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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Dpharisee: 10:00pm On May 02, 2020
drips8:


I've watched the show a couple of times and most of the people on it are negative but still they don't represent the black community in America. Many might lead questionable lifestyles though.
From that show I could see how a lot of black men wasted good part of their lives paying Child Support and even going to jail for not paying for children that sometimes turned out not to be their own biologically

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by joceey(m): 10:03pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:


I have been fighting my own battles before I knew Steve and you know that. I have been fighting these bigots since 2011 with ease. grin Racial battle? We are of the same race.

Babe just ignore his word ,you don't have to reply.In life generally we have different people with different mindset and reasoning ,we see things through differently they re beautiful and wonderful people like wise opposite just ignore him.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Akintunde22: 10:04pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Go on Instagram
Go through Snoop Dogs page you go pick tire grin
Just dey message dem if you message like 50 I bet you one will answer you and from there you get to know each other don't lie to them O cause most of them hate lies tell them openly that you're Nigerian
One more thing to make it more easier try to message those that are elderly they reply fast
The young ones will see your message and won't reply
Am giving you some tips I use back then in 2019 when I found this woman from Louisiana but she no carry

Zinibabk, u dy here, how ur side, hope u stay safe?

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by SkinnyDude(m): 10:04pm On May 02, 2020
Kobicove:
Why would any reasonable Nigerian guy want to marry an akata such as Kaneshia, Lakeshia, Razonda, kelema, Volaqua and all those funny sounding useless names with no meaning they tend to bear? grin
Takesha . keisha. every thing na sha sha. I dey like their names oo

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Rockyrascal(m): 10:18pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:
Next tip: African American women are very insecure. So don't cheat on them.

African American women are very possessive. And I mean that. Once they see you are a good Nigerian guy with money, prospects, potentials, money, a nice job, your own house or apartment, etc, they will cling to you like super glue to fingers. They know you are the best they have ever had and will ever have. You are a complete opposite of what they have been with all their lives. So they will begin to do EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO KEEP YOU. At this point in the relationship, everything is sweet. She will research YouTube for how to cook Nigerian meals. She will research on Nigerian culture, attire, pidgin English, etc. She will also begin to watch YouTube videos on Nigerian weddings and she will begin to listen to Nigerian songs. She will invest all her time, effort, money, and her everything on you.

She will also begin to imagine herself as the bride in those grand Nigerian weddings that are on YouTube where the bridesmaids and groomsmen are dancing Davido and Burna Boy songs. At this point she is building her dreams and seeing herself like your wife already.

Because of all these lofty dreams she's having, please do not cheat on her. Cheating on her means those dreams won't come true eventually. She might just end your life if you destroy those dreams. grin
this one made me remember taraji Henson (Cookie) grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Homeboiy: 10:23pm On May 02, 2020
shocked sweet thrend
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Okoroawusa: 10:23pm On May 02, 2020
scaramucci:


I hate that black people all over the world are getting it wrong. People migrate from as far a Asia to achieve great success in America than African Americans just because the Democrats have told them that there's always a white person who is working against them.

White men are not responsible for getting teenage black girls pregnant. Foolish black men are. There's absolutely no group solidarity amongst black people all over the world.

Obama was President for 8 years and what did he do for the black communities?

Until you make the Democrats pay for their sins, they will continue to use you as a means to their selfish ends.
Oga I go slap u o!... Ishilove take this guy to politics section...biko

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 10:25pm On May 02, 2020
Akintunde22:


Zinibabk, u dy here, how ur side, hope u stay safe?
We thank God baba
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Dpharisee: 10:26pm On May 02, 2020
Ejusni:
And I was drooling over black American women LOL seems it's just to have sex with them and move on, I can't deal with any LaQueshia or whatever freakish name they give themselves and the accompanying drama, I can take a lot of shit but gays and transgender freaks in my house never!... White chicks here I come!

Watch this to get an insight into the OP, there are several episodes to open your eyes


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fV-15yg2rHc

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Asuito7(m): 10:29pm On May 02, 2020
cc EVILFOREST

What is your take on this grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 10:31pm On May 02, 2020
Next tip: Get used to seeing some certain things in your relationship.

1. Get used to seeing her looking at her child support payment app after every pay period to check if her baby daddy has deposited payment into it. This will be you soon if you don't play your game well.

Yes there is child support app. grin. Look on your Android or Apple store if you think I'm lying.

2. Get used to knowing the names of all the characters in Love and Hip hop, Basketball wives, Housewives of Atlanta, and the Kardashian. You will be watching those shows even if you don't want to.


3. Get used to her telling you she's going to the club. Even at almost 50 years old, they still go to the club. Despite the gravitational pull on their former assets, they still feel they are the hottest thing since baked bread. And they will dress to kill in the shortest and tightest outfit while holding up their sagging assets with countless clothing implements. Just say ok. You can't stop Akata from clubbing.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by SkinnyDude(m): 11:00pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Go on Instagram
Go through Snoop Dogs page you go pick tire grin
Just dey message dem if you message like 50 I bet you one will answer you and from there you get to know each other don't lie to them O cause most of them hate lies tell them openly that you're Nigerian
One more thing to make it more easier try to message those that are elderly they reply fast
The young ones will see your message and won't reply
Am giving you some tips I use back then in 2019 when I found this woman from Louisiana but she no carry
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 02, 2020
SkinnyDude:
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo

Lol. Na you get mouth dey talk say she old. For her mind she be 21 years old. grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by SkinnyDude(m): 11:06pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Lol. Na you get mouth dey talk say she old. For her mind she be 21 years old. grin
she get grand children wey be my age mate o.. married two times.. going through the third divorce with a young Yoruba guy . these people life is tiresome..

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:08pm On May 02, 2020
SkinnyDude:
she get grand children wey be my age mate o.. married two times.. going through the third divorce with a young Yoruba guy . these people life is tiresome..

Na dem. wink grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by billynoni(m): 11:11pm On May 02, 2020
Educative thread overall, the OP tried... Na man you be. Take away the defensive Khiaa and unpaid politician Scara-what-what's part, you will enjoy the whole thread while laughing, with oga lefulefu jara and Zini***'s format.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:16pm On May 02, 2020
SkinnyDude:
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo
Ahh you for no ask for money
Na wetin fúck me up be that Na around early 2019 I meet her he dey pain me sometime self cause some I later meet after no too fur for my scope
And the woman don dey plan say make I come but as I ask her for money like this
From that day our chat no sweet again
I go msg her she no go reply
Person wey be say she go dey beg me make I talk to her and she's 45 but you won't know cause she pretty much look like 25 I send her picture to my elder brother self my bro say she be small girl I Kon smile bro say why I dey smile I tell am say her first son no be your mate
And this woman bad no be small sex styles that I can't imagine she will tell me someone with 4 grown kids O grin
Laslas I just free her I tell some of my guys make Dem help me text her she no reply them all na Abbeville Louisiana she dey

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:16pm On May 02, 2020
billynoni:
Educative thread overall, the OP tried... Na man you be. Take away the defensive Khiaa and unpaid politician Scara-what-what's part, you will enjoy the whole thread while laughing, with oga lefulefu jara and Zini***'s format.

Lol. Thanks you baba. I dey educate my guys because the new Akata format na to trap younger Naija boys now. I dey support make my naija boys enter Yankee but at the same time, make Dem shine their eye because Akata not dey play o.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by billynoni(m): 11:21pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Lol. Thanks you baba. I dey educate my guys because the new Akata format na to trap younger Naija boys now. I dey support make my naija boys enter Yankee but at the same time, make Dem shine their eye because Akata not dey play o.
Make sense, open ya eyes well and use your brain... But still hung on my fantasy of getting, an African American lady of my age.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 11:24pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Lol. Thanks you baba. I dey educate my guys because the new Akata format na to trap younger Naija boys now. I dey support make my naija boys enter Yankee but at the same time, make Dem shine their eye because Akata not dey play o.
Why would black American women want Nigerian boys, you don't have anything to offer? Stick with your sisters....oh wait a minute, they don't even want you. The only advice I can give you is to go where you are wanted.... Old White Grannies. grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:25pm On May 02, 2020
This brings me to my next tip: When you meet them online, NEVER EVER EVER ASK THEM FOR MONEY.

I know say hungry dey naija and everybody Don dey find where Dem go chop. But as our parent's generation used to say: Na the most patient dog go eat the fattest bone. This saying hold true in this type of relationship.

You are not the only naija boy or Ghanaian boy or Jamaican boy that is sending her DM. Una plenty.

If you ask her for money, you have lost the game. Asking her for money is clearly telling her that you are only interested in her for her money. She is trying to find love and companionship. So why don't you give her what she seeks.

Listen all you youngsters and hellcats, if a woman loves you and you tell her to jump, she will ask you how high do you want her to jump. Women are emotional creatures. They need someone to key into their emotional needs. Money is not an emotional need. Being caring is emotional. Love is emotional.

I know say you want drive Benz and enter club and buy drink for Dem Bois. That one will come later. Just show the Akata love and emotional care. When she travels to naija to see you, and you guys meet and you rock her world, when she is leaving Naija to return back to Yankee, she will feel that she is leaving a part of herself back in Nigeria. And she will do everything to reunite with you. It is after she returns back that you can now start to ask for money. She will open her purse for you.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by tiptoe1: 11:25pm On May 02, 2020
Akata women is a big no for me. I've dated Kya, Dominique and Alyssa. These people are all the same. Esp Dominique, she smokes and curse like say them swear for her

I don't know if the whites are cool headed compared to these akatas but I'll advise you go for an Hispanic woman. The one with me they gimme joy, na Make she come visit me after this covid-19 remain

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by scoundrel(f): 11:26pm On May 02, 2020
khiaa:


This is not your website it belongs to Seun who welcomes everyone not just Nigerians. If you don't like it create your own website and let whoever you want on it.

I'm sure you visit Lipstick Alley all of the time and the ratçhed Worldstarhiphop Site was created by a Nigerian.

There's no such thing as a Nigerian Prince and if there was he sure wouldn't be on this site.If I wanted an African man he wouldn't be from Nigeria.
I’m sorry I don’t speak Ebonics. Type in English next time.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:27pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:
This brings me to my next tip: When you meet them online, NEVER EVER EVER ASK THEM FOR MONEY.

I know say hungry dey naija and everybody Don dey find where Dem go chop. But as our parent's generation used to say: Na the most patient dog go eat the fattest bone. This saying hold true in this type of relationship.

You are not the only naija boy or Ghanaian boy or Jamaican boy that is sending her DM. Una plenty.

If you ask her for money, you have lost the game. Asking her for money is clearly telling her that you are only interested in her for her money. She is trying to find love and companionship. So why don't you give her what she seeks.

Listen all you youngsters and hellcats, if a woman loves you and you tell her to jump, she will ask you how high do you want her to jump. Women are emotional creatures. They need someone to key into their emotional needs. Money is not an emotional need. Being caring is emotional. Love is emotional.

I know say you want drive Benz and enter club and buy drink for Dem Bois. That one will come later. Just show the Akata love and emotional care. When she travels to naija to see you, and you guys meet and you rock her world, when she is leaving Naija to return back to Yankee, she will feel that she is leaving a part of herself back in Nigeria. And she will do everything to reunite with you. It is after she returns back that you can now start to ask for money. She will open her purse for you.
If you read my last quotes
That's what fúcked me up
Still dey pain me if I think am sometimes
Cause she get plan say make I come

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:29pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

If you read my last quotes
That's what fúcked me up
Still dey pain me if I think am sometimes
Cause she get plan say make I come

Now you don know whazzup. No worry about money. That one go eventually show. Just show love, purse go follow open.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 11:30pm On May 02, 2020
scoundrel:

I’m sorry I don’t speak Ebonics. Type in English next time.

This comment only tells me you can't refute what I posted because you know it's the truth. grin grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:31pm On May 02, 2020
tiptoe1:
Akata women is a big no for me. I've dated Kya, Dominique and Alyssa. These people are all the same. Esp Dominique, she smokes and curse like say them swear for her

I don't know if the whites are cool headed compared to these akatas but I'll advise you go for an Hispanic woman. The one with me they gimme joy, na Make she come visit me after this covid-19 remain

Alyssa and Dominique. Na dem grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 02, 2020
lefulefu:
any nigerian guy who then agrees to engage in such a union is probably doing it for green card then.why will a normal young man want to marry a woman who has several grown up kids from different men who may be slightly younger than him and u are all in the same house shocked.thats madness.
Lol...who would want to be enmeshed in that kinda mess of a marriage without an incentive that worth it. It's all about the card.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Dpharisee: 11:37pm On May 02, 2020
SkinnyDude:
one very old akata woman from Atlanta wey I meet for FB.. she is 62. I shock say me and this woman dey sex chat and share nude.. but whenever I ask her for money. she go vex. na em I tear race oo
International beggar, the account numbers wey una dey post for Nairaland upandan never do you

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Fidelismaria: 11:38pm On May 02, 2020
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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by tiptoe1: 11:38pm On May 02, 2020
pDudd:


Alyssa and Dominique. Na dem grin

I believe some of them are cool headed but majority are insane bro. The ratchetness in them is disgusting, always trying to be hardcore. They're always complaining about people being fake but they themselves aren't any different.

I can see people attacking you here thinking you're just typing nonsense. I just pray none of them gets into their mess

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by SkinnyDude(m): 11:38pm On May 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:

Ahh you for no ask for money
Na wetin fúck me up be that Na around early 2019 I meet her he dey pain me sometime self cause some I later meet after no too fur for my scope
And the woman don dey plan say make I come but as I ask her for money like this
From that day our chat no sweet again
I go msg her she no go reply
Person wey be say she go dey beg me make I talk to her and she's 45 but you won't know cause she pretty much look like 25 I send her picture to my elder brother self my bro say she be small girl I Kon smile bro say why I dey smile I tell am say her first son no be your mate
And this woman bad no be small sex styles that I can't imagine she will tell me someone with 4 grown kids O grin
Laslas I just free her I tell some of my guys make Dem help me text her she no reply them all na Abbeville Louisiana she dey
hahaha.. I don't know why they act that way.. very any how people.if na white, she won't mind sending you the money.. so far she don love up

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