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Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by hapsonv: 1:27pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
please follow the advice given to you by @andyanders cus that's the best thing to do. don't report them to any police. ask them to call back the tout and tip him 1k. it will save u more stress. continue greeting ur bad neighbor but try to avoid them. salutation is not love 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Naija4love(m): 1:35pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: Sorry that's how people is. Just try to give the guy 1k if you can.. Can I know you more because we have things in common ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by KingNom(m): 2:06pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Terrible |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Nobody: 3:29pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
OP pls relocate to a new area and apartment, ASAP |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 4:57pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Rozz: I don't think its even possible to stop, my friends and family say that Its a problem I need to work on. Once I accommodated a pregnant friend with her husband and two kids; providing everything (school fees and school bus fees to help ease stress)only for them to turn me to second class in my house; even moved into my room when I traveled. When I came back and met my things in the guest room, they claimed they needed more space since the baby was already due. I had to move in with my parents after the baby came for them to host guests for several months... My elder brother couldn't understand my weakness and had to rent a self contain for them to move out (paid for 2years). They never said thank you but kept complaining that am so insensitive to have moved them to a self-contained without considering the fact that they are five in number ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Nobody: 5:13pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:Expect anything from humans but just know that God shall reward you |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by andyanders: 9:21pm On Apr 26, 2020 |
Op listen, as I advised you through my earlier input herein to handle this situation with wisdom. Involving police or any law officers is good but might turn out to expose you to more danger than you expected. These guys are not only ur neighbors as they've other of their gang members outside ur vicinity. 0nce u get them arrested u expose yourself to danger. Giving out a token to the guy will do u good since u have gotten ur phone than getting them reported. Remember u are a lady and stay alone and people advising u to go to the police or get army involved doesn't stay with u and will not be there with u if anything happens. if u can remember a case of a young lady senator, at Abuja that was murdered at her home she stays alone. She saw some bad guys within her hood and secretly went to inform the police. They were arrested by the police and later released, but the same system told the guys that it was the lady that reported them. The same guys went to the senator's house, raped and murdered her. 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 4:55am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 5:03am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Naija4love: Sure, but If I must ask- what do we share in common? I just hope it not "extreme softness " ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 5:11am On Apr 27, 2020 |
andyanders: Thanks. |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Freddykrueger: 5:28am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:I would if you're close by. |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Adgideon(m): 6:18am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Comedy story, afraid to come out from yr own house, are there no other neighbors |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by bestabigaelever(f): 8:25am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:You are girl Damn! Thought u are a guy |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by sonofthunder: 11:49am On Apr 27, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:Hmmm, op we may need to talk oh.... Lol. On a more serious note, you need to know when and where to draw a line. There's a difference between your friends, good friends and your best friend but in your case, an outsider will find it difficult/impossible to differentiate the three categories. This in itself is not bad, but you can see how you struggle to cope when things go 'south' Learn to establish appropriate boundaries for different people in your life (family, friends, neighbos, colleagues, etc), that way your aren't overly hurt by people before fully admitting them into your life (consider it like granting them a trial..... Lol). Also for the long run and to develop a firm personality, you can consider reading certain books: The Prince by Nicolai Machiavelli, 48 laws of power, why you think the way you do, amongst others but be carefully what you read though. Some of those books can completely change your ideology. You're the kind of person everyone loves and tries to relate with but its unfortunate many will try to take advantage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Ndeoma: 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
OP I've been in your shoes before though am a guy so I understand perfectly what you are going through. It has nothing to do with whether you are rich. In this part of the world been "NICE" to some set of people( not everybody) is dangerous and why? Because the heart of man is decietful and desperately wicked, who can decern it? I once lived in a one room (though not face me I slap you lol) but the compound was very big because it was a family house in a community setting. Some of my neighbors (Including my landlord and the wife) envied and hated me just because I always look good and on gen at night. The hatred grew so much that I became a topic... One night like that I had an issue with one of the most dreaded cult guy in the neighborhood. I fought him that night and in the process both our phones fell off our pockets. His men picked up his own and went away with it while I took mine and went inside. The following day he can back with his cult gang to my house demanding I pay 25k for his supposed missing phone threatening to deal with me. I told him am not paying a dime and straightly to his face told him I will pick him up with SARS and he called my bluff. I simply prayed to my God against him and sowed a seed in my church as to that regards. Long story short, the following night SARS raided their hideout in the neighborhood and he narrowly escaped with his life while his other gang members where caught. Ever since then all the cult boys in that my area became scared of me including their leader that I fought with. When the guy sees me coming he diverts to another route and I didn't pay him any Kobo till God blessed me and I packed out of that 1 room to a much bigger and nicer apartment in another area. Here in my new place I don't talk to my neighbors except the landlords son and his wife that lives closeby and that's if I need something from them. I don't keep friends (both male and female) so no one visits me. I maintain a very mean posture towards my neighbors, I don't even greet them. I mind my business very much here because of my past experience from the former place I was staying. There is something I learnt... Try to be a mystery to people around you. If people don't understand you they can't attack you. Also try to curtail the way you help people. Even Bible said wisdom is profitable to direct. Above all be very prayerful and careful at the same time. God will help you! Modified: Since you are a lady... Just give the guy and not your neighbour like 500. Tell him you didn't have money on you the day he came that's why you didn't come out of your room again. Don't ever fidget while talking to him... I repeat don't fidget if not you don turn office be that ooo. Touts and cultists have one thing in common... They prey on fear to exploit weak people. Bone your face henceforth, no more smiling with those evil neighbor of yours. Don't give them the room to get close to you again. I would said you should stand your ground but you are a woman and I don't want to hear stories that touch the heart. If na me dem no born that tout well... 2 Likes |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 8:55pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
[quote author=sonofthunder post=88906651] Hmmm, op we may need to talk oh.... Lol. On a more serious note, you need to know when and where to draw a line. There's a difference between your friends, good friends and your best friend but in your case, an outsider will find it difficult/impossible to differentiate the three categories. This in itself is not bad, but you can see how you struggle to cope when things go 'south' Learn to establish appropriate boundaries for different people in your life (family, friends, neighbos, colleagues, etc), that way your aren't overly hurt by people before fully admitting them into your life (consider it like granting them a trial..... Lol). Also for the long run and to develop a firm personality, you can consider reading certain books: The Prince by Nicolai Machiavelli, 48 laws of power, why you think the way you do, amongst others but be carefully what you read though. Some of those books can completely change your ideology. You're the kind of person everyone loves and tries to relate with but its unfortunate many will try to take advantage. Thanks. I have been working on it my whole life ![]() My step- brother says my extreme softness is incurabe; If I could live, love and easily forgive his mom for all the things she did to me without getting tough or ever saying "enough" then I would never change.(funny enough, honestly I thought she was tough on me because I was a girl amongst many boys, I never felt I was being maltreated). I don't know where and when to draw the line like other sane people. Do I need to see a psychologist? ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 9:01pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
I have been looking for them to give them the money but they have not been home. I can't wait for this to pass ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Exmilitant(m): 9:26pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
My god, couldn't stop laughing. Op, you just made my day!! Call a meeting and table the matter before your neighbours and then express your fears and possible threat to your life.... Its nothing personal neighbours wants money. Still laughing, the story is hilarious.. |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Exmilitant(m): 9:39pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:I don't usually mention anyone but i will make exception of you. I am like you too, very sensitive to other people's plight and weak in saying no. Just continue your good works rest assured you are protected spiritually and physically. 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 11:35pm On Apr 27, 2020 |
Exmilitant: Please don't laugh cos its not funny at all... I have been seriously thinking towards learning karate; who knows, With the way the country presently is now- its could save ones life. 3 Likes |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by ALABACONNECT(m): 12:01am On Apr 28, 2020 |
People tho |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Naija4love(m): 9:03pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:just good heart ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by bikefab(m): 12:03am On Apr 30, 2020 |
At some point we all have to toughen up and eyeball that 'terror ' boldly. He might just be more scared than you are. Sorry for that nasty experience, you sound like a humane soul. 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 11:34pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Naija4love: I see... |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 5:12pm On May 02, 2020 |
andyanders: I gave them the 1k as advised but they rejected it. Should I be worried? |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by andyanders: 8:55pm On May 02, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: you've done noble. Was it ur neighbor or the guy that rejected ur offer? Did they state any reason 4 the rejection? If u feel threathened with that, report the case to the police to have it incedented and to have them sign an undertaking, that if anything happens 2 u, they shld be held liable. Try nd relocate to another area ASAP. Nothing will happen 2 u. God will see u 2ru. Wait 2 hear from u. |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by tellwisdom: 9:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: Add am 2k make I take am drink beer and nkwobi ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 11:25pm On May 02, 2020 |
andyanders: I met the tout on my way back (along my street) and really apologized and also thanked him for his help before offering the money to him. I can't afford to relocate now, I moved in early February and did a lot of upgrades on the house. ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by andyanders: 12:01am On May 03, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: his rejection, were u able to dictate/decode from his expression on his face, if it was on good faith or not? What of ur neighbor, did you tell them about the offer u gave nd rejection by the guy? If u feel threathened, report to the police since u cannot afford 2 relocate for now. |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 6:50pm On May 03, 2020 |
andyanders: I don't know, his face was just indifferent. My neighbours don't speak to me anymore... Their obvious weight loss says volumes. I have decided to move out. My front door key nob was loosed and opened last night... I was lucky to have bolted my door from the inside. My car was also scratched with objects. I think I have fallen into depression. I miss my dad. ![]() |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Ndeoma: 8:06pm On May 03, 2020 |
Look you have to pack out of that place and you have to do that fast. The world we live in is evil and even more deadly been surrounded with hungry, poor and ungrateful neighbors who will stop at nothing to destroy you. And when you want to pack out... Do it quietly at night before the even know what's up... You are far gone from their reach so they can't hurt you. As for depression, you definitely need to talk to someone and thanks to your neighbors who gave you the cold shoulder you've got no one around you to speak with. You are lonely and that's one of the major catalysts for depression. Seriously you need to distract yourself a bit so you can cool off from the stress you feel within you. Most importantly pray... I repeat pray! God is always there when we seem to be alone to protect and guide us. Be strong! |
Re: My Neighbor And His Wife Stole My Phone And Are Forcing Me To Pay. by Godlovesyou28: 10:35pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ndeoma: Thanks. I call my friends and family, but I can't understand how I feel Ndeoma; its a cocktail of anger, disappointment, regret, fear, pity, helplessness, bullied and so on ![]() |
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