope are better to get because they believe that men generally have no interest in them anymore but if you continue to holler them, they will begin to feel young and wanted again. Those ones will waste no time coming to naija to see you.

Also please do not form big boy for any of them. The more broke you are, the better. They just want a companion and someone who will love and be with them. They will take care of you cos they have money. Just tell them the truth and tell them your situation. Many of them have a soft heart and will pity you and want to make your life better just to keep you. So put your big boyism inside your pocket.

The ones that are in their 20s still have plenty of super visco static oil in their tank and won't have time for you. Don't go for those ones. You will just waste your time chasing them up and down on social media. I know they look good in the leggings and bum shorts but dont waste your time. Those ones are after niggas with tattoos and prison records.
lolzzz my gee

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Anonime1105(m): 9:38pm On May 02, 2020
Se me thinking of marrying a Brown skin American beauty someday cry kiss cry cry cry cry

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Baba, in this life nothing is easy. All na strategy. Me just dey drop one type of strategy. Other strategies dey. wink
na risk if u wan play too sharp.there was one story that happened in benin..this guy had a wife in benin but hooked up with one old white american woman.the american lady invited him to yankee and they got married.before he left he arranged with his home based wife that she will pose as his younger sis and dat one agreed based on the guy will be sending her montly dollars as allowance.after spending some time in yankee with his american wife his homebased wife started getting jealous and exposing the guy that the guy is her husband and the white woman is trying to snatch him.bros had to codedly leave yankee before he got arrested on bigamy charges.upon as the guy parents reprimand his home based wife the babe no listen and still insisted she was married to the guy.she even posted her wedding pix to the guy"s american wife to prove her point cheesy.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: I have always been a Nigerian and I will be a Nigerian until I die. I will never burn my brother's cable. Anything that will help me to uplift my brothers, I will do it
So this brings me to the next point. Some of you want to know how to reach these women huh? Simple, use social media. Instagram and Facebook.

My advice to you is to go for the older ones. The ones in their 30s and 40s. The ones in their 50s have no oil left in their tank. grin

The ones in their 30s are desperate or have given up hope entirely and will pick anything that comes their way. The ones that have given up hope are better to get because they believe that men generally have no interest in them anymore but if you continue to holler them, they will begin to feel young and wanted again. Those ones will waste no time coming to naija to see you.

Also please do not form big boy for any of them. The more broke you are, the better. They just want a companion and someone who will love and be with them. They will take care of you cos they have money. Just tell them the truth and tell them your situation. Many of them have a soft heart and will pity you and want to make your life better just to keep you. So put your big boyism inside your pocket.

The ones that are in their 20s still have plenty of super visco static oil in their tank and won't have time for you. Don't go for those ones. You will just waste your time chasing them up and down on social media. I know they look good in the leggings and bum shorts but dont waste your time. Those ones are after niggas with tattoos and prison records.
this is very true.u no lie for this one

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:44pm On May 02, 2020
Next tip: Because there is delicious jollof rice on the table, don't think it's only your eyes that sees it. And that brings me to the next tip. Don't fall for the temptation of her friends. They want you too. They want to take you from her hands like yesterday.

Most of her friends are just like her: string of failed relationships, baby daddies, multiple kids from different men, desperate, or have given up hope on finding a partner.

She will boast about you to her friends. She will tell them everything about you.

You are the jollof rice in the table. grin cheesy

They will see their friend's happiness and how much brighter her life appears now, compared to their dull, drama filled lives. They will want that brightness. And they will want to eat that jollof rice. And they will come for you.

Na that time you go know say you are a hot commodity.

And her friend may be more attractive than her. Everything on their body may appear bigger and better than your woman's own. Biko, don't do it. You will regret it at the end.

That's all I will say about that.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:44pm On May 02, 2020
Anonime1105:
Se me thinking of marrying a Brown skin American beauty someday cry kiss cry cry cry cry
I too have that mindset sometimes ago
But when I realize that the disadvantage is more than the advantage I just keep off grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:
I'm not making excuses that's why I said Nigerians need to do better and clean up your own shithole and stop spreading your shithole behavior to other countries. All of those 419 scams, prostitution, illegal marriages, identify theft, love scams, and drugs sales need to stop or at least leave it in Nigeria.

You talk as if African Americans are lesser criminals. To what do they owe their high rate of incarceration?

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 9:47pm On May 02, 2020
scoundrel:
Lol at this thread and lol at khiaa as usual being her provocative self. Why are you in a forum of Nigerians if you’re not one yourself? Boxden, LipstickAlley and Worldstarhiphop haven’t gone out of business. I bet you fit the stereotype and are here looking for your Nigerian prince. Please leave this forum for indigenes. I am tired of your many unprovoked rants.

This is not your website it belongs to Seun who welcomes everyone not just Nigerians. If you don't like it create your own website and let whoever you want on it.

I'm sure you visit Lipstick Alley all of the time and the ratçhed Worldstarhiphop Site was created by a Nigerian.

There's no such thing as a Nigerian Prince and if there was he sure wouldn't be on this site.If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:


This is not your website it belongs to Seun who welcomes everyone not just Nigerians. If you don't like it create your own website and let whoever you want on it.

I'm sure you visit Lipstick Alley all of the time and the ratçhed Worldstarhiphop Site was created by a Nigerian.

There's no such thing as a Nigerian Prince and if there was he sure wouldn't be on this site.If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria.
If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria WHY ??

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 02, 2020
Petyprincess:
Trust me our shameless Nigerian guys will grab the opportunity grin No be dem dey marry great grand ma for green card? So marrying a single mother with grown up kids definitely wnt be a problem!
nigerian ladies here nko. Marrying old expatriates. Abeg go sleep

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