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She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 4:04pm On May 02, 2020
Hello I would like to post this on behalf of a friend she needs help making the right decision here.

She has 3 guys in her life
Boyfriend A - Her ex from a 6 years+ relationship which she still clearly have feelings for, we call him Frank
Boyfriend B - A guy she meet 4 months ago we call him John
Boyfriend C - A friend from her school days who has been chasing her, we call him Uche

She broke up with Frank after 6 years of dating him because he beats her up if they have disagreement and 3 months later she meet John and they started dating and her ex (Frank) keeps coming around trying to get her back but she made it clear she's dating John and the ex should leave her alone. 3 months into her relationship with John she had sex with John for the first time and two days later went back to her ex (Frank) and had sex with him too. Fast forward 14-20 days later she forged a pregnancy test result that she was pregnant, then she told her ex-Frank, Frank denied it said it is not his, that he gave her Postinor after they had sex that it is John's she should go and sort things with John.

She came to John's place did the test and it was positive, John denied it (knowing fully that she had sex with her ex same week they had sex), claiming that he didn't cum inside when they had sex but he's willing to stick around and take care of her till she gives birth and if the baby is his, he will take full responsibility else she should go and look for the owner.

At John's place she contacted Uche her friend from back then in school and Uche accepted that he'll take responsibility for the baby and tell the family that he is responsible even though Uche was in another state and haven't had sex with her recently.

Now She knows fully well that she doesn't love Uche as much as she loves her ex-Frank or John but he was willing to take responsibility even though the false pregnancy wasn't his. She wished Frank or John took responsibility and not Uche.

Do you think that her false pregnancy test was the right approach to test for true love?
She is asking if she should just say yes to Uche maybe love will follow later?
Who do you think truly loves her?
Guys what do you think is the right thing to do here?
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by Oluromantic: 4:07pm On May 02, 2020
She's foolish ...that's one.

John and uche are stupid ...that's two.

Ex Frank is the right person to be with... very rational, stays within the confines of agreement. We had sex and we used postinor protection till we're both ready to parent a child. That's the right man ... that's three

John loves his child not her. If the child turns out to be his, he'll accept her cus of it. He can do and undo later referring to being his Messiah when she was sleeping around and not sure of the real father of her pregnancy ...that's four

Uche is the worst of them. He will throw her and the bastard child out later ...that's five.

Finally. Wisdom is not by taking foolish decision like this girl did. Using falsehood to find cheap marital luxury. Stay rational, stay firm on what is right no matter how much you're tempted ..that's the best wisdom of all. I'm a wise man. Thank you!

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by dingbang(m): 4:09pm On May 02, 2020
Lady is Confused.com

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by igbarasdynasty: 4:09pm On May 02, 2020
Op, from your post, you are clearly the ASS-umed friend you are posting on behalf.... grin

Well fabricated story..... this your episode should be sent to Wale Adenuga Production's Super story

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by meetme01: 4:13pm On May 02, 2020
m6tem:
Hello I would like to post this on behalf of a friend she needs help making the right decision here.

She has 3 guys in her life
Boyfriend A - Her ex from a 6 years+ relationship which she still clearly have feelings for, we call him Frank
Boyfriend B - A guy she meet 4 months ago we call him John
Boyfriend C - A friend from her school days who has been chasing her, we call him Uche

She broke up with Frank after 6 years of dating him because he beats her up if they have disagreement and 3 months later she meet John and they started dating and her ex (Frank) keeps coming around trying to get her back but she made it clear she's dating John and the ex should leave her alone. 3 months into her relationship with John she had sex with John for the first time and two days later went back to her ex (Frank) and had sex with him too. Fast forward 14-20 days later she forged a pregnancy test result that she was pregnant, then she told her ex-Frank, Frank denied it said it is not his, that he gave her Postinor after they had sex that it is John's she should go and sort things with John.

She came to John's place did the test and it was positive, John denied it (knowing fully that she had sex with her ex same week they had sex), claiming that he didn't cum inside when they had sex but he's willing to stick around and take care of her till she gives birth and if the baby is his, he will take full responsibility else she should go and look for the owner.

At John's place she contacted Uche her friend from back then in school and Uche accepted that he'll take responsibility for the baby and tell the family that he is responsible even though Uche was in another state and haven't had sex with her recently.

Now She knows fully well that she doesn't love Uche as much as she loves her ex-Frank or John but he was willing to take responsibility even though the false pregnancy wasn't his. She wished Frank or John took responsibility and not Uche.

Do you think that her false pregnancy test was the right approach to test for true love?
She is asking if she should just say yes to Uche maybe love will follow later?
Who do you think truly loves her?
Guys what do you think is the right thing to do here?

Tell her, she's a confused human being. Using "fake" pregnancy to test a guy won't work.

She should stop sleeping aroud. Let her be sincere, stand before the mirror and ask her self, what do I want in my life. What sort of life to do I want for my kids. Whay does the future hold for me with A, B or C. Otherwise, she will end up with many kids with different dads.

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by lilmax(m): 4:13pm On May 02, 2020
Immediately I read she has three "pussies" as boyfriends


I know this is trash

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 4:25pm On May 02, 2020
igbarasdynasty:
Op, from your post, you are clearly the ASS -umed friend you are posting on behalf.... grin

Hahahaha no I'm not
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 4:29pm On May 02, 2020
Oluromantic:
She's foolish ...that's one.

John and uche are stupid ...that's two.

Ex Frank is the right person to be with... very rational, stays within the confines of agreement. We had sex and we used postinor protection till we're both ready to parent a child. That's the right man ... that's three

John loves his child not her. If the child turns out to be his, he'll accept her cus of it. He can do and undo later referring to being his Messiah when she was sleeping around and not sure of the real father of her pregnancy ...that's four

Uche is the worst of them. He will throw her and the bastard child out later ...that's five.

Finally. Wisdom is not by taking foolish decision like this girl did. Using falsehood to find cheap marital luxury. Stay rational, stay firm on what is right no matter how much you're tempted ..that's the best wisdom of all. I'm a wise man. Thank you!

Wow!!! Didn't see that coming, thanks
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by DopeDrugDealer(m): 4:34pm On May 02, 2020
If story is true that Uche deserves to be killed by dangote truck, worst simp I've ever seen lol.

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by GoldenJAT(m): 4:34pm On May 02, 2020
I have nothing sensible to say! Other than the fact that the Uche of a guy is foolish.

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by AfroKnight: 4:37pm On May 02, 2020
Such a childish prank.

You and your friend plus her boyfriends are all mumu.
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by Bash512: 4:43pm On May 02, 2020
igbarasdynasty:
Op, from your post, you are clearly the ASS -umed friend you are posting on behalf.... grin
Ahnahn... don't blow her cover naa
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 4:43pm On May 02, 2020
AfroKnight:
Such a childish prank.

You and your friend plus her boyfriends are all mumu.

Hahaha bro take it easy na... No be fight
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by Papertrails(m): 4:49pm On May 02, 2020
m6tem:
Hello I would like to post this on behalf of a friend she needs help making the right decision here.

She has 3 guys in her life
Boyfriend A - Her ex from a 6 years+ relationship which she still clearly have feelings for, we call him Frank
Boyfriend B - A guy she meet 4 months ago we call him John
Boyfriend C - A friend from her school days who has been chasing her, we call him Uche

She broke up with Frank after 6 years of dating him because he beats her up if they have disagreement and 3 months later she meet John and they started dating and her ex (Frank) keeps coming around trying to get her back but she made it clear she's dating John and the ex should leave her alone. 3 months into her relationship with John she had sex with John for the first time and two days later went back to her ex (Frank) and had sex with him too. Fast forward 14-20 days later she forged a pregnancy test result that she was pregnant, then she told her ex-Frank, Frank denied it said it is not his, that he gave her Postinor after they had sex that it is John's she should go and sort things with John.

She came to John's place did the test and it was positive, John denied it (knowing fully that she had sex with her ex same week they had sex), claiming that he didn't cum inside when they had sex but he's willing to stick around and take care of her till she gives birth and if the baby is his, he will take full responsibility else she should go and look for the owner.

At John's place she contacted Uche her friend from back then in school and Uche accepted that he'll take responsibility for the baby and tell the family that he is responsible even though Uche was in another state and haven't had sex with her recently.

Now She knows fully well that she doesn't love Uche as much as she loves her ex-Frank or John but he was willing to take responsibility even though the false pregnancy wasn't his. She wished Frank or John took responsibility and not Uche.

Do you think that her false pregnancy test was the right approach to test for true love?
She is asking if she should just say yes to Uche maybe love will follow later?
Who do you think truly loves her?
Guys what do you think is the right thing to do here?
Another talentless nollywood scripts writer on the loose grin
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 4:56pm On May 02, 2020
Papertrails:

Another talentless nollywood scripts writer on the loose grin

Thomas this is no nollywood story, it happened
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by Papertrails(m): 4:58pm On May 02, 2020
m6tem:


Thomas this is no nollywood story, it happened

Alright then that means the girl and all her boys are confused and lack sense of direction.

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 5:07pm On May 02, 2020
Papertrails:


Alright then that means the girl and all her boys are confused and lack sense of direction.

Okay
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 7:53pm On May 02, 2020
Bash512:

Ahnahn... don't blow her cover naa

grin
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by Nobody: 8:06pm On May 02, 2020
I pity who go marry this fool

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Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by m6tem: 9:39pm On May 02, 2020
igbarasdynasty:
Op, from your post, you are clearly the ASS-umed friend you are posting on behalf.... grin

Well fabricated story..... this your episode should be sent to Wale Adenuga Production's Super story

Doubtful oya check
Re: She Needs Help Making This Decision. by igbarasdynasty: 10:13pm On May 02, 2020
m6tem:


Doubtful oya check

Your Fact is convincing enough now.... I have no doubt.....

The second guy John would cherish her most, if she goes with him.... Though he denies the pregnancy but still have a soft spot for her, that's rare for a man who's only after sex....

I hate wife beater.... He'll repeat same in future.... He has hot temperament....and he can kick her out at anytime

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